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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The swinging scene is relatively small, id imagine a lot of people know each other here, on this forum in particular.

My query is, would falling out with someone for whatever reason, put you off going to a club or an M&G, house party etc, have you passed up the opportunity of going to a social because you knew someone was going to be there, and in whose company you didn't want to be?

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

No because if it's a social plenty more people around I wouldn't let someone spoil my fun because I didn't get on with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No because if it's a social plenty more people around I wouldn't let someone spoil my fun because I didn't get on with them. "

Have to agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all adults and should act as such

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

No. You can't let one or a few tools ruin your fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are all adults and should act as such "

I agree, but reading some of the threads, we don't always behave like adults

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No because if it's a social plenty more people around I wouldn't let someone spoil my fun because I didn't get on with them.

Have to agree with this "

Me too... I'd just ignore them (I'm extremely good at ignoring people I don't like or they don't like me)

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

I might. It would depend on the situation. Just like in my regular life, if there was a person going to a party that I didn't want to see I'd probably skip it.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"The swinging scene is relatively small, id imagine a lot of people know each other here, on this forum in particular.

My query is, would falling out with someone for whatever reason, put you off going to a club or an M&G, house party etc, have you passed up the opportunity of going to a social because you knew someone was going to be there, and in whose company you didn't want to be?"

This has happened quite often in regards to a few women I know on here that stopped attending social events because of bitchiness from others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The swinging scene is relatively small, id imagine a lot of people know each other here, on this forum in particular.

My query is, would falling out with someone for whatever reason, put you off going to a club or an M&G, house party etc, have you passed up the opportunity of going to a social because you knew someone was going to be there, and in whose company you didn't want to be?

This has happened quite often in regards to a few women I know on here that stopped attending social events because of bitchiness from others. "

That's a shame really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The swinging scene is relatively small, id imagine a lot of people know each other here, on this forum in particular.

My query is, would falling out with someone for whatever reason, put you off going to a club or an M&G, house party etc, have you passed up the opportunity of going to a social because you knew someone was going to be there, and in whose company you didn't want to be?

This has happened quite often in regards to a few women I know on here that stopped attending social events because of bitchiness from others.

That's a shame really "

And silly! Socials are big enough to keep distance from people you don't get along, now if there is too much people "bitchining" about you, well something else must be goin on.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"The swinging scene is relatively small, id imagine a lot of people know each other here, on this forum in particular.

My query is, would falling out with someone for whatever reason, put you off going to a club or an M&G, house party etc, have you passed up the opportunity of going to a social because you knew someone was going to be there, and in whose company you didn't want to be?

This has happened quite often in regards to a few women I know on here that stopped attending social events because of bitchiness from others. "

Wasn't there a brawl at a social a while back organised by a group that I think are called the loopys.

This stopped a few people going to socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The swinging scene is relatively small, id imagine a lot of people know each other here, on this forum in particular.

My query is, would falling out with someone for whatever reason, put you off going to a club or an M&G, house party etc, have you passed up the opportunity of going to a social because you knew someone was going to be there, and in whose company you didn't want to be?

This has happened quite often in regards to a few women I know on here that stopped attending social events because of bitchiness from others.

Wasn't there a brawl at a social a while back organised by a group that I think are called the loopys.

This stopped a few people going to socials."

Know them... And to be honest mostly of them very friendly bunch!!! Actually miss some of them at the few last socials I attended

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"The swinging scene is relatively small, id imagine a lot of people know each other here, on this forum in particular.

My query is, would falling out with someone for whatever reason, put you off going to a club or an M&G, house party etc, have you passed up the opportunity of going to a social because you knew someone was going to be there, and in whose company you didn't want to be?

This has happened quite often in regards to a few women I know on here that stopped attending social events because of bitchiness from others.

Wasn't there a brawl at a social a while back organised by a group that I think are called the loopys.

This stopped a few people going to socials."

I would like to know where you got this information from. As part of the group i think you are referring to i can guarantee that not one member remembers being at a social and causing a brawl or stopping fellow members going to socials.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"The swinging scene is relatively small, id imagine a lot of people know each other here, on this forum in particular.

