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"How many times do you take being verbally abused by men in messages for saying thanks but no thanks not interested . Had a message earlier looking for a meet said the usual happy Fabbing Not interested and literally the messager got stuck in me over my partner and his ex partners which I don’t know anything about or don’t want to know . We all have a history, I certainly don’t want it chasing after me on fab and what happened to being able to be honest without supposed grown men throwing their dummy out of the pram even lol , it’s so turning me off the whole fab scene at present " | |||
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"Unfortunately many don't read the basic Fab rules. No response means not interested! I find it easier to actually block the people who you are not interested in. Personally, yes, I do respond and say no thanks but as a guy, that's few and far between but I also block on the basis of pics too. Anyway, make fab your own. Use filters and blocks cordially " Thanks for response I normally always try and be polite and say sorry not for me or us happy fabbing but tonight just hit an all time low . Think filters so need to be turned off and in future just going to hit delete button x | |||
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"Unfortunately many don't read the basic Fab rules. No response means not interested! I find it easier to actually block the people who you are not interested in. Personally, yes, I do respond and say no thanks but as a guy, that's few and far between but I also block on the basis of pics too. Anyway, make fab your own. Use filters and blocks cordially Thanks for response I normally always try and be polite and say sorry not for me or us happy fabbing but tonight just hit an all time low . Think filters so need to be turned off and in future just going to hit delete button x" I meant turn filters on , tbh I am a happy go lucky person and known for my sense of humour and good attitude but I’m genuinely disgusted that someone did this | |||
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"Unfortunately many don't read the basic Fab rules. No response means not interested! I find it easier to actually block the people who you are not interested in. Personally, yes, I do respond and say no thanks but as a guy, that's few and far between but I also block on the basis of pics too. Anyway, make fab your own. Use filters and blocks cordially Thanks for response I normally always try and be polite and say sorry not for me or us happy fabbing but tonight just hit an all time low . Think filters so need to be turned off and in future just going to hit delete button x" Filters turned off?? No, never! You'll see so much crap it won't be true. Filter, age select (generously) and block anyone who's pics/attitude doesn't ring true with your own personal perspective. Then the ones that get through that are people who you will genuinely get on with, on multiple levels and have fun with | |||
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"Unfortunately many don't read the basic Fab rules. No response means not interested! I find it easier to actually block the people who you are not interested in. Personally, yes, I do respond and say no thanks but as a guy, that's few and far between but I also block on the basis of pics too. Anyway, make fab your own. Use filters and blocks cordially Thanks for response I normally always try and be polite and say sorry not for me or us happy fabbing but tonight just hit an all time low . Think filters so need to be turned off and in future just going to hit delete button x Filters turned off?? No, never! You'll see so much crap it won't be true. Filter, age select (generously) and block anyone who's pics/attitude doesn't ring true with your own personal perspective. Then the ones that get through that are people who you will genuinely get on with, on multiple levels and have fun with " Thanks John a gent as always on the forums , just think I’m always upfront and honest with people and not rude so can’t understand some Peoples logic at abusing others . Anyway each to their own I suppose , but has made me think my time on here won’t be for much longer as the corkonians say # allergic ha ha | |||
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"Sorry, we had a crossing of posts there. Yeah, this I think is the reason why a lot of ladies have No Single Guys on their profile, to block wankers messaging them. Unfortunately that puts a lot of the guys you might want to chat with off but it's a Fab oxymoron I guess. Anyway, sorry you got nasties, hope you dealt with the gobshite accordingly and yes, it was me that Fabbed all your pics, again " Ha ha John my tongue is Multi talented lol can give As much sass as pleasure so they can jog on literally ps thanks for the multiple fabs was wondering how the numbers were increasing ha ha | |||
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"Sorry, we had a crossing of posts there. Yeah, this I think is the reason why a lot of ladies have No Single Guys on their profile, to block wankers messaging them. Unfortunately that puts a lot of the guys you might want to chat with off but it's a Fab oxymoron I guess. Anyway, sorry you got nasties, hope you dealt with the gobshite accordingly and yes, it was me that Fabbed all your pics, again Ha ha John my tongue is Multi talented lol can give As much sass as pleasure so they can jog on literally ps thanks for the multiple fabs was wondering how the numbers were increasing ha ha " Ah here! Tongue is multi talented had me suggesting you for Fabber of the month and driving to you | |||
