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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I met with a couple last night for a car meet to discover that the fella in the couple was d*unk as a ass and the women didn't have a clue there was a meet set up. When I figured out that the women didn't no about it i lost interest and just said let's leave it for tonight. I am only new to the scene but for me last night was not what i taught the scene was about and i hope it never happens again the complete lack of respect for the women is what shocked me the most. This is just something that I need to get off my chest rant over..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, that’s rotten luck OP.

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By *irl4girlsWoman
over a year ago

Celbridge

Name and shame I'd take the ban (((

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh, that’s rotten luck OP.

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Your telling me especially when they start to fight any your sitting there like a spare tool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crazy stuff .. that could have ended up very badly. Did they seem genuine, verified?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Name and shame I'd take the ban ((("

I wouldn't do that but I no someone on here that was to meet them and they were given the heads up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Name and shame man.

No one deserves to be treated like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Crazy stuff .. that could have ended up very badly. Did they seem genuine, verified?"

Yes have a good few veris they seem very genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For your own safety if when u arrive and your meet is d*unk or high walk away its not worth it

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By *irl4girlsWoman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"Name and shame I'd take the ban (((

I wouldn't do that but I no someone on here that was to meet them and they were given the heads up "

I've done it to prevent others you don't know that are to meet them .My worst nightmare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Name and shame I'd take the ban (((

I wouldn't do that but I no someone on here that was to meet them and they were given the heads up "

Name them in your status for others.

You can be guaranteed if it were a single guy who did this, they wouldn’t think twice about spreading the word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could have been a once off incident but what annoyed me was hearing she had no idea of the meet. That's not always the case OP, hang in their

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Him been d*unk was enough for me to walk away but her not knowing about it is what really shocked me

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

OMG what a complete waster sorry to hear that OP.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Him been d*unk was enough for me to walk away but her not knowing about it is what really shocked me "

Some people are shitheads with no respect for anyone else, even ones they claim to love.

That's how it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh, that’s rotten luck OP.

Your telling me especially when they start to fight any your sitting there like a spare tool "

Aww thats lousy, shame on him for doing that on you both ..

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

What's the point in naming and shaming? Would you not think the woman isn't already punished enough with a guy like this? And I'm sure he got his head washed. Most likely won't happen again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Crazy stuff .. that could have ended up very badly. Did they seem genuine, verified?

Yes have a good few veris they seem very genuine "

Maybe it's some kind of headwrecking game they get off on. Chalk it down, walk away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Won't be going near yhwm again once bitten twice shy

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Won't be going near yhwm again once bitten twice shy "
fair play plenty more on here hun xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Won't be going near yhwm again once bitten twice shy fair play plenty more on here hun xx"

Hope so the odds ain't in my favour tho

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Won't be going near yhwm again once bitten twice shy fair play plenty more on here hun xx

Hope so the odds ain't in my favour tho "

just stick it out I'm sure things will work out for ye....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that is bang out of order.what a cock to do that on his wife/gf or whatever she is to him

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

That's a lousy thing to happen OP . Just be grateful nothing bad happened. That's what would scare me. If she didn't know what he had arranged and got scared gawd only knows what could of happened. Veries mean nothing on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's a lousy thing to happen OP . Just be grateful nothing bad happened. That's what would scare me. If she didn't know what he had arranged and got scared gawd only knows what could of happened. Veries mean nothing on here. "

Well i wouldnt do anything unless the both people were happy but I knew straight off this was a no go even with all there varies what he did was out of order

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well that is bang out of order.what a cock to do that on his wife/gf or whatever she is to him"

I no I couldn't believe it

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"That's a lousy thing to happen OP . Just be grateful nothing bad happened. That's what would scare me. If she didn't know what he had arranged and got scared gawd only knows what could of happened. Veries mean nothing on here.

