FabSwingers.com forum: just wondering

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi ladies i was thinking this morning I have heard ladies complain about the amount of useless messages they get. So it got me thinking do ladies ever first message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I do on occasion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No often but yes I (Mrs Goldie ) have !

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I'm only starting to now if someone catches my eye might "fab"there pics or "wink" usually leads to messages...

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

I have messaged a few two were out side my age range but looked hot

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm delighted and happily surprised to hear these responses! Xxx

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep i have

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By *on DraperMan
over a year ago

East of Eden

"Hi ladies i was thinking this morning I have heard ladies complain about the amount of useless messages they get. So it got me thinking do ladies ever first message?"

Yes they do Pedro...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You lucky ducky Mr draper! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we do

And sometimes we get ignored too,imagine that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Really red I'm shocked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely...

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By *on DraperMan
over a year ago

East of Eden

"Yes we do

And sometimes we get ignored too,imagine that.

You ignored.......no way!

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By *alwaygirlpWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Something I’ve done on occasion but not very often. Only when a profile piques my interest.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Absolutely!! I rarely find someone who ticks all my boxes on here, so when I do... I pounce

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh play that made me tingle the thought of you pouncing like a cat lucky man!xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sometimes

Mmmm sometimes here's hoping xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be shy too send a first message, coz I don't know what the reaction would be, if they think it's strange

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think most men would be like myself and take it as an immense compliment that a lady felt compelled to want to find out more about me!baby you should try it!xxx

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Yes...i have as it's the only way as guys can't message us...

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I got messaged by a girl other day. Was a really nice message.

I replied with a face pic.

I went to check the next day and it had been deleted, no reply.

I been debating on and off ever since if I should message again, in case it was deleted by accident, or just do nothing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think i will let the ladies advise you here devil!

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

"I think i will let the ladies advise you here devil!"

Lol, I am gonna do nothing, just wondering if people in general would do nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think i will let the ladies advise you here devil!

Lol, I am gonna do nothing, just wondering if people in general would do nothing."

I don't message first to be honest.

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Yes I have in the past but I’ve been left unread and also the dreaded read and not replied.. gasp shock horror..

One man in particular comes to mind as in I’ve messaged and got a couple of replies from and then nothing. I still perv his pics.. fab them occasionally but I refrain from remessaging, he’s obviously not interested. Sigh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm absolutely flabbergasted at men not replying. I know i couldn't do that even if it was the case that they where looking for something i wasn't into!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been approached by any woman. Couples - yes. But single female- no

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm just thinking here am i too polite and think more of other people's feelings! I dunno it seems very strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because I'm a big chicken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I have in the past but I’ve been left unread and also the dreaded read and not replied.. gasp shock horror..

I feel ur pain but at least not blocked so can perve his pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprisingly got contacted 3 times over the past week by some very nice wimmins on here

I really don't send a whole lot of messages... I have 4 friends on this and it's mainly just them every now and again!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I hope men are reading this, they can't come onto the forums and complain about women not answering their messages if you get one from the ladies answer it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely mail women first on here or any site I'm on as I know that they must be inundated with crap from some lads. So if they are interested they'll mail me. If not oh well.

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