FabSwingers.com forum: Why guys post those type of pics

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's with total bewilderment I see guys on here with single profiles and pics of them getting a blowjob or fucking another girl. Ladies surly this is not gonna aide there cause in attracting a reply or am I that out of touch at my age.?

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I tend to keep away from them profiles and if there's numerous pics with different women well good luck in the cup with that.....!!!!

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

"I tend to keep away from them profiles and if there's numerous pics with different women well good luck in the cup with that.....!!!!"
me too in fact I keep away from all guys profiles

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I tend to keep away from them profiles and if there's numerous pics with different women well good luck in the cup with that.....!!!! me too in fact I keep away from all guys profiles

Like this one lol

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I'm sure they think it is kinda better than a verification. Shows they've successfully met and consummated as it were.

At least you can tell if they play safe or not.

Not for me but I assume that's their reasoning.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"I tend to keep away from them profiles and if there's numerous pics with different women well good luck in the cup with that.....!!!!"

Maybe I ask why u tend to stay away from those profiles

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

At least keep something's private I don't want to see a photo album of women sucking on his cock or him inside a half dozen women....

Same goes for women I don't like to see a half dozen pics with different lads inside of her.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"At least keep something's private I don't want to see a photo album of women sucking on his cock or him inside a half dozen women....

Same goes for women I don't like to see a half dozen pics with different lads inside of her....."

That's why I posted this thread because I was thinking along those lines.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fairness quite a few ladies put these kind of pics up. Not that I’m judging anyone

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"In fairness quite a few ladies put these kind of pics up. Not that I’m judging anyone

Anything for a fab to get them on the hot pic list....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In fairness quite a few ladies put these kind of pics up. Not that I’m judging anyone

Well maybe in the interest of equality I should have posted it as single profiles in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's with total bewilderment I see guys on here with single profiles and pics of them getting a blowjob or fucking another girl. Ladies surly this is not gonna aide there cause in attracting a reply or am I that out of touch at my age.?"

Such a turn off!!!!

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I don't really see the problem as long as the second party involved agreed with it and the profile owner is to a good extent in the pic too.

After all it's a swingers site, so it can be assumed that active swingers won't just hold hands with each other and yes have sex with several partners.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

I don't understand the logic of this.

You're on a swingers site where most members have had quite a few partners yet you don't like pics of it.

Is it a case of "If I don't see it then it doesn't happen??"

Doesn't make any sense to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who are single staight guys meant to fuck and get blow jobs from like when u read a profile and there is things not for u in it read or look and move on their profile there pics as long as they have the ladys consent

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"I don't really see the problem as long as the second party involved agreed with it and the profile owner is to a good extent in the pic too.

After all it's a swingers site, so it can be assumed that active swingers won't just hold hands with each other and yes have sex with several partners.

That's true I just don't want to see it in great detail it's the same as pussy profile pics I'm sure we've seen more than her gynocologists has.

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

It's not my favourite thing to see, but everyone is different. However, I always take a close look to see if he's wearing a condom

And if not, then I'm probably done talking to him. I will say exactly that, too. And usually it's like, Oh that's my ex girlfriend, it's okay!!! Oh right, so she knows her fanny is up on Fab? Either way, I'm not impressed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it's gloating plain and simple and as I've said before if ye have a fone in your hand and me in the other I'm walking away I've no interest in someone who isn't focused on my pleasure in that moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really see the problem as long as the second party involved agreed with it and the profile owner is to a good extent in the pic too.

After all it's a swingers site, so it can be assumed that active swingers won't just hold hands with each other and yes have sex with several partners.

That's true I just don't want to see it in great detail it's the same as pussy profile pics I'm sure we've seen more than her gynocologists has."

Dont get the pussy pics either but obviously some people like them as they get fabbed a lot.

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Nope not in to seeing a pic on a single Male profile with 90% of it is some female and the end of his cock stuck in her somewhere.

I’d rather just see some of him, ideally a normal non sex act pic. It’s whats attached to the cock I’m interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some guys just like to look at their own pics, pleased to see themselves in action and proud of their conquests.

Also when you know the guy in the pic is so good you'll overlook all his pics lol

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

What if a couple have met a single guy done a few pics and shared them with said single guy

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick

I have some sex pics up for friends. I like taking them.

Each to their own.

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

"I have some sex pics up for friends. I like taking them.

Each to their own."

Exactly

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By *oisyoctopusWoman
over a year ago

Drogheda

My pics are my business, other people's pics are theirs. I've enjoyed sessions where pics were taken, it's not necessarily a distraction but rather another pleasurable aspect of the event.

