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Competition is enormous on here for older guys

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By *ack 188 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15

what's your thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think for guys in general not just older.....

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By *ack 188 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15


"I think for guys in general not just older....."

you have youth on your side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think for guys in general not just older.....

you have youth on your side "

Plenty of women won't meet guys under 30 or 35 so I wouldn't say youth is necessarily an advantage

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"I think for guys in general not just older.....

you have youth on your side

Plenty of women won't meet guys under 30 or 35 so I wouldn't say youth is necessarily an advantage"

Not all Hmmmmm x

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I think for guys in general not just older.....

you have youth on your side

Plenty of women won't meet guys under 30 or 35 so I wouldn't say youth is necessarily an advantage

Not all Hmmmmm x"

That's actually all I'm looking for

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By *illium_cobblersMan
over a year ago

swords EI & Derby UK

Basically there are so many eejits that the large number of real guys are lost in the rush. Must be like a needle in a haystack for de ladies

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Only if u let it bother you I wouldn't worry about others only about myself

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By *ack 188 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15

The ladies are missing out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is only a number read profiles and only contact ladys loiking for your age group there is plenty out there that likes older men

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

If I have trouble getting sex, you lot are fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all there is lots on fab that like different things we might have to put more effort in but thats part of the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it all depends on the person themselves and some luck. I've seen beautiful women who would have queues a mile long just to carry their bags while they go shopping with verifications from older men who wouldn't be in the best shape or anything really standing out about them but maybe they're 10 times smarter, funnier and more charming than most in person or via text.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I don't have any problems . I have one or two friends .

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"what's your thoughts? "

Probably but I don't really care - it's not like this place is important in the scheme of things....

Can't understand why people get so het up over an internet site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's a hard old slog alright

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think for guys in general not just older.....

you have youth on your side

Plenty of women won't meet guys under 30 or 35 so I wouldn't say youth is necessarily an advantage

Not all Hmmmmm x

That's actually all I'm looking for "
wink wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All a load of balls - I wonder if people seem to approach this place wrong ?

Amazing where decent conversation gets you - a bit like real life ......

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I dunno OP. I think there are all sorts of people on here who like all different kinds of people and ages.

My partner C actually prefers fun with older men.

Everybody is different. To each their own.

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By *elticfire555Man
over a year ago

Westmeath

Survival of the fittest.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take any of it too seriously OP and it'll happen for you. There's lots who only want to meet older guys for numerous reasons. Being selective isn't a bad thing.

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By *ustjon1950Man
over a year ago

DUBLIN

Wait until you get to my age lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait until you get to my age lol"

Good for you.. bet your getting plenty of fun here

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I'm so great that I have zero competition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Competition is good it keeps us young u have to think outside the box excuse the pun

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By *ustjon1950Man
over a year ago

DUBLIN


"Wait until you get to my age lol

Good for you.. bet your getting plenty of fun here. i wish lol"

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown

If you are nice and polite you will get meets, keep asking and you never know your luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the sound of that! ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The effort u put in reflects the rewards ye take out I've seen just normal looking guys and gals having plenty of sex in clubs anyway so how involved are u cos sitting behind the screen of your laptop or fone won't get ye far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say the majority of members both male and female are over 30. Very few young women in particular here. I recently joined fet and was surprised to find there is far more younger women on fet then on fab and no disrespect but the people on fet are far more chatty and likely to reply then on here.

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By *BelfastGuyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Guys in general.

Male to female ratio crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say the majority of members both male and female are over 30. Very few young women in particular here. I recently joined fet and was surprised to find there is far more younger women on fet then on fab and no disrespect but the people on fet are far more chatty and likely to reply then on here. "

But yet here you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say the majority of members both male and female are over 30. Very few young women in particular here. I recently joined fet and was surprised to find there is far more younger women on fet then on fab and no disrespect but the people on fet are far more chatty and likely to reply then on here.

