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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As you know I rarely post a thread myself, although I have been known to add my two cents worth to other posts!

I have been having a wee problem and would love some help in solving it....

A certain fabber just will not go away, he hasn’t been abusive but he just doesn’t seem to get it! Once I deleted his message and he blocked me, I returned the favour and thought subject closed.... but no, he deleted his profile and created another, messaging me asking why I deleted him? I patiently explained that he deleted me in the first place but he refused to accept this, I told him “whatever” and said I would not be meeting him! Since then he has continued to message me, I have ignored his messages in the hope he will grt tired of it but he just won’t go away, each time I block him he deleted his profile and recreates anifher and just today asked me to join him and his lady friend in a hotel in Donegal! HELP!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think besides reporting him all u can do is not engage at all if u go to message filters an block newbies and unverified that will stop his new profiles contacting u

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I would say just block him and don't reply to any messages.some people cant take rejection.alternatively put up some filters for a while to block males and he won't be able to message you then or else hide your profile. I personally wouldnt do that as he is winning then,I'd be inclined to just delete any messages and then block.Don't reply anymore to him no matter how often he messages with new profiles.

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Hey lovely lady... my advise is to set your filters so that site supporters, newbies, non photo verified can contact you.

Also block and report to admin anyone that you feel is annoying you... I've my filters all in place and stops a lot of twats.. best of luck xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think besides reporting him all u can do is not engage at all if u go to message filters an block newbies and unverified that will stop his new profiles contacting u "

Very sound advise.... thank you, Kitty silly of me to think the idiot would listen to reason....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey lovely lady... my advise is to set your filters so that site supporters, newbies, non photo verified can contact you.

Also block and report to admin anyone that you feel is annoying you... I've my filters all in place and stops a lot of twats.. best of luck xx

"

Thank you Laura.... so much apptrciated xx

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Block block and block if he persists keep reporting each and every profile he sets up and did I say block

It's a pain in the arse (not in a good way for u)but unfortunately the way of the interweb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As you know I rarely post a thread myself, although I have been known to add my two cents worth to other posts!

I have been having a wee problem and would love some help in solving it....

A certain fabber just will not go away, he hasn’t been abusive but he just doesn’t seem to get it! Once I deleted his message and he blocked me, I returned the favour and thought subject closed.... but no, he deleted his profile and created another, messaging me asking why I deleted him? I patiently explained that he deleted me in the first place but he refused to accept this, I told him “whatever” and said I would not be meeting him! Since then he has continued to message me, I have ignored his messages in the hope he will grt tired of it but he just won’t go away, each time I block him he deleted his profile and recreates anifher and just today asked me to join him and his lady friend in a hotel in Donegal! HELP!!!!! "

Block report and set filters tighter.any sort of response to his mails is going to encourage him so dont reply to any of his mails.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks CJ, I think you are so right! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rat poison got rid of my problem for good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Rat poison got rid of my problem for good"

Haha.... I would if I could lol.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey lovely lady... my advise is to set your filters so that site supporters, newbies, non photo verified can contact you.

Also block and report to admin anyone that you feel is annoying you... I've my filters all in place and stops a lot of twats.. best of luck xx

"

^^^^^^^^^ This is great advice and it's exactly what we did when it happened to us.

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

Just ignore him dont even block him..let him message away to his hearts content..most women here ignore messages anway so dont see why you cant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Set your filters so newbies can't message u and only site supporters which will stop him messaging you as these helped me a great deal in messages. Also the block button. Hope it stops soon for you Moca

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By *on11Man
over a year ago

cork


"Set your filters so newbies can't message u and only site supporters which will stop him messaging you as these helped me a great deal in messages. Also the block button. Hope it stops soon for you Moca "

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Second that! Pests ruin the site for others.

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

cork


"As you know I rarely post a thread myself, although I have been known to add my two cents worth to other posts!

I have been having a wee problem and would love some help in solving it....

A certain fabber just will not go away, he hasn’t been abusive but he just doesn’t seem to get it! Once I deleted his message and he blocked me, I returned the favour and thought subject closed.... but no, he deleted his profile and created another, messaging me asking why I deleted him? I patiently explained that he deleted me in the first place but he refused to accept this, I told him “whatever” and said I would not be meeting him! Since then he has continued to message me, I have ignored his messages in the hope he will grt tired of it but he just won’t go away, each time I block him he deleted his profile and recreates anifher and just today asked me to join him and his lady friend in a hotel in Donegal! HELP!!!!! "

Some lead in his ear would be permanent

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As you know I rarely post a thread myself, although I have been known to add my two cents worth to other posts!

I have been having a wee problem and would love some help in solving it....

