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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you’ve a house and financial commitments, it can be very hard to walk away. Children know when there is tension. After a twenty year relationship and being told I was a useless cunt and all the rest, I left. Hardest thing I ever did in my life, I’m the happiest I’ve ever been in my life now. It took a lot out of me at the time. She’s still a moan and does everything she can to stop me seeing our children but as they’ve got older, they’ve seen through her bullshit. Go out somewhere away from the house, sit down and both have a chat about where you are in your lives and how you can get it back. Then and only then, should one or both of you decide to finish your relationship. But remember this bit of advise, your going to walk away from your house, your ‘friends’, and your life as you know it now. Everything gets turned upside down. Get a solicitor to draw up a separation agreement and both of you read over it and tailor it to suit your needs. Whatever happens, I hope it works out for you both for the best and no matter what advice you get, you two are the only ones that know what’s best for you both and the children. |
