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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why do guys say they are single and when ask can they accomodate the excuse they have housemate s and cannot host.If we were or could entertain and had housemate would you not ask them to give you time alone .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do guys say they are single and when ask can they accomodate the excuse they have housemate s and cannot host.If we were or could entertain and had housemate would you not ask them to give you time alone .

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I'm going to take a wild stab in the dark and say it's because they are married, and on here without the wife's knowledge - I think that description covers a large plurality of 'single' men on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do guys say they are single and when ask can they accomodate the excuse they have housemate s and cannot host.If we were or could entertain and had housemate would you not ask them to give you time alone .

"

I don’t get why you’re so angry about this, they could actually be housesharing/living at home.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

1+1=2, not 5

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

not angry just be up front when messaging .we were wiling to meet this guy as we cannot accomand sure enough he say then cannot accom because he have housemate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

and your point .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe both of you could just ask the kids to give you a some free time and ask them to stay out for a bit.

I'm single and have a flat mate. I also have a daughter who calls round regularly. One rule I have is neither of us brings home a lady to stay over. I'm sure there are many genuine single guys who may have the same agreement.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thinking same but no harm done but prefer if up front and could have arrange hotel or so .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not angry just be up front when messaging .we were wiling to meet this guy as we cannot accomand sure enough he say then cannot accom because he have housemate."

I’m still not seeing the problem. He has a housemate, no biggie. Doesn’t mean he’s attached. There’s always hotels!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1+1=2, not 5 "

1+1=2 but 1 is sneaking off behind 1's back on a swinger site trying to make a 3

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

that's fair enough but he could be up front and honest .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

got it

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"and your point ."

My point was that maybe he was actually telling you the truth?

Maybe his housemates don't want him bringing people they don't know to the house?

Maybe he has kids living with him?

There are numerous possibilities that don't add up to him being married.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Op does his profile system he can't accommodate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"that's fair enough but he could be up front and honest ."

But he was, he told you he couldn’t accommodate because he has a housemate. You automatically assumed he was attached.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do guys say they are single and when ask can they accomodate the excuse they have housemate s and cannot host.If we were or could entertain and had housemate would you not ask them to give you time alone .

I'm going to take a wild stab in the dark and say it's because they are married, and on here without the wife's knowledge - I think that description covers a large plurality of 'single' men on here "

With the odd exception and from those we've chatted to it's either they're married or they're living with parents.

Having said that some like the above post are genuine in that they share digs.

Having said that they do seem to be the minority.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"1+1=2, not 5

1+1=2 but 1 is sneaking off behind 1's back on a swinger site trying to make a 3 "

House mates

Sharing with his kids

Living at home

Can't be arsed picking the dirty socks off the floor

Countless reasons not to accommodate alot of the same reasons cpls or single fems don't accommodate why assume his married

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

fair enough but to be honest and up front and remove it from his profile we state we cannot accom and he state he can accom so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1+1=2, not 5

1+1=2 but 1 is sneaking off behind 1's back on a swinger site trying to make a 3

House mates

Sharing with his kids

Living at home

Can't be arsed picking the dirty socks off the floor

Countless reasons not to accommodate alot of the same reasons cpls or single fems don't accommodate why assume his married "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do guys say they are single and when ask can they accomodate the excuse they have housemate s and cannot host.If we were or could entertain and had housemate would you not ask them to give you time alone .

"

Im single live with family. Even if i house shared i wouldnt ask my house mate to leave the house so i could have a fab meet.hotels come in handy in this situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at many profiles , most of them can not accommodate.

Each have his own reason ( kids /housemates/ discretion ) doesn’t have to be in a relation or cheating .

So read the profile if he/she can accommodate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

never said he was married .he have on his profile can accom and messaging us he kept on saying he can accom .we states we cannot accom on our profile .so arrange a meet and then he cant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1+1=2, not 5

1+1=2 but 1 is sneaking off behind 1's back on a swinger site trying to make a 3

House mates

Sharing with his kids

Living at home

Can't be arsed picking the dirty socks off the floor

Countless reasons not to accommodate alot of the same reasons cpls or single fems don't accommodate why assume his married "

Have you seen how desperate the single men on here are? The idea that they would turn down sex due to dirty socks

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"fair enough but to be honest and up front and remove it from his profile we state we cannot accom and he state he can accom so"

Now that's different he states on his profile he can accommodate and then says he can't I'd agree with u there he should either change his profile or have said that he wasn't able to accommodate

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Don't assume they are married could be living with family house shapring or just simply don't want to accommodate the lifestyle into there home

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"1+1=2, not 5

1+1=2 but 1 is sneaking off behind 1's back on a swinger site trying to make a 3

House mates

Sharing with his kids

Living at home

Can't be arsed picking the dirty socks off the floor

Countless reasons not to accommodate alot of the same reasons cpls or single fems don't accommodate why assume his married

Have you seen how desperate the single men on here are? The idea that they would turn down sex due to dirty socks "

That's true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"fair enough but to be honest and up front and remove it from his profile we state we cannot accom and he state he can accom so

Now that's different he states on his profile he can accommodate and then says he can't I'd agree with u there he should either change his profile or have said that he wasn't able to accommodate "

Maybe he can accommodate when his housemate isn’t there?

