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"And how is a non vanilla lifestyle not normal? " reference is to that I'd say most relationships are vanilla type. | |||
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"I'll put it this way. I'd say alot more people in a relationship or married only have sex with each other and not other people. " My marriage was polygamous so it's just your own idea of a relationship maybe try one with a swinger  | |||
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"I'll put it this way. I'd say alot more people in a relationship or married only have sex with each other and not other people. My marriage was polygamous so it's just your own idea of a relationship maybe try one with a swinger "id have no interest joining this site as part of a couple. It's just not me. I'm just here for some simple fun on my own | |||
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"I'll put it this way. I'd say alot more people in a relationship or married only have sex with each other and not other people. My marriage was polygamous so it's just your own idea of a relationship maybe try one with a swinger id have no interest joining this site as part of a couple. It's just not me. I'm just here for some simple fun on my own "That's fair enough each to there own but just making the point each relationship differs it's not always mundane and vanilla | |||
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"I'll put it this way. I'd say alot more people in a relationship or married only have sex with each other and not other people. My marriage was polygamous so it's just your own idea of a relationship maybe try one with a swinger id have no interest joining this site as part of a couple. It's just not me. I'm just here for some simple fun on my own
That's fair enough each to there own but just making the point each relationship differs it's not always mundane and vanilla "I wouldn't call a vanilla relationship mundane. If a relationship is boring u or your partner is just get out is my view | |||
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"I'll put it this way. I'd say alot more people in a relationship or married only have sex with each other and not other people. My marriage was polygamous so it's just your own idea of a relationship maybe try one with a swinger id have no interest joining this site as part of a couple. It's just not me. I'm just here for some simple fun on my own
That's fair enough each to there own but just making the point each relationship differs it's not always mundane and vanilla I wouldn't call a vanilla relationship mundane. If a relationship is boring u or your partner is just get out is my view "my point is I'd say there is alot more vanilla relationships out there then swinger like | |||
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"I'll put it this way. I'd say alot more people in a relationship or married only have sex with each other and not other people. My marriage was polygamous so it's just your own idea of a relationship maybe try one with a swinger id have no interest joining this site as part of a couple. It's just not me. I'm just here for some simple fun on my own
That's fair enough each to there own but just making the point each relationship differs it's not always mundane and vanilla I wouldn't call a vanilla relationship mundane. If a relationship is boring u or your partner is just get out is my view "It wouldn't be for me anyway | |||
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"I'll put it this way. I'd say alot more people in a relationship or married only have sex with each other and not other people. My marriage was polygamous so it's just your own idea of a relationship maybe try one with a swinger id have no interest joining this site as part of a couple. It's just not me. I'm just here for some simple fun on my own
That's fair enough each to there own but just making the point each relationship differs it's not always mundane and vanilla I wouldn't call a vanilla relationship mundane. If a relationship is boring u or your partner is just get out is my view my point is I'd say there is alot more vanilla relationships out there then swinger like "You can be in a non vanilla relationship and be monogamous. Just because it's a relationship it doesn't mean it is vanilla. | |||
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"I'll put it this way. I'd say alot more people in a relationship or married only have sex with each other and not other people. My marriage was polygamous so it's just your own idea of a relationship maybe try one with a swinger id have no interest joining this site as part of a couple. It's just not me. I'm just here for some simple fun on my own
That's fair enough each to there own but just making the point each relationship differs it's not always mundane and vanilla I wouldn't call a vanilla relationship mundane. If a relationship is boring u or your partner is just get out is my view my point is I'd say there is alot more vanilla relationships out there then swinger like
You can be in a non vanilla relationship and be monogamous. Just because it's a relationship it doesn't mean it is vanilla. "I just call a relationship normal when two people are with one another and novidy else. | |||
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"I'll put it this way. I'd say alot more people in a relationship or married only have sex with each other and not other people. My marriage was polygamous so it's just your own idea of a relationship maybe try one with a swinger id have no interest joining this site as part of a couple. It's just not me. I'm just here for some simple fun on my own
That's fair enough each to there own but just making the point each relationship differs it's not always mundane and vanilla I wouldn't call a vanilla relationship mundane. If a relationship is boring u or your partner is just get out is my view my point is I'd say there is alot more vanilla relationships out there then swinger like
You can be in a non vanilla relationship and be monogamous. Just because it's a relationship it doesn't mean it is vanilla. I just call a relationship normal when two people are with one another and novidy else. "So do I. But I think you're confusing the term vanilla. I'm not a swinger. Never have been but I still don't class my sex life as vanilla. I've been in vanilla (non Kink) relationships many a time. And also relationships that both of us were into kink non vanilla. But were monogamous. | |||
