FabSwingers.com forum: Anyone else had more success OFFline compared to here ONline?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Strange as it may seem, I’ve had much greater success and more meets offline in the real world by complete chance, than I’ve accomplished on here as a single straight guy. Got chatting to and met a nice couple in a rural bar a few years back (when I was just out for a drink and wasn’t even looking for hot steamy fun) and it led to many an erotic rendezvous at their place, which then (upon their useful recommendation) led to seeing another great couple for a good while after that, etc. No online jiggery pockery or profiles and pics required. Each couple didn’t even have any online presence and just knew others by word of mouth. I left the scene for a while then returned online to find things much more difficult to get noticed and to arrange meets. Anyone else find themselves in any unusual similar positions or have any stories of out of the blue chance meetings?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met a lot of couples visiting nyc from Ireland from this site . As a matter of fact I’m in the process of giving advice right now to a couple who are coming to nyc for the St Patrick’s Day parade. .I do meet more people off line though . Especially at Gunnison Beach . There are lots of swingers there . Can’t wait for the warm weather .

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally see this as more of a couples site looking to meet others. Single males do tend to be treated with hostility on here. But infairness most single males are looking to get their hole, simple as. So if your just looking for sex,it's a different story.

I find off FAB Site to be much more rewarding, if I'm just looking for a hook up. But the attraction on the site is getting to express and act out my kinkiness. Stuff regular folks see as Taboo. So from that point of view, it's though getting the type of meets wanted, but worth the chase.

At the end of the day, it comes down to people putting their relationships first before a meet and singles have the choice to stay or leave or act as they want too.