I'll admit I like to play spot the condom on pics, gives me an idea of who actually plays safer rather than just saying they do.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Yes OP .. I find it off putting too .

Some folk have no respect for others , let alone them selves , therefore I will just pass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sher why should it matter.

If the guy was unprotected then that is more worrying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a sex site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dead right!

Evidence that you are attractive enough to get attractive partners is just another way to verify yourself!

It sorts you out from the hopeless wankers.

Said the guy with only pics of himself in his profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are folk saying its a swingers site or a sex site yeh it is it's not a porn site. For me to see some bloke with his cock down some woman neck is a huge turn off. Whats the point in it. Yeh you got a blow job big deal. So ill take a photo of it to show I'm a real man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are folk saying its a swingers site or a sex site yeh it is it's not a porn site. For me to see some bloke with his cock down some woman neck is a huge turn off. Whats the point in it. Yeh you got a blow job big deal. So ill take a photo of it to show I'm a real man. "

Well said girl

Massive turn off for me too

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By *he Kinky KinksCouple
over a year ago

Dublin-Kildare

Join Facebook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One man's meat is another man's poison

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Join Facebook."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it is a turn off don't look.

If it is a turn on look.

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick

"If it is a turn off don't look.

If it is a turn on look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The point of it is many people like voyeurism and exibitionism. Check the list of kink preferences available on fabs. Saying 'what's the point' is narrow minded IMO. People join fabs for any or all of those preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its just my point of view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its just my point of view"

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

I love apple tarts but I hate rhubarb tarts so should I condemn people who like rhubarb tarts because they have different tastes to me? No I shouldn't I should let them enjoy their tart while I enjoy mine,this also works with vanilla ice cream and neapolitan ice cream by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love apple tarts but I hate rhubarb tarts so should I condemn people who like rhubarb tarts because they have different tastes to me? No I shouldn't I should let them enjoy their tart while I enjoy mine,this also works with vanilla ice cream and neapolitan ice cream by the way

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By *addy36Man
over a year ago

Mayo

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I like apple and rhubarb tart with ice cream on top of it!

I know I'm greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like tarts

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I like apple and rhubarb tart with ice cream on top of it!

I know I'm greedy

The tart has to be warm for me and yes on top for me as well

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

do all the eye rolls you wish to do but my analogy works on sooooooooooo many levels because I FRICKIN ROCK!!!!!!

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By *BelfastGuyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Like a catch 22 in here.

Dammed if you don't dammed if you do.

How do you get verified?

Is coffee enough?

What frightens me is the lack of cover.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Exactly this .... a gent at last

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said girl

Massive turn off for me too "

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By *BelfastGuyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

All seems like a Kodak moment rather than being in the moment and enjoying it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps the people involved both get off on it? I don't see the issue at all as long as its balanced out by decent solo pics etc

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Perhaps the people involved both get off on it? I don't see the issue at all as long as its balanced out by decent solo pics etc"

To me, if it's a single guy, I'm on his profile to find out about him, not who he threw it into last weekend, lol! I could understand having those pictures on a couple's profile because, well it's two people

But everyone is different and obviously your going to attract people that are turned on by those pictures, that's what you want. And at the end of the day that's all it is, an advertisement about who you are directed at who you want to attract. You are right though, they definitely need to be balanced out with solo pics

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By *reatusernameMan
over a year ago

naas

There are many things that I like and dislike and they're just personal preferences not rules for others. But I wouldn't assume that these photos are put up as trophies of conquest or bragging rights. I have had photos taken of myself and when I see them posted (with my consent) I find it a sexy reminder that myself and the poster enjoyed. And the many who fabbed it limed it too. Swinging is about trying something different and pushing your boundaries and preferences with like minded people. Its a journey of discovery. If I was dating in the outside world, I wouldn't want to see lots of pics on the fireplace of my partner having sex, but on a swingers site? I'm not offended at all. And if i was, I'd move to the next profile. Theres plenty of choice for everyone, no matter what your taste.

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

"There are many things that I like and dislike and they're just personal preferences not rules for others. But I wouldn't assume that these photos are put up as trophies of conquest or bragging rights. I have had photos taken of myself and when I see them posted (with my consent) I find it a sexy reminder that myself and the poster enjoyed. And the many who fabbed it limed it too. Swinging is about trying something different and pushing your boundaries and preferences with like minded people. Its a journey of discovery. If I was dating in the outside world, I wouldn't want to see lots of pics on the fireplace of my partner having sex, but on a swingers site? I'm not offended at all. And if i was, I'd move to the next profile. Theres plenty of choice for everyone, no matter what your taste.

