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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

a person if they have a pic on their profile that puts you off - and I'm not speaking about a bareback pic, let's keep that out of the equation - but other than that the person ticks your boxes.

Or in other words do you judge a person by one or two off putting pics only?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never judge a book by its cover

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I know this is different I've turned lads down not because of pics on there profile but who's verfied them.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this is different I've turned lads down not because of pics on there profile but who's verfied them....."

I got a text before from a woman on here and in the chat she asked if I ever chatted with other women here and I said ya and gave her a county the girl was from and she said its not xxxxx is it? And I said no why? And she said I refuse to meet any lad that has met that woman cause she does bareback all the time(other lads supposedly told her this)

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By *BelfastGuyMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"a person if they have a pic on their profile that puts you off - and I'm not speaking about a bareback pic, let's keep that out of the equation - but other than that the person ticks your boxes.

Or in other words do you judge a person by one or two off putting pics only? "

Think their has to be a bit of an attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet anyone without chatting for a while to get the gauge if them, and at that point the pictures wouldn't really matter by then.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Yep I would turn them down flat, and I make a note on profiles when they upload things I don't like or meet someone I don't like.

I don't care if it makes me look like a judgemental arsehole. There are levels of risk that are acceptable to me and anything beyond isnt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep I would turn them down flat, and I make a note on profiles when they upload things I don't like or meet someone I don't like.

I don't care if it makes me look like a judgemental arsehole. There are levels of risk that are acceptable to me and anything beyond isnt."

That's absolutely a fair point, but had the OP not stated that some risk's would or at least should be a deal breaker for most..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nó not at all but it might make me think twice.

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"a person if they have a pic on their profile that puts you off - and I'm not speaking about a bareback pic, let's keep that out of the equation - but other than that the person ticks your boxes.

Or in other words do you judge a person by one or two off putting pics only?

Think their has to be a bit of an attraction. "

Of course there has to be some attraction, but let's say it's there but there's also a pic that doesn't appeal to you. Do you have some leverage or is it flat out a no go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every situation is different!!

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By *BelfastGuyMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"a person if they have a pic on their profile that puts you off - and I'm not speaking about a bareback pic, let's keep that out of the equation - but other than that the person ticks your boxes.

Or in other words do you judge a person by one or two off putting pics only?

Think their has to be a bit of an attraction.

Of course there has to be some attraction, but let's say it's there but there's also a pic that doesn't appeal to you. Do you have some leverage or is it flat out a no go? "

Depends on what the pic is.

Some times you can get a feel of someone especially if you chat to them.

Was it my sore foot?

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"I know this is different I've turned lads down not because of pics on there profile but who's verfied them....."

I've been blocked by quite a few females (and some of their sycophantic sir percival male hangers on) due to knowing a couple of other females on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering I've seen some disturbing pics on here, yes it would put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a pic can put me off but mostly it’s awful status updates that will switch me off someone

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By *ack 188Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15

Pics can be misleading indeed,the chat is essential to form a mutual bond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy's profile showing lots of different women he's shagged (apparently - because all you see of a male is a cock in them) is offputting to me, pictures are meant to be of the profile user, no? We're already assuming you're sexually active.

Generally though, I rely on my intuition and assessment of the personality involved, it rarely lets me down.

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Yes I would say no thanks if they had a pic that made me go uugghh.

I also use profile notes so if they’ve been an asshole on the forums/previous mails I’ll stick that in notes for my future self.

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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago

nr Letterkenny


"a person if they have a pic on their profile that puts you off - and I'm not speaking about a bareback pic, let's keep that out of the equation - but other than that the person ticks your boxes.

Or in other words do you judge a person by one or two off putting pics only? "

pics of fight foreskins are a no no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can people have there view of them changed if there a change in a pic on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes would put us off ,as would status updates and how they por tray themselves on forums or in chatrooms !

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