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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a note if ye feel like been an absolute dick and making awful comments on bbw pics maybe refrain and realise everyone has the right to be here and openly display there bodies regardless of size and appearance .just remember you can block any person u don't want to see on your news feed and no need for negativity let's all just empower each other it's hard for some of us to put ourselves out there without been called names and worse . Thank you and happy fabbing

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By *arewell HornyhootersWoman
over a year ago

South Donegal

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both of ya are fooking hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own here. People can b nasty and as op said if you dont want to see updates etc block the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a note if ye feel like been an absolute dick and making awful comments on bbw pics maybe refrain and realise everyone has the right to be here and openly display there bodies regardless of size and appearance .just remember you can block any person u don't want to see on your news feed and no need for negativity let's all just empower each other it's hard for some of us to put ourselves out there without been called names and worse . Thank you and happy fabbing "

Says more about them than you ,block the fecker !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Alot actually send unsolicited abuse and then block before ye can reply or block in return I always report but sometimes it's hard to stay body positive with constant abuse been directed at ye

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By *iftyfifty51Man
over a year ago

trim

Don't mind the gobshites,you look stunning.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Thier are a lot of nasty who just get off on abusing everyone and anyone no matter what you do or say. Instant blOck by me and report to admin. It’s part of this life we have to take the ups with the downs I’m afraid. Let’s just be happy we’re alive and able to be who we are regardless off race religion sex , sexual persuasion or indeed what kind of coffee we like. Enjoy peeps x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Alot actually send unsolicited abuse and then block before ye can reply or block in return I always report but sometimes it's hard to stay body positive with constant abuse been directed at ye "

Keyboard warriors ,pay no heed and remember to block them in return so they can't unblock you and send further abuse !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly can't understand why someone would abuse someone for no reason. How sad do you have to be to sit down and send a nasty text to someone that has done absolutely nothing to you? These people act like angels then on other social media sites. Sharing nice cuddly things for friends and family to see on fb etc..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore whoever it is hun, clearly they are just bitter because you are having fun on fab...

Don't let them rock your confidence xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank u all I just needed it said

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Fair play and well said I get it all the time to.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ignore whoever it is hun, clearly they are just bitter because you are having fun on fab...

Don't let them rock your confidence xx"

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lot of nastiness going on in the background here again - sadly

A good rant makes you feel better OP

Ignore & block

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By *rash26775Man
over a year ago

all over


"Both of ya are fooking hot! "

Agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take no heed darling!! Ur just fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op don't even waste your time thinking about them it's not worth some people can't take rejection simples. BBW just look at it BEAUTIFUL IS THERE don't let those wasters take up your time even thinking about them xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It says a lot about the people who send these nasty texts and messages. That they block a person before you can reply. Mostly sad little people who think its funny to hurt others feelings.As others have said OP ..keep your chin up and feck the begrudgers.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

No one will be everyones type. Regardless of whether you are overweight or slim..short or tall..etc etc some people will always try to make themselves feel better by putting down others.

It's easy to say block and move on but insults and jibes can be very hurtful.

I hope you carry on and enjoy the fun people that are on here and don't let it spoil your fab adventures.

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By *exytvlegsTV/TS
over a year ago

North co dublin Ireland

BBW there are wonder full. And for the fools who do that there the ones with the problems. They watch to porn think woman should just meet them if just send a message. Would not know how to treat a real woman. And hun you see what some of these don't what to call them. Have sent to me because I would not meet them they think there entitledto a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a note if ye feel like been an absolute dick and making awful comments on bbw pics maybe refrain and realise everyone has the right to be here and openly display there bodies regardless of size and appearance .just remember you can block any person u don't want to see on your news feed and no need for negativity let's all just empower each other it's hard for some of us to put ourselves out there without been called names and worse . Thank you and happy fabbing "

Op dont let them get to you.they have won if u do.ur better than them.so shoulders straight head up and smile and block the feckers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trolls thrive on getting a reaction, which gives them a sense of power, making up for how inadequate they feel.

The only effective treatment is to ignore them, which deprives them of that power.

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By *ack 188Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15

If you can't say something nice,say nothing at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinda the opposite of the ‘say something nice’ thread yesterday

Would suspect the following to be true and echoing what’s already been said :

‘Sexy’ comes in all forms, wrapping confidence and fun with a dash of ooh la la !