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"We crossed posts again Never leave! That's giving them an upper hand. Don't let the gobshites/trolls win. They never last the distance. Fab genuine stays true forever " Ain’t that a fact and anyone that has met me knows my character , zero filter and all but I watch out for my friends , glad you said posts and not swords crossing lol | |||
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"We crossed posts again Never leave! That's giving them an upper hand. Don't let the gobshites/trolls win. They never last the distance. Fab genuine stays true forever Ain’t that a fact and anyone that has met me knows my character , zero filter and all but I watch out for my friends , glad you said posts and not swords crossing lol" If it was swords crossing, I'd be praying it's just a strap on you've got between your legs and a big bottle of lube My virgin self would be trembling with excitement | |||
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"We crossed posts again Never leave! That's giving them an upper hand. Don't let the gobshites/trolls win. They never last the distance. Fab genuine stays true forever Ain’t that a fact and anyone that has met me knows my character , zero filter and all but I watch out for my friends , glad you said posts and not swords crossing lol" I'm curious. What was the post that generated the abusive messages? | |||
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"We crossed posts again Never leave! That's giving them an upper hand. Don't let the gobshites/trolls win. They never last the distance. Fab genuine stays true forever Ain’t that a fact and anyone that has met me knows my character , zero filter and all but I watch out for my friends , glad you said posts and not swords crossing lol I'm curious. What was the post that generated the abusive messages?" Basically saying . Is it not enough that someone responds and lets people down gently and that peoples history is their history not to be shared by anyone else | |||
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"We crossed posts again Never leave! That's giving them an upper hand. Don't let the gobshites/trolls win. They never last the distance. Fab genuine stays true forever Ain’t that a fact and anyone that has met me knows my character , zero filter and all but I watch out for my friends , glad you said posts and not swords crossing lol I'm curious. What was the post that generated the abusive messages? Basically saying . Is it not enough that someone responds and lets people down gently and that peoples history is their history not to be shared by anyone else " Sounds reasonable enough to me. Don't understand why you got abuse for it. I think most Fabbers would agree. This lifestyle dictates that the past is behind you, after obvious health checks of course but other than that, move onwards and upwards, or under and | |||
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"We crossed posts again Never leave! That's giving them an upper hand. Don't let the gobshites/trolls win. They never last the distance. Fab genuine stays true forever Ain’t that a fact and anyone that has met me knows my character , zero filter and all but I watch out for my friends , glad you said posts and not swords crossing lol I'm curious. What was the post that generated the abusive messages? Basically saying . Is it not enough that someone responds and lets people down gently and that peoples history is their history not to be shared by anyone else Sounds reasonable enough to me. Don't understand why you got abuse for it. I think most Fabbers would agree. This lifestyle dictates that the past is behind you, after obvious health checks of course but other than that, move onwards and upwards, or under and " Oh I deffo prefer to be on top I basically said thank god for the genuine people onsite cos with all the crap you have to wade Thro it’s off putting and this guy decided to tell me who my partners ex was and that he drove over 50 miles to meet her and she never answered the phone . | |||
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"When i get abusive msgs i look at them for what they are letters on a screen nothing else i dont engage my imagination and block and use that energy for the good things z" Thank you I need to do that in future for sure just had a rough week in vanilla life and then came on here for a bit of fun and a laugh and to be abused just defeats the purpose of fab to me xx | |||
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"We crossed posts again Never leave! That's giving them an upper hand. Don't let the gobshites/trolls win. They never last the distance. Fab genuine stays true forever Ain’t that a fact and anyone that has met me knows my character , zero filter and all but I watch out for my friends , glad you said posts and not swords crossing lol I'm curious. What was the post that generated the abusive messages? Basically saying . Is it not enough that someone responds and lets people down gently and that peoples history is their history not to be shared by anyone else Sounds reasonable enough to me. Don't understand why you got abuse for it. I think most Fabbers would agree. This lifestyle dictates that the past is behind you, after obvious health checks of course but other than that, move onwards and upwards, or under and Oh I deffo prefer to be on top I basically said thank god for the genuine people onsite cos with all the crap you have to wade Thro it’s off putting and this guy decided to tell me who my partners ex was and that he drove over 50 miles to meet her and she never answered the phone . " Why is that your problem? Can't believe he got personal. Block the prick and be done. Not your problem how far he went. PS you on top is fine with me | |||
