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"Of course not.. Everyone is different so answers may vary but for us we could happily go without swinging ever again. " True also for us. | |||
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"Of course not.. Everyone is different so answers may vary but for us we could happily go without swinging ever again. True also for us." Snap  | |||
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"I've had plenty of men tell me that they're only here for nsa sex until they find a woman to settle down with. " Thats my plan too (not at the moment though cause I'm kinda dating someone so the profile is still here but if it gets serious I'm out... I hope ha) but I see so many return profiles with people saying things like I got bored, I'm attached need to be discreet etc... | |||
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"I've had plenty of men tell me that they're only here for nsa sex until they find a woman to settle down with. Thats my plan too (not at the moment though cause I'm kinda dating someone so the profile is still here but if it gets serious I'm out... I hope ha) but I see so many return profiles with people saying things like I got bored, I'm attached need to be discreet etc... " Just because they lack respect for their partner doesn't mean you will be the same - we make our choices. | |||
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"I've had plenty of men tell me that they're only here for nsa sex until they find a woman to settle down with. Thats my plan too (not at the moment though cause I'm kinda dating someone so the profile is still here but if it gets serious I'm out... I hope ha) but I see so many return profiles with people saying things like I got bored, I'm attached need to be discreet etc... Just because they lack respect for their partner doesn't mean you will be the same - we make our choices. " I suppose its true. It just seems to be a common phrase that you never really leave this place here and there's a few profiles to match the phrases. Suppose its all down to the individual | |||
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 But I think many times people need to go elsewhere to have sexual needs met. I'm not saying it's right or it's wrong. Who the Hell am I to judge anyone. But I think people with different sexual interests have a hard time settling down and staying with someone that is bog standard once a week on a Saturday evening after the movie is done. | |||
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"I think it's human nature to want the best of both worlds. To have a great bf or gf as well as having all their sexual needs met. Sometimes you hit the jackpot and you get all of that in one person But I think many times people need to go elsewhere to have sexual needs met. I'm not saying it's right or it's wrong. Who the Hell am I to judge anyone. But I think people with different sexual interests have a hard time settling down and staying with someone that is bog standard once a week on a Saturday evening after the movie is done. "I only have sex on the weekends anyway and it's enough but it's 10+ times easy over the weekend. I wish I was as horny as everyone else here but besides the sexy weekends I might wank twice during the week. As long as the girl is good in bed I wouldn't mind if it was one or two days a week | |||
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" It's been said to me on more than one occasion by the males on here that they would "fuck" someone off here but never have a relationship with them" We've encountered that numerous times too, always find it interesting that men will fuck a woman then look down on her for it.... | |||
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"I think it's human nature to want the best of both worlds. To have a great bf or gf as well as having all their sexual needs met. Sometimes you hit the jackpot and you get all of that in one person But I think many times people need to go elsewhere to have sexual needs met. I'm not saying it's right or it's wrong. Who the Hell am I to judge anyone. But I think people with different sexual interests have a hard time settling down and staying with someone that is bog standard once a week on a Saturday evening after the movie is done.
I only have sex on the weekends anyway and it's enough but it's 10+ times easy over the weekend. I wish I was as horny as everyone else here but besides the sexy weekends I might wank twice during the week. As long as the girl is good in bed I wouldn't mind if it was one or two days a week "The important thing is not only to find someone with whom you are sexually compatible, but also someone with whom you have trust and honest communication. Your needs and hers will ebb and flow over the years, if you cannot keep the lines of trust and communication open, you probably won't last. | |||
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" It's been said to me on more than one occasion by the males on here that they would "fuck" someone off here but never have a relationship with them We've encountered that numerous times too, always find it interesting that men will fuck a woman then look down on her for it...." It's very common on here. Unfortunately. | |||
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" It's been said to me on more than one occasion by the males on here that they would "fuck" someone off here but never have a relationship with them We've encountered that numerous times too, always find it interesting that men will fuck a woman then look down on her for it.... It's very common on here. Unfortunately. " We know, says more about their fucked up attitude to sex than anything  | |||
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" It's been said to me on more than one occasion by the males on here that they would "fuck" someone off here but never have a relationship with them We've encountered that numerous times too, always find it interesting that men will fuck a woman then look down on her for it.... It's very common on here. Unfortunately. We know, says more about their fucked up attitude to sex than anything "Seems they appear to think it a one stop fuck shop. | |||
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"What if they're just not swingers and don't want the swinging lifestyle in the long run? Like I wouldn't settle with a fabswinger cause I'm not a swinger not because she may be a fab user. Even girls and guys outside fab are fucking alot too anyway so being a fab user wouldn't bother me " This is exactly what amuses me, do the males here imagine that their miss right is waiting outside fab carefully guarding her virginity for him? | |||
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"What if they're just not swingers and don't want the swinging lifestyle in the long run? Like I wouldn't settle with a fabswinger cause I'm not a swinger not because she may be a fab user. Even girls and guys outside fab are fucking alot too anyway so being a fab user wouldn't bother me " I'd say 50% on here are not swingers?? | |||