Well i wouldnt do anything unless the both people were happy but I knew straight off this was a no go even with all there varies what he did was out of order"

Totally out of order. And also a lot goes into a meet. Preparation, getting ready and nerves. Hope your next meet goes smoothly. X

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

If that happened on tv, you'd have a good laugh so why not use what happened as a great story for a future coffee meet. That's exactly what I did and my story always get a laugh or a "OMG"

Hang in there big fella

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"If that happened on tv, you'd have a good laugh so why not use what happened as a great story for a future coffee meet. That's exactly what I did and my story always get a laugh or a "OMG"

Hang in there big fella "

I get what you're saying Tim but anything could of happened at that meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's a lousy thing to happen OP . Just be grateful nothing bad happened. That's what would scare me. If she didn't know what he had arranged and got scared gawd only knows what could of happened. Veries mean nothing on here.

Well i wouldnt do anything unless the both people were happy but I knew straight off this was a no go even with all there varies what he did was out of order

Totally out of order. And also a lot goes into a meet. Preparation, getting ready and nerves. Hope your next meet goes smoothly. X"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If that happened on tv, you'd have a good laugh so why not use what happened as a great story for a future coffee meet. That's exactly what I did and my story always get a laugh or a "OMG"

Hang in there big fella "

It's something to remember anyway

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By *irl4girlsWoman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"What's the point in naming and shaming? Would you not think the woman isn't already punished enough with a guy like this? And I'm sure he got his head washed. Most likely won't happen again. "
he sounds like a complete wanker so the point being no other poor fella or girl has to have anything to do with them it's not rocket science .We all should help each other out and stay safe here no !!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well the one thing I'm taking front this is how important a social meet is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well the one thing I'm taking front this is how important a social meet is "

And yet people wonder why others do them....

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By *exysam and StuartCouple
over a year ago

over the hills and far away

Sorry to hear about your experience OP, that guy has zero respect for his partner.

Name them on your profile status to warn others and report to admin.

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

cork

Really hope the fool wasn't the driver?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Really hope the fool wasn't the driver?"

No wouldn't have been getting into a car with him behind the wheel anyway

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I met with a couple last night for a car meet to discover that the fella in the couple was d*unk as a ass and the women didn't have a clue there was a meet set up. When I figured out that the women didn't no about it i lost interest and just said let's leave it for tonight. I am only new to the scene but for me last night was not what i taught the scene was about and i hope it never happens again the complete lack of respect for the women is what shocked me the most. This is just something that I need to get off my chest rant over.."

I'm really sorry to hear this happen and especially to you... you're a fantastic guy and a good friend to me....

Hopefully your next meet will be more successful...

You're the bomb xxx

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

Have experienced this although without the guy being d*unk...girl flabbergasted why i had been invited to meet them...obviously a control freak of the worst type

Fab....is...bonkers..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have experienced this although without the guy being d*unk...girl flabbergasted why i had been invited to meet them...obviously a control freak of the worst type

Fab....is...bonkers.. "

Nice to see I'm not the only one it happened to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I met with a couple last night for a car meet to discover that the fella in the couple was d*unk as a ass and the women didn't have a clue there was a meet set up. When I figured out that the women didn't no about it i lost interest and just said let's leave it for tonight. I am only new to the scene but for me last night was not what i taught the scene was about and i hope it never happens again the complete lack of respect for the women is what shocked me the most. This is just something that I need to get off my chest rant over..

I'm really sorry to hear this happen and especially to you... you're a fantastic guy and a good friend to me....

Hopefully your next meet will be more successful...

You're the bomb xxx "

Ah thanks laura this is why your the bomb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put it down to experience and maybe opt for a coffee meet first, to see if everyone is on board

Lots of lovely genuine couples on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a question OP if she didn’t know and he was off his head who was driving? Was a car meet you said?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just a question OP if she didn’t know and he was off his head who was driving? Was a car meet you said? "

I was driving met them in town to pick them up if it was him that was driving i would have walked home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a question OP if she didn’t know and he was off his head who was driving? Was a car meet you said?

I was driving met them in town to pick them up if it was him that was driving i would have walked home "

Ahhh was wondering :-/ not good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just a question OP if she didn’t know and he was off his head who was driving? Was a car meet you said?