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"I'll put it this way. I'd say alot more people in a relationship or married only have sex with each other and not other people. My marriage was polygamous so it's just your own idea of a relationship maybe try one with a swinger id have no interest joining this site as part of a couple. It's just not me. I'm just here for some simple fun on my own
That's fair enough each to there own but just making the point each relationship differs it's not always mundane and vanilla I wouldn't call a vanilla relationship mundane. If a relationship is boring u or your partner is just get out is my view my point is I'd say there is alot more vanilla relationships out there then swinger like
You can be in a non vanilla relationship and be monogamous. Just because it's a relationship it doesn't mean it is vanilla. I just call a relationship normal when two people are with one another and novidy else. "I think the word “normal” alone means very different things for different people and I’m not just talking about when it comes to relationships. I get what you’re saying about the way you see relationships but your “normal” won’t be the same as another persons. | |||
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"I'll put it this way. I'd say alot more people in a relationship or married only have sex with each other and not other people. My marriage was polygamous so it's just your own idea of a relationship maybe try one with a swinger id have no interest joining this site as part of a couple. It's just not me. I'm just here for some simple fun on my own
That's fair enough each to there own but just making the point each relationship differs it's not always mundane and vanilla I wouldn't call a vanilla relationship mundane. If a relationship is boring u or your partner is just get out is my view my point is I'd say there is alot more vanilla relationships out there then swinger like
You can be in a non vanilla relationship and be monogamous. Just because it's a relationship it doesn't mean it is vanilla. I just call a relationship normal when two people are with one another and novidy else.
I think the word “normal” alone means very different things for different people and I’m not just talking about when it comes to relationships.
I get what you’re saying about the way you see relationships but your “normal” won’t be the same as another persons.
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"I'll put it this way. I'd say alot more people in a relationship or married only have sex with each other and not other people. My marriage was polygamous so it's just your own idea of a relationship maybe try one with a swinger id have no interest joining this site as part of a couple. It's just not me. I'm just here for some simple fun on my own
That's fair enough each to there own but just making the point each relationship differs it's not always mundane and vanilla I wouldn't call a vanilla relationship mundane. If a relationship is boring u or your partner is just get out is my view my point is I'd say there is alot more vanilla relationships out there then swinger like
You can be in a non vanilla relationship and be monogamous. Just because it's a relationship it doesn't mean it is vanilla. I just call a relationship normal when two people are with one another and novidy else.
So do I. But I think you're confusing the term vanilla. I'm not a swinger. Never have been but I still don't class my sex life as vanilla. I've been in vanilla (non Kink) relationships many a time. And also relationships that both of us were into kink non vanilla. But were monogamous. "I thought vanilla relationships refered to normal ones | |||
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"I'll put it this way. I'd say alot more people in a relationship or married only have sex with each other and not other people. My marriage was polygamous so it's just your own idea of a relationship maybe try one with a swinger id have no interest joining this site as part of a couple. It's just not me. I'm just here for some simple fun on my own
That's fair enough each to there own but just making the point each relationship differs it's not always mundane and vanilla I wouldn't call a vanilla relationship mundane. If a relationship is boring u or your partner is just get out is my view my point is I'd say there is alot more vanilla relationships out there then swinger like
You can be in a non vanilla relationship and be monogamous. Just because it's a relationship it doesn't mean it is vanilla. I just call a relationship normal when two people are with one another and novidy else.
So do I. But I think you're confusing the term vanilla. I'm not a swinger. Never have been but I still don't class my sex life as vanilla. I've been in vanilla (non Kink) relationships many a time. And also relationships that both of us were into kink non vanilla. But were monogamous. I thought vanilla relationships refered to normal ones "All relationships are normal just people's perspectives differ as to what is normal and what's not. I get what you're trying to say but the ways things are in life what's normal for one person isn't normal for others and vice versa. Meaning it's all normal in someone's eyes. But monogamy and vanilla are two different things. And vanilla is also an icecream flavour  | |||
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"I'll put it this way. I'd say alot more people in a relationship or married only have sex with each other and not other people. My marriage was polygamous so it's just your own idea of a relationship maybe try one with a swinger id have no interest joining this site as part of a couple. It's just not me. I'm just here for some simple fun on my own
That's fair enough each to there own but just making the point each relationship differs it's not always mundane and vanilla I wouldn't call a vanilla relationship mundane. If a relationship is boring u or your partner is just get out is my view my point is I'd say there is alot more vanilla relationships out there then swinger like
You can be in a non vanilla relationship and be monogamous. Just because it's a relationship it doesn't mean it is vanilla. I just call a relationship normal when two people are with one another and novidy else.
