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By *eductively_Sweet OP   Woman
over a year ago

wexford

when i read a male profile i see they are straight. yet they are looking for tv/ts. this confuses me as its like a straight girl looking for women.. wouldnt it be better to put bi-curious instead.. or is every profile fab straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when i read a male profile i see they are straight. yet they are looking for tv/ts. this confuses me as its like a straight girl looking for women.. wouldnt it be better to put bi-curious instead.. or is every profile fab straight "

I always thought that strange.

It's like I am not gay but my boyfriend is. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when i read a male profile i see they are straight. yet they are looking for tv/ts. this confuses me as its like a straight girl looking for women.. wouldnt it be better to put bi-curious instead.. or is every profile fab straight "

The million dollar question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when i read a male profile i see they are straight. yet they are looking for tv/ts. this confuses me as its like a straight girl looking for women.. wouldnt it be better to put bi-curious instead.. or is every profile fab straight "

If a man is looking for TV/TS then, in my opinion, he isn’t straight. Bi curious would be a better description all round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hedging all bets so if someone says they like bi-men then they can say hey I like TV/TS?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ts fair enough but TV is a man dressed as a woman. But whatever about that, the more confusing thing is texts from straight men offering bjs. For once I wish it was that easy with the women hahaha

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By *eductively_Sweet OP   Woman
over a year ago

wexford


"when i read a male profile i see they are straight. yet they are looking for tv/ts. this confuses me as its like a straight girl looking for women.. wouldnt it be better to put bi-curious instead.. or is every profile fab straight

If a man is looking for TV/TS then, in my opinion, he isn’t straight. Bi curious would be a better description all round"

this is my thinking so but bi curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ts fair enough but TV is a man dressed as a woman. But whatever about that, the more confusing thing is texts from straight men offering bjs. For once I wish it was that easy with the women hahaha"

Ts is fair enough. Can I stop you there. You would still be with somebody who was born a man.

Maybe it's just me but straight means you like ladies not ladies who were born men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when i read a male profile i see they are straight. yet they are looking for tv/ts. this confuses me as its like a straight girl looking for women.. wouldnt it be better to put bi-curious instead.. or is every profile fab straight

If a man is looking for TV/TS then, in my opinion, he isn’t straight. Bi curious would be a better description all round

this is my thinking so but bi curious "

no way is he 100% straight anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all down to the individual and how they identify sexually I suppose

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By *eductively_Sweet OP   Woman
over a year ago

wexford


"Ts fair enough but TV is a man dressed as a woman. But whatever about that, the more confusing thing is texts from straight men offering bjs. For once I wish it was that easy with the women hahaha"

see that baffles me even more.. clearly those "straight " are bi curious.. no one needs to be in the closet here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always reply say im only interested in straight men and i get a reply "i am straight" when i ask about tv/ts on their profule i either get im curious ive never met one or oh thats a mistake but yet its still on their profile

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By *eductively_Sweet OP   Woman
over a year ago

wexford


"It’s all down to the individual and how they identify sexually I suppose "

so out interest if u saw straight looking for tv/ts would it make u think confusion or not atal or straight really has double meaning

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By *eductively_Sweet OP   Woman
over a year ago

wexford


"I always reply say im only interested in straight men and i get a reply "i am straight" when i ask about tv/ts on their profule i either get im curious ive never met one or oh thats a mistake but yet its still on their profile "

this is totally my confusion.. its double meaning ur either straight or not

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

I see it Sweets as a curiosity from a lot of guys, they are looking at a woman. If the cock doesn’t come into play then they are being with a woman. If it wasn’t on the persons profile, majority of the time you’d be none the wiser! A lot of the tv/ts women look more womanly then most other women! I think guys are exploring while here and not having to explore out in the “open”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of msgs i get off "straight" guys wanting to "fuck" is unbelievable and im ok with that but in my opinion they must think that because what they looking at resembles a female to them it dont matter or just very much in the closet which os also ok xx

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Or straight on profile and veries from ts/tv.