My query is, would falling out with someone for whatever reason, put you off going to a club or an M&G, house party etc, have you passed up the opportunity of going to a social because you knew someone was going to be there, and in whose company you didn't want to be?

This has happened quite often in regards to a few women I know on here that stopped attending social events because of bitchiness from others.

Wasn't there a brawl at a social a while back organised by a group that I think are called the loopys.

This stopped a few people going to socials.

I would like to know where you got this information from. As part of the group i think you are referring to i can guarantee that not one member remembers being at a social and causing a brawl or stopping fellow members going to socials. "
I am also part of the group toxic is on about. I too would like to know if you got the name wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The swinging scene is relatively small, id imagine a lot of people know each other here, on this forum in particular.

My query is, would falling out with someone for whatever reason, put you off going to a club or an M&G, house party etc, have you passed up the opportunity of going to a social because you knew someone was going to be there, and in whose company you didn't want to be?

This has happened quite often in regards to a few women I know on here that stopped attending social events because of bitchiness from others.

That's a shame really

And silly! Socials are big enough to keep distance from people you don't get along, now if there is too much people "bitchining" about you, well something else must be goin on.

One of the "other things" was a certain female who has a troupe of hangers on wanted to be with a certain male who in turn did not wish to be with her and preferred another. So certain female started spreading lies and innuendo along with her acolytes. That help any? "

^^^ sounds familiar

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"The swinging scene is relatively small, id imagine a lot of people know each other here, on this forum in particular.

My query is, would falling out with someone for whatever reason, put you off going to a club or an M&G, house party etc, have you passed up the opportunity of going to a social because you knew someone was going to be there, and in whose company you didn't want to be?

This has happened quite often in regards to a few women I know on here that stopped attending social events because of bitchiness from others.

Wasn't there a brawl at a social a while back organised by a group that I think are called the loopys.

This stopped a few people going to socials.

I would like to know where you got this information from. As part of the group i think you are referring to i can guarantee that not one member remembers being at a social and causing a brawl or stopping fellow members going to socials. I am also part of the group toxic is on about. I too would like to know if you got the name wrong. "

Relax. No need to be so defensive.

It's common knowledge. Maybe I have the name wrong. Maybe it's loolas they're called.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town


"The swinging scene is relatively small, id imagine a lot of people know each other here, on this forum in particular.

My query is, would falling out with someone for whatever reason, put you off going to a club or an M&G, house party etc, have you passed up the opportunity of going to a social because you knew someone was going to be there, and in whose company you didn't want to be?

This has happened quite often in regards to a few women I know on here that stopped attending social events because of bitchiness from others.

Wasn't there a brawl at a social a while back organised by a group that I think are called the loopys.

This stopped a few people going to socials.

I would like to know where you got this information from. As part of the group i think you are referring to i can guarantee that not one member remembers being at a social and causing a brawl or stopping fellow members going to socials. I am also part of the group toxic is on about. I too would like to know if you got the name wrong.

Relax. No need to be so defensive.

It's common knowledge. Maybe I have the name wrong. Maybe it's loolas they're called."
I would be defensive where my friends are concerned and as I'm part of a friendship that is beyond fab i would like to clear it up.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"The swinging scene is relatively small, id imagine a lot of people know each other here, on this forum in particular.

My query is, would falling out with someone for whatever reason, put you off going to a club or an M&G, house party etc, have you passed up the opportunity of going to a social because you knew someone was going to be there, and in whose company you didn't want to be?

This has happened quite often in regards to a few women I know on here that stopped attending social events because of bitchiness from others.

Wasn't there a brawl at a social a while back organised by a group that I think are called the loopys.

This stopped a few people going to socials.

I would like to know where you got this information from. As part of the group i think you are referring to i can guarantee that not one member remembers being at a social and causing a brawl or stopping fellow members going to socials. I am also part of the group toxic is on about. I too would like to know if you got the name wrong.

Relax. No need to be so defensive.

It's common knowledge. Maybe I have the name wrong. Maybe it's loolas they're called."

Common knowledge to everyone except the group you refer too......and anyone that knows our group will say the same. Youve been listening to the fab drums and cant back it up with any evidence. You havent even met any of us. Considering when we meet it is privately rented homes and only us there

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"The swinging scene is relatively small, id imagine a lot of people know each other here, on this forum in particular.

