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By *uscious lou OP   Woman
over a year ago

dublin

So was messaging a guy swapped face pics and he just didn't do it for me (for me I have to find someone attractive to take things further I know im not going to be everyones type)

So I replied sorry not my type only to be called a shallow bitch that I must put myself on such a high pedastool to say that to someone and hurt their feelings im nothing but a heartless bitch

REALLY

Is it not better to be honest

Then make a fool of them ?

Or is it been a bitch

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Some people can’t take rejection.

I think you’re better being honest than “stringing them along”

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pay no attention to munters and manipulators trying to guilt you into fucking them . Carry on as you were and do what is right for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pay no attention to munters and manipulators trying to guilt you into fucking them . Carry on as you were and do what is right for you "

100%

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Get it all the time myself try to be nice now it's just block the Muppet...!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's better to be honest, if you are neither rude nor dismissive then it's the other person's problem if they can't accept being turned down politely.

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By *uscious lou OP   Woman
over a year ago

dublin


"Pay no attention to munters and manipulators trying to guilt you into fucking them . Carry on as you were and do what is right for you "

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By *agic ManuMan
over a year ago

D4

Unfortunately those things will keep happening. Makes us genuine single lads look bad.

Move on

BTW rejections are a good practice for life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You shouldn’t have to put up with any abuse but unfortunately, with the amount of males on here, you are going to get a percentage of arseholes that think they’ve a given right to be arseholes but you mostly find that their still attached to their mothers breast and looking for a substitute.

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I can’t believe how some guys react to honesty and rejection on here. As in life we can’t be everyone’s cup of tea. If someone messages you, you may like the sound of them, you may even exchange a few mails and have a bit of banter. But I think for everyone there has to be some sort of physical attraction. Some may be all about the physical which if they are honest is grand. I love the mental side as well as the physical but there has to be both for me. I think the key is honesty and respect. You were honest and he should have smiled and respected that. I would much prefer someone saying your not for me and we both smile and move on. I still get on great with people that weren’t for me. Don’t change who you are for someone else. Keep smiling, trust your instincts and enjoy the genuine people who you like ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can’t believe how some guys react to honesty and rejection on here. As in life we can’t be everyone’s cup of tea. If someone messages you, you may like the sound of them, you may even exchange a few mails and have a bit of banter. But I think for everyone there has to be some sort of physical attraction. Some may be all about the physical which if they are honest is grand. I love the mental side as well as the physical but there has to be both for me. I think the key is honesty and respect. You were honest and he should have smiled and respected that. I would much prefer someone saying your not for me and we both smile and move on. I still get on great with people that weren’t for me. Don’t change who you are for someone else. Keep smiling, trust your instincts and enjoy the genuine people who you like ??"

I was gonna reply but I reckon sticking a +1 to this post will do the trick!

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I can’t believe how some guys react to honesty and rejection on here. As in life we can’t be everyone’s cup of tea. If someone messages you, you may like the sound of them, you may even exchange a few mails and have a bit of banter. But I think for everyone there has to be some sort of physical attraction. Some may be all about the physical which if they are honest is grand. I love the mental side as well as the physical but there has to be both for me. I think the key is honesty and respect. You were honest and he should have smiled and respected that. I would much prefer someone saying your not for me and we both smile and move on. I still get on great with people that weren’t for me. Don’t change who you are for someone else. Keep smiling, trust your instincts and enjoy the genuine people who you like ??"

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin


"I can’t believe how some guys react to honesty and rejection on here. As in life we can’t be everyone’s cup of tea. If someone messages you, you may like the sound of them, you may even exchange a few mails and have a bit of banter. But I think for everyone there has to be some sort of physical attraction. Some may be all about the physical which if they are honest is grand. I love the mental side as well as the physical but there has to be both for me. I think the key is honesty and respect. You were honest and he should have smiled and respected that. I would much prefer someone saying your not for me and we both smile and move on. I still get on great with people that weren’t for me. Don’t change who you are for someone else. Keep smiling, trust your instincts and enjoy the genuine people who you like ??

I was gonna reply but I reckon sticking a +1 to this post will do the trick! "
I reckon both of you see this type of more tan physical appearance all about mental connection post as the way to get laid....best of luck with that

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I can’t believe how some guys react to honesty and rejection on here. As in life we can’t be everyone’s cup of tea. If someone messages you, you may like the sound of them, you may even exchange a few mails and have a bit of banter. But I think for everyone there has to be some sort of physical attraction. Some may be all about the physical which if they are honest is grand. I love the mental side as well as the physical but there has to be both for me. I think the key is honesty and respect. You were honest and he should have smiled and respected that. I would much prefer someone saying your not for me and we both smile and move on. I still get on great with people that weren’t for me. Don’t change who you are for someone else. Keep smiling, trust your instincts and enjoy the genuine people who you like ??

I was gonna reply but I reckon sticking a +1 to this post will do the trick! I reckon both of you see this type of more tan physical appearance all about mental connection post as the way to get laid....best of luck with that "

They were just expressing their opinion, quite well at that. I see no attempt in it to get laid or white knighting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets be honest though! You have to fancy the person too! After that I think the mental connection comes into it, and thats when I would take the next step and try my best to get them into bed

To say you would meet someone you don't fancy is a lie! They don't have to be everyone's idea of good looking (Im sure I fancy blokes other girls wouldn't) but there 100% has to be that physical attraction.