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"We crossed posts again Never leave! That's giving them an upper hand. Don't let the gobshites/trolls win. They never last the distance. Fab genuine stays true forever Ain’t that a fact and anyone that has met me knows my character , zero filter and all but I watch out for my friends , glad you said posts and not swords crossing lol I'm curious. What was the post that generated the abusive messages? Basically saying . Is it not enough that someone responds and lets people down gently and that peoples history is their history not to be shared by anyone else Sounds reasonable enough to me. Don't understand why you got abuse for it. I think most Fabbers would agree. This lifestyle dictates that the past is behind you, after obvious health checks of course but other than that, move onwards and upwards, or under and Oh I deffo prefer to be on top I basically said thank god for the genuine people onsite cos with all the crap you have to wade Thro it’s off putting and this guy decided to tell me who my partners ex was and that he drove over 50 miles to meet her and she never answered the phone . Why is that your problem? Can't believe he got personal. Block the prick and be done. Not your problem how far he went. PS you on top is fine with me" Ha ha I shall bring the defibrillator , don’t know why he made it my problem to be honest only That I said I don’t meet without my partner and then he went off on one | |||
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"Defibrillator! What are you trying to do to me? You've heard of my speedy Gonzales reputation already?? Fair play for being fully prepared but I'd prefer if you used your tongue/hand " Ha ha cpr usually does require the use of hands and mouth or else the criteria has changed since I was last certified a first aider ha ha thanks for the laughs tonight better try get some sleep x | |||
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"Defibrillator! What are you trying to do to me? You've heard of my speedy Gonzales reputation already?? Fair play for being fully prepared but I'd prefer if you used your tongue/hand Ha ha cpr usually does require the use of hands and mouth or else the criteria has changed since I was last certified a first aider ha ha thanks for the laughs tonight better try get some sleep x" Oh I think I may fake fainting in front of you on the spur of the moment, just for the resuscitation Be delighted to get your hands and mouth working on me | |||
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"When i get abusive msgs i look at them for what they are letters on a screen nothing else i dont engage my imagination and block and use that energy for the good things z Thank you I need to do that in future for sure just had a rough week in vanilla life and then came on here for a bit of fun and a laugh and to be abused just defeats the purpose of fab to me xx" Just make sure to delete and come over to the forums theres always one of us with something "interesting" to say here or talking bollocks either way its fun xx | |||
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"Unfortunately many don't read the basic Fab rules. No response means not interested! I find it easier to actually block the people who you are not interested in. Personally, yes, I do respond and say no thanks but as a guy, that's few and far between but I also block on the basis of pics too. Anyway, make fab your own. Use filters and blocks cordially Thanks for response I normally always try and be polite and say sorry not for me or us happy fabbing but tonight just hit an all time low . Think filters so need to be turned off and in future just going to hit delete button x I meant turn filters on , tbh I am a happy go lucky person and known for my sense of humour and good attitude but I’m genuinely disgusted that someone did this " You don't have to even read messages just bulk delete and into the next planet they go..sorry your having to go through this... | |||
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"Filters are definetly your best friend here and don't feel you have to respond to any message-your choice and if people can't accept that then use your block button . Good luck !" | |||
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"Thanks very much everyone , he appears to have set up another’s profile just to have a pop at me and has me blocked from replying so another block and report it’s actually laughable . Anyway onwards and upwards today and let the begrudgers feck right off ha ha " Exactly foxey you are worth 10 of him my thunder buddy | |||
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"Thanks very much everyone , he appears to have set up another’s profile just to have a pop at me and has me blocked from replying so another block and report it’s actually laughable . Anyway onwards and upwards today and let the begrudgers feck right off ha ha Exactly foxey you are worth 10 of him my thunder buddy " Pmsl thanks me auld buddy xx | |||
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"Thanks very much everyone , he appears to have set up another’s profile just to have a pop at me and has me blocked from replying so another block and report it’s actually laughable . Anyway onwards and upwards today and let the begrudgers feck right off ha ha Exactly foxey you are worth 10 of him my thunder buddy Pmsl thanks me auld buddy xx" Less off the auld ffs I'm a young fella | |||
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"That's why you should stick with women less hassle lol" Ha ha very quick xx made me laugh | |||
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"Thanks very much everyone , he appears to have set up another’s profile just to have a pop at me and has me blocked from replying so another block and report it’s actually laughable . Anyway onwards and upwards today and let the begrudgers feck right off ha ha Exactly foxey you are worth 10 of him my thunder buddy Pmsl thanks me auld buddy xx Less off the auld ffs I'm a young fella " Ha ah that you are , well at heart anyway | |||
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