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By *asher147 OP   Man
over a year ago

Tyrone

I've been on this for a good while now and have to say that it's proved extremely difficult to sort any type of meet out with someone. I've found that verification is a massive problem but it's impossible to get verified if you can't meet someone to start. Any thoughts or advice? Thanks

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Your profile looks ok apart from that upsidedown bodypic....patience and be chatty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile looks ok apart from that upsidedown bodypic....patience and be chatty "

This! Time, patience and respect. It might seem like nobody replies but if you could see what a ladies page looks like you'd understand. 100s of views and constant messages. It's seems barren for lads and a minefield for ladies. Stick it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding it difficult to willing to learn what it is I should be doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lads, you're not doing anything wrong.

Let's just be honest here... You can see around 40 women online and at the same time it says 300+ men online.

Like a kid in a candy store women and couples have so much to choose from. Some get inflated egos from all this attention. Some are just time wasters to begin with. No real intention of meeting.

Then you got the genuine but they're hardly going to meet everyone off the site at the same time.

A couple of female can log in to see over 100 messages from guys at a time. That's mental

So you're not doing anything wrong. Just the way this website goes. It's the same on dating websites too. Like 20 men to 1 woman.

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By *asher147 OP   Man
over a year ago

Tyrone

I've found that women and couples just aren't willing to give a guy a chance! Anyone willing to give me my big break?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m finding it very hard too. Just have to keep trying

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By *asher147 OP   Man
over a year ago

Tyrone

Willing to travel ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually cant believe how difficult it has got to even strike up a conversation with females & couples let alone meet up. I agree lots of inflated egos & big ideas of their own importance. Frustrating but if your into been patient & not settling for a fuck for the sake of it to just get verified then sit tight.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

Waste of time asking most peeps on here guys they all spew the same boring lines "be patient" "it's not dial a ride" blah blah blah,best thing to do is use the forums reply to posters that take your fancy send them a private message related to the forum you're chatting about and do this to as many as take your fancy. Never mind the quality over quantity shtick that some people say is gospel on here,get the first meet and then go for quality messages.

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By *he Kinky KinksCouple
over a year ago

Dublin-Kildare

If a text comes into us and it asks a question that is answered on our profile, or a dic pic attached, we won’t answer. If it’s from a guy that is not in her preferred age range, we (very rarely) reply.

Read our profile and you’ll get a reply.

Majority of the guys who texts us don’t get past the pics.

Lads you wouldn’t believe some of the texts that come in. You’d wonder are these guys even gone through puberty

We are a couple who regularly meet single guys, so we are not adverse to texting guys or replying, but just not to stupid ones.

Sorry for the long winded post

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Patience patience patience and more patience . It won't happen over nite .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a text comes into us and it asks a question that is answered on our profile, or a dic pic attached, we won’t answer. If it’s from a guy that is not in her preferred age range, we (very rarely) reply.

Read our profile and you’ll get a reply.

Majority of the guys who texts us don’t get past the pics.

There you go! Can’t get better honest advice than that.

Lads you wouldn’t believe some of the texts that come in. You’d wonder are these guys even gone through puberty

We are a couple who regularly meet single guys, so we are not adverse to texting guys or replying, but just not to stupid ones.

Sorry for the long winded post "

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