Those throwing insults lack intelligence, to be blocked and ignored, they’re typically the ones incapable of anything but the basic thought processes and Darwin will take care.

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By *rownForFunMan
over a year ago

Near Toulouse

I LOVE BBW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are strange indeed. Aside from the fact that all bodies are beautiful in their own unique ways.. Why go out of your way to insult someone.. There are enough people in this world with body image issues.. Why ruin everyones fun time here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair play too you. Don't let it ruin ur confidence, I've had a few of them, I'm still here, so chin up, and enjoy fab, us girls stick together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all feel alot better after getting it off my chest

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By *heilsWoman
over a year ago

Midlands

Fair play Kitty and you're dead right.... Just because people are different, doesn't mean anyone deserves judgement and abuse. Those who actually sit down just to write an abusive message or comment, go and f**k yourself... Its horrible to receive those messages and knocks your confidence! Yes block and move on but its always there in your mind...

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Yep I get them all the time . Use to annoy me but not now. The nice comments outweigh them and I think I've become bored with them now. But it's not nice to get abuse. They obviously live sad little lives if the get their kicks out of abusing people they know nothing about .

Great pics kitty

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By *reatusernameMan
over a year ago

naas

I think the biggest issue on this site is that there are far too many people here now who aren't swingers. They come here after watching far too much porn ready for sex and believe that women here are just like those in the films they watch. Flicking through profiles looking for thrills while turned on, and then unleash abuse or negativity on those that don't turn them on or those that dare turn them down. Take any demographic of people and there will be those that are vile. Thankfully most aren't. On a site like this, there are many body types, sexual preferences, likes anf dislikes. Like anything else you find the things that appeal to you and leave alone thise that you don't.

But never let a strangers opinion of you affect the way you feel about yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sad little people they are dont mind them op..

Hope nobody ever speaks to their mother,daughter, niece sister like that .. must be great to be perfect.. ass holes

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

Haters gonna hate. Block, ignore, move on.

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By *atr247Man
over a year ago

around

A lovely saying that stands the test of time “if you don’t have anything nice to say - then say nothing at all” Personally I don’t see The logic in insulting another person, it’s obviously what gets these lads off. Ignore them and try to find the nice ones salivating over your stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Alot actually send unsolicited abuse and then block before ye can reply or block in return I always report but sometimes it's hard to stay body positive with constant abuse been directed at ye "
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Keep ur chin up. Just ignore the clowns. It's their loss. Not urs.

Plenty off Decent people out there who love BBWs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the biggest issue on this site is that there are far too many people here now who aren't swingers. They come here after watching far too much porn ready for sex and believe that women here are just like those in the films they watch. Flicking through profiles looking for thrills while turned on, and then unleash abuse or negativity on those that don't turn them on or those that dare turn them down. Take any demographic of people and there will be those that are vile. Thankfully most aren't. On a site like this, there are many body types, sexual preferences, likes anf dislikes. Like anything else you find the things that appeal to you and leave alone thise that you don't.

But never let a strangers opinion of you affect the way you feel about yourself."

Well said

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"I think the biggest issue on this site is that there are far too many people here now who aren't swingers. They come here after watching far too much porn ready for sex and believe that women here are just like those in the films they watch. Flicking through profiles looking for thrills while turned on, and then unleash abuse or negativity on those that don't turn them on or those that dare turn them down. Take any demographic of people and there will be those that are vile. Thankfully most aren't. On a site like this, there are many body types, sexual preferences, likes anf dislikes. Like anything else you find the things that appeal to you and leave alone thise that you don't.

But never let a strangers opinion of you affect the way you feel about yourself."

Good points made but.... it's nothing to do with being a swinger or not. I've had nasty messages from males, females and couples. People I've never even chatted with. So it doesn't matter what their preference is. Fact is if youre a knob you're a knob.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the biggest issue on this site is that there are far too many people here now who aren't swingers. They come here after watching far too much porn ready for sex and believe that women here are just like those in the films they watch. Flicking through profiles looking for thrills while turned on, and then unleash abuse or negativity on those that don't turn them on or those that dare turn them down. Take any demographic of people and there will be those that are vile. Thankfully most aren't. On a site like this, there are many body types, sexual preferences, likes anf dislikes. Like anything else you find the things that appeal to you and leave alone thise that you don't.

