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"I sometimes answer with "Sorry not interested"... and after few replies like that I just delete next ones.. Cause 98% of guys will send "why? " after my not interested " Yeah that’s the way to do it am sure u ladies get tortured but at least the guy no’s were he stands  | |||
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"I sometimes answer with "Sorry not interested"... and after few replies like that I just delete next ones.. Cause 98% of guys will send "why? " after my not interested " Yes!!!!! What’s that all about?   | |||
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"I've often replied not interested. Them I get back abusive messages. So it's easier to just not reply to someone "Yep  it's not worth the abuse | |||
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"I've often replied not interested. Them I get back abusive messages. So it's easier to just not reply to someone
Yep it's not worth the abuse "I know. You'd want think skin around here. Some things the guys say can be awful. You get used to it though and learn not to rise to the bait. | |||
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"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...? As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested? Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread... " I reply to most messages if it’s well written or a guy asking a genuine question but won’t answer to u want sucked | |||
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"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...? As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested? Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread... I reply to most messages if it’s well written or a guy asking a genuine question but won’t answer to u want sucked "That wasn't what I asked... Do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get posted through your door to inform them you aren't interested in what they're offering? As every initial message sent on here is unsolicited mail... | |||
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"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...? As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested? Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread... " | |||
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"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...? As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested? Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread... I reply to most messages if it’s well written or a guy asking a genuine question but won’t answer to u want sucked
That wasn't what I asked...
Do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get posted through your door to inform them you aren't interested in what they're offering?
As every initial message sent on here is unsolicited mail... "
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"Lmao after posting this I then get a message off a guy saying look and him and look at me I should think I'm the lucky one to have him haha so there ye go that's why people dont engage " What lol | |||
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"No reply means no interest -harsh but necessary sometimes to save everyone's time!" Very harsh I think but y not delete the message? | |||
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"Lmao after posting this I then get a message off a guy saying look and him and look at me I should think I'm the lucky one to have him haha so there ye go that's why people dont engage What lol "I neglected to answer him last week so he told me I was rude and by looking at me I'd be lucky to have him cos look at him haha obviously a huge ego | |||
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"No reply means no interest -harsh but necessary sometimes to save everyone's time! Very harsh I think but y not delete the message? "Can only speak for ourselves,we only do a bulk delete one in a while as we like to leave the messages there for partner to see also . | |||
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"Lmao after posting this I then get a message off a guy saying look and him and look at me I should think I'm the lucky one to have him haha so there ye go that's why people dont engage What lol
I neglected to answer him last week so he told me I was rude and by looking at me I'd be lucky to have him cos look at him haha obviously a huge ego "Stud lol | |||
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"Lmao after posting this I then get a message off a guy saying look and him and look at me I should think I'm the lucky one to have him haha so there ye go that's why people dont engage What lol
I neglected to answer him last week so he told me I was rude and by looking at me I'd be lucky to have him cos look at him haha obviously a huge ego "I wish I was him | |||
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"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...? As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested? Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread... I reply to most messages if it’s well written or a guy asking a genuine question but won’t answer to u want sucked
That wasn't what I asked...
Do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get posted through your door to inform them you aren't interested in what they're offering?
As every initial message sent on here is unsolicited mail...
I don’t because it’s junk I don’t send junk mail "The person you message did not invite you to message them. Your message is therefor unsolicited, and junk mail. If you don't respond to all YOUR junk mail, why expect anyone else to? You still haven't responded personally to everyone on this thread... | |||
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"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...? As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested? Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread... I reply to most messages if it’s well written or a guy asking a genuine question but won’t answer to u want sucked
That wasn't what I asked...
Do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get posted through your door to inform them you aren't interested in what they're offering?
As every initial message sent on here is unsolicited mail...
I don’t because it’s junk I don’t send junk mail
The person you message did not invite you to message them. Your message is therefor unsolicited, and junk mail.
If you don't respond to all YOUR junk mail, why expect anyone else to?
You still haven't responded personally to everyone on this thread..."What you on about | |||
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"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...? As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested? Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread... I reply to most messages if it’s well written or a guy asking a genuine question but won’t answer to u want sucked
That wasn't what I asked...
Do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get posted through your door to inform them you aren't interested in what they're offering?
As every initial message sent on here is unsolicited mail...
I don’t because it’s junk I don’t send junk mail
The person you message did not invite you to message them. Your message is therefor unsolicited, and junk mail.
If you don't respond to all YOUR junk mail, why expect anyone else to?