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"What if they're just not swingers and don't want the swinging lifestyle in the long run? Like I wouldn't settle with a fabswinger cause I'm not a swinger not because she may be a fab user. Even girls and guys outside fab are fucking alot too anyway so being a fab user wouldn't bother me " There are plenty of females here just "filling the gap" while looking for a relationship too. It's compatibility that is the issue, not where you meet. | |||
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"What if they're just not swingers and don't want the swinging lifestyle in the long run? Like I wouldn't settle with a fabswinger cause I'm not a swinger not because she may be a fab user. Even girls and guys outside fab are fucking alot too anyway so being a fab user wouldn't bother me There are plenty of females here just "filling the gap" while looking for a relationship too. It's compatibility that is the issue, not where you meet." Perfect answer.  | |||
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"I think a lady from fab would be the only lady for me as a gf tried tinder and got fed up with ladys my own age just coming out of first time relationships and want me to teach them new things in the bedroom i want my equal " Don’t you just hate it when people want you to try out new sexual activities with them ??? | |||
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"There are lots of people on here who's partners think they are in a lot term monogamous relationship so there are some that have that and they get nsa from here too "Thats not what i meant but if u do not know by now how to give a good bj etc my choice only i like a lady to have experience so in answer to ops question i would not mind a lady off fab as my gf | |||
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"There are lots of people on here who's partners think they are in a lot term monogamous relationship so there are some that have that and they get nsa from here too
Thats not what i meant but if u do not know by now how to give a good bj etc my choice only i like a lady to have experience so in answer to ops question i would not mind a lady off fab as my gf "I think you quoted the wrong person | |||
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"I was in a near 20 yr relationship. I don't think I'll ever settle down again. I like the excitement of Fab, you never know what'll happen with the next person you meet, it just never gets stale. Everyone knows the score and theres different things I get from different men that all adds up to a really really exciting time without feeling tied down. "I can understand this 100% There's always something new and exciting! | |||
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"I was in a near 20 yr relationship. I don't think I'll ever settle down again. I like the excitement of Fab, you never know what'll happen with the next person you meet, it just never gets stale. Everyone knows the score and theres different things I get from different men that all adds up to a really really exciting time without feeling tied down.
I can understand this 100%
There's always something new and exciting!"It would be hard to leave it all and settle down  | |||
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"I was in a near 20 yr relationship. I don't think I'll ever settle down again. I like the excitement of Fab, you never know what'll happen with the next person you meet, it just never gets stale. Everyone knows the score and theres different things I get from different men that all adds up to a really really exciting time without feeling tied down.
I can understand this 100%
There's always something new and exciting!
It would be hard to leave it all and settle down "Well you were settled for 20 years!!! It's your time now Missus xx Enjoy yourself | |||
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"I was in a near 20 yr relationship. I don't think I'll ever settle down again. I like the excitement of Fab, you never know what'll happen with the next person you meet, it just never gets stale. Everyone knows the score and theres different things I get from different men that all adds up to a really really exciting time without feeling tied down.
I can understand this 100%
There's always something new and exciting!
It would be hard to leave it all and settle down "Ya that's what I'm hearing alot of to be fair. People are saying they couldn't actually drop this lifestyle after experiencing it | |||
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"I was in a near 20 yr relationship. I don't think I'll ever settle down again. I like the excitement of Fab, you never know what'll happen with the next person you meet, it just never gets stale. Everyone knows the score and theres different things I get from different men that all adds up to a really really exciting time without feeling tied down.
I can understand this 100%
There's always something new and exciting!
It would be hard to leave it all and settle down
Well you were settled for 20 years!!! It's your time now Missus xx
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"Of course not.. Everyone is different so answers may vary but for us we could happily go without swinging ever again. True also for us." And us  | |||
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"Tbh for us I think (unless either of us changed our minds) we will always swing. It's something that we have done long before fab and would continue after. We are very lucky that we are both on the same page and know what we want. Don't really look at here as a "sex" site as you can get sex anywhere, but as somewhere we can meet like minded people and fulfill fantasies. If fab wasn't here we would still be doing what we are doing " | |||
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"I see many people say in their profiles or on comments on forums that you can never really leave fab once you've started it. Does that mean for everyone here that their chances of ever being in a successful long term monogamous, non swinging sexual relationship is gone now? " Ive been on and off fab for three years and I was in a 6 year relationship. I tried to be "good" and leave fab but I always end up back here. I find the lifestyle super addictive. I dont think Ill ever be in a monogamous relationship and I hope to find someone who is open to the swinging world....but thats just me. I know a few people who gave up on fab and settled down! | |||
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As for relationships... If I met someone single, sexually compatible, who made me howl with laughter, weak at the knees with desire, feel like a goddess, and intellectually stimulated me... Someone who isn't looking for a family someday and shares my passion for travel... Being a Fabber would probably be a bonus! At least I wouldn't have to hide anything from them...  | |||
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