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Too many verifications ? Good or bad ?

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By *eebaw OP   Man
over a year ago

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I dont think i have that many . Moastly from socials and partys etc but lately iv had women and couples say iv too many verifications and they are put off by it and have no interest is this an easy way of saying no or is too many beris a problem for some ?

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown

A lot would put us off but depends on the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some see it as you are after the whole site , bad reputation.

Best just don’t show it . My point is who you met or who you played with is no one business .

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

Put whatever you want on your profile.

Too many people here trying to dictate to others about their profiles, what pics to put up, what pics to attach to messages, what to say in messages etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put whatever you want on your profile.

Too many people here trying to dictate to others about their profiles, what pics to put up, what pics to attach to messages, what to say in messages etc etc"

Agree totally!

“Do this, don’t do that” It’s your profile, don’t let others run it for you....

Anyone who who does probably wouldn’t meet you anyway so no loss.

Show what you feel and enjoy your experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told that recently that I had too many verifications and that it would put people off, but most of my verifications are from socials.

Anyone who thinks like that isn't worth your time Op just move onto the next person who doesn't mind about the amount of verifications you have

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

No one's business but your own.

If people are going to judge you by the amount of veris, Then they're not worth getting to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I’ve seen them do here is cause trouble but suppose we all need one to prove we are who we say.

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I'll put my hands up and say that when I joined first I did think this and I tended to avoid profiles with lots of verifications until mine started adding up because of socials and if the truth be known only a few are from actual play meets...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All I’ve seen them do here is cause trouble but suppose we all need one to prove we are who we say.

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Spot on , all you get is trouble

Can’t agree more

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It's impossible to please everyone on here. Just keep on enjoying yourself and don't worry about a few who don't grasp that swinging is about socialising and meeting.

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

From reading your veris it's pretty apparent that there are lots from socials/clubs..wouldn't put me off

Lots of people get verified after M&G's doesn't mean you have played..it is just proof that you are genuine and also it's a good way to express an interest in someone for fun in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not even going to read down Thro this post . Most of my veris are from social meets at cork club or coffee meets . Maybe if people are that judgmental they shouldn’t be on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not even going to read down Thro this post . Most of my veris are from social meets at cork club or coffee meets . Maybe if people are that judgmental they shouldn’t be on fab "

100% youre right pity some people wouldn't grow a brain.

Harry

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I was told that recently that I had too many verifications and that it would put people off, but most of my verifications are from socials.

Anyone who thinks like that isn't worth your time Op just move onto the next person who doesn't mind about the amount of verifications you have "

Been told the same in the past but if they want to judge me by how many veris i have then its their problem not mine. Most of mine are from socials and if they want to think ive played with every single one then thats up to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was told that recently that I had too many verifications and that it would put people off, but most of my verifications are from socials.

Anyone who thinks like that isn't worth your time Op just move onto the next person who doesn't mind about the amount of verifications you have

Been told the same in the past but if they want to judge me by how many veris i have then its their problem not mine. Most of mine are from socials and if they want to think ive played with every single one then thats up to them "

So you don't mind that I fantasise about that? Thanks tox, you're the best

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"I was told that recently that I had too many verifications and that it would put people off, but most of my verifications are from socials.

Anyone who thinks like that isn't worth your time Op just move onto the next person who doesn't mind about the amount of verifications you have

Been told the same in the past but if they want to judge me by how many veris i have then its their problem not mine. Most of mine are from socials and if they want to think ive played with every single one then thats up to them

So you don't mind that I fantasise about that? Thanks tox, you're the best "

Go for it

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"It's impossible to please everyone on here. Just keep on enjoying yourself and don't worry about a few who don't grasp that swinging is about socialising and meeting. "

this.

Feck them if they haven't the cop to know. You are better off without them.

Having said that, it may do no harm to add a note on your profile to say that the majority of your veris are from social meets. Just for the lazy ones that don't bother to look at them

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"It's impossible to please everyone on here. Just keep on enjoying yourself and don't worry about a few who don't grasp that swinging is about socialising and meeting.

this.

Feck them if they haven't the cop to know. You are better off without them.

Having said that, it may do no harm to add a note on your profile to say that the majority of your veris are from social meets. Just for the lazy ones that don't bother to look at them "

If they are too lazy to read them they aren’t worth your time!

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

I look at how many people have and length of time they are on. If they have like 50 in a month then no I won’t be speaking to them! Unless they are social vers

I’ve a good few myself and have been called a slut for it!

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"It's impossible to please everyone on here. Just keep on enjoying yourself and don't worry about a few who don't grasp that swinging is about socialising and meeting.

this.

Feck them if they haven't the cop to know. You are better off without them.

Having said that, it may do no harm to add a note on your profile to say that the majority of your veris are from social meets. Just for the lazy ones that don't bother to look at them

If they are too lazy to read them they aren’t worth your time!

"

Yeah, what sane Fabbers don't like a good perv of a potentials veris Slippery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show my veris or summary so peeps just going to have to find out themselves. My veris, my business...simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's impossible to please everyone on here. Just keep on enjoying yourself and don't worry about a few who don't grasp that swinging is about socialising and meeting. "

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By *ouplefun99Couple
over a year ago

gorey co wexford

I like to read veris...quiet new and it lets u know if people have been to m&g parties etc....if they dont take time to read ur profile then fxxk them xx

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

I find people will always make their own assumptions despite what you say. I'm in this site over six years so my verifications have built up after being to many socials and parties over the years. I'm not out partying every weekend or anything close to that but after time veris build up. But like I said I'm sure some people make all sorts of untrue assumptions, I can't control that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a nasty message sent to me on wednesday from a guy slagging me off for been here said im fucking strange men behind my husbands back he really got nasty and hurtful, i reported him they done nothing so i just blocked him.. such a creep..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it crazy that people on a sex site can judge other people on a sex site for how many people they've met on a sex site! We're all here to have fun and 99% of fabbers play safe, so whats the issue? If you meet someone down the pub you dont get a list of veries, you've no clue who's been there before, i know a girl who wouldnt dream of being on fab but reckons she shagged over a hundred guys..