But yet here you are "

I expected someone to say that haha Can i not use both sites no? Just because i prefer one over the other doesn't mean i should leave the other does it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say the majority of members both male and female are over 30. Very few young women in particular here. I recently joined fet and was surprised to find there is far more younger women on fet then on fab and no disrespect but the people on fet are far more chatty and likely to reply then on here.

But yet here you are

I expected someone to say that haha Can i not use both sites no? Just because i prefer one over the other doesn't mean i should leave the other does it?"

No not at all you can use any site you wish I just felt I had to say it....i got an urge I couldn't resist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say the majority of members both male and female are over 30. Very few young women in particular here. I recently joined fet and was surprised to find there is far more younger women on fet then on fab and no disrespect but the people on fet are far more chatty and likely to reply then on here.

But yet here you are "

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

It does feel at time like the older I get, the more I fall outside people's filters, but that's life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it all depends on the person themselves and some luck. I've seen beautiful women who would have queues a mile long just to carry their bags while they go shopping with verifications from older men who wouldn't be in the best shape or anything really standing out about them but maybe they're 10 times smarter, funnier and more charming than most in person or via text. "

This is true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say the majority of members both male and female are over 30. Very few young women in particular here. I recently joined fet and was surprised to find there is far more younger women on fet then on fab and no disrespect but the people on fet are far more chatty and likely to reply then on here.

But yet here you are "

Kinda typical response. Cheap dig that reflects alot on here.

OP many don't like being compared to others and least of all if their group isn't seen as better. Ignore them. There are some who find different sites provide better results for different things. Some find POF better than here, others mock them. Doesn't mean it isn't true....Just they just go on the defensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say the majority of members both male and female are over 30. Very few young women in particular here. I recently joined fet and was surprised to find there is far more younger women on fet then on fab and no disrespect but the people on fet are far more chatty and likely to reply then on here.

But yet here you are

Kinda typical response. Cheap dig that reflects alot on here.

OP many don't like being compared to others and least of all if their group isn't seen as better. Ignore them. There are some who find different sites provide better results for different things. Some find POF better than here, others mock them. Doesn't mean it isn't true....Just they just go on the defensive.

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Well that put me in my box.

Didn't mean any offence OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It does feel at time like the older I get, the more I fall outside people's filters, but that's life. "

Theyre getting older at the same rate as us both mate... Some look like it's faster mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say the majority of members both male and female are over 30. Very few young women in particular here. I recently joined fet and was surprised to find there is far more younger women on fet then on fab and no disrespect but the people on fet are far more chatty and likely to reply then on here. "

I do find fet has younger age group too and men probably get more of a response.

On here to me age doesn't matter really its more about how they can make me tick in messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say the majority of members both male and female are over 30. Very few young women in particular here. I recently joined fet and was surprised to find there is far more younger women on fet then on fab and no disrespect but the people on fet are far more chatty and likely to reply then on here.

But yet here you are

Kinda typical response. Cheap dig that reflects alot on here.

OP many don't like being compared to others and least of all if their group isn't seen as better. Ignore them. There are some who find different sites provide better results for different things. Some find POF better than here, others mock them. Doesn't mean it isn't true....Just they just go on the defensive.

Well that put me in my box.

Didn't mean any offence OP "

No offense intended but there's a lot of that about on here. Fair play to hold your had up without more.

Respect mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say the majority of members both male and female are over 30. Very few young women in particular here. I recently joined fet and was surprised to find there is far more younger women on fet then on fab and no disrespect but the people on fet are far more chatty and likely to reply then on here.

But yet here you are

Kinda typical response. Cheap dig that reflects alot on here.

OP many don't like being compared to others and least of all if their group isn't seen as better. Ignore them. There are some who find different sites provide better results for different things. Some find POF better than here, others mock them. Doesn't mean it isn't true....Just they just go on the defensive.

Well that put me in my box.

Didn't mean any offence OP

No offense intended but there's a lot of that about on here. Fair play to hold your had up without more.