A certain fabber just will not go away, he hasn’t been abusive but he just doesn’t seem to get it! Once I deleted his message and he blocked me, I returned the favour and thought subject closed.... but no, he deleted his profile and created another, messaging me asking why I deleted him? I patiently explained that he deleted me in the first place but he refused to accept this, I told him “whatever” and said I would not be meeting him! Since then he has continued to message me, I have ignored his messages in the hope he will grt tired of it but he just won’t go away, each time I block him he deleted his profile and recreates anifher and just today asked me to join him and his lady friend in a hotel in Donegal! HELP!!!!!

Some lead in his ear would be permanent "

LMAO..... thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having chatted to Moca about this, it becomes clear that this lovely man is indeed a serial abuser. I've had my own problems with him in the past and I block every new profile he makes. How do I know he's back with a new one? Because he makes a point of fabbing my photo so I know he's back. Totally pathetic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having chatted to Moca about this, it becomes clear that this lovely man is indeed a serial abuser. I've had my own problems with him in the past and I block every new profile he makes. How do I know he's back with a new one? Because he makes a point of fabbing my photo so I know he's back. Totally pathetic. "

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Is this man gone again or back on site..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this man gone again or back on site.."

He's still here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with others. Filters, and don't react but ignore totally. No interaction at all. Not even block. When he gets no reaction will soon give up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with others. Filters, and don't react but ignore totally. No interaction at all. Not even block. When he gets no reaction will soon give up

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Lure them to a remote location and bring a shovel and a bag of lime (note this is a joke.....)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lure them to a remote location and bring a shovel and a bag of lime (note this is a joke.....) "

Very Fred West Mr Laid.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"Lure them to a remote location and bring a shovel and a bag of lime (note this is a joke.....)

Very Fred West Mr Laid. "

Fred West brought them home

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lure them to a remote location and bring a shovel and a bag of lime (note this is a joke.....) "

Thank God for that Laid lol

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By *kmanMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

I doubt I will ever have to worry about the issue but once I feel a women is no longer interested in me. It is time to move on so I do quite a bit moving

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

If he is not doing anything that scary and I would just completely ignore him.

I wouldn't even bother reading his messages, possibly you could message just to say that as from now you will notreplies. ponding any further as you have politely explained that you have no interest in continuing to invest your time in something that is not what you are looking for. After that no more replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd take the hit of the ban for a day and name and shame him here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell him to book a very expensive hotel and get the room number..the tell him wait there on the bed wanking naked at a certain time with the door unlocked and that you will arrive..

Then call the reception and say you think there's something suspicious happening in the room...

See how fast he goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lure them to a remote location and bring a shovel and a bag of lime (note this is a joke.....)

Very Fred West Mr Laid.

Fred West brought them home "

I used to have a twitter account called WestsSinisterShovel. It gave tips on body disposal and general gardening. All in good humour mind.

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Lure them to a remote location and bring a shovel and a bag of lime (note this is a joke.....) "

*****note to myself*****

when on a meet check out the size of the bag the other person is carrying and ask myself if a shovel and a bag of lime would fit in it....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you everyone for your most helpful advise, I have already put it in place and now will put this thread to bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As you know I rarely post a thread myself, although I have been known to add my two cents worth to other posts!

I have been having a wee problem and would love some help in solving it....

A certain fabber just will not go away, he hasn’t been abusive but he just doesn’t seem to get it! Once I deleted his message and he blocked me, I returned the favour and thought subject closed.... but no, he deleted his profile and created another, messaging me asking why I deleted him? I patiently explained that he deleted me in the first place but he refused to accept this, I told him “whatever” and said I would not be meeting him! Since then he has continued to message me, I have ignored his messages in the hope he will grt tired of it but he just won’t go away, each time I block him he deleted his profile and recreates anifher and just today asked me to join him and his lady friend in a hotel in Donegal! HELP!!!!! "

Block and report to Admin, if you know any details about him ie real life stuff, threaten to report him to Gardai, alternatively, name and shame in a status, cant abide that shite myself, no should mean no, this is sposed to be fun after all ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site supporter filter is good in this issue. Each time the idiot open's a new account he would have to pay to get around this filter. If they do become a site supporter than just block. It won't be long before he gives up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On other sites it's called creating sock puppet accounts and is considered a very serious breach of terms of use so you are right to be concerned. For some reason fab dosent take it that seriously. Perhaps it's because it's so easy to create a new account.

People like that tend to crave attention. If you simply block each new account he will eventually lose interest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you guys for you insight.... I appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ignore few deep breaths and realax .

Above advice aswel stricter fillters for awhile most probably help .

I have a issue males messaging me so I just block them now.

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