On the other hand, I haven't had one bad message in all my time on here so it is terrible to hear other people getting them just for telling someone they aren't your type. Don't mind them!

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By *exy Saucy SocialsCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I can’t believe how some guys react to honesty and rejection on here. As in life we can’t be everyone’s cup of tea. If someone messages you, you may like the sound of them, you may even exchange a few mails and have a bit of banter. But I think for everyone there has to be some sort of physical attraction. Some may be all about the physical which if they are honest is grand. I love the mental side as well as the physical but there has to be both for me. I think the key is honesty and respect. You were honest and he should have smiled and respected that. I would much prefer someone saying your not for me and we both smile and move on. I still get on great with people that weren’t for me. Don’t change who you are for someone else. Keep smiling, trust your instincts and enjoy the genuine people who you like ??"
what he says definitely.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Lets be honest though! You have to fancy the person too! After that I think the mental connection comes into it, and thats when I would take the next step and try my best to get them into bed

To say you would meet someone you don't fancy is a lie! They don't have to be everyone's idea of good looking (Im sure I fancy blokes other girls wouldn't) but there 100% has to be that physical attraction.

On the other hand, I haven't had one bad message in all my time on here so it is terrible to hear other people getting them just for telling someone they aren't your type. Don't mind them! "

Chemistry can be a mix of many ingredients in different quantities. Yes there are different mixes for different results. I imagine that there is always something physical involved in attraction but it isn't necessarily the face. The mind is also of great importance. The term "a meeting of the minds" is definitely a strong draw, for me at least. Yes, I have based a liaison on purely physical attraction in the past but when there was no mental connection, it wasn't repeated.

People who can't take rejection, for any reason, just show that they are not adult enough for a site such as this, or potentially any social interaction.

Block, move on and enjoy Fab with your own parameters.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So was messaging a guy swapped face pics and he just didn't do it for me (for me I have to find someone attractive to take things further I know im not going to be everyones type)

So I replied sorry not my type only to be called a shallow bitch that I must put myself on such a high pedastool to say that to someone and hurt their feelings im nothing but a heartless bitch

REALLY

Is it not better to be honest

Then make a fool of them ?

Or is it been a bitch "

Unfortunately sone guys think FAB is dial a ride!

No Patience or respect.

Fuck em and not in the physical sense!

Block and move on. You don’t owe anybody anything on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really is a shame that men react like this. This sort of crap makes it harder for other men. U can’t be everyone’s cuppa of tea.

I’d been told from girls a few times that I’m not their type and the reply they get from me is no problem enjoy fab and that’s it.

Abusive mails only show what a dick u are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site, like others is based first solely on looks. Then you chat, but personality is key to chemistry in my book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site, like others is based first solely on looks. Then you chat, but personality is key to chemistry in my book. "

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By *uscious lou OP   Woman
over a year ago

dublin


"So was messaging a guy swapped face pics and he just didn't do it for me (for me I have to find someone attractive to take things further I know im not going to be everyones type)

So I replied sorry not my type only to be called a shallow bitch that I must put myself on such a high pedastool to say that to someone and hurt their feelings im nothing but a heartless bitch

REALLY

Is it not better to be honest

Then make a fool of them ?

Or is it been a bitch

Unfortunately sone guys think FAB is dial a ride!

No Patience or respect.

Fuck em and not in the physical sense!

Block and move on. You don’t owe anybody anything on here."

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By *uscious lou OP   Woman
over a year ago

dublin


"I can’t believe how some guys react to honesty and rejection on here. As in life we can’t be everyone’s cup of tea. If someone messages you, you may like the sound of them, you may even exchange a few mails and have a bit of banter. But I think for everyone there has to be some sort of physical attraction. Some may be all about the physical which if they are honest is grand. I love the mental side as well as the physical but there has to be both for me. I think the key is honesty and respect. You were honest and he should have smiled and respected that. I would much prefer someone saying your not for me and we both smile and move on. I still get on great with people that weren’t for me. Don’t change who you are for someone else. Keep smiling, trust your instincts and enjoy the genuine people who you like ??"
thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I can't is if it's said to me. I always return with a nice message. Maners costs nothing. And i have become good friends with some of the ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rejection should be character building you try and and take on board your approach your manner your choice if a rejection is given. Take it on chin move on make a note and bother the lady/ gent/couple again Don’t need sinister agressive weirdoes lol for the record ratio of women to men means you will be rejected 9 times out of 10. Embrace rejection move on buy a joke book do some weights. Above all just be nice

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By *oungcouple1993xCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Looks aren't everything but you can't wank over a good personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks aren't everything but you can't wank over a good personality "

This made me laugh!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just had too block a guy in the end, he just wouldn't let up, told him that I wasn't interested and he was too pushy, but he didn't leave it go,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why I'd prefer to swap a face pic as early as possible. No point in wasting each others time.

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

Most men can’t take rejection unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anytime i get that which is most of the time to be honest! Lol I thank the people for the time and then say Happy fabbing! Easy it doesn't effect me everyone has personal preferences! Simple. Xxx

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