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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know some single guys ruin it for the decent and genuine ones.

Can someone explain the mentality behind someone getting blocked for the following:

Couple puts in status wants to meet 2 hung guys who can accommodate for the Mrs part of the couple.

Guy replies saying he can accommodate gives details where he can accommodate explains verified and hung as requested.

Couple blocks the guy.

Maybe I'm naive or something but surely could they not say no thank you or not reply and you would say ok fair enough and move on. What justifies being blocked??

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown

Maybe she didn’t like the look of you, sometimes you say no thankscand get a string of But why?? Or even, are you just jealous of my big nob?? Or even worse. Sometimes it’s just less hassle to block the guy. I saw once where this guy started a whole forum thread rather than just accept rejection and move on!

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By *uriousPearCouple
over a year ago

dublin 5

Before you lose your shit at me I'm not saying this is the reason but this is a distinct possibility...

Maybe they saw an update or a forum post they didn't like that you had and they put a wee note on your profile. When you messaged, they saw the note and remembered. Instead of explaining they decided to block you.

Sometimes if I see status updates I don't like I copy it as a note onto the profile. I don't bother blocking the person, maybe I want to see what other nonsense they can spout. Everyone loves a good train wreck after all.

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By *ilbearniMan
over a year ago

peninsula


"I know some single guys ruin it for the decent and genuine ones.

Can someone explain the mentality behind someone getting blocked for the following:

Couple puts in status wants to meet 2 hung guys who can accommodate for the Mrs part of the couple.

Guy replies saying he can accommodate gives details where he can accommodate explains verified and hung as requested.

Couple blocks the guy.

Maybe I'm naive or something but surely could they not say no thank you or not reply and you would say ok fair enough and move on. What justifies being blocked??"

That's madness, they get an offer from a presumably genuine guy, with lots of veries, and don't even have the decency to say no thanks, straight to blocked, doesn't make sense to me. Maybe they know you and got nervous. Or they just bottled it, or the Mrs just found out about the plans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dam these people with their personal reasons to block.

(Shakes fist furiously at their bad manners)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Before you lose your shit at me I'm not saying this is the reason but this is a distinct possibility...

Maybe they saw an update or a forum post they didn't like that you had and they put a wee note on your profile. When you messaged, they saw the note and remembered. Instead of explaining they decided to block you.

Sometimes if I see status updates I don't like I copy it as a note onto the profile. I don't bother blocking the person, maybe I want to see what other nonsense they can spout. Everyone loves a good train wreck after all.

"
I'm surprised someone as busy as yourself has time to write notes on others behavior. Lol

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

Since we are all putting theories forward, how about this:

Couple looking for 2 hung guys for group fun. Since there are so many guys on here (and I suspect lots who think they are hung but are not therefore don’t rule themselves out), couple have their mailbox overrun.

As per usual, the majority of the responses are cringeworthy, tiresome, irritating or perhaps in some cases mildly disturbing. Couple become fatigued and annoyed with having to filter so much nonsense. Nonsense respondents get blocked.

Filter becomes tighter. Genuine guy(s) message gets read; message is light hearted to generate interest but could also be interpreted a different way. Couples heightened filter takes pessimistic approach. Genuine guys message gets binned and blocked.

Genuine guy frustrated for numerous reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since we are all putting theories forward, how about this:

Couple looking for 2 hung guys for group fun. Since there are so many guys on here (and I suspect lots who think they are hung but are not therefore don’t rule themselves out), couple have their mailbox overrun.

As per usual, the majority of the responses are cringeworthy, tiresome, irritating or perhaps in some cases mildly disturbing. Couple become fatigued and annoyed with having to filter so much nonsense. Nonsense respondents get blocked.

Filter becomes tighter. Genuine guy(s) message gets read; message is light hearted to generate interest but could also be interpreted a different way. Couples heightened filter takes pessimistic approach. Genuine guys message gets binned and blocked.

Genuine guy frustrated for numerous reasons."
Ah poor couples you would almost feel sorry for them or maybe not.

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By *uriousPearCouple
over a year ago

dublin 5


" .

I'm surprised someone as busy as yourself has time to write notes on others behavior. Lol"

Busy getting the ride!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" .

I'm surprised someone as busy as yourself has time to write notes on others behavior. Lol

Busy getting the ride! "
Are you thumbing.

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By *uriousPearCouple
over a year ago

dublin 5

Go home yank! It's called a lift here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go home wank! It's called a lift here."
I sooner the Ride.