You still haven't responded personally to everyone on this thread...
What you on about "She's making sense
If you read people's profile like your reading her replies, I'm not surprised you don't get a response tbh | |||
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"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...? As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested? Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread... I reply to most messages if it’s well written or a guy asking a genuine question but won’t answer to u want sucked
That wasn't what I asked...
Do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get posted through your door to inform them you aren't interested in what they're offering?
As every initial message sent on here is unsolicited mail...
I don’t because it’s junk I don’t send junk mail
The person you message did not invite you to message them. Your message is therefor unsolicited, and junk mail.
If you don't respond to all YOUR junk mail, why expect anyone else to?
You still haven't responded personally to everyone on this thread...
What you on about "Exactly what I said... Every message you send on here, unless the person has specifically asked you to mail her, is unsolicited, junk mail. If the person or message doesn't appeal, they won't reply. Simple. It's exactly the same as you only using the one takeaway menu that you feel is right for you at that moment. You don't feel obligated to phone every other takeaway that has posted a flyer through your door to apologise for not wanting their food, but thanking them for their flyer. | |||
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"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...? As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested? Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread... I reply to most messages if it’s well written or a guy asking a genuine question but won’t answer to u want sucked
That wasn't what I asked...
Do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get posted through your door to inform them you aren't interested in what they're offering?
As every initial message sent on here is unsolicited mail...
I don’t because it’s junk I don’t send junk mail
The person you message did not invite you to message them. Your message is therefor unsolicited, and junk mail.
If you don't respond to all YOUR junk mail, why expect anyone else to?
You still haven't responded personally to everyone on this thread...
What you on about
She's making sense
If you read people's profile like your reading her replies, I'm not surprised you don't get a response tbh"Thankyou lol. | |||
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"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...? As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested? Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread... I reply to most messages if it’s well written or a guy asking a genuine question but won’t answer to u want sucked
That wasn't what I asked...
Do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get posted through your door to inform them you aren't interested in what they're offering?
As every initial message sent on here is unsolicited mail...
I don’t because it’s junk I don’t send junk mail
The person you message did not invite you to message them. Your message is therefor unsolicited, and junk mail.
If you don't respond to all YOUR junk mail, why expect anyone else to?
You still haven't responded personally to everyone on this thread...
What you on about
Exactly what I said...
Every message you send on here, unless the person has specifically asked you to mail her, is unsolicited, junk mail. If the person or message doesn't appeal, they won't reply. Simple.
It's exactly the same as you only using the one takeaway menu that you feel is right for you at that moment. You don't feel obligated to phone every other takeaway that has posted a flyer through your door to apologise for not wanting their food, but thanking them for their flyer. "I live your comparisons  | |||
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"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...? As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested? Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread... I reply to most messages if it’s well written or a guy asking a genuine question but won’t answer to u want sucked
That wasn't what I asked...
Do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get posted through your door to inform them you aren't interested in what they're offering?
As every initial message sent on here is unsolicited mail...
I don’t because it’s junk I don’t send junk mail
The person you message did not invite you to message them. Your message is therefor unsolicited, and junk mail.
If you don't respond to all YOUR junk mail, why expect anyone else to?
You still haven't responded personally to everyone on this thread...
What you on about
Exactly what I said...
Every message you send on here, unless the person has specifically asked you to mail her, is unsolicited, junk mail. If the person or message doesn't appeal, they won't reply. Simple.
It's exactly the same as you only using the one takeaway menu that you feel is right for you at that moment. You don't feel obligated to phone every other takeaway that has posted a flyer through your door to apologise for not wanting their food, but thanking them for their flyer. "Lol your getting your point through there now am hungry | |||
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"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...? As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested? Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread... I reply to most messages if it’s well written or a guy asking a genuine question but won’t answer to u want sucked
That wasn't what I asked...
Do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get posted through your door to inform them you aren't interested in what they're offering?
As every initial message sent on here is unsolicited mail...
I don’t because it’s junk I don’t send junk mail
The person you message did not invite you to message them. Your message is therefor unsolicited, and junk mail.
If you don't respond to all YOUR junk mail, why expect anyone else to?
You still haven't responded personally to everyone on this thread...
What you on about
Exactly what I said...
Every message you send on here, unless the person has specifically asked you to mail her, is unsolicited, junk mail. If the person or message doesn't appeal, they won't reply. Simple.