So do I. But I think you're confusing the term vanilla. I'm not a swinger. Never have been but I still don't class my sex life as vanilla. I've been in vanilla (non Kink) relationships many a time. And also relationships that both of us were into kink non vanilla. But were monogamous. I thought vanilla relationships refered to normal ones
All relationships are normal just people's perspectives differ as to what is normal and what's not.
I get what you're trying to say but the ways things are in life what's normal for one person isn't normal for others and vice versa. Meaning it's all normal in someone's eyes.
But monogamy and vanilla are two different things.
And vanilla is also an icecream flavour
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"I'll put it this way. I'd say alot more people in a relationship or married only have sex with each other and not other people. My marriage was polygamous so it's just your own idea of a relationship maybe try one with a swinger id have no interest joining this site as part of a couple. It's just not me. I'm just here for some simple fun on my own
That's fair enough each to there own but just making the point each relationship differs it's not always mundane and vanilla I wouldn't call a vanilla relationship mundane. If a relationship is boring u or your partner is just get out is my view my point is I'd say there is alot more vanilla relationships out there then swinger like
You can be in a non vanilla relationship and be monogamous. Just because it's a relationship it doesn't mean it is vanilla. I just call a relationship normal when two people are with one another and novidy else.
So do I. But I think you're confusing the term vanilla. I'm not a swinger. Never have been but I still don't class my sex life as vanilla. I've been in vanilla (non Kink) relationships many a time. And also relationships that both of us were into kink non vanilla. But were monogamous. I thought vanilla relationships refered to normal ones
All relationships are normal just people's perspectives differ as to what is normal and what's not.
I get what you're trying to say but the ways things are in life what's normal for one person isn't normal for others and vice versa. Meaning it's all normal in someone's eyes.
But monogamy and vanilla are two different things.
And vanilla is also an icecream flavour
id say in the morning if you were in a relationship and told you're friends you and your partner are swingers they'd laugh at you. I just don't think everyone would fully accept that it's right "Well for one I'm not a swingers as stated above. Also yes my friends and family know I'm into kink. It also doesn't bother them too much. Most friends actually want advice on it (I blame 50 Shades) I honestly think you missed the point I was making entirely. But hey as long as you're happy. | |||
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"I'll put it this way. I'd say alot more people in a relationship or married only have sex with each other and not other people. My marriage was polygamous so it's just your own idea of a relationship maybe try one with a swinger id have no interest joining this site as part of a couple. It's just not me. I'm just here for some simple fun on my own
That's fair enough each to there own but just making the point each relationship differs it's not always mundane and vanilla I wouldn't call a vanilla relationship mundane. If a relationship is boring u or your partner is just get out is my view my point is I'd say there is alot more vanilla relationships out there then swinger like
You can be in a non vanilla relationship and be monogamous. Just because it's a relationship it doesn't mean it is vanilla. I just call a relationship normal when two people are with one another and novidy else.
So do I. But I think you're confusing the term vanilla. I'm not a swinger. Never have been but I still don't class my sex life as vanilla. I've been in vanilla (non Kink) relationships many a time. And also relationships that both of us were into kink non vanilla. But were monogamous. I thought vanilla relationships refered to normal ones
All relationships are normal just people's perspectives differ as to what is normal and what's not.
I get what you're trying to say but the ways things are in life what's normal for one person isn't normal for others and vice versa. Meaning it's all normal in someone's eyes.
But monogamy and vanilla are two different things.
And vanilla is also an icecream flavour
id say in the morning if you were in a relationship and told you're friends you and your partner are swingers they'd laugh at you. I just don't think everyone would fully accept that it's right
Well for one I'm not a swingers as stated above. Also yes my friends and family know I'm into kink.
It also doesn't bother them too much. Most friends actually want advice on it (I blame 50 Shades)
I honestly think you missed the point I was making entirely.
But hey as long as you're happy.
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"I'll put it this way. I'd say alot more people in a relationship or married only have sex with each other and not other people. My marriage was polygamous so it's just your own idea of a relationship maybe try one with a swinger id have no interest joining this site as part of a couple. It's just not me. I'm just here for some simple fun on my own
That's fair enough each to there own but just making the point each relationship differs it's not always mundane and vanilla I wouldn't call a vanilla relationship mundane. If a relationship is boring u or your partner is just get out is my view my point is I'd say there is alot more vanilla relationships out there then swinger like
You can be in a non vanilla relationship and be monogamous. Just because it's a relationship it doesn't mean it is vanilla. I just call a relationship normal when two people are with one another and novidy else.
