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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many times do you take being verbally abused by men in messages for saying thanks but no thanks not interested . Had a message earlier looking for a meet said the usual happy Fabbing Not interested and literally the messager got stuck in me over my partner and his ex partners which I don’t know anything about or don’t want to know . We all have a history, I certainly don’t want it chasing after me on fab and what happened to being able to be honest without supposed grown men throwing their dummy out of the prank, it’s so turning me off the whole fan scene at present

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How many times do you take being verbally abused by men in messages for saying thanks but no thanks not interested . Had a message earlier looking for a meet said the usual happy Fabbing Not interested and literally the messager got stuck in me over my partner and his ex partners which I don’t know anything about or don’t want to know . We all have a history, I certainly don’t want it chasing after me on fab and what happened to being able to be honest without supposed grown men throwing their dummy out of the pram even lol , it’s so turning me off the whole fab scene at present "

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Unfortunately many don't read the basic Fab rules. No response means not interested!

I find it easier to actually block the people who you are not interested in. Personally, yes, I do respond and say no thanks but as a guy, that's few and far between but I also block on the basis of pics too.

Anyway, make fab your own. Use filters and blocks cordially

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By *ake2891Man
over a year ago

cork

Ah that's not on at all. Can't see it from my side of things obviously. But I'm young and there is less mature than me on here. That must be bad

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unfortunately many don't read the basic Fab rules. No response means not interested!

I find it easier to actually block the people who you are not interested in. Personally, yes, I do respond and say no thanks but as a guy, that's few and far between but I also block on the basis of pics too.

Anyway, make fab your own. Use filters and blocks cordially "

Thanks for response I normally always try and be polite and say sorry not for me or us happy fabbing but tonight just hit an all time low . Think filters so need to be turned off and in future just going to hit delete button x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unfortunately many don't read the basic Fab rules. No response means not interested!

I find it easier to actually block the people who you are not interested in. Personally, yes, I do respond and say no thanks but as a guy, that's few and far between but I also block on the basis of pics too.

Anyway, make fab your own. Use filters and blocks cordially

Thanks for response I normally always try and be polite and say sorry not for me or us happy fabbing but tonight just hit an all time low . Think filters so need to be turned off and in future just going to hit delete button x"

I meant turn filters on , tbh I am a happy go lucky person and known for my sense of humour and good attitude but I’m genuinely disgusted that someone did this

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Unfortunately many don't read the basic Fab rules. No response means not interested!

I find it easier to actually block the people who you are not interested in. Personally, yes, I do respond and say no thanks but as a guy, that's few and far between but I also block on the basis of pics too.

Anyway, make fab your own. Use filters and blocks cordially

Thanks for response I normally always try and be polite and say sorry not for me or us happy fabbing but tonight just hit an all time low . Think filters so need to be turned off and in future just going to hit delete button x"

Filters turned off??

No, never! You'll see so much crap it won't be true.

Filter, age select (generously) and block anyone who's pics/attitude doesn't ring true with your own personal perspective. Then the ones that get through that are people who you will genuinely get on with, on multiple levels and have fun with

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Unfortunately many don't read the basic Fab rules. No response means not interested!

I find it easier to actually block the people who you are not interested in. Personally, yes, I do respond and say no thanks but as a guy, that's few and far between but I also block on the basis of pics too.

Anyway, make fab your own. Use filters and blocks cordially

Thanks for response I normally always try and be polite and say sorry not for me or us happy fabbing but tonight just hit an all time low . Think filters so need to be turned off and in future just going to hit delete button x

Filters turned off??

No, never! You'll see so much crap it won't be true.

Filter, age select (generously) and block anyone who's pics/attitude doesn't ring true with your own personal perspective. Then the ones that get through that are people who you will genuinely get on with, on multiple levels and have fun with "

Thanks John a gent as always on the forums , just think I’m always upfront and honest with people and not rude so can’t understand some

Peoples logic at abusing others . Anyway each to their own I suppose , but has made me think my time on here won’t be for much longer as the corkonians say # allergic ha ha

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Sorry, we had a crossing of posts there.

Yeah, this I think is the reason why a lot of ladies have No Single Guys on their profile, to block wankers messaging them.

Unfortunately that puts a lot of the guys you might want to chat with off but it's a Fab oxymoron I guess.

Anyway, sorry you got nasties, hope you dealt with the gobshite accordingly and yes, it was me that Fabbed all your pics, again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry, we had a crossing of posts there.

Yeah, this I think is the reason why a lot of ladies have No Single Guys on their profile, to block wankers messaging them.