My query is, would falling out with someone for whatever reason, put you off going to a club or an M&G, house party etc, have you passed up the opportunity of going to a social because you knew someone was going to be there, and in whose company you didn't want to be?

This has happened quite often in regards to a few women I know on here that stopped attending social events because of bitchiness from others.

Wasn't there a brawl at a social a while back organised by a group that I think are called the loopys.

This stopped a few people going to socials.

I would like to know where you got this information from. As part of the group i think you are referring to i can guarantee that not one member remembers being at a social and causing a brawl or stopping fellow members going to socials. I am also part of the group toxic is on about. I too would like to know if you got the name wrong.

Relax. No need to be so defensive.

It's common knowledge. Maybe I have the name wrong. Maybe it's loolas they're called.

Common knowledge to everyone except the group you refer too......and anyone that knows our group will say the same. Youve been listening to the fab drums and cant back it up with any evidence. You havent even met any of us. Considering when we meet it is privately rented homes and only us there "

I don't know who "us" is, so I cannot comment on that. Nobody said it was your group. You just pm'd me a different name of your group.

Now have an awesome day... I'm off out on a coffee meet.

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Drama and bitching puts me off big time. If I’m invited to an event where there are lots of unfriendly cliques (yes I said the word!!) then I’m outta there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The swinging scene is relatively small, id imagine a lot of people know each other here, on this forum in particular.

My query is, would falling out with someone for whatever reason, put you off going to a club or an M&G, house party etc, have you passed up the opportunity of going to a social because you knew someone was going to be there, and in whose company you didn't want to be?

This has happened quite often in regards to a few women I know on here that stopped attending social events because of bitchiness from others.

Wasn't there a brawl at a social a while back organised by a group that I think are called the loopys.

This stopped a few people going to socials.

I would like to know where you got this information from. As part of the group i think you are referring to i can guarantee that not one member remembers being at a social and causing a brawl or stopping fellow members going to socials. I am also part of the group toxic is on about. I too would like to know if you got the name wrong.

Relax. No need to be so defensive.

It's common knowledge. Maybe I have the name wrong. Maybe it's loolas they're called.

Common knowledge to everyone except the group you refer too......and anyone that knows our group will say the same. Youve been listening to the fab drums and cant back it up with any evidence. You havent even met any of us. Considering when we meet it is privately rented homes and only us there

I don't know who "us" is, so I cannot comment on that. Nobody said it was your group. You just pm'd me a different name of your group.

Now have an awesome day... I'm off out on a coffee meet."

Enjoy your coffee meet you have either been misinformed or names have been mixed up. If it has anything to do with a group of a similar name as you stated.. The only social ever organised was by me and was in limerick about two years ago and there was certainly no fighting .

To answer the op, it wouldn't stop us attending anything as we don't get involved in drama so plenty of nice people to hang out with at social events

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

I am completely intrigued and unaware that groups exist on fabs. You learn something new everyday

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By *unfella 1Man
over a year ago

dublin


"The swinging scene is relatively small, id imagine a lot of people know each other here, on this forum in particular.

My query is, would falling out with someone for whatever reason, put you off going to a club or an M&G, house party etc, have you passed up the opportunity of going to a social because you knew someone was going to be there, and in whose company you didn't want to be?

This has happened quite often in regards to a few women I know on here that stopped attending social events because of bitchiness from others.

Wasn't there a brawl at a social a while back organised by a group that I think are called the loopys.

This stopped a few people going to socials.

I would like to know where you got this information from. As part of the group i think you are referring to i can guarantee that not one member remembers being at a social and causing a brawl or stopping fellow members going to socials. I am also part of the group toxic is on about. I too would like to know if you got the name wrong.

Relax. No need to be so defensive.

It's common knowledge. Maybe I have the name wrong. Maybe it's loolas they're called."

No need to be so defensive!!! I think there is every need when misinformed idiots post stuff on a public forum about a group of friends that they neither know or have their facts right about !!

As part of the same group of friends as the posters above I can categorically say that any event we have been to together as a group has never had any sort of brawl occur at it and as Upforfun pointed out, the only social event we organized went off without a hitch !!!