Just be who you are . Be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see it Sweets as a curiosity from a lot of guys, they are looking at a woman. If the cock doesn’t come into play then they are being with a woman. If it wasn’t on the persons profile, majority of the time you’d be none the wiser! A lot of the tv/ts women look more womanly then most other women! I think guys are exploring while here and not having to explore out in the “open”"

That is true that some guys may be curious about it but at the end of the day a TV is just a man in women’s clothing. Ultimately it is a male that they are curious about and that means they are at least bi curious. No?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see it Sweets as a curiosity from a lot of guys, they are looking at a woman. If the cock doesn’t come into play then they are being with a woman. If it wasn’t on the persons profile, majority of the time you’d be none the wiser! A lot of the tv/ts women look more womanly then most other women! I think guys are exploring while here and not having to explore out in the “open”"

Well i am curious about tv/ts some of the pics are unreal but i have no interest in meeting one whatsoever and i am 100% straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a tough one as many do have it. Also you could be verified by a tv or a t's but that could be in a social aspect

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"I see it Sweets as a curiosity from a lot of guys, they are looking at a woman. If the cock doesn’t come into play then they are being with a woman. If it wasn’t on the persons profile, majority of the time you’d be none the wiser! A lot of the tv/ts women look more womanly then most other women! I think guys are exploring while here and not having to explore out in the “open”

That is true that some guys may be curious about it but at the end of the day a TV is just a man in women’s clothing. Ultimately it is a male that they are curious about and that means they are at least bi curious. No?"

I would say yes to being bi-curious. But maybe not in the full sense lol I was with a woman as I was intrigued and I realised it wasn’t for me. This is what is so good about fab , you can try out and experience sexually what you may not in you Vanilla life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t really get where this thread is going? Some of the comments are suggesting they’d be ‘put off’ just because a guy has been or is interested in tv/ts.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"I don’t really get where this thread is going? Some of the comments are suggesting they’d be ‘put off’ just because a guy has been or is interested in tv/ts. "

That's not what I mean. I mean dont have one thing on your profile and do something completely different. I'm not here to judge and I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t really get where this thread is going? Some of the comments are suggesting they’d be ‘put off’ just because a guy has been or is interested in tv/ts. "

Well im only interested in straight guys not bi curious or bi. So if a straight guy had a veri from a tv/ts i would not neet him. Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t really get where this thread is going? Some of the comments are suggesting they’d be ‘put off’ just because a guy has been or is interested in tv/ts.

Well im only interested in straight guys not bi curious or bi. So if a straight guy had a veri from a tv/ts i would not neet him. Sorry. "

What's the difference between a straight guy and a bi guy if they both fancy you? I'm straight and not fab straight BTW haha but like I'd meet a straight or bi woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally my bisexuality is a lifestyle choice. I pick it up and put it down as I decide. It's only a tiny part of me and if people judge by that so be it. I have no time for judgemental people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t really get where this thread is going? Some of the comments are suggesting they’d be ‘put off’ just because a guy has been or is interested in tv/ts.

Well im only interested in straight guys not bi curious or bi. So if a straight guy had a veri from a tv/ts i would not neet him. Sorry.

What's the difference between a straight guy and a bi guy if they both fancy you? I'm straight and not fab straight BTW haha but like I'd meet a straight or bi woman "

Well im not into guys who like guys simple as.

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By *icole FanningTV/TS
over a year ago

Navan

You’re not straight if you want to be with a tv. There’s no doubt about that. Maybe some guys state they’re straight on their profile because they don’t want to say otherwise.

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By *eductively_Sweet OP   Woman
over a year ago

wexford


"Personally my bisexuality is a lifestyle choice. I pick it up and put it down as I decide. It's only a tiny part of me and if people judge by that so be it. I have no time for judgemental people."

im not been judgemental atal .. im just curious why straight profiles contradict themselves looking for tv/ts to me that bi curious at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often wondered myself, but hey everyone to their own I guess

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

TS when fully transitioned is female. What someone states on their profile is their call. I get that it's confusing to figure out but if everyone gave the same grace and leeway that is given to bisexual females to bisexual men then this wouldn't be the case.