But never let a strangers opinion of you affect the way you feel about yourself."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a note if ye feel like been an absolute dick and making awful comments on bbw pics maybe refrain and realise everyone has the right to be here and openly display there bodies regardless of size and appearance .just remember you can block any person u don't want to see on your news feed and no need for negativity let's all just empower each other it's hard for some of us to put ourselves out there without been called names and worse . Thank you and happy fabbing "

Like the saying goes if you dont like dont look.

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By *aa MidletonMan
over a year ago

east cork


"Just a note if ye feel like been an absolute dick and making awful comments on bbw pics maybe refrain and realise everyone has the right to be here and openly display there bodies regardless of size and appearance .just remember you can block any person u don't want to see on your news feed and no need for negativity let's all just empower each other it's hard for some of us to put ourselves out there without been called names and worse . Thank you and happy fabbing "
Well said and you know what, feck em they're small minded people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said Kitty!!! I know from our chat group that you're a lovely person and you're the type of person, like most of us, that will take some things to heart.

They are going out of their way to message you!!! Take it as a compliment that you're upsetting them and just ignore them. Don't you dare stop doing what you are doing!!!

We all need to stick together and ignore these shithead men sending these types of messages. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said jdkitty

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Same as Ginger said kitty cause we're in the same chat group and you couldn't be more nice and friendly in it so just keep ignoring the trolls cause your way better than them xx..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said.try and ignore those small minded few and flash the flesh

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

Kitty ... Sorry to hear this is going on.

Handful of small minded eejits!

Don't mind them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kitty I know how you feel. I've been called such ugly names in personal messages about my appearance, about my personality about my fat ass. I've learnt to report and block immediately. Under no circumstances will I give over my power to anyone else. I'm a sexy, vibrant woman. I know how to relax and enjoy myself and I get on with most people. Don't ever let these small minded people dull your sparkle. They're just sad trolls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit I love a woman with plenty to grab on to and lots of curves to caress

So bigger ladies please keep sharing and I'll keep fabbing

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By *s ParisWoman
over a year ago

My Dungeon Room

Sorry to hear this has happened to you OP try not to let them get to you just block them and move on they aren't worth retaliating to, I've had my own share of abuse over the years it's one of the reasons i dont allow my pics to be fabbed on here it wasn't worth the hassle I got

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kitty you are beatiful inside & out. These small minded idiots dont deserve your time xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a note if ye feel like been an absolute dick and making awful comments on bbw pics maybe refrain and realise everyone has the right to be here and openly display there bodies regardless of size and appearance .just remember you can block any person u don't want to see on your news feed and no need for negativity let's all just empower each other it's hard for some of us to put ourselves out there without been called names and worse . Thank you and happy fabbing "

Probably the first post I've enjoyed reading in the forum. Its great to see all the support your getting. And those with the insulting comments are probably very lonely people who just want some attention. You look great by the way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all its nice when all the decent folk come out at once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some badly are sadly nasty and bitter. If you don't like something just move on. I block people I don't want to see.

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By *onathan kMan
over a year ago

sligo ballymote

they are probably reading these posts now and feeling sad for themselves and put a smile on your face you are gorgeous and sexy

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

Different strokes for different folks

There’s someone for everyone’s taste

Just because someone isn’t your taste doesn’t mean it’s wrong or warrant an insult

Chin up OP, great support on this thread

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By *ick dundee1000Man
over a year ago

Town

I agree totally no need for comments or actions like that very attractive lady from where im standing block n move on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Head up! Some of us guys love you curvy ladies. I love you all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True i love all shapes and sizes in women .

Just block the haters and also they must be insecure in themselves too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pay no heed to them JD. Youve a gorgeous figure. Alot of miserable dick head lads are just that. You wont get any of that at the bbw social in Feb. Lots of keen bbw enthusiasts under the one roof. Should be a riot!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pay no heed to them JD. Youve a gorgeous figure. Alot of miserable dick head lads are just that. You wont get any of that at the bbw social in Feb. Lots of keen bbw enthusiasts under the one roof. Should be a riot! "

Looking forward to it

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