Unfortunately that puts a lot of the guys you might want to chat with off but it's a Fab oxymoron I guess.

Anyway, sorry you got nasties, hope you dealt with the gobshite accordingly and yes, it was me that Fabbed all your pics, again "

Ha ha John my tongue is Multi talented lol can give As much sass as pleasure so they can jog on literally ps thanks for the multiple fabs was wondering how the numbers were increasing ha ha

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

We crossed posts again

Never leave! That's giving them an upper hand. Don't let the gobshites/trolls win. They never last the distance.

Fab genuine stays true forever

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Sorry, we had a crossing of posts there.

Yeah, this I think is the reason why a lot of ladies have No Single Guys on their profile, to block wankers messaging them.

Unfortunately that puts a lot of the guys you might want to chat with off but it's a Fab oxymoron I guess.

Anyway, sorry you got nasties, hope you dealt with the gobshite accordingly and yes, it was me that Fabbed all your pics, again

Ha ha John my tongue is Multi talented lol can give As much sass as pleasure so they can jog on literally ps thanks for the multiple fabs was wondering how the numbers were increasing ha ha "

Ah here! Tongue is multi talented had me suggesting you for Fabber of the month and driving to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We crossed posts again

Never leave! That's giving them an upper hand. Don't let the gobshites/trolls win. They never last the distance.

Fab genuine stays true forever "

Ain’t that a fact and anyone that has met me knows my character , zero filter and all but I watch out for my friends , glad you said posts and not swords crossing lol

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"We crossed posts again

Never leave! That's giving them an upper hand. Don't let the gobshites/trolls win. They never last the distance.

Fab genuine stays true forever

Ain’t that a fact and anyone that has met me knows my character , zero filter and all but I watch out for my friends , glad you said posts and not swords crossing lol"

If it was swords crossing, I'd be praying it's just a strap on you've got between your legs and a big bottle of lube

My virgin self would be trembling with excitement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let the idiots win! Fab would be intolerable if all the good people leave. Block away!!

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"We crossed posts again

Never leave! That's giving them an upper hand. Don't let the gobshites/trolls win. They never last the distance.

Fab genuine stays true forever

Ain’t that a fact and anyone that has met me knows my character , zero filter and all but I watch out for my friends , glad you said posts and not swords crossing lol"

I'm curious. What was the post that generated the abusive messages?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We crossed posts again

Never leave! That's giving them an upper hand. Don't let the gobshites/trolls win. They never last the distance.

Fab genuine stays true forever

Ain’t that a fact and anyone that has met me knows my character , zero filter and all but I watch out for my friends , glad you said posts and not swords crossing lol

I'm curious. What was the post that generated the abusive messages?"

Basically saying . Is it not enough that someone responds and lets people down gently and that peoples history is their history not to be shared by anyone else

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"We crossed posts again

Never leave! That's giving them an upper hand. Don't let the gobshites/trolls win. They never last the distance.

Fab genuine stays true forever

Ain’t that a fact and anyone that has met me knows my character , zero filter and all but I watch out for my friends , glad you said posts and not swords crossing lol

I'm curious. What was the post that generated the abusive messages?

Basically saying . Is it not enough that someone responds and lets people down gently and that peoples history is their history not to be shared by anyone else "

Sounds reasonable enough to me. Don't understand why you got abuse for it. I think most Fabbers would agree. This lifestyle dictates that the past is behind you, after obvious health checks of course but other than that, move onwards and upwards, or under and

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We crossed posts again

Never leave! That's giving them an upper hand. Don't let the gobshites/trolls win. They never last the distance.

Fab genuine stays true forever

Ain’t that a fact and anyone that has met me knows my character , zero filter and all but I watch out for my friends , glad you said posts and not swords crossing lol

I'm curious. What was the post that generated the abusive messages?

Basically saying . Is it not enough that someone responds and lets people down gently and that peoples history is their history not to be shared by anyone else

Sounds reasonable enough to me. Don't understand why you got abuse for it. I think most Fabbers would agree. This lifestyle dictates that the past is behind you, after obvious health checks of course but other than that, move onwards and upwards, or under and "

Oh I deffo prefer to be on top I basically said thank god for the genuine people onsite cos with all the crap you have to wade Thro it’s off putting and this guy decided to tell me who my partners ex was and that he drove over 50 miles to meet her and she never answered the phone .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i get abusive msgs i look at them for what they are letters on a screen nothing else i dont engage my imagination and block and use that energy for the good things z

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When i get abusive msgs i look at them for what they are letters on a screen nothing else i dont engage my imagination and block and use that energy for the good things z"

Thank you I need to do that in future for sure just had a rough week in vanilla life and then came on here for a bit of fun and a laugh and to be abused just defeats the purpose of fab to me xx

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"We crossed posts again

Never leave! That's giving them an upper hand. Don't let the gobshites/trolls win. They never last the distance.