Madame B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally my bisexuality is a lifestyle choice. I pick it up and put it down as I decide. It's only a tiny part of me and if people judge by that so be it. I have no time for judgemental people."

I am def not judging i have friends who are bi both a guy and gal and it doesnt bother me a bit they are good friends.its their lifestyle choice but they dont lie about it. As op said why state ur straight if ur not straight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally my bisexuality is a lifestyle choice. I pick it up and put it down as I decide. It's only a tiny part of me and if people judge by that so be it. I have no time for judgemental people.

im not been judgemental atal .. im just curious why straight profiles contradict themselves looking for tv/ts to me that bi curious at least "

I never said you or anyone was were judgemental.

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"Personally my bisexuality is a lifestyle choice. I pick it up and put it down as I decide. It's only a tiny part of me and if people judge by that so be it. I have no time for judgemental people.

I am def not judging i have friends who are bi both a guy and gal and it doesnt bother me a bit they are good friends.its their lifestyle choice but they dont lie about it. As op said why state ur straight if ur not straight? "

Because people judge them based on it and won't meet them because of it.

Madame B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally my bisexuality is a lifestyle choice. I pick it up and put it down as I decide. It's only a tiny part of me and if people judge by that so be it. I have no time for judgemental people.

im not been judgemental atal .. im just curious why straight profiles contradict themselves looking for tv/ts to me that bi curious at least

I never said you or anyone was were judgemental. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when i read a male profile i see they are straight. yet they are looking for tv/ts. this confuses me as its like a straight girl looking for women.. wouldnt it be better to put bi-curious instead.. or is every profile fab straight "

Mmm this has regularly made me wonder... a butch cock or an iffeminite cock. . Is it still not a cock so put bisexual on your profile ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally my bisexuality is a lifestyle choice. I pick it up and put it down as I decide. It's only a tiny part of me and if people judge by that so be it. I have no time for judgemental people.

im not been judgemental atal .. im just curious why straight profiles contradict themselves looking for tv/ts to me that bi curious at least

I never said you or anyone was were judgemental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"TS when fully transitioned is female. What someone states on their profile is their call. I get that it's confusing to figure out but if everyone gave the same grace and leeway that is given to bisexual females to bisexual men then this wouldn't be the case.

Madame B"

Very well said! Men seem to have no issue with bi women so why is the attitude so different visa versa?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when i read a male profile i see they are straight. yet they are looking for tv/ts. this confuses me as its like a straight girl looking for women.. wouldnt it be better to put bi-curious instead.. or is every profile fab straight

Mmm this has regularly made me wonder... a butch cock or an iffeminite cock. . Is it still not a cock so put bisexual on your profile ?? "

BTW this doesn't bother me I'm just curious

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By *icole FanningTV/TS
over a year ago

Navan

Interestingly .... a quick look at the last 12 guys that have messaged me privately ... all their profiles, except one, say they’re straight ....

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"TS when fully transitioned is female. What someone states on their profile is their call. I get that it's confusing to figure out but if everyone gave the same grace and leeway that is given to bisexual females to bisexual men then this wouldn't be the case.

Madame B

Very well said! Men seem to have no issue with bi women so why is the attitude so different visa versa? "

It's not just the men with an issue that is causing this behaviour. It could be an internal issue with the individual or the attitude of others, male and female. This is a swinging site in the country that voted for gay marriage and yet here we are! Again, I do understand that it is confusing trying to figure out a person's sexual orientation if they have put straight on their profile but I understand why they do it.

Madame B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is a sexuality label so important to some people.

You cannot touch it.

You cannot smell it.

You cannot feel it.

It is an intagible linguistic that tends to be vastly divisive for those in society who are not straight. Regardless of those whp buck the trend it is more often than not a hindrance to people just as deserving of love.

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"Why is a sexuality label so important to some people.

You cannot touch it.

You cannot smell it.

You cannot feel it.

