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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so recently i started seeing someone. We arent exclusive or anything but have met a few times.

Lately iam finding that she seems to think the sun shines out my ass. Like the girl literally thinks i have the best cock ever. Am the nicest person ever and she forever keeps telling me how she has no interest in any other guy and even the guys she used to find attractive are no longer attractive to her.

I can understand she obviously likes me and perhaps i should be happy right? But iam not ha Iam actually finding this a huge turn off and its beginning to irritate me ?

Has anyone else ever been in this situation and how did ye deal with it?

I personally have never had a woman so in to me and i kinda feel i should be happy about that as i do like the girl but its having the opposite effect and iam losing interest!

I have told her about this btw and she just says "iam italian, italian woman are like this"

I know her about 2 weeks and shes already offering to bloody make me lunch for work and cook dinners for me an everything! Its nuts lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I would run a mile from such OTT behaviour. Sounds clingy and controlling.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

Ask for your credit card back lol

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By *lack_diamond30Man
over a year ago

City


"Personally I would run a mile from such OTT behaviour. Sounds clingy and controlling."

Clingy - yes! Controlling - no!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I would run a mile from such OTT behaviour. Sounds clingy and controlling."

She isnt coming across as controlling to be honest! Not yet at least! Shes just too in to me if that even makes sense!

Like the girl worships me like i have never experienced before! Its just becoming too over bearing and its making me lose interest!

If i told her to ANYTHING id say she would just to please me! Its crazy! Am i weird for not taking advantage and finding this off putting or is she the weird one? Iam confused ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ask for your credit card back lol "

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By *ry-AngleWoman
over a year ago

Wexford


"Ok so recently i started seeing someone. We arent exclusive or anything but have met a few times.

Lately iam finding that she seems to think the sun shines out my ass. Like the girl literally thinks i have the best cock ever. Am the nicest person ever and she forever keeps telling me how she has no interest in any other guy and even the guys she used to find attractive are no longer attractive to her.

I can understand she obviously likes me and perhaps i should be happy right? But iam not ha Iam actually finding this a huge turn off and its beginning to irritate me ?

Has anyone else ever been in this situation and how did ye deal with it?

I personally have never had a woman so in to me and i kinda feel i should be happy about that as i do like the girl but its having the opposite effect and iam losing interest!

I have told her about this btw and she just says "iam italian, italian woman are like this"

I know her about 2 weeks and shes already offering to bloody make me lunch for work and cook dinners for me an everything! Its nuts lol"
it sounds like she likes what she sees "and feels lol" and offering to make lunch etc maybe she's vying for girlfriend status perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like she has developed feelings for u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the felling isnt mutual .it might be better to call ut a day sooner rather than later for both yer sakes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Many women get feelings for people or maybe want gf status but they dont worship the ground you walk on! Its just way over the top!

I cant help but feel the girl would fall head over heels in love with anyone to be honest! I mean who the hell behaves like they are in love with you after knowing you for 2/3 days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I would run a mile from such OTT behaviour. Sounds clingy and controlling.

She isnt coming across as controlling to be honest! Not yet at least! Shes just too in to me if that even makes sense!

Like the girl worships me like i have never experienced before! Its just becoming too over bearing and its making me lose interest!

If i told her to ANYTHING id say she would just to please me! Its crazy! Am i weird for not taking advantage and finding this off putting or is she the weird one? Iam confused ha "

Your instincts are telling you that such neediness isn't entirely healthy. Someone who will do literally anything to please you sounds a bit desperate, don't they?

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By *BelfastGuyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Sounds a bit needy.

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By *ry-AngleWoman
over a year ago

Wexford

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By *ry-AngleWoman
over a year ago

Wexford

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By *ry-AngleWoman
over a year ago

Wexford


"Many women get feelings for people or maybe want gf status but they dont worship the ground you walk on! Its just way over the top!

I cant help but feel the girl would fall head over heels in love with anyone to be honest! I mean who the hell behaves like they are in love with you after knowing you for 2/3 days "
maybe she's only had assholes for bfs before but it's important that you either walk away now or tell her how she's coming across, it would be worse to say/do nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone else ever been in this situation and how did ye deal with it? "

You get used to it happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit too much after a couple of weeks. If you felt the same way, all well and good, but you don't. You need to tell her she's smothering you. It may well just be how she is, but if she persists you're going to get fed up fast and possibly say something in the heat of the moment that could hurt her badly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mind your bunny rabbit

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By *it_tribesmanMan
over a year ago

Galway

I agree with alot of the comments above but sometimes you need to just go with the flow a little bit for a few more weeks to see if things improve or you get used to her personality. Over thinking things sometimes isn't great....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Am i weird for not taking advantage and finding this off putting or is she the weird one? Iam confused ha "

Not weird at all.... Not taking advantage is just being a decent person.

If your not as in to it talk to her about it. Explain your feelings and why you think you feel that way. Maybe some of it is cultural but maybe some is not and she can tone it down ... But best to talk and be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmmmm

Can't say what I want to say as the forum police would jump straight onto me !!

Hmmmmmm

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

You need to talk to her op. Its obviously bothering you if you started a thread about it. She does sound a little needy though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmmmm

Can't say what I want to say as the forum police would jump straight onto me !!

Hmmmmmm "

Are they not an open platform? OP was looking for advice, every little helps..

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Hmmmmmm

Can't say what I want to say as the forum police would jump straight onto me !!

Hmmmmmm "

F them... say what ya like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmmmm

Can't say what I want to say as the forum police would jump straight onto me !!

Hmmmmmm

F them... say what ya like. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this on here, in real life r 'fet'?

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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago

Louth/Meath/Dublin

Tell her you're on a swingers site. See what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

petal,if you're uncomfortable then block! surely you know this is an option!not going to improve!

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Tell her you're on a swingers site. See what happens. "

this. She may be able to spread her enthusiasm for you a little wider/thinner. Could work out very well.

If not, I'd be in the sit her down, talk to her camp. Tell her that you are not used to a woman coming on so strong. Do say you are taken by it but that she needs to tone it down, as you are feeling a little strange about it.

Gotta ask though, have you been in love before, or been with someone who was in love with you? Is this the same, or ramped up a lot more than you believe reasonable.

Also, has being on Fab changed how you view this perhaps?

Genuine questions, I'm not having a dig or anything.

I've been where you are and I called a halt to it because I couldn't understand or put up with it. Turns out I was correct to do so, for me, though I should say, she found a kindred spirit and they're happy out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She Sounds very sexy lad . If you don't want her send her my way . I'd love a kinky chick on the side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so recently i started seeing someone. We arent exclusive or anything but have met a few times.

Lately iam finding that she seems to think the sun shines out my ass. Like the girl literally thinks i have the best cock ever. Am the nicest person ever and she forever keeps telling me how she has no interest in any other guy and even the guys she used to find attractive are no longer attractive to her.

I can understand she obviously likes me and perhaps i should be happy right? But iam not ha Iam actually finding this a huge turn off and its beginning to irritate me ?

Has anyone else ever been in this situation and how did ye deal with it?

I personally have never had a woman so in to me and i kinda feel i should be happy about that as i do like the girl but its having the opposite effect and iam losing interest!

I have told her about this btw and she just says "iam italian, italian woman are like this"

I know her about 2 weeks and shes already offering to bloody make me lunch for work and cook dinners for me an everything! Its nuts lol"

Let's hope she dies not read your post

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