FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Ireland

Once off or repeat fun

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So what do ye like a good once off session or are ye more of a I liked it and want more of the same please cos ye see so many here for the I just want a regular fuck buddy . Would ye not be afraid of getting attached to the person ?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *0shades 2000Man
over a year ago

coleraine


"So what do ye like a good once off session or are ye more of a I liked it and want more of the same please cos ye see so many here for the I just want a regular fuck buddy . Would ye not be afraid of getting attached to the person ? "

Not if ground rules were laid out first.

Stick to the plan and nobody gets hurt.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"So what do ye like a good once off session or are ye more of a I liked it and want more of the same please cos ye see so many here for the I just want a regular fuck buddy . Would ye not be afraid of getting attached to the person ? "

I prefer an emotional connection. Not like falling in love or anything, but I really enjoy having some type of feelings for my partner. I like to call it a "lust crush" Hahaha! I love feeling those butterflies

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what do ye like a good once off session or are ye more of a I liked it and want more of the same please cos ye see so many here for the I just want a regular fuck buddy . Would ye not be afraid of getting attached to the person ? "

No I wouldn't be afraid of becoming attached to them - everybody knows what we are all on here for. Saying that though I do tend towards repeat meets ..... not too interested in one offs as a general rule.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can be a very detached person often told I'm abit matter or fact and cold so one off is not a big deal for me and bye then

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *BelfastGuyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Sex gets better as you get to know the other person.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

Yes I prefer a few repeats to see what we can find out about how the other enjoys it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeats, repeats, repeats. If it's working, why stop?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Repeats, repeats, repeats. If it's working, why stop?"
I agree.. repeats are great. You learn from repeating! The sex gets more comfortable when you get to know their likes and dislikes!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

Repeats. Please. Sex gets so much better as you get to know each other’s bodies.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Repeats. Please. Sex gets so much better as you get to know each other’s bodies. "

Totally agree

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

For me there has to be a spark there and a connection. I love to tease the mind and body and that makes things so much more intense but to do that there has to be that spark and repeat meets allow you to get to know someone so much more. Knowing how they like to be touched, how they like to be kissed and caressed. How they react to certain things more than others and pushing them more each time. But everyone likes what they like so find someone who you click with and respect each other and it should be so much fun and easy

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me there has to be a spark there and a connection. I love to tease the mind and body and that makes things so much more intense but to do that there has to be that spark and repeat meets allow you to get to know someone so much more. Knowing how they like to be touched, how they like to be kissed and caressed. How they react to certain things more than others and pushing them more each time. But everyone likes what they like so find someone who you click with and respect each other and it should be so much fun and easy"

Exactly this

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol guess I'll have to find someone to try repeat with

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Rather repeat meets . Hate once off meets . Some can be good but then again they can be bad .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex gets better as you get to know the other person. "

rowing in behind you here but that borders on sexual love which can lead to complications lots of discipline required!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *0shades 2000Man
over a year ago

coleraine


"Sex gets better as you get to know the other person.

rowing in behind you here but that borders on sexual love which can lead to complications lots of discipline required!"

100 percent agree!!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *BelfastGuyMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Sex gets better as you get to know the other person.

rowing in behind you here but that borders on sexual love which can lead to complications lots of discipline required!

100 percent agree!!! "

Need to set boundaries and detachment.

But sex is better the more you learn and experience.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I love repeats, you're more relaxed, know which buttons to press and you can push your borders further. However I like to throw in a new meet now and then to spice things up.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *BelfastGuyMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I love repeats, you're more relaxed, know which buttons to press and you can push your borders further. However I like to throw in a new meet now and then to spice things up. "

I totally agree

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *r_mrs_studmuffinCouple
over a year ago

narnia


"Sex gets better as you get to know the other person. "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ulu00Woman
over a year ago

Donegal

Im all about the repeat meet, nothing beats pushing your boundaries with someone you have that connection with

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I imagine a lot of guys are reading this thinking Repeats! One to start would be good

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ulu00Woman
over a year ago

Donegal


"I imagine a lot of guys are reading this thinking Repeats! One to start would be good "

I've given the odd newbie a chance, last one was and still is one of my fav wee meets

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I imagine a lot of guys are reading this thinking Repeats! One to start would be good

I've given the odd newbie a chance, last one was and still is one of my fav wee meets "

Well done Lulu. That's the Fab spirit

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ulu00Woman
over a year ago

Donegal


"I imagine a lot of guys are reading this thinking Repeats! One to start would be good

I've given the odd newbie a chance, last one was and still is one of my fav wee meets

Well done Lulu. That's the Fab spirit "

He has the right attitude and all the right skills lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I imagine a lot of guys are reading this thinking Repeats! One to start would be good

I've given the odd newbie a chance, last one was and still is one of my fav wee meets

Well done Lulu. That's the Fab spirit

He has the right attitude and all the right skills lol "

Which you wouldn't have discovered if you hadn't taken that chance

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ulu00Woman
over a year ago

Donegal


"I imagine a lot of guys are reading this thinking Repeats! One to start would be good