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By *ackpowerMan
over a year ago

blanch

He was just jealous that he couldn't have u for himself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it crazy that people on a sex site can judge other people on a sex site for how many people they've met on a sex site! We're all here to have fun and 99% of fabbers play safe, so whats the issue? If you meet someone down the pub you dont get a list of veries, you've no clue who's been there before, i know a girl who wouldnt dream of being on fab but reckons she shagged over a hundred guys..

I agree with you i did say to him its a sex not bloody tinder but it didnt matter he just went on and on slagging me off, this was a 40 year old man should have more sense.. anyway fuck him..move on?

"

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I find it crazy that people on a sex site can judge other people on a sex site for how many people they've met on a sex site! We're all here to have fun and 99% of fabbers play safe, so whats the issue? If you meet someone down the pub you dont get a list of veries, you've no clue who's been there before, i know a girl who wouldnt dream of being on fab but reckons she shagged over a hundred guys..

"

Well sai.

However I'd love to know where you have that 99% from? The figure is far away from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it crazy that people on a sex site can judge other people on a sex site for how many people they've met on a sex site! We're all here to have fun and 99% of fabbers play safe, so whats the issue? If you meet someone down the pub you dont get a list of veries, you've no clue who's been there before, i know a girl who wouldnt dream of being on fab but reckons she shagged over a hundred guys..

Well sai.

However I'd love to know where you have that 99% from? The figure is far away from it.

"

Im going by oersonal experience.. ive been on and off this siye over the years and on every meet there's been that unspoken expectation on both sides, no glove no love.. and the vast majority of profiles state safe sex only..

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Would anyone not meet someone because of who's on there verfie????

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I find it crazy that people on a sex site can judge other people on a sex site for how many people they've met on a sex site! We're all here to have fun and 99% of fabbers play safe, so whats the issue? If you meet someone down the pub you dont get a list of veries, you've no clue who's been there before, i know a girl who wouldnt dream of being on fab but reckons she shagged over a hundred guys..

Well sai.

However I'd love to know where you have that 99% from? The figure is far away from it.

Im going by oersonal experience.. ive been on and off this siye over the years and on every meet there's been that unspoken expectation on both sides, no glove no love.. and the vast majority of profiles state safe sex only.."

Stating safe sex only doesn't mean anything.

It doesn't match with my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it crazy that people on a sex site can judge other people on a sex site for how many people they've met on a sex site! We're all here to have fun and 99% of fabbers play safe, so whats the issue? If you meet someone down the pub you dont get a list of veries, you've no clue who's been there before, i know a girl who wouldnt dream of being on fab but reckons she shagged over a hundred guys..

Well sai.

However I'd love to know where you have that 99% from? The figure is far away from it.

Im going by oersonal experience.. ive been on and off this siye over the years and on every meet there's been that unspoken expectation on both sides, no glove no love.. and the vast majority of profiles state safe sex only..

Stating safe sex only doesn't mean anything.

It doesn't match with my experience. "

Lots of "single male" profiles stating safe sex while showing bareback pics on the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My bare back photo is with my x partner who i was on here with for a few years

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"Too many veris" simply means you're overqualified for the job!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple fact is, people will meet who they want to meet based on the information available.. no point in trying to second guess it or get bent outta shape when it doesn't go your way.. be true to yourself snd let the cards fall where they may

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck them I say not worth giving the time of day to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guy sent messages to me yesterday ... a few exchanged then I didn't respond quickly enough, I mean an hour passed but he sent a message. .. your obviously not interested well you've too many veris for me !!! Really are we supposed to save ourselves for the special one. I told him to get over himself, if it's a Virgin he's looking for he might be on the wrong site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put whatever you want on your profile.

Too many people here trying to dictate to others about their profiles, what pics to put up, what pics to attach to messages, what to say in messages etc etc"

I totally agree with this ... do what you want not what is considered acceptable. Sometimes this place is fierce judgemental which is ironic really

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"Put whatever you want on your profile.

Too many people here trying to dictate to others about their profiles, what pics to put up, what pics to attach to messages, what to say in messages etc etc

I totally agree with this ... do what you want not what is considered acceptable. Sometimes this place is fierce judgemental which is ironic really "

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By *uriousPearCouple
over a year ago

dublin 5

The number of verifications doesn't bother us at all but we do have look at the type of verifications that people leave. Verifications with overly graphic detail are such a turn off. Any references to gaping, Dyson or squirting are just a little too much for us.

If someone tended to write in that style, we probably wouldn't be too keen to meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find some very judgy when looking at veris, men can have loads but women can’t. Like it’s ridic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The number of verifications doesn't bother us at all but we do have look at the type of verifications that people leave. Verifications with overly graphic detail are such a turn off. Any references to gaping, Dyson or squirting are just a little too much for us.

If someone tended to write in that style, we probably wouldn't be too keen to meet them."

Dyson .... didn't know if I should laugh or feel a little ill. .. I'm putting the hoover down now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think i have that many . Moastly from socials and partys etc but lately iv had women and couples say iv too many verifications and they are put off by it and have no interest is this an easy way of saying no or is too many beris a problem for some ? "

Depends on the verifications. We look at the comments rather than the amount. Having met your good self at a few parties we know your a social bunny and not a site bike.

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