Fab genuine stays true forever

Ain’t that a fact and anyone that has met me knows my character , zero filter and all but I watch out for my friends , glad you said posts and not swords crossing lol

I'm curious. What was the post that generated the abusive messages?

Basically saying . Is it not enough that someone responds and lets people down gently and that peoples history is their history not to be shared by anyone else

Sounds reasonable enough to me. Don't understand why you got abuse for it. I think most Fabbers would agree. This lifestyle dictates that the past is behind you, after obvious health checks of course but other than that, move onwards and upwards, or under and

Oh I deffo prefer to be on top I basically said thank god for the genuine people onsite cos with all the crap you have to wade Thro it’s off putting and this guy decided to tell me who my partners ex was and that he drove over 50 miles to meet her and she never answered the phone . "

Why is that your problem? Can't believe he got personal. Block the prick and be done. Not your problem how far he went.

PS you on top is fine with me

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Now I'm genuinely off to bed.

Don't let any wankers put you off Fab. They won't last.

I'm off to bed thinking of you on top.

Of Fab, the world and my face

Goodnight sexy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We crossed posts again

Never leave! That's giving them an upper hand. Don't let the gobshites/trolls win. They never last the distance.

Fab genuine stays true forever

Ain’t that a fact and anyone that has met me knows my character , zero filter and all but I watch out for my friends , glad you said posts and not swords crossing lol

I'm curious. What was the post that generated the abusive messages?

Basically saying . Is it not enough that someone responds and lets people down gently and that peoples history is their history not to be shared by anyone else

Sounds reasonable enough to me. Don't understand why you got abuse for it. I think most Fabbers would agree. This lifestyle dictates that the past is behind you, after obvious health checks of course but other than that, move onwards and upwards, or under and

Oh I deffo prefer to be on top I basically said thank god for the genuine people onsite cos with all the crap you have to wade Thro it’s off putting and this guy decided to tell me who my partners ex was and that he drove over 50 miles to meet her and she never answered the phone .

Why is that your problem? Can't believe he got personal. Block the prick and be done. Not your problem how far he went.

PS you on top is fine with me"

Ha ha I shall bring the defibrillator , don’t know why he made it my problem to be honest only

That I said I don’t meet without my partner and then he went off on one

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

Keyboard warriors/bullies try to ruin things for everyone because they are bitter people and that’s their own issue. Don’t let small people like that bring you down hun. Stay bubbly, positive and fun. xx

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Defibrillator! What are you trying to do to me? You've heard of my speedy Gonzales reputation already?? Fair play for being fully prepared but I'd prefer if you used your tongue/hand

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Defibrillator! What are you trying to do to me? You've heard of my speedy Gonzales reputation already?? Fair play for being fully prepared but I'd prefer if you used your tongue/hand "

Ha ha cpr usually does require the use of hands and mouth or else the criteria has changed since I was last certified a first aider ha ha thanks for the laughs tonight better try get some sleep x

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Defibrillator! What are you trying to do to me? You've heard of my speedy Gonzales reputation already?? Fair play for being fully prepared but I'd prefer if you used your tongue/hand

Ha ha cpr usually does require the use of hands and mouth or else the criteria has changed since I was last certified a first aider ha ha thanks for the laughs tonight better try get some sleep x"

Oh I think I may fake fainting in front of you on the spur of the moment, just for the resuscitation Be delighted to get your hands and mouth working on me

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Off to bed. Thanks for the craic and chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When i get abusive msgs i look at them for what they are letters on a screen nothing else i dont engage my imagination and block and use that energy for the good things z

Thank you I need to do that in future for sure just had a rough week in vanilla life and then came on here for a bit of fun and a laugh and to be abused just defeats the purpose of fab to me xx"

Just make sure to delete and come over to the forums theres always one of us with something "interesting" to say here or talking bollocks either way its fun xx

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By *ouplefun99Couple
over a year ago

gorey co wexford

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

i just delete messages now as a no thanks. some of the nasty threatening messages are unreal when i sent a no thanks message. and to be told abusive messages come hand in hand with all women who join a sex site... its not been stuck up or rude if we dont reply its the choice we are left with.. block move one and that it with a pinch of salt.. they are some great fun men here enjoy them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't fret about things outide your control.

