FabSwingers.com forum: BBW descriptions

By * am in Your Dreams OP Man
over a year ago

South

Many womenon here post BBW or other variations of this on thier profiles. In our new age of equality how many Men would put a similar description of themselves on thier profiles. My own opinion for what it's worth is that a woman should never have to descripe her figure on here. It's just my opinion and like Arseholes we all have one.

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

Personally I don’t like bbw I have ample lol I’m not a skinny mini and would never be but hate being called bbw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's based on looks though for the majority. Some people only like bbw and some don't. It's not a big deal in my eyes for people to give a little brief description of their looks.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Besides the fab body type, nobody is forced to additionally describe themselves in the profile blurb. if someone decides to do that and uses bbw or similar, I'd assume they're ok with the expression and happy enough to give a further description. I can't really see your point op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I don’t like bbw I have ample lol I’m not a skinny mini and would never be but hate being called bbw "

I'm the same as you I can't stand the word bbw.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I've seen some women with BBW on their profile and I see their pics and I'm thinking skinny lady. Then I've seen women with Little or minx or nymph and they're over 20st!

Don't believe everything you read/see and judge people on their personalities/interaction with you.

You'll go much further with a bigger smile

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I’m so glad I’m not the only one that finds the BBW term horrible.

I have pictures, people can see what I look like. I am what I am..

I certainly do not like that label and wouldn’t go to any events tagged as “bbw admirers “ etc.,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont fully understand why some people put ladies under certain caterigorys and types in this day and age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont fully understand why some people put ladies under certain caterigorys and types in this day and age

I hear what the ladies are saying and why you would have a problem with the term bbw but it's not as bad as other terms used and I think for those who do like to describe themselves physically....bbw isn't bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't be a fan of the term bbw either. .a woman with personality and curves is a better description I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a label I personally like and not one I'd give myself or indeed welcome others giving me either. But if others like it for themselves, what of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like it and I don't use use it. If I get messages using it in tend to ignore them.

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

It means Big Beautiful Women. And I for one am happy to be labelled this.

We organise events in the Midlands for the curvy women regularly. Love the fact we can do this and I know myself it's helped with my self confidence. Because there are admirers out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It means Big Beautiful Women. And I for one am happy to be labelled this.

We organise events in the Midlands for the curvy women regularly. Love the fact we can do this and I know myself it's helped with my self confidence. Because there are admirers out there.

I'd rather just be a beautiful woman. I'm not ashamed of my body by any means but I'd rather it didn't define my sexuality after all we don't do SBW .. small beautiful women or ABW .. average beautiful women. We're just beautiful women. If anything I'm a strong beautiful woman. I don't like the phrase, it doesn't do anything for my self esteem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a phrase, like athletic, average, ample etc.. You pick what you feel most describes you and what term you like. No ones feelings should he hurt cause they're asked to describe their appearance. Sex even when people say it's all about the mind is hugely based on appearance. Just cause a woman is big doesn't mean shes not happy with her appearance and extremely confident. The more confident girls on here seem to be the bigger ones. It's a non issue. So do we just want to scrap the height description as well? I'm short and think we should scrap it

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By *longshottMan
over a year ago

Limerick

I wonder how many men would feel that women would not be into the BBM type. Would women here actually like the BBM?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

CBW would be much more appropriate.

Curvy Beautiful Woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I feel the term describes me perfectly. And I would prefer to say that I’m BBW early on in the convo when chatting, as for some people it can be a turn off. And that’s ok too. Everyone has their own preference.

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By * am in Your Dreams OP Man
over a year ago

South

Thank you for getting the real point of the post. There are no labels for Men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get the whole description thing...and if I did I'd probably be a SFWABOABAAATBM...its short for Skinnyish Fella With A Bit Of A Belly And An Average To Big Mickey ...I should put a "H" in there somewhere as well which would be for Hoor and not to be confused with Handsome or Hairy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get the whole description thing...and if I did I'd probably be a SFWABOABAAATBM...its short for Skinnyish Fella With A Bit Of A Belly And An Average To Big Mickey ...I should put a "H" in there somewhere as well which would be for Hoor and not to be confused with Handsome or Hairy

Bloody hell just my type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suppose everyone has a type and preference and since people on this bascially judge you on how you look than i dont see a problem with it. At end of the day noone is 100% perfect and we all like different things. As they say variety is the spice of life.. bbw starts for big beautiful women it not an insult or bad to be described as big.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

"Thank you for getting the real point of the post. There are no labels for Men."