I was driving met them in town to pick them up if it was him that was driving i would have walked home

Ahhh was wondering :-/ not good "

No but it had to happen to someone just turned out that someone was me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a question OP if she didn’t know and he was off his head who was driving? Was a car meet you said?

I was driving met them in town to pick them up if it was him that was driving i would have walked home

Ahhh was wondering :-/ not good

No but it had to happen to someone just turned out that someone was me "

Probably saved... onwards n upwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Name and shame I'd take the ban ((("

If he tells you who they are will you name and shame?

It's easy for others to say this but then you're not getting the ban.

It's a bad thing indeed and gives a bad taste for everyone. It sounds like he was being the shit if she new nothing about it and so to name and shame both wouldn't be right, but then she could have just said that as a cover for him.

Was he driving? If so cut his bollox off endangering her life and others on the road.... better than naming and shaming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a question OP if she didn’t know and he was off his head who was driving? Was a car meet you said?

I was driving met them in town to pick them up if it was him that was driving i would have walked home

Ahhh was wondering :-/ not good

No but it had to happen to someone just turned out that someone was me "

Sorry didn't read through the post when I posted.... Note again to self read all the replies first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a question OP if she didn’t know and he was off his head who was driving? Was a car meet you said?

I was driving met them in town to pick them up if it was him that was driving i would have walked home

Ahhh was wondering :-/ not good

No but it had to happen to someone just turned out that someone was me

Sorry didn't read through the post when I posted.... Note again to self read all the replies first "

Sounds like u were the taxi service

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By *ugarandspice101Couple
over a year ago

Belfast


"Could have been a once off incident but what annoyed me was hearing she had no idea of the meet. That's not always the case OP, hang in their "

Have to day there would be a divorce in our house if he done that to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad luck OP though feel more sorry for that poor lady

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bad luck OP though feel more sorry for that poor lady "

So do i at least I got to go home she had to go home with him

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

That was disgusting OMG . If I am meeting people I stay away from drink . I have to be sober I don't need drink to meet people . I have noticed people here need drink to play . I would not play with people with drink on them .

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By *irl4girlsWoman
over a year ago

Celbridge


"Name and shame I'd take the ban (((

If he tells you who they are will you name and shame?

It's easy for others to say this but then you're not getting the ban.

It's a bad thing indeed and gives a bad taste for everyone. It sounds like he was being the shit if she new nothing about it and so to name and shame both wouldn't be right, but then she could have just said that as a cover for him.

Was he driving? If so cut his bollox off endangering her life and others on the road.... better than naming and shaming "

it didn't happen to me do not my place but a guy did mess me around before and I did name and shame and take the ban !!!

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By *ack 188Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15

The guy has made his defence on his status

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a question OP if she didn’t know and he was off his head who was driving? Was a car meet you said?

I was driving met them in town to pick them up if it was him that was driving i would have walked home

Ahhh was wondering :-/ not good

No but it had to happen to someone just turned out that someone was me

Sorry didn't read through the post when I posted.... Note again to self read all the replies first Sounds like u were the taxi service "

May I ask again not to reply to any of my comments, you know you've been blocked for over a year for homophobic messages. You've sent derogatory defaming messages about ladies I've met two of which you referred to are in this thread. I hope that finally puts an end to your nonsense. Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am lost

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By *ack 188Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15

Me too lost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a question OP if she didn’t know and he was off his head who was driving? Was a car meet you said?

I was driving met them in town to pick them up if it was him that was driving i would have walked home

Ahhh was wondering :-/ not good

No but it had to happen to someone just turned out that someone was me

Sorry didn't read through the post when I posted.... Note again to self read all the replies first Sounds like u were the taxi service

May I ask again not to reply to any of my comments, you know you've been blocked for over a year for homophobic messages. You've sent derogatory defaming messages about ladies I've met two of which you referred to are in this thread. I hope that finally puts an end to your nonsense. Thank you."

Thanks for your post, I'm not lost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who was banned for a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is all random

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