It's exactly the same as you only using the one takeaway menu that you feel is right for you at that moment. You don't feel obligated to phone every other takeaway that has posted a flyer through your door to apologise for not wanting their food, but thanking them for their flyer.
I live your comparisons "Unfortunately people either genuinely 'don't get' it, or act obtuse so as to try to continue arguing their point lol. | |||
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"Lmao after posting this I then get a message off a guy saying look and him and look at me I should think I'm the lucky one to have him haha so there ye go that's why people dont engage What lol
I neglected to answer him last week so he told me I was rude and by looking at me I'd be lucky to have him cos look at him haha obviously a huge ego
I wish I was him "U wish u were an abusive egotistical ass ? | |||
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"No lol I want to be a hunk like him  "Well he isn't he just thinks he is and even if he was it means nothing I'd rather manners over looks any day | |||
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"No lol I want to be a hunk like him
Well he isn't he just thinks he is and even if he was it means nothing I'd rather manners over looks any day "You mean us women don't just fall swooning at the feet of every person that sends a message we didn't ask for?! Shock horror lol x | |||
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"OMG lol am lost now whatever u say "Case in point lol. | |||
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"Just on topic I'm running a special offer where all females who message me are 100% guaranteed a reply For a limited time only. Get them while they're hot... " Too funny
It's really hard to answer all the messages I really don't have the time - I used to in the past but now I don't if I'm not interested. If I answer I find you get a string of messages and then why are you ignoring me starts?? Really cannot abide pushy people..everything in my own time.
Also there are messages I don't get to read because fab deletes them not me | |||
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"No lol I want to be a hunk like him
Well he isn't he just thinks he is and even if he was it means nothing I'd rather manners over looks any day " | |||
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"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...? As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested? Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread... I reply to most messages if it’s well written or a guy asking a genuine question but won’t answer to u want sucked
That wasn't what I asked...
Do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get posted through your door to inform them you aren't interested in what they're offering?
As every initial message sent on here is unsolicited mail...
I don’t because it’s junk I don’t send junk mail
The person you message did not invite you to message them. Your message is therefor unsolicited, and junk mail.
If you don't respond to all YOUR junk mail, why expect anyone else to?
You still haven't responded personally to everyone on this thread...
What you on about
She's making sense
If you read people's profile like your reading her replies, I'm not surprised you don't get a response tbh"Exactly this
OP, you are complaining about not getting a reply to a interaction (message) that wasn't asked for. Site rules are clear on this. No response no interest. We generally try to reply to well worded messages from people who have obviously read our profile and have a clear understanding of what we are looking for. Outside of that why should we waste our time responding to messages that clearly haven't put any effort in to profile, message or bothered reading profile...eh thanks but no thanks. | |||
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"No lol I want to be a hunk like him
Well he isn't he just thinks he is and even if he was it means nothing I'd rather manners over looks any day
You mean us women don't just fall swooning at the feet of every person that sends a message we didn't ask for?! Shock horror lol x"What is ur problem have I done something to offend u smart ass  | |||
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"No lol I want to be a hunk like him
Well he isn't he just thinks he is and even if he was it means nothing I'd rather manners over looks any day
You mean us women don't just fall swooning at the feet of every person that sends a message we didn't ask for?! Shock horror lol x
What is ur problem have I done something to offend u smart ass "I wasn't replying to you. | |||
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"No lol I want to be a hunk like him
Well he isn't he just thinks he is and even if he was it means nothing I'd rather manners over looks any day
You mean us women don't just fall swooning at the feet of every person that sends a message we didn't ask for?! Shock horror lol x
What is ur problem have I done something to offend u smart ass "Point and case!!! | |||
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"No lol I want to be a hunk like him
Well he isn't he just thinks he is and even if he was it means nothing I'd rather manners over looks any day
You mean us women don't just fall swooning at the feet of every person that sends a message we didn't ask for?! Shock horror lol x
What is ur problem have I done something to offend u smart ass
Point and case!!!"Lol. | |||
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"No lol I want to be a hunk like him
Well he isn't he just thinks he is and even if he was it means nothing I'd rather manners over looks any day
You mean us women don't just fall swooning at the feet of every person that sends a message we didn't ask for?! Shock horror lol x
What is ur problem have I done something to offend u smart ass
I wasn't replying to you. "U were talking about me | |||
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"No lol I want to be a hunk like him
Well he isn't he just thinks he is and even if he was it means nothing I'd rather manners over looks any day
You mean us women don't just fall swooning at the feet of every person that sends a message we didn't ask for?! Shock horror lol x
What is ur problem have I done something to offend u smart ass
I wasn't replying to you.
