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"Personally I would run a mile from such OTT behaviour. Sounds clingy and controlling." Clingy - yes! Controlling - no! | |||
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"Personally I would run a mile from such OTT behaviour. Sounds clingy and controlling." She isnt coming across as controlling to be honest! Not yet at least! Shes just too in to me if that even makes sense! Like the girl worships me like i have never experienced before! Its just becoming too over bearing and its making me lose interest! If i told her to ANYTHING id say she would just to please me! Its crazy! Am i weird for not taking advantage and finding this off putting or is she the weird one? Iam confused ha | |||
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"Ok so recently i started seeing someone. We arent exclusive or anything but have met a few times. Lately iam finding that she seems to think the sun shines out my ass. Like the girl literally thinks i have the best cock ever. Am the nicest person ever and she forever keeps telling me how she has no interest in any other guy and even the guys she used to find attractive are no longer attractive to her. I can understand she obviously likes me and perhaps i should be happy right? But iam not ha Iam actually finding this a huge turn off and its beginning to irritate me ? Has anyone else ever been in this situation and how did ye deal with it? I personally have never had a woman so in to me and i kinda feel i should be happy about that as i do like the girl but its having the opposite effect and iam losing interest! I have told her about this btw and she just says "iam italian, italian woman are like this" I know her about 2 weeks and shes already offering to bloody make me lunch for work and cook dinners for me an everything! Its nuts lol" it sounds like she likes what she sees "and feels lol" and offering to make lunch etc maybe she's vying for girlfriend status perhaps? | |||
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"Personally I would run a mile from such OTT behaviour. Sounds clingy and controlling. She isnt coming across as controlling to be honest! Not yet at least! Shes just too in to me if that even makes sense! Like the girl worships me like i have never experienced before! Its just becoming too over bearing and its making me lose interest! If i told her to ANYTHING id say she would just to please me! Its crazy! Am i weird for not taking advantage and finding this off putting or is she the weird one? Iam confused ha " Your instincts are telling you that such neediness isn't entirely healthy. Someone who will do literally anything to please you sounds a bit desperate, don't they? | |||
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"Many women get feelings for people or maybe want gf status but they dont worship the ground you walk on! Its just way over the top! I cant help but feel the girl would fall head over heels in love with anyone to be honest! I mean who the hell behaves like they are in love with you after knowing you for 2/3 days " maybe she's only had assholes for bfs before but it's important that you either walk away now or tell her how she's coming across, it would be worse to say/do nothing | |||
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"Has anyone else ever been in this situation and how did ye deal with it? " You get used to it happening ![]() | |||
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" Am i weird for not taking advantage and finding this off putting or is she the weird one? Iam confused ha " Not weird at all.... Not taking advantage is just being a decent person. If your not as in to it talk to her about it. Explain your feelings and why you think you feel that way. Maybe some of it is cultural but maybe some is not and she can tone it down ... But best to talk and be honest | |||
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"Ok so recently i started seeing someone. We arent exclusive or anything but have met a few times. Lately iam finding that she seems to think the sun shines out my ass. Like the girl literally thinks i have the best cock ever. Am the nicest person ever and she forever keeps telling me how she has no interest in any other guy and even the guys she used to find attractive are no longer attractive to her. I can understand she obviously likes me and perhaps i should be happy right? But iam not ha Iam actually finding this a huge turn off and its beginning to irritate me ? Has anyone else ever been in this situation and how did ye deal with it? I personally have never had a woman so in to me and i kinda feel i should be happy about that as i do like the girl but its having the opposite effect and iam losing interest! I have told her about this btw and she just says "iam italian, italian woman are like this" I know her about 2 weeks and shes already offering to bloody make me lunch for work and cook dinners for me an everything! Its nuts lol" Let's hope she dies not read your post | |||
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