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By *angero3aMan
over a year ago

swords

I know some in here seem to love to block people got blocked by lady in here for looking at her on cam even thought she say on profile looking for men only and had her cam on

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By *uriousPearCouple
over a year ago

dublin 5


"I know some in here seem to love to block people got blocked by lady in here for looking at her on cam even thought she say on profile looking for men only and had her cam on "

What difference does it make to you. Surely it makes you not waste any time messaging them.

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By *razy-88Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"Dam these people with their personal reasons to block.

(Shakes fist furiously at their bad manners)

"

I actually laughed out load, then was asked what are you laughing at by work colleagues

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I know some in here seem to love to block people got blocked by lady in here for looking at her on cam even thought she say on profile looking for men only and had her cam on

What difference does it make to you. Surely it makes you not waste any time messaging them."

I'm not sure how the cam thingy works but would that be the same as your front door being left open and some randomer walking in?

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

no.. its like you sitting in the middle of O'connel St in whatever you've on, (or off) on cam and someone looking at you and you giving out to them for looking (blocking)

all cams are public in the chat and can be looked at by anyone, unless the person in question has you blocked.

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"no.. its like you sitting in the middle of O'connel St in whatever you've on, (or off) on cam and someone looking at you and you giving out to them for looking (blocking)

all cams are public in the chat and can be looked at by anyone, unless the person in question has you blocked. "

Thank you for explaining that I'm a little more educated on the subject x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Micheal Guiney's are doing a sale on big boy pants. We highly recommend buying some, to pull up, rather than posting pointless, repetitive threads about why certain profiles block.

Simple answer is, It's their profile and are free to block whoever they so choose, for what ever reason they so choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Micheal Guiney's are doing a sale on big boy pants. We highly recommend buying some, to pull up, rather than posting pointless, repetitive threads about why certain profiles block.

Simple answer is, It's their profile and are free to block whoever they so choose, for what ever reason they so choose. "
Take it you invested in a pair.Lol

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"no.. its like you sitting in the middle of O'connel St in whatever you've on, (or off) on cam and someone looking at you and you giving out to them for looking (blocking)

all cams are public in the chat and can be looked at by anyone, unless the person in question has you blocked. "

Damm lurkers how very dare they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Micheal Guiney's are doing a sale on big boy pants. We highly recommend buying some, to pull up, rather than posting pointless, repetitive threads about why certain profiles block.

Simple answer is, It's their profile and are free to block whoever they so choose, for what ever reason they so choose. Take it you invested in a pair.Lol"

The only place I shop, my grandmother and I go wild in there, at least once a month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Micheal Guiney's are doing a sale on big boy pants. We highly recommend buying some, to pull up, rather than posting pointless, repetitive threads about why certain profiles block.

Simple answer is, It's their profile and are free to block whoever they so choose, for what ever reason they so choose. Take it you invested in a pair.Lol

The only place I shop, my grandmother and I go wild in there, at least once a month"
Good I hope you don't give each other a wedgie when your pulling them up.Lol

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Micheal Guiney's are doing a sale on big boy pants. We highly recommend buying some, to pull up, rather than posting pointless, repetitive threads about why certain profiles block.

Simple answer is, It's their profile and are free to block whoever they so choose, for what ever reason they so choose. "

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By *sbotangoMan
over a year ago

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

Am inclined to agree with Joe's theory here. Op you sent one message but imagine how many they received...it would differ vastly I am guessing. Not how I would go about it but it's their profile to do as they wish. We all have different ways of doing things some of which may come across as odd to others.

Madame B

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By *BelfastGuyMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Don't take it to heart.

Is someone not interested they're not interested. Move on and don't get mad about it. Fans for lovers not haters.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I dont get why people get so wound up by someone blocking them that they have never met and maybe only spoke once or twice through the internet

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"I dont get why people get so wound up by someone blocking them that they have never met and maybe only spoke once or twice through the internet "

Exactly!!

This is not the real world people!!

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By *ajobMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

^^^^^^

I recall feeling the wrath lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont get why people get so wound up by someone blocking them that they have never met and maybe only spoke once or twice through the internet

Exactly!!

This is not the real world people!!

"

It's not???

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"I dont get why people get so wound up by someone blocking them that they have never met and maybe only spoke once or twice through the internet

Exactly!!

This is not the real world people!!

It's not??? "

Take the blue pill Wobbly = leave the red one !!

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"^^^^^^

I recall feeling the wrath lol"

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