Exactly! As I said, I wouldn't be turned on by those pictures but that's okay because they probably aren't looking for me, you know? They will attract someone they would be interested in. And isn't that what we all want?

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By *arkseductionMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

I really don’t see the problem with them. I have pics like that up on my profile and ppl have me on there profile too.. this is not plenty of fish or Tinder.. this is an adult site for swinging and hookups... so I think people can show what ever they like. This pics are checked before they can appear on profile.. if u don’t like it don’t look atol.. each to their own !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am laughing at so many of you thinking such pics are put up to boost guy’s ego. Haha. It’s awful as of how many of you will always assume the worst (especially about single lads). And why do you think your opinion matters to anyone? Isn’t it better to focus on your own profiles and just run them in the way you want it? I think your critique speaks volumes of you rather than the profiles you are commenting on.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Putting up a pic of you and a girl increases your chance of getting a meet by about 1000 fold.

That's why guys will make public pics from women who do not even talk to them anymore. Cause it works.

To put it simply, it shows you are real with your veries and you will meet and have sex with your photos. Think women on here want more than that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same thing gets said about guys putting up cock pics and you would think no woman wants to see them yet they seem to fab very well according to hot pics

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

"The same thing gets said about guys putting up cock pics and you would think no woman wants to see them yet they seem to fab very well according to hot pics "

Although a lot of the fabs are from guys, a lot of women fab cock pics too, and will meet guys with nothing but cock pics.

When a girl on here says she wont meet a married man, or a guy with cock pics, or a guy with only cock pics etc.

What they really mean to say is "In general its easier to chat to me if your profile is normal, and I will only talk to the odd cock pic, and the odd married man".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I'm old fashioned but I'm of the opinion what goes on between people is exactly that and should only be shared if both decide to share on there respective profiles. It might be a swing site as such, but a little respect goes a lot further than any photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a sex site. "

No it's not

We just swing... I've the straps and ropes if you don't believe me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The same thing gets said about guys putting up cock pics and you would think no woman wants to see them yet they seem to fab very well according to hot pics "

Isn't there someone on here who puts up a show your cock post on a weekly basis. Quite a few women join in on it too I think.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"The same thing gets said about guys putting up cock pics and you would think no woman wants to see them yet they seem to fab very well according to hot pics

Isn't there someone on here who puts up a show your cock post on a weekly basis. Quite a few women join in on it too I think.

That's a bit unfair don't you think?. There s a big difference between a bit of banter on the forums and seeing someone balls deep in someone. Like most have said it's a preference. Some like it some dont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The same thing gets said about guys putting up cock pics and you would think no woman wants to see them yet they seem to fab very well according to hot pics

Isn't there someone on here who puts up a show your cock post on a weekly basis. Quite a few women join in on it too I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The same thing gets said about guys putting up cock pics and you would think no woman wants to see them yet they seem to fab very well according to hot pics

Isn't there someone on here who puts up a show your cock post on a weekly basis. Quite a few women join in on it too I think.

Some would say double standards but maybe not. I guess I see banter as fun but not seen that on here...Maybe those who said they don't like it on here were just unsure as to what they mean.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

I suppose the simplest solution for people who don't like said photos is go to a genetics lab have your DNA sampled have said DNA cloned,grow another version of yourselves place your other self on a table or wall etc then proceed to get over yourselves and let others who don't mind such photos do what they please on this site.

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

FFS diversity man! Where's the custard

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

Folk's this place is like one big happy hospital...some are in the gynae ward, some are in ICU, some are in the psych ward and some are unlos... visitors wandering the corridors looking for the exit.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

FFS diversity man! Where's the custard

OK I gotta confess,that wasn't custard

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

FFS diversity man! Where's the custard

OK I gotta confess,that wasn't custard

Most definitely wasn't vanilla

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"I suppose the simplest solution for people who don't like said photos is go to a genetics lab have your DNA sampled have said DNA cloned,grow another version of yourselves place your other self on a table or wall etc then proceed to get over yourselves and let others who don't mind such photos do what they please on this site."

I preferred your tart analogy. Tart for everyone I say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let them eat Tart!

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

like everything on here everyone has different tastes. I think male or female pictures with a bit of class are so much sexier. Its whats left to the imagination that thrils

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

I preferred your tart analogy. Tart for everyone I say.

I will serve tart to everyone that gets over themselves

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