I have ‘cannot accommodate’ on my profile as I generally can’t, but there are times when I can (and do).

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"fair enough but to be honest and up front and remove it from his profile we state we cannot accom and he state he can accom so

Now that's different he states on his profile he can accommodate and then says he can't I'd agree with u there he should either change his profile or have said that he wasn't able to accommodate

Maybe he can accommodate when his housemate isn’t there?

I have ‘cannot accommodate’ on my profile as I generally can’t, but there are times when I can (and do). "

How are u fixed for sat night

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I actually took can accommodate off my profile for this very reason. I don't share, but I have relatives living very close by so I try to only accomm when they're not around... but a couple of people got annoyed when I'd say it was inconvenient for me to accom when they were free to meet... Thankfully, most of my friends are reasonable and realise that just because you say you can accom, doesn't mean its always convenient.... maybe his housemate is sick? He can't exactly turf a sick mate of for a few hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"fair enough but to be honest and up front and remove it from his profile we state we cannot accom and he state he can accom so

Now that's different he states on his profile he can accommodate and then says he can't I'd agree with u there he should either change his profile or have said that he wasn't able to accommodate

Maybe he can accommodate when his housemate isn’t there?

I have ‘cannot accommodate’ on my profile as I generally can’t, but there are times when I can (and do).

How are u fixed for sat night "

I’ll be getting ‘fixed’ as it happens.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

There's lots of people won't bring people back to their house . You can't blame them can you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I have ‘cannot accommodate’ on my profile as I generally can’t, but there are times when I can (and do). "

Same here and the 'cannot accommodate' on my profile doesn't stop me from contributing towards a hotel room, which all considered should do imo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I have ‘cannot accommodate’ on my profile as I generally can’t, but there are times when I can (and do).

Same here and the 'cannot accommodate' on my profile doesn't stop me from contributing towards a hotel room, which all considered should do imo!"

Same as that, Pria.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many people including genuine singles and couples can't accomodate for some reason or another -if it doesn't suit move on to someone who can -Simples

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I know loads of people house sharing and living with family etc, and I know very few, actually none who would invite a first meet back or a one night stand.

I know most can and will accommodate the odd time though, but usually only to someone they know and usually at odd times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know loads of people house sharing and living with family etc, and I know very few, actually none who would invite a first meet back or a one night stand.

I know most can and will accommodate the odd time though, but usually only to someone they know and usually at odd times."

You need to get yourself over to the Torso thread

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"fair enough but to be honest and up front and remove it from his profile we state we cannot accom and he state he can accom so

Now that's different he states on his profile he can accommodate and then says he can't I'd agree with u there he should either change his profile or have said that he wasn't able to accommodate

Maybe he can accommodate when his housemate isn’t there?

I have ‘cannot accommodate’ on my profile as I generally can’t, but there are times when I can (and do).

How are u fixed for sat night

I’ll be getting ‘fixed’ as it happens. "

Are u broken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I have ‘cannot accommodate’ on my profile as I generally can’t, but there are times when I can (and do).

Same here and the 'cannot accommodate' on my profile doesn't stop me from contributing towards a hotel room, which all considered should do imo!"

Not all do unfortunately. Footed the bill a few times even a two night stay so I no long consider hotel meets with a new meet now because of this. It narrows down who I'll meet but it works for now.

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By *lack_diamond30Man
over a year ago

City


" I have ‘cannot accommodate’ on my profile as I generally can’t, but there are times when I can (and do).

Same here and the 'cannot accommodate' on my profile doesn't stop me from contributing towards a hotel room, which all considered should do imo!

Not all do unfortunately. Footed the bill a few times even a two night stay so I no long consider hotel meets with a new meet now because of this. It narrows down who I'll meet but it works for now."

I can often accommodate and I have it on my profile. But I will never bring a stranger home - I will have to know/trust you (first); if that makes any scene!

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By *ymbunny2016Man
over a year ago

Bangor


" I have ‘cannot accommodate’ on my profile as I generally can’t, but there are times when I can (and do).

Same here and the 'cannot accommodate' on my profile doesn't stop me from contributing towards a hotel room, which all considered should do imo!

Not all do unfortunately. Footed the bill a few times even a two night stay so I no long consider hotel meets with a new meet now because of this. It narrows down who I'll meet but it works for now.

I can often accommodate and I have it on my profile. But I will never bring a stranger home - I will have to know/trust you (first); if that makes any scene!"

Agree with this- plenty of mentalists on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many people including genuine singles and couples can't accomodate for some reason or another -if it doesn't suit move on to someone who can -Simples"

The best comment by far!

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By *rthur WrightusMan
over a year ago

Round the Bend

I don't accommodate in consideration of my pet rabbit who doesn't want to get into hot water !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

totally agree but state on your profile can accom sometimes only or even when chatting with others people that you may not be able to accom sometime and people accept the honesty .arrangements can be made from then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

agree totally also can state on the profile or when chatting that they may not always be able to accom .

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

PK we get it single men on here are all liars and cheats and there is no other possible explanation for them not being able to accommodate whereas single women and couples that cannot accommodate are 100% always telling the truth about everything,maybe we should have a real life purge where all the single females and couples can kill as many of those lying males in one night as possible and save fab from the brink of single male related destruction.

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