So do I. But I think you're confusing the term vanilla. I'm not a swinger. Never have been but I still don't class my sex life as vanilla. I've been in vanilla (non Kink) relationships many a time. And also relationships that both of us were into kink non vanilla. But were monogamous. I thought vanilla relationships refered to normal ones
All relationships are normal just people's perspectives differ as to what is normal and what's not.
I get what you're trying to say but the ways things are in life what's normal for one person isn't normal for others and vice versa. Meaning it's all normal in someone's eyes.
But monogamy and vanilla are two different things.
And vanilla is also an icecream flavour
id say in the morning if you were in a relationship and told you're friends you and your partner are swingers they'd laugh at you. I just don't think everyone would fully accept that it's right
Well for one I'm not a swingers as stated above. Also yes my friends and family know I'm into kink.
It also doesn't bother them too much. Most friends actually want advice on it (I blame 50 Shades)
I honestly think you missed the point I was making entirely.
But hey as long as you're happy.
I don't know what you're on about when u say "my friends no I'm into kink". What do u mean by that?"Ah bless Here's what Urban Dictionary says Someone who is kinky may be called a kink. Said person generally has a fetish(es), ie. biting, bondage/bsdm, public sex, spanking, tranny sex, etc. Shy girls tend to be, although surprizing to the male population, kinks. A: Sydney seems like such a prude. She needs to get laid. B: No, she's a pretty big kink. She lets me tie her up and give it to her up the bum. | |||
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"Also my point was that I'd imagine most people out there are in a one to one relationship and have sex with each other and nobody else. Swinging couples are only a small % id say. That's why my op asked in the future would anybody like to get into a serious one to one relationship " Yup you missed my point totally. Not everyone who is in a serious one on one relationship is having vanilla sex. Also do you think everyone is a swinger on here? I don't. | |||
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"I'll put it this way. I'd say alot more people in a relationship or married only have sex with each other and not other people. My marriage was polygamous so it's just your own idea of a relationship maybe try one with a swinger id have no interest joining this site as part of a couple. It's just not me. I'm just here for some simple fun on my own
That's fair enough each to there own but just making the point each relationship differs it's not always mundane and vanilla I wouldn't call a vanilla relationship mundane. If a relationship is boring u or your partner is just get out is my view my point is I'd say there is alot more vanilla relationships out there then swinger like
You can be in a non vanilla relationship and be monogamous. Just because it's a relationship it doesn't mean it is vanilla. I just call a relationship normal when two people are with one another and novidy else.
So do I. But I think you're confusing the term vanilla. I'm not a swinger. Never have been but I still don't class my sex life as vanilla. I've been in vanilla (non Kink) relationships many a time. And also relationships that both of us were into kink non vanilla. But were monogamous. I thought vanilla relationships refered to normal ones
All relationships are normal just people's perspectives differ as to what is normal and what's not.
I get what you're trying to say but the ways things are in life what's normal for one person isn't normal for others and vice versa. Meaning it's all normal in someone's eyes.
But monogamy and vanilla are two different things.
And vanilla is also an icecream flavour
id say in the morning if you were in a relationship and told you're friends you and your partner are swingers they'd laugh at you. I just don't think everyone would fully accept that it's right
Well for one I'm not a swingers as stated above. Also yes my friends and family know I'm into kink.
It also doesn't bother them too much. Most friends actually want advice on it (I blame 50 Shades)
I honestly think you missed the point I was making entirely.
But hey as long as you're happy.
I don't know what you're on about when u say "my friends no I'm into kink". What do u mean by that?
Ah bless
Here's what Urban Dictionary says
Someone who is kinky may be called a kink.
Said person generally has a fetish(es), ie. biting, bondage/bsdm, public sex, spanking, tranny sex, etc.
Shy girls tend to be, although surprizing to the male population, kinks.
A: Sydney seems like such a prude. She needs to get laid.
