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"Trying to see if there is any interest from F and MF in a small gathering of likeminded people on Friday, the 12th of January. It would take place in an apartment located centrally in Dublin. The idea is simple. Maximum of 10 well selected people (verified and good looking). Nice chat and few drinks to kick off the party with... Dress code, smart and sexy. ladies - elegant and sexy lingerie and nice dresses gentlemen - shirts, slacks, elegant shoes kind of a thing 12 of January is my birthday and I would love to get a invite of you please At certain moment, the lights will be switched off and only the light coming from the fireplace and candles will lit the room. Whatever happens next, is left to imagination. Half dark room fun and you will never be 100% sure who is touching your body (you will need to be comfortable with this)... Ladies and couples, please let me know either by PM or posting here in the forum, if there is any interest in such fun. If enough interest is expressed, I will set this up. Gentlemen, if we haven't chatted before, I am not interested in hearing from you, unless you come recommended by a participating F or MF. I give plenty of opportunities to gents to network with me, so if you haven't bothered, I won't bother either. Is it a good idea for a small party? " | |||
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"Who decides if you're " good looking "? " I have my filters up and I would be looking for interest from F and MF within them for a start. I know that rules out big part of the community and I am comfortable with it. I would define good looking for the purpose of this post as - fit, slim, athletic types of body. Few extra funds are grand. Shape of the body is important in this dark situation for me (and since it's run in my apartment, I am unwilling to compromise on this). I know this may upset few people, but be respectful to the preferences described here. You can always try to set up your own party that will accommodate your preferences. Every party is bi (for the ladies). I would imagine there may be some bi curious or heteexible contact between gentlemen (if they are comfortable with this - communication is key). I think dark room situation implies that. Although, I don't envision this to be full on bi party. Please let me know if you have any more questions. it's a fresh idea and I am trying to see if there is interest. This may fail or develop into another sort of play depending on interest. I don't mind either way. | |||
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"Who decides if you're " good looking "? " He does of course. It's a great idea OP. Sounds like a small version of the KK or EE events but I think you'd be better off doing a personal search for the people you'd like to be there. | |||
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"Who decides if you're " good looking "? I have my filters up and I would be looking for interest from F and MF within them for a start. I know that rules out big part of the community and I am comfortable with it. I would define good looking for the purpose of this post as - fit, slim, athletic types of body. Few extra funds are grand. Shape of the body is important in this dark situation for me (and since it's run in my apartment, I am unwilling to compromise on this). I know this may upset few people, but be respectful to the preferences described here. You can always try to set up your own party that will accommodate your preferences. Every party is bi (for the ladies). I would imagine there may be some bi curious or heteexible contact between gentlemen (if they are comfortable with this - communication is key). I think dark room situation implies that. Although, I don't envision this to be full on bi party. Please let me know if you have any more questions. it's a fresh idea and I am trying to see if there is interest. This may fail or develop into another sort of play depending on interest. I don't mind either way." Best of luck | |||
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"Trying to see if there is any interest from F and MF in a small gathering of likeminded people on Friday, the 12th of January. It would take place in an apartment located centrally in Dublin. The idea is simple. Maximum of 10 well selected people (verified and good looking). Nice chat and few drinks to kick off the party with... Dress code, smart and sexy. ladies - elegant and sexy lingerie and nice dresses gentlemen - shirts, slacks, elegant shoes kind of a thing At certain moment, the lights will be switched off and only the light coming from the fireplace and candles will lit the room. Whatever happens next, is left to imagination. Half dark room fun and you will never be 100% sure who is touching your body (you will need to be comfortable with this)... Ladies and couples, please let me know either by PM or posting here in the forum, if there is any interest in such fun. If enough interest is expressed, I will set this up. Gentlemen, if we haven't chatted before, I am not interested in hearing from you, unless you come recommended by a participating F or MF. I give plenty of opportunities to gents to network with me, so if you haven't bothered, I won't bother either. Is it a good idea for a small party? " Great idea, good luck with it | |||
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"Who decides if you're " good looking "? He does of course. It's a great idea OP. Sounds like a small version of the KK or EE events but I think you'd be better off doing a personal search for the people you'd like to be there. " I know he does.....cool your jets, but we don't all look for the same thing in people. Good looking to one is not good looking to another. | |||
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"Who decides if you're " good looking "? He does of course. It's a great idea OP. Sounds like a small version of the KK or EE events but I think you'd be better off doing a personal search for the people you'd like to be there. I know he does.....cool your jets, but we don't all look for the same thing in people. Good looking to one is not good looking to another. " Good looking for him is fit, slim and maybe only few extra pounds,and decent face (I guess)... So people genuinely interested in these party will look for the same! | |||
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"Who decides if you're " good looking "? He does of course. It's a great idea OP. Sounds like a small version of the KK or EE events but I think you'd be better off doing a personal search for the people you'd like to be there. I know he does.....cool your jets, but we don't all look for the same thing in people. Good looking to one is not good looking to another. Good looking for him is fit, slim and maybe only few extra pounds,and decent face (I guess)... So people genuinely interested in these party will look for the same! " I read his reply. But thanks | |||