Who knows why people send messages like this or get abusive

But you can control and mitigate against this by using filters

And if you only meet with your partner and you have a couple profile, then filters on your single profile and if anyone wants a meet they can message your couple profile whilst you can still chat to your friends or who you select yourself from your single profile

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West


"Unfortunately many don't read the basic Fab rules. No response means not interested!

I find it easier to actually block the people who you are not interested in. Personally, yes, I do respond and say no thanks but as a guy, that's few and far between but I also block on the basis of pics too.

Anyway, make fab your own. Use filters and blocks cordially

Thanks for response I normally always try and be polite and say sorry not for me or us happy fabbing but tonight just hit an all time low . Think filters so need to be turned off and in future just going to hit delete button x

I meant turn filters on , tbh I am a happy go lucky person and known for my sense of humour and good attitude but I’m genuinely disgusted that someone did this "

You don't have to even read messages just bulk delete and into the next planet they go..sorry your having to go through this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Filters are definetly your best friend here and don't feel you have to respond to any message-your choice and if people can't accept that then use your block button .

Good luck !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have given up sending messages to ladys i do mot know as i think they get so many nasty ones the nice guys get mixed up with the shit holes and all get deleted i use partys and m&g s to chat to ladys i am interested in and then text them and org a meet if both are interested i find this works well for me and have made loads of friends that i would meet over and over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Filters are definetly your best friend here and don't feel you have to respond to any message-your choice and if people can't accept that then use your block button .

Good luck !"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just block and delete if I’m not interested

I’ll message who I like when I like that way

Saves the abuse and the chance of high blood pressure

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Don't quit over it. It's not worth it. In a few days/weeks you'll laugh over it and the whole incident will be stored in the absurd fab memory sector.

As others said hike your filters up and happy fabbing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ur just having a bad wk.dont let them get to you.set ur filters tighter.be more block freindly.only reply to the messages ur interested in and dont feel bad about the ones u dont reply to.

Really rotten when ur nice and polite and reply the ones ur not interested in and u get abuse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks very much everyone , he appears to have set up another’s profile just to have a pop at me and has me blocked from replying so another block and report it’s actually laughable . Anyway onwards and upwards today and let the begrudgers feck right off ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks very much everyone , he appears to have set up another’s profile just to have a pop at me and has me blocked from replying so another block and report it’s actually laughable . Anyway onwards and upwards today and let the begrudgers feck right off ha ha "

Exactly foxey you are worth 10 of him my thunder buddy

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By *tockings199Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

That's why you should stick with women less hassle lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks very much everyone , he appears to have set up another’s profile just to have a pop at me and has me blocked from replying so another block and report it’s actually laughable . Anyway onwards and upwards today and let the begrudgers feck right off ha ha

Exactly foxey you are worth 10 of him my thunder buddy "

Pmsl thanks me auld buddy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks very much everyone , he appears to have set up another’s profile just to have a pop at me and has me blocked from replying so another block and report it’s actually laughable . Anyway onwards and upwards today and let the begrudgers feck right off ha ha

Exactly foxey you are worth 10 of him my thunder buddy

Pmsl thanks me auld buddy xx"

Less off the auld ffs I'm a young fella

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's why you should stick with women less hassle lol"

Ha ha very quick xx made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks very much everyone , he appears to have set up another’s profile just to have a pop at me and has me blocked from replying so another block and report it’s actually laughable . Anyway onwards and upwards today and let the begrudgers feck right off ha ha

Exactly foxey you are worth 10 of him my thunder buddy

Pmsl thanks me auld buddy xx

Less off the auld ffs I'm a young fella "

Ha ah that you are , well at heart anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just tired of putting up a nice status, saying, guys I simply can't read all your messages, please don't get offended if I don't, reply,

Just doesn't seem too work, or else they ignore or can't read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just been called a bitch .. whatever

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By *ack 188Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15

Why quit if you enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I probably said this before , best and simple way is to ignore that message , delete and block .

You are the winner

This topic prove that some Adults are mentally sick

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By *m158Couple
over a year ago

Cork

the scene here is really in a sorry state. it's nearly a male site at this stage. we visited foreign clubs....everything there is just as it should be....if it's possible for people to travel and experience then you really would feel like giving up on the Irish scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abusive guys or guys that throw their dummies out of the prom at a “No Thank You” are just looking for notches on bed posts and can’t take rejection as they are immature and obviously feel they are Gods gift to women!!! They don’t really want to get to know you just want to jump into your pants!

If they can’t take rejection by text imagine what they’d be like face to face? Worrying....

they are only tarnishing all guys with the same brush on here that’s why it’s probably harder for guys here.

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