I've given the odd newbie a chance, last one was and still is one of my fav wee meets

Well done Lulu. That's the Fab spirit

He has the right attitude and all the right skills lol

Which you wouldn't have discovered if you hadn't taken that chance "

Yeah it really helped that his first meassage was "do you like my cock? I would destroy you" lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I imagine a lot of guys are reading this thinking Repeats! One to start would be good

I've given the odd newbie a chance, last one was and still is one of my fav wee meets

Well done Lulu. That's the Fab spirit

He has the right attitude and all the right skills lol

Which you wouldn't have discovered if you hadn't taken that chance

Yeah it really helped that his first meassage was "do you like my cock? I would destroy you" lol "

a charmer from the off

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ulu00Woman
over a year ago

Donegal


"I imagine a lot of guys are reading this thinking Repeats! One to start would be good

I've given the odd newbie a chance, last one was and still is one of my fav wee meets

Well done Lulu. That's the Fab spirit

He has the right attitude and all the right skills lol

Which you wouldn't have discovered if you hadn't taken that chance

Yeah it really helped that his first meassage was "do you like my cock? I would destroy you" lol

a charmer from the off "

Lol Nah im only messing in case he reads this, he's all about the respect so he is, one of Fabs good'uns

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I imagine a lot of guys are reading this thinking Repeats! One to start would be good

I've given the odd newbie a chance, last one was and still is one of my fav wee meets

Well done Lulu. That's the Fab spirit

He has the right attitude and all the right skills lol

Which you wouldn't have discovered if you hadn't taken that chance

Yeah it really helped that his first meassage was "do you like my cock? I would destroy you" lol

a charmer from the off

Lol Nah im only messing in case he reads this, he's all about the respect so he is, one of Fabs good'uns "

Good catch then

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Repeats. Please. Sex gets so much better as you get to know each other’s bodies. "

This

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeat

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeat meets too. I'm such a bundle of nerves on a first meet

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeat meets to get to know someone

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love repeats, you're more relaxed, know which buttons to press and you can push your borders further. However I like to throw in a new meet now and then to spice things up. "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love repeats, you're more relaxed, know which buttons to press and you can push your borders further. However I like to throw in a new meet now and then to spice things up. "

This is the perfect scenario

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeats ... more so because you've done the mundane chit chat ..checking if theres a spark .. i like to get straight down to business

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

I'm not on here to fall in love, it's Fab after all.

Once the sex is great for both, there's respect, humour and you like each other's personality ... You start to feel comfortable enough to push some boundaries.

That's why I'm here

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely repeat . If I do after a cpl of meets its like u know what's coming next

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"I love repeats, you're more relaxed, know which buttons to press and you can push your borders further. However I like to throw in a new meet now and then to spice things up. "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *BelfastGuyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

First time always hard and arkward.

You need to know what turns the other person on and what makes them tick.

Great learning and finding out thou

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think repeat wins the race then for sure

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I think repeat wins the race then for sure "

Each on their own. I'm sure there are quite a lot who prefer once off, which has advantages too, they might just not be posting

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like repeat meets as well to me its friendship as well as fun and its nice to catch up

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I enjoy repeat meets but unfortunately some times they just fizzled out and ye just have to move on!!!!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer once off meets ourselves -kinda like been there done that ,had fun and NEXT PLEASE .

Not that we haven't met the same people more than once but we wouldn't make a habit of it usually !

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love repeats, you're more relaxed, know which buttons to press and you can push your borders further. However I like to throw in a new meet now and then to spice things up. "

This sums it up. A new one off meet is a thrill but with a regular meet more boundaries get pushed as you get more comfortable with each other

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Definitely repeat meet. If you meet someone and you click, there's a spark and the sex is good why keep looking.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

Repeats..just gets better and better the more you know each others bodies

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *BelfastGuyMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Repeats..just gets better and better the more you know each others bodies "

All about discovery, exploring and learning.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *kblueeyesCouple
over a year ago

kilkenny


"Sex gets better as you get to know the other person. "

Every one more relaxed true

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *exysam and StuartCouple
over a year ago

over the hills and far away

If the meet was good we like repeat meets this leads to good friendships and better sex each time. You are more comfortable with the others to push your boundaries that bit more

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

Have you noticed how 99% of the posts here advocating repeat meets are from single men and women ?

Mr2-4

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you noticed how 99% of the posts here advocating repeat meets are from single men and women ?

Mr2-4 "

Not sure I agree - Four couples apart from your good selves have commented on this thread and three of them responded positively in relation to repeat meets

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

[Removed by poster at 06/02/18 20:59:44]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Have you noticed how 99% of the posts here advocating repeat meets are from single men and women ?

Mr2-4

Not sure I agree - Four couples apart from your good selves have commented on this thread and three of them responded positively in relation to repeat meets "

Dont get me wrong - not judging - just making an empirical comparison

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When ppl say they like to repeat how often would that be curious to see what the answers are ??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Have you noticed how 99% of the posts here advocating repeat meets are from single men and women ?

Mr2-4 "

And your point is?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top