FabSwingers.com forum: Getting over someone

By *unlinguy OP Man
over a year ago

South Dublin

They say that the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.. is this true? Have you used this method? Did it work or make you feel guilty? How long did you wait until you resorted to the method?

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Everyone differs some shout NEXT others take time out before jumping in again

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By *unlinguy OP Man
over a year ago

South Dublin

Lol...

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

God I love a woman that shouts "next!"

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

"God I love a woman that shouts "next!"

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haha

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By *ork fellaMan
over a year ago

Macroom

Broken up with the ex over a year now and still not fully over her. We have a two year old girl together that I only see on weekends now. Driving away on a Sunday evening kills me.Hard when the wedding, house and family plans turn to shit but shur tis only a case of get back up, dust yourself off smile away and go again. The alternative doesn't bear thinking about like.

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By *unlinguy OP Man
over a year ago

South Dublin

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By *unlinguy OP Man
over a year ago

South Dublin

For the record im not askin for advice here lol.. i just heard someone earlier today sayin the best way to get over one man is to get straight under another. Was wonderin of there truth to that.

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By *m233Man
over a year ago

dublin

I don’t think it necessarily is the best way... I find it’s a very quick fix for a deeper problem.

Yes I’ve tried and tested it a few times.. and you simply forget about the rides you’ve had and go back thinking about your ex as soon as they’ve left.

That’s what I found anyway

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

Relationship some people get over really quick which questions how they really felt about the person

Some get satisfaction meeting someone straight away others like to heal before jumping back in .

Everyone is different at handling thing's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting under sumone else is a short fix or distraction It'l jus take time for u to over it properly. ..Xx

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By *unlinguy OP Man
over a year ago

South Dublin

Amazing the way different people address the situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been broken up with a girl for years and been with others but still think about that one girl daily :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its hard...really..really hard getting over someone

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Quick fixes rarely work. But they help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moving on is hard.... distraction helps greatly but it’s a short term fix xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oscar wilde once said the best way to get over a woman is to turn her into literature. I’m a believer in writing stuff down so you can actually see your thoughts. Might sound sad but it works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oscar wilde once said the best way to get over a woman is to turn her into literature. I’m a believer in writing stuff down so you can actually see your thoughts. Might sound sad but it works "

There's a poet called Lang Leav and she has written some very good stuff about lost love. I think it's been a kind of therapy for her to write it out.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I'd echo some of the sentiments above.

Yes, it takes the edge off and gives you a little self confidence back at the same time, along with an opportunity to discover that all your tricks don't work the same with everyone else and that you will have to put in some effort.

However, you will still pine for the old lover a little and will wonder what you should/could have done differently. That's some self examination that is worthwhile but try not to ponder it too long or too often. Do try to learn from it though. Life is for living, so get out and grab another chance at happiness

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

You can get badly hurt after a breakup . Depends how it goes between you the screams and roars and hurtful things . It can take a while to get over a breakup . A good holiday most likely . I would not tel anyone to jump into another relationship . Just relax and chill out .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They say that the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.. is this true? Have you used this method? Did it work or make you feel guilty? How long did you wait until you resorted to the method?

Yes Ive used this method ,my analogy is a broken heart is to an open wound ,is each new lover will act as a stich on that open wound until after time and enough stiches the wound itself will be sealed tight and then the inner healing will commence .

Harry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oscar wilde once said the best way to get over a woman is to turn her into literature. I’m a believer in writing stuff down so you can actually see your thoughts. Might sound sad but it works "

W.B Yeats, No Second Troy .

Harry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to mope around and feel sorry for myself. But now I just moved on to the next.

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By *rct4Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Best way is to go out and meet someone new and take it easy and have fun! As it's not worth sitting in thinking about it!

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By *isdirtygirlWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Yes ive done the rebound sex and was left with a bad taste in my mouth and had nothing but regrets.

I opted to go the Bridget Jones route since

the duvet and wailing like a banshee with a bottle of wine...Alllll byyy myselllfffff.....

You ladies know what i mean

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By *rct4Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"Yes ive done the rebound sex and was left with a bad taste in my mouth and had nothing but regrets.

I opted to go the Bridget Jones route since

the duvet and wailing like a banshee with a bottle of wine...Alllll byyy myselllfffff.....

You ladies know what i mean

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and the Ben and jerry

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By *unlinguy OP Man
over a year ago

South Dublin

"Yes ive done the rebound sex and was left with a bad taste in my mouth and had nothing but regrets.

I opted to go the Bridget Jones route since

the duvet and wailing like a banshee with a bottle of wine...Alllll byyy myselllfffff.....

You ladies know what i mean

Lol . This made me laugh

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By *r MacmullyMan
over a year ago

Tarbert

For me meeting new people is a distraction bit I will always think of her and how I could/should have done better.

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