So maby in future before you post malicious gossip on a public forum you should check the facts and ask urself why are you being “ fed” this information, because not everyone has what it takes to be a Loonie!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now im confused, is the groups name loolas, loopys, or loonies, anyways it sounds like great fun, how can I join

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"I am completely intrigued and unaware that groups exist on fabs. You learn something new everyday "

yet there are no cliques on fab according to many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now im confused, is the groups name loolas, loopys, or loonies, anyways it sounds like great fun, how can I join "

You look like your missing a president

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Now im confused, is the groups name loolas, loopys, or loonies, anyways it sounds like great fun, how can I join "

I would never join a group that would have me as a member.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am completely intrigued and unaware that groups exist on fabs. You learn something new everyday

yet there are no cliques on fab according to many"

Is it not just like life. . You get friendly with different people. I've become friendly with some through this ..I'd hardly classify it a clique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't put us off unless it was a small party or gathering -we like to steer clear of drama or anyone that creates it!

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By *angero3aMan
over a year ago

swords

never been invited to any social off here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am completely intrigued and unaware that groups exist on fabs. You learn something new everyday

yet there are no cliques on fab according to many

Is it not just like life. . You get friendly with different people. I've become friendly with some through this ..I'd hardly classify it a clique "

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"I am completely intrigued and unaware that groups exist on fabs. You learn something new everyday

yet there are no cliques on fab according to many

Is it not just like life. . You get friendly with different people. I've become friendly with some through this ..I'd hardly classify it a clique "

it kinda is when the group names itself though

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am completely intrigued and unaware that groups exist on fabs. You learn something new everyday

yet there are no cliques on fab according to many

Is it not just like life. . You get friendly with different people. I've become friendly with some through this ..I'd hardly classify it a clique

it kinda is when the group names itself though "

Kik name nothing to do with fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am completely intrigued and unaware that groups exist on fabs. You learn something new everyday

yet there are no cliques on fab according to many

Is it not just like life. . You get friendly with different people. I've become friendly with some through this ..I'd hardly classify it a clique

it kinda is when the group names itself though "

I've one friendship group we call ourselves the fabulous girls club another called fingers.... we're friends

You can't be friends with everyone. .. start your own group then and call it whatever you like

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Our group is called a name just for kik purposes .

Nothing to do with fab....

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"I am completely intrigued and unaware that groups exist on fabs. You learn something new everyday

yet there are no cliques on fab according to many

Is it not just like life. . You get friendly with different people. I've become friendly with some through this ..I'd hardly classify it a clique

it kinda is when the group names itself though

I've one friendship group we call ourselves the fabulous girls club another called fingers.... we're friends

You can't be friends with everyone. .. start your own group then and call it whatever you like "

Stated already I could never belong to a group that would have me as a member

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dont know how I ended up here, I was looking for the freemasons lodge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am completely intrigued and unaware that groups exist on fabs. You learn something new everyday

yet there are no cliques on fab according to many

Is it not just like life. . You get friendly with different people. I've become friendly with some through this ..I'd hardly classify it a clique

it kinda is when the group names itself though

I've one friendship group we call ourselves the fabulous girls club another called fingers.... we're friends

You can't be friends with everyone. .. start your own group then and call it whatever you like

Stated already I could never belong to a group that would have me as a member "

Ahhh we all need a few pals ... there's a song in my head now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont know how I ended up here, I was looking for the freemasons lodge "

That was the first left .. you took the second right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The swinging scene is relatively small, id imagine a lot of people know each other here, on this forum in particular.

My query is, would falling out with someone for whatever reason, put you off going to a club or an M&G, house party etc, have you passed up the opportunity of going to a social because you knew someone was going to be there, and in whose company you didn't want to be?"

I've never fallen out with anybody here, and if I did, I'd still go to a social or party if I wanted to, regardless of who else would be there.

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I dont know how I ended up here, I was looking for the freemasons lodge "

I literally PMSL at your profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont know how I ended up here, I was looking for the freemasons lodge

I literally PMSL at your profile "

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By *lowlearnerMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I dont know how I ended up here, I was looking for the freemasons lodge

That was the first left .. you took the second right "

funny hand shake 'n'all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont know how I ended up here, I was looking for the freemasons lodge

I literally PMSL at your profile "

Me too

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