It is an intagible linguistic that tends to be vastly divisive for those in society who are not straight. Regardless of those whp buck the trend it is more often than not a hindrance to people just as deserving of love."

I agree but we are on a site that operates within the confines of categories to suit people's preferences. This is the first place I had to actually lable myself. When I was dealing with figuring out my sexuality avoiding lables was how I did it.

Madame B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is a sexuality label so important to some people.

You cannot touch it.

You cannot smell it.

You cannot feel it.

It is an intagible linguistic that tends to be vastly divisive for those in society who are not straight. Regardless of those whp buck the trend it is more often than not a hindrance to people just as deserving of love."

Kate I love to the way you think and your ability to articulate xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is a sexuality label so important to some people.

You cannot touch it.

You cannot smell it.

You cannot feel it.

It is an intagible linguistic that tends to be vastly divisive for those in society who are not straight. Regardless of those whp buck the trend it is more often than not a hindrance to people just as deserving of love.

I agree but we are on a site that operates within the confines of categories to suit people's preferences. This is the first place I had to actually lable myself. When I was dealing with figuring out my sexuality avoiding lables was how I did it.

Madame B"

I understand what you are saying but .... I tend to think of sexuality on a much broader base than allows on this site.

The fact someone registers on the site doesn't automatically realign their sexuality to a very limited set of default positions.

Even the gender classification is somewhat restrictive for a site such as this.

Man

Woman

Transvestite (mtf)

Transgender (mtf)

Transgender (ftm)

Non binary

Genderfluid etc

The list goes on .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ts fair enough but TV is a man dressed as a woman. But whatever about that, the more confusing thing is texts from straight men offering bjs. For once I wish it was that easy with the women hahaha

see that baffles me even more.. clearly those "straight " are bi curious.. no one needs to be in the closet here"

I’m straight but very happy to play with bi females!! Is that a typical guy answer?

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By *eductively_Sweet OP   Woman
over a year ago

wexford


"Ts fair enough but TV is a man dressed as a woman. But whatever about that, the more confusing thing is texts from straight men offering bjs. For once I wish it was that easy with the women hahaha

see that baffles me even more.. clearly those "straight " are bi curious.. no one needs to be in the closet here

I’m straight but very happy to play with bi females!! Is that a typical guy answer? "

it is lol.. but as a girl i dont mind playing with bi men

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"when i read a male profile i see they are straight. yet they are looking for tv/ts. this confuses me as its like a straight girl looking for women.. wouldnt it be better to put bi-curious instead.. or is every profile fab straight "

You're not gay if you don't push back. Fooey taught me that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when i read a male profile i see they are straight. yet they are looking for tv/ts. this confuses me as its like a straight girl looking for women.. wouldnt it be better to put bi-curious instead.. or is every profile fab straight "

There liars plain and straight, or else there in denial. Harry

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Most bi curious guys won’t label themselves as that on here because of threads and narrow minded opinions like those displayed here. Why do labels matter so much?

The important question is why are bi and bi curious girls the holy grail whereas bi and bi curious guys are sneered at and the target of jokes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see it alittle bit differently. I'm completely straight and not at all interested in TV/TS, but I've no problem with anal play. At this point it's only gotten to the point of tongue and a finger, maybe 2. I'm interested in dildo play and possibly being fucked with a strap on, but not by a guy/TV/TS. I wonder is this where the curiosity might come from in some guys!? They want to explore that aspect but maybe can't find a straight partner to do it with so feel the need to seek it from TV/TS!?

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"when i read a male profile i see they are straight. yet they are looking for tv/ts. this confuses me as its like a straight girl looking for women.. wouldnt it be better to put bi-curious instead.. or is every profile fab straight "

It’s not rocket science guys, you are either straight or you’re not. Don’t lie as a woman’s preference maybe for straight men only and you’ve said you’re straight but in reality you’re not, that’s just dishonest. Be truthful and respect others. Oh and while on that when you tell a guy that messages that you’re straight yet he says if you close your eyes it doesn’t count, it does, it means you aren’t straight. Have no problem with anyone’s choices on here which is why I read profiles and respect what others want ??

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