B: No, she's a pretty big kink. She lets me tie her up and give it to her up the bum."lol you could also call it fantasies. I think everyone in the world has them but all don't get to live out every fantasy | |||
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"Also my point was that I'd imagine most people out there are in a one to one relationship and have sex with each other and nobody else. Swinging couples are only a small % id say. That's why my op asked in the future would anybody like to get into a serious one to one relationship Yup you missed my point totally. Not everyone who is in a serious one on one relationship is having vanilla sex. Also do you think everyone is a swinger on here? I don't. " absolutely not but then again I only refer to couples as true swingers. | |||
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"I'll put it this way. I'd say alot more people in a relationship or married only have sex with each other and not other people. My marriage was polygamous so it's just your own idea of a relationship maybe try one with a swinger id have no interest joining this site as part of a couple. It's just not me. I'm just here for some simple fun on my own
That's fair enough each to there own but just making the point each relationship differs it's not always mundane and vanilla I wouldn't call a vanilla relationship mundane. If a relationship is boring u or your partner is just get out is my view my point is I'd say there is alot more vanilla relationships out there then swinger like
You can be in a non vanilla relationship and be monogamous. Just because it's a relationship it doesn't mean it is vanilla. I just call a relationship normal when two people are with one another and novidy else.
So do I. But I think you're confusing the term vanilla. I'm not a swinger. Never have been but I still don't class my sex life as vanilla. I've been in vanilla (non Kink) relationships many a time. And also relationships that both of us were into kink non vanilla. But were monogamous. I thought vanilla relationships refered to normal ones
All relationships are normal just people's perspectives differ as to what is normal and what's not.
I get what you're trying to say but the ways things are in life what's normal for one person isn't normal for others and vice versa. Meaning it's all normal in someone's eyes.
But monogamy and vanilla are two different things.
And vanilla is also an icecream flavour
id say in the morning if you were in a relationship and told you're friends you and your partner are swingers they'd laugh at you. I just don't think everyone would fully accept that it's right
Well for one I'm not a swingers as stated above. Also yes my friends and family know I'm into kink.
It also doesn't bother them too much. Most friends actually want advice on it (I blame 50 Shades)
I honestly think you missed the point I was making entirely.
But hey as long as you're happy.
I don't know what you're on about when u say "my friends no I'm into kink". What do u mean by that?
Ah bless
Here's what Urban Dictionary says
Someone who is kinky may be called a kink.
Said person generally has a fetish(es), ie. biting, bondage/bsdm, public sex, spanking, tranny sex, etc.
Shy girls tend to be, although surprizing to the male population, kinks.
A: Sydney seems like such a prude. She needs to get laid.
B: No, she's a pretty big kink. She lets me tie her up and give it to her up the bum.lol you could also call it fantasies. I think everyone in the world has them but all don't get to live out every fantasy "So why are you on this site again?  | |||
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"I'll put it this way. I'd say alot more people in a relationship or married only have sex with each other and not other people. My marriage was polygamous so it's just your own idea of a relationship maybe try one with a swinger id have no interest joining this site as part of a couple. It's just not me. I'm just here for some simple fun on my own
That's fair enough each to there own but just making the point each relationship differs it's not always mundane and vanilla I wouldn't call a vanilla relationship mundane. If a relationship is boring u or your partner is just get out is my view my point is I'd say there is alot more vanilla relationships out there then swinger like
You can be in a non vanilla relationship and be monogamous. Just because it's a relationship it doesn't mean it is vanilla. I just call a relationship normal when two people are with one another and novidy else.
So do I. But I think you're confusing the term vanilla. I'm not a swinger. Never have been but I still don't class my sex life as vanilla. I've been in vanilla (non Kink) relationships many a time. And also relationships that both of us were into kink non vanilla. But were monogamous. I thought vanilla relationships refered to normal ones
All relationships are normal just people's perspectives differ as to what is normal and what's not.
I get what you're trying to say but the ways things are in life what's normal for one person isn't normal for others and vice versa. Meaning it's all normal in someone's eyes.
But monogamy and vanilla are two different things.
And vanilla is also an icecream flavour
id say in the morning if you were in a relationship and told you're friends you and your partner are swingers they'd laugh at you. I just don't think everyone would fully accept that it's right
Well for one I'm not a swingers as stated above. Also yes my friends and family know I'm into kink.
It also doesn't bother them too much. Most friends actually want advice on it (I blame 50 Shades)
I honestly think you missed the point I was making entirely.
But hey as long as you're happy.
I don't know what you're on about when u say "my friends no I'm into kink". What do u mean by that?
Ah bless
Here's what Urban Dictionary says
Someone who is kinky may be called a kink.
Said person generally has a fetish(es), ie. biting, bondage/bsdm, public sex, spanking, tranny sex, etc.
Shy girls tend to be, although surprizing to the male population, kinks.
A: Sydney seems like such a prude. She needs to get laid.
B: No, she's a pretty big kink. She lets me tie her up and give it to her up the bum.lol you could also call it fantasies. I think everyone in the world has them but all don't get to live out every fantasy
So why are you on this site again? "for fun like everyone else id imagine | |||
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