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By *vpamela OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville

Mostly a question for the ladies but guys and tv

When you get a uninspiring message from an uninspiring profile do you tend to educate the person to cop on, improve their profile/photos etc or filter them out as unsuitable and block them?

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Depends on how I'm feeling I suppose. Sometimes I'm just sick of the same bullshit and I don't bother. Today I tried to educate a few times, but they never seem to get it lol, and that's frustrating. Mostly my issues are with guys expecting me to explain or validate my preferences.

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By *vpamela OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville


"Depends on how I'm feeling I suppose. Sometimes I'm just sick of the same bullshit and I don't bother. Today I tried to educate a few times, but they never seem to get it lol, and that's frustrating. Mostly my issues are with guys expecting me to explain or validate my preferences. "

On occasion, I would get messages from guys that obviously didn't bother to read my profile or their photos really sucked. I used to try to educate but now I just ignore and block straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mostly a question for the ladies but guys and tv

When you get a uninspiring message from an uninspiring profile do you tend to educate the person to cop on, improve their profile/photos etc or filter them out as unsuitable and block them? "

Neither, I just say I'm not interested, thank them for their message and wish them a good day. If I've already told them before, I just ignore them.

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Depends on how I'm feeling I suppose. Sometimes I'm just sick of the same bullshit and I don't bother. Today I tried to educate a few times, but they never seem to get it lol, and that's frustrating. Mostly my issues are with guys expecting me to explain or validate my preferences.

On occasion, I would get messages from guys that obviously didn't bother to read my profile or their photos really sucked. I used to try to educate but now I just ignore and block straight away."

It gets tiresome. I read your profile and you, much like myself are looking for more specific things and if people can't be bothered to read your profile then it's a bit of a lost cause to begin with. Also, some people will take the suggestions thankfully and some will just be bitter that they aren't what you want.

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Mostly a question for the ladies but guys and tv

When you get a uninspiring message from an uninspiring profile do you tend to educate the person to cop on, improve their profile/photos etc or filter them out as unsuitable and block them?

Neither, I just say I'm not interested, thank them for their message and wish them a good day. If I've already told them before, I just ignore them. "

I'm amazed at the amount of people that will send the same messages every few weeks and expect a different result!

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

I admit to educating, however I also admit to blocking if my advice is not followed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I be honest here if ur profile is like a big eassy most guys ant gonna read it anyways but u think like ur CV no one want a CV 6 pages long they just fun it in the bin just one tow pages but if u can fit it on one page it better that way same goes fr reading profiles if u want them to read it make it short and sweet ye women are just supper picky wen it come to single guys no one need to be education here either it a way of a lifestyle as some would say but at the end of the day it a sex site weather u like that word or not I u probably think ur better then me and make smart comments like but that OK I once had a load a verifications on here two but I can't believe how shit it gone now just ones I known here to are gone funny I won't say name but ur not the same!!!...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to go back to bed, I taught the title was ejaculate or block

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By *ndulgence18Couple
over a year ago

truro

Words are always nice... Get fed up with just receiving a cock Pic and being expected to answer

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I don’t educate anymore. I just say thanks for message but I’m not interested. I have too many other, well written thought out messages coming in to bother with people that can’t/won’t read a fairly short profile..

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Why educate? They don't ask for advise or tips so why should I patronise them? Besides that I've better things to do.

If they're not what I'm looking for they get a polite no thanks. That's it.

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By *kmanMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

I am fed up relying saying stop with the cock pics and please read my profile... and please o please stop offering me bj in the local tesco car park

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would I / should I reply to someone who’s profile or mail is uninspiring? If I did, then they doss up their profile and suddenly become ‘inspired’ however they are still uninspired. A polite thank you does no harm anyway. What’s that saying, “can’t make a silk purse out of a sows ear”. What gets me is the one line mail. Well it’s one line to me but five lines to the sender. It’s just I’m supposed to know where all the commas and full stops go. I read it over and over and by the tenth time it’s all starting to dawn on me.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

If I get a totally useless message with the usual like I want to fill you with my massive cock. Well I usually reply well once you find the massive cock do please get back to me but in the meantime please read my profile and you will see I’m not interested in single guys

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

An uninspiring, or rude message from a lack of effort profile by someone who hasn't bothered to read my profile doesn't get a reply from me.

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By *hoosyhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

any


"Depends on how I'm feeling I suppose. Sometimes I'm just sick of the same bullshit and I don't bother. Today I tried to educate a few times, but they never seem to get it lol, and that's frustrating. Mostly my issues are with guys expecting me to explain or validate my preferences. "

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I'm educating my children on how to cop on deal with situations. Certainly not going to on here with a adult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mostly a question for the ladies but guys and tv

When you get a uninspiring message from an uninspiring profile do you tend to educate the person to cop on, improve their profile/photos etc or filter them out as unsuitable and block them? "

I tend to say no thanks and forget it.

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