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"Hopefully op is upto his own standards of beauty " Why would that be your concern? Don’t won’t to be rude but this is concern of people that will participate in the gathering, not the general public... if you are fully interested, check my pics and verifications... Some people... As I said. Nothing stops anyone from organizing their own party. So no need to be smart here just because you aren’t participating. I know it’s new to some ladies and couples. So be it. Men deal with such situation all the time... | |||
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"Trying to see if there is any interest from F and MF in a small gathering of likeminded people on Friday, the 12th of January. It would take place in an apartment located centrally in Dublin. The idea is simple. Maximum of 10 well selected people (verified and good looking). Nice chat and few drinks to kick off the party with... Dress code, smart and sexy. ladies - elegant and sexy lingerie and nice dresses gentlemen - shirts, slacks, elegant shoes kind of a thing At certain moment, the lights will be switched off and only the light coming from the fireplace and candles will lit the room. Whatever happens next, is left to imagination. Half dark room fun and you will never be 100% sure who is touching your body (you will need to be comfortable with this)... Ladies and couples, please let me know either by PM or posting here in the forum, if there is any interest in such fun. If enough interest is expressed, I will set this up. Gentlemen, if we haven't chatted before, I am not interested in hearing from you, unless you come recommended by a participating F or MF. I give plenty of opportunities to gents to network with me, so if you haven't bothered, I won't bother either. Is it a good idea for a small party? " Sounds like a great fun night OP... we'll done for organising it and I'm sure it'll be the first of many | |||
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"Don't see the point in people having to dress elegantly if you expecting everyone one to get naked. Surely smart casual would suite better, but sure the best of luck with it, OP." Why not to go with track suits and PJ like some girls wear to Tesco? More convenient that smart casual. The idea is that guests will look hot and elegantly, to make all more sexy. Some people enjoy it that way. I am sure your guests will enjoy the dress code you will propose. Good look with your party sir. | |||
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"Don't see the point in people having to dress elegantly if you expecting everyone one to get naked. Surely smart casual would suite better, but sure the best of luck with it, OP." Ahh yea cause a hole is a hole afterall, no need for the ladies to dress up or put on the fake tan or for me to stick gel in my hair.. | |||
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"Don't see the point in people having to dress elegantly if you expecting everyone one to get naked. Surely smart casual would suite better, but sure the best of luck with it, OP.Ahh yea cause a hole is a hole afterall, no need for the ladies to dress up or put on the fake tan or for me to stick gel in my hair.." Ah sure I get that and if it's what the dress code is for the party, then fair play. You can be smart and casual, without having to go the elegant route. Was far from suggesting track suits or pjs and did wish the OP luck. | |||
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"Your party sounds like a fantastic idea OP ... but your attitude is horrendous! Good luck !" Agreed. I'm sure he's checking who raised all the attending participants. Regardless, I do hope that you enjoy yourselves OP. | |||
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"Your party sounds like a fantastic idea OP ... but your attitude is horrendous! Good luck !" This couldn't be further from the truth. Having spoken to EL and been in company I cannot praise him highly enough for his refreshing attitude towards this scence and those he chooses to meet on it. He is open minded and extremely accommodating in every sense. He is hosting a small gathering at his own home and great cost and risk to his privacy. Its beggars belief that you could expect him to have an open door policy regarding people attending or outfits worn. His goal is to create something memorable for attendees and of course himself. The fact that some find his standard's off putting has might have more to do with themselves than EL. Either way if our circumstances were different we would have take up the invite in a heartbeat because he really is a fantastic guy. Best of luck EL and to all attending | |||
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"Trying to see if there is any interest from F and MF in a small gathering of likeminded people on Friday, the 12th of January. It would take place in an apartment located centrally in Dublin. The idea is simple. Maximum of 10 well selected people (verified and good looking). Nice chat and few drinks to kick off the party with... Dress code, smart and sexy. ladies - elegant and sexy lingerie and nice dresses gentlemen - shirts, slacks, elegant shoes kind of a thing At certain moment, the lights will be switched off and only the light coming from the fireplace and candles will lit the room. Whatever happens next, is left to imagination. Half dark room fun and you will never be 100% sure who is touching your body (you will need to be comfortable with this)... Ladies and couples, please let me know either by PM or posting here in the forum, if there is any interest in such fun. If enough interest is expressed, I will set this up. Gentlemen, if we haven't chatted before, I am not interested in hearing from you, unless you come recommended by a participating F or MF. I give plenty of opportunities to gents to network with me, so if you haven't bothered, I won't bother either. Is it a good idea for a small party? " hi is there still invites for guys? I tried but can’t message you privately | |||
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"Your party sounds like a fantastic idea OP ... but your attitude is horrendous! Good luck ! This couldn't be further from the truth. Having spoken to EL and been in company I cannot praise him highly enough for his refreshing attitude towards this scence and those he chooses to meet on it. He is open minded and extremely accommodating in every sense. He is hosting a small gathering at his own home and great cost and risk to his privacy. Its beggars belief that you could expect him to have an open door policy regarding people attending or outfits worn. His goal is to create something memorable for attendees and of course himself. The fact that some find his standard's off putting has might have more to do with themselves than EL. Either way if our circumstances were different we would have take up the invite in a heartbeat because he really is a fantastic guy. Best of luck EL and to all attending " Agreed , I know EL in person, met several times socially,he is a