FabSwingers.com forum: Why do some people request payment for meet

By *arkseduction OP Man
over a year ago

Drogheda

This is the second time I have come across someone on fab who asks for payment before meeting. I think it’s inappropriate and unbecoming of this site.

Please I wish to know if anyone else has experienced this. I do not wish to name and shame on this forum.

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Darkseduction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not allowed under site rules, report to admin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes have come across report and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are prostitutes.simple as really.simply accept or decline,report and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is the second time I have come across someone on fab who asks for payment before meeting. I think it’s inappropriate and unbecoming of this site.

Please I wish to know if anyone else has experienced this. I do not wish to name and shame on this forum.

Thanks

Darkseduction

Xx"

Put their name out there mate, its the only way we will be safe from these reprobates

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By *arkseduction OP Man
over a year ago

Drogheda

"It's not allowed under site rules, report to admin."

I have done that now

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Because some people are desperate enough to pay

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By *arkseduction OP Man
over a year ago

Drogheda

"Because some people are desperate enough to pay "

Hahahaha I guess so lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because some people are desperate enough to pay "

You still owe me that £5 Laid

In all serious tho OP,report and block the profile !

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

You should have told her YOU only accept cash

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By *arkseduction OP Man
over a year ago

Drogheda

"You should have told her YOU only accept cash"

Hahaha that’s funny..the worst thing about it is that she has verifications !!

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

"You should have told her YOU only accept cash

Hahaha that’s funny..the worst thing about it is that she has verifications !!"

Should mail her veris and ask how much she charged them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because some people are desperate enough to pay "

That's it in a nutshell

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Report block delete

Thier are more and more escorts joining here to promote themselves Have a look around you can spot them a mile off.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I arranged to meet this lady and only when we were getting down to business she asked for money . I said you never asked for money cos of you had I would have said no . Just move on .its not the first time and won't be the last time either .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It annoys me when that happens, but I just block them.

I don't see the point in reporting them though because personally I don't think they're doing any harm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, "Safe from those reprobates"?? What the feck?? Really? I'd expect a more liberal attitude to sex work on this site, but just goes to show people will always surprise you

OK in fairness I did just say that it annoyed me, and it does, but why such anger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much were they charging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because some guys are foolish enough to pay

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By *arkseduction OP Man
over a year ago

Drogheda

"How much were they charging

She requested I pay her €100.. says it’s to help her with rent. Because she had agreed to meet at her house. But I gladly declined because I don’t think it’s right to do that here. There are other sites for that.

That’s my opinion anyway!!

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By *sa_curiousMan
over a year ago

Waterford

I had someone contact me looking for a loan of money to help with her rent and she said she would pay me back, requested my bank details so she could pay me back.........

That was the end of that conversation!

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

There are lots of different ways people receive recompense for having sex.Some are very upfront and ask for payment...but there's more than one way to skin a cat and receiving payment in one form or another is extremely common on here

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By *ancylaceloverTV/TS
over a year ago

Limerick

"It annoys me when that happens, but I just block them.

I don't see the point in reporting them though because personally I don't think they're doing any harm. "

Actually I think they have the potential to do a lot of harm. A lot of prostitutes work on the edges of society. Don't won't to paint every sex worker as addicts, but some are. That can bring lots of trouble. I. Ways you don't realise till it's to late.

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By *icole FanningTV/TS
over a year ago

Navan

Yeah it’s hihacking the site a bit using it to request cash to meet. Also, some people here are offered cash to meet. So it happens both ways. Neither are appropriate here, I think

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By *ynx12Man
over a year ago

South

At least she replied I suppose, that was nice of her...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is the second time I have come across someone on fab who asks for payment before meeting. I think it’s inappropriate and unbecoming of this site.

Please I wish to know if anyone else has experienced this. I do not wish to name and shame on this forum.

Thanks

Darkseduction

Xx"

I was asked one time how much it cost to meet me!!!! The guy got blocked and reported

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha those women or on the wrong site.. I’d tell her to go stand on a street corner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have also come across this .Report to admin .or name and shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see the point of view that it's not appropriate for this site, and as someone else said there are other sites to sell sex on so no need to do it here, gets in the way of real swingers/whatever you call us.

But I still wouldn't feel comfortable reporting someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't won't to paint every sex worker as addicts, but some are. That can bring lots of trouble. I. Ways you don't realise till it's to late.

Again, if you block and move on I don't see how it will you any trouble?

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