There are: ripped, dadbod, mirror-ball-belly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a larger lady I'm ok with been called a BBW and going to events for admirers of my type at least there I know if I approach a man he is into bigger girls as Ive been at some standard nights and have had looks of disgust from some men and women alike who just think fat people shouldn't have themselves on display I think sexy is the way u feel and it showa regardless of size

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Like JDKitty I don't mind being called BBW. Because that's what I am . I'm a Big Beautiful Woman. There's something for everyone here. Depends on your outlook. The only negatives I get are from assholes male and female. As I've said before if I'm not your cup of tea move on because I'm someone's big mug of coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like JDKitty I don't mind being called BBW. Because that's what I am . I'm a Big Beautiful Woman. There's something for everyone here. Depends on your outlook. The only negatives I get are from assholes male and female. As I've said before if I'm not your cup of tea move on because I'm someone's big mug of coffee. "

Two sugars please

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Two sugars please

Cream?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means a lot to people and seems to be an offence to others. Personally body type doesn't really affect my view on particular ladies. Takes all sorts. I am still looking for the ones looking for slim gingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lady categorize her self as a BBW means a lot to her . to me I see her as confident, honest and curvalicious .

When it comes to BBW parties , I strongly support those parties ,it’s the best of best ,

Let’s admit it society is a bitch and some people out there can be harsh with their looks .

On Fab , if a curvy lady not your thing , just move on .simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two sugars please

Cream?"

I beg your pardon, I only take black. its very true what they say, once you go black you never go back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all fun and games on this thread until ya realise your jeans don't fit you anymore

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By *heshirefungirlWoman
over a year ago

ammanford

"It means Big Beautiful Women. And I for one am happy to be labelled this.

We organise events in the Midlands for the curvy women regularly. Love the fact we can do this and I know myself it's helped with my self confidence. Because there are admirers out there.

I much prefer BBW over terms like ample, larger,fuller figure,fat

I love BBW events and I not shy me about my body and to be fair before I entered the world of swing and went to BBW nights and parties there was guys I would never have thought would be interested in me but now I know big is beautiful to so many,im not fat or lazy I do five hours of dance fitness a week and walk over 20,000 steps a day so im fine being labelled as a BBW

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By *addybesteMan
over a year ago

ballymahon

"I’m so glad I’m not the only one that finds the BBW term horrible.

I have pictures, people can see what I look like. I am what I am..

I certainly do not like that label and wouldn’t go to any events tagged as “bbw admirers “ etc., "

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By *addybesteMan
over a year ago

ballymahon

Why can't people say anything now with out poeple getting offended it a pure joke

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By *ugarandspice101Couple
over a year ago

Belfast

Lol love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was once compaired to a round bale with arms and legs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never paid too much attention to the term before tbh, I'm sure I've been called alot worse

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

I don't really like the term. I have always felt it's just a cutesy term for people who are uncomfortable saying fat or chubby or whatever. But on the other hand there is such a stigma attached to the word fat that I can understand the need for a generally accepted term in society. For the record, I have big boobs, a big butt and a wobbly belly. I'm not slender in the least bit anywhere, lol. Some people agree that I'm chubby or curvy or whatever. Some people look at my pics and say why do you describe yourself as fat? It's really all relative. A 5'5" guy I think is too short might be the tall guy a 4'10" girl is looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It means Big Beautiful Women. And I for one am happy to be labelled this.

We organise events in the Midlands for the curvy women regularly. Love the fact we can do this and I know myself it's helped with my self confidence. Because there are admirers out there.

I much prefer BBW over terms like ample, larger,fuller figure,fat

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By * am in Your Dreams OP Man
over a year ago

South

Again my post is not about a woman's size,it is about the fact that we seem to have a label for everything concerning women. I am not a feminist but can a women not just be called Beautiful without a label before it????,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Again my post is not about a woman's size,it is about the fact that we seem to have a label for everything concerning women. I am not a feminist but can a women not just be called Beautiful without a label before it????,"

People put labels on everything and everyone. Whether we choose to be defined by those labels or not is another matter entirely.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"Its all fun and games on this thread until ya realise your jeans don't fit you anymore

Told you before..... wait until the hardon goes down, then try get your jeans on.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

What beautiful to one person may not be to another. I like to let people know I'm a Big girl. Yes I get called all sorts but at this stage of my life I don't care what others think of me. Big ,small we'reall the same I side

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