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By *aythekidd OP   Man
over a year ago

Carlow

What's the one thing you wish you know in your first week on fab that you had to learn the hard way?

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By *aythekidd OP   Man
over a year ago

Carlow

Mine is, that not everyone is here for the same reason so I should have a broader mind

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

To be open minded on the forums, don’t dive right in and simply watch the threads develop for a while to understand that there is an etiquette; to know that there are a number of people in there that have been on Fab / in the lifestyle for a long time who you should in fact show more respect to...

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

To be careful when putting a private note on a profile and don't mix it up with a message and send it to the person instead....

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By *aythekidd OP   Man
over a year ago

Carlow


"To be careful when putting a private note on a profile and don't mix it up with a message and send it to the person instead.... "

Oh Laura no.... really?

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By *onzo1880Man
over a year ago

Tyrone, Ireland

Be patient, observe for a bit without diving in, engage in the forums, and then the genuine people will eventually be obvious.

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"To be careful when putting a private note on a profile and don't mix it up with a message and send it to the person instead....

Oh Laura no.... really?"

Ohhhhhh yes and I still panic today when leaving private notes...

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By *aythekidd OP   Man
over a year ago

Carlow


"To be careful when putting a private note on a profile and don't mix it up with a message and send it to the person instead....

Oh Laura no.... really?

Ohhhhhh yes and I still panic today when leaving private notes... "

You have me paranoid now, gonna be real careful next time I leave a note

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing at all it's been a learning curve always and still is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be careful when putting a private note on a profile and don't mix it up with a message and send it to the person instead....

Oh Laura no.... really?

Ohhhhhh yes and I still panic today when leaving private notes...

You have me paranoid now, gonna be real careful next time I leave a note"

I wasnt paying attention when trying to leave a private note and instead invited someone I really shouldn't have as a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How useful filters are

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"What's the one thing you wish you know in your first week on fab that you had to learn the hard way?"

Not to be staying in AirBnB when an unexpected chance to meet someone pops up and you suddenly need a room...

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"How useful filters are "

This, I'd go even that far to block single guys right from the beginning and look for and first message them all by myself.

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"To be careful when putting a private note on a profile and don't mix it up with a message and send it to the person instead.... "

Oh you didn’t!!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine would be to not take this place too seriously, don’t let some faceless profile’s abusive words get to you.

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"What's the one thing you wish you know in your first week on fab that you had to learn the hard way?"

That not all profiles are what they claim to be! Valuable lesson.

Madame B

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"To be careful when putting a private note on a profile and don't mix it up with a message and send it to the person instead....

Oh Laura no.... really?

Ohhhhhh yes and I still panic today when leaving private notes...

You have me paranoid now, gonna be real careful next time I leave a note

I wasnt paying attention when trying to leave a private note and instead invited someone I really shouldn't have as a friend "

Bhahahaha

And did they accept?

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"What's the one thing you wish you know in your first week on fab that you had to learn the hard way?

That not all profiles are what they claim to be! Valuable lesson.

Madame B"

Extremely valuable lesson for us all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the one thing you wish you know in your first week on fab that you had to learn the hard way?

That not all profiles are what they claim to be! Valuable lesson.

Madame B

Extremely valuable lesson for us all

"

Agree 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jay, on hindsight I don't think I would want to know anything. I was pretty naive starting out but i have enjoyed learning the ways of fab and exploring things I can't off fab. Every day a school day and yes some not so good experiences, but always a lesson learned and the journey always evolving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be so trustworthy and there is more than one side to any story..

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By *aythekidd OP   Man
over a year ago

Carlow


"Jay, on hindsight I don't think I would want to know anything. I was pretty naive starting out but i have enjoyed learning the ways of fab and exploring things I can't off fab. Every day a school day and yes some not so good experiences, but always a lesson learned and the journey always evolving "

I'm glad for a lot of lessons I've had to learn on fab, and then there are some embarrassing ones that I wish I'd had explained to me or the sense to realise at the time.

But yes always learning, I'm definitely ahead of so.e but I'm probably miles behind most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jay, on hindsight I don't think I would want to know anything. I was pretty naive starting out but i have enjoyed learning the ways of fab and exploring things I can't off fab. Every day a school day and yes some not so good experiences, but always a lesson learned and the journey always evolving

I'm glad for a lot of lessons I've had to learn on fab, and then there are some embarrassing ones that I wish I'd had explained to me or the sense to realise at the time.

But yes always learning, I'm definitely ahead of so.e but I'm probably miles behind most."

There no.one here knows it all and for your years my friend, you show more maturity than a lot of much older fabbers. Sure we have all had embarrassing moments and probably have lots more

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

That the pics on a person's profile often represent how they see themselves, or would like others to see them, though bear little or no resemblance to the person themselves

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

People only text what they think you want to hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the one thing you wish you know in your first week on fab that you had to learn the hard way?"

Trust nobody and believe nothing you hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always had a fairly solid approach with fab, what I have always tried to hold onto is never to sell myself short, and believe in myself..and of course try not to offend too many people along the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take everything with a pinch of salt..

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