U were talking about me "No. I was talking to someone else, who was talking about someone else... Paranoia much?! | |||
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"No lol I want to be a hunk like him
Well he isn't he just thinks he is and even if he was it means nothing I'd rather manners over looks any day
You mean us women don't just fall swooning at the feet of every person that sends a message we didn't ask for?! Shock horror lol x
What is ur problem have I done something to offend u smart ass
I wasn't replying to you.
U were talking about me
No. I was talking to someone else, who was talking about someone else...
Paranoia much?! "Ok whatever did u forget to take ur pills this morning? | |||
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"No lol I want to be a hunk like him
Well he isn't he just thinks he is and even if he was it means nothing I'd rather manners over looks any day
You mean us women don't just fall swooning at the feet of every person that sends a message we didn't ask for?! Shock horror lol x
What is ur problem have I done something to offend u smart ass
I wasn't replying to you.
U were talking about me
No. I was talking to someone else, who was talking about someone else...
Paranoia much?!
Ok whatever did u forget to take ur pills this morning? "I think everyone can see from what you write that you need to actually read what people write. | |||
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"We try to reply to every message but it’s hard! If we are very busy I only reply to those who fit what we have asked for in our profile, age / verifications and others will just get ignored!" | |||
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"Could be replying to 200 people daily. No reply to me means not interested. I just move on and don't get offended. I'm not for them. Next. " Yeah ur right but if they open the message they must read it if there not interested they should just delete it | |||
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"Could be replying to 200 people daily. No reply to me means not interested. I just move on and don't get offended. I'm not for them. Next. " Sometimes I am at work and take a minute to check messages, I may not have the time at that particular moment to answer and mean to get back to answer..... when I log back in I can’t find the message and have to let it go and hope he messages again | |||
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"Could be replying to 200 people daily. No reply to me means not interested. I just move on and don't get offended. I'm not for them. Next. Yeah ur right but if they open the message they must read it if there not interested they should just delete it "People run their profiles to suit themselves. What makes sense to one person may not to the next. You can only determine how your profile is run op. | |||
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"We don't reply to every msg like the ones that automatically think there talking to female half and the msg reads you want anal!!! I mean a little effort pls. It's hard to reply most of us women have vanilla lives we have to get on with as well " Yeah ur 100% right | |||
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"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...? As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested? Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread... I reply to most messages if it’s well written or a guy asking a genuine question but won’t answer to u want sucked
That wasn't what I asked...
Do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get posted through your door to inform them you aren't interested in what they're offering?
As every initial message sent on here is unsolicited mail...
I don’t because it’s junk I don’t send junk mail
The person you message did not invite you to message them. Your message is therefor unsolicited, and junk mail.
If you don't respond to all YOUR junk mail, why expect anyone else to?
You still haven't responded personally to everyone on this thread...
What you on about "She’s actually quite clear in what she’s saying, AND making some very interesting and valid points... #no junk mail here please | |||
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"No reply means no interest -harsh but necessary sometimes to save everyone's time! Very harsh I think but y not delete the message? "I can't speak for everyone... But sometimes I won't delete a message because I intend to reply to it later when I have time, but then forget to... This shouldn't be taken as an indication of interest however, it just means I forgot to send a message to say I wasn't interested! | |||
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"No reply means no interest -harsh but necessary sometimes to save everyone's time! Very harsh I think but y not delete the message?
I can't speak for everyone... But sometimes I won't delete a message because I intend to reply to it later when I have time, but then forget to... This shouldn't be taken as an indication of interest however, it just means I forgot to send a message to say I wasn't interested!"Yeah that’s fine if they sent u a message back at a later time u will probably reply | |||
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"OP, do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get...? As in, personally ring each one, thank them for the mail, but politely inform them you aren't interested? Plus, you haven't responded to every single person on your thread... with all due respect , the very fact you have a profile here means your open to receiving messages from anyone within your set limits I reply to most messages if it’s well written or a guy asking a genuine question but won’t answer to u want sucked
That wasn't what I asked...
Do you reply to every piece of junk mail you get posted through your door to inform them you aren't interested in what they're offering?
As every initial message sent on here is unsolicited mail...
I don’t because it’s junk I don’t send junk mail
The person you message did not invite you to message them. Your message is therefor unsolicited, and junk mail.
If you don't respond to all YOUR junk mail, why expect anyone else to?
You still haven't responded personally to everyone on this thread..." | |||
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