Respect mate

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And I'm not a fan of the blatant putting down of other users on the forums but the fingers often type faster than the head thinks haha

Also being a smart ass is hard to fight....

What is this fet anywho?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dissagree. Women are looking for younger bulls.the think older are not able to stay the course.how wrong are the

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think age comes into it..number 1 stand out from the crowd..number 2 have patience..number 3 don't be an eejit with your msgs..shouldn't be saying anything here that you wouldn't say to a woman face to face out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think age comes into it..number 1 stand out from the crowd..number 2 have patience..number 3 don't be an eejit with your msgs..shouldn't be saying anything here that you wouldn't say to a woman face to face out"

In a nutshell

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"what's your thoughts? "

I have to agree OP, the competition for older guys seems mental here.

The amount of women that have contacted me and then said "Oh you're not 50 til June? Aw well, was worth a try, I suppose I'll wait until after June then!"

The mind boggles. Like they wouldn't take a good wine if it hadn't hit just that peak and could taste the difference in a few months

I dunno, I guess my mailbox is gonna explode in early July and I may need a P.A. it seems. Hope she's good with her fingers

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By *BelfastGuyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Hang in there

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By *ack 188 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15

I think fab has changed since I joined over a year ago regarding older men.there's less ladies inclined to meet over fiftees!

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

Mrs prefers older men, all of her celeb crushes are older guys, robert redford, sean Connery etc

It just helps if the older guys are good looking!

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By *aythekiddMan
over a year ago

Carlow

I don't know if I agree OP, but then again I don't share your perspective.

Is this purely based on your own efforts and opinions or have you heard from others that share your circumstances?

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I don't know if I agree OP, but then again I don't share your perspective.

Is this purely based on your own efforts and opinions or have you heard from others that share your circumstances?"

Ah Jay! Sure you're only a gossin for god's sake

Perspective is key, as you mentioned.

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By *ttached70Man
over a year ago

Dublin

So true...far to many eejits on here just for their kicks and have no intention of meeting anyone. They spool it all for the few genuine people on here.

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By *eahawkerMan
over a year ago

Lucan

So much for the older the fiddle...the sweeter the tune..!!! )

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

Go the Social route OP. Once your verified then ask for an invite.

Great way of spreading the net to meet a lot of females.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"what's your thoughts? "
newsflash this isnt a competition lol

Some will like you some wont its as simple as that really

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By *BelfastGuyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Competition full stop.

To many men not enough women.

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By *ack 188 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15


"Competition full stop.

To many men not enough women. "

good reply

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin


"Competition full stop.

To many men not enough women.

good reply "
Stop complaining...it is what it is....be nice and pleasant and the odds don't come into play. Too many abusive gobshite men but not too many normal ones.

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Competition full stop.

To many men not enough women.

good reply Stop complaining...it is what it is....be nice and pleasant and the odds don't come into play. Too many abusive gobshite men but not too many normal ones."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Competition full stop.

To many men not enough women.

good reply Stop complaining...it is what it is....be nice and pleasant and the odds don't come into play. Too many abusive gobshite men but not too many normal ones."

Totally agree with you. Be nice and even if it takes forever to get your meet just enjoy the time.

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By *ack 188 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15


"Competition full stop.

To many men not enough women.

good reply Stop complaining...it is what it is....be nice and pleasant and the odds don't come into play. Too many abusive gobshite men but not too many normal ones."

there's nobody complaining that I've seen,it's just a question

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By *kmanMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

What is older...

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By *ack 188 OP   Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15


"Competition full stop.

To many men not enough women.

good reply Stop complaining...it is what it is....be nice and pleasant and the odds don't come into play. Too many abusive gobshite men but not too many normal ones.

"

I'm not desperate, it's a friendly thread,isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much guys vs women ratio.

But I tell you... The battle of the sexes was fought and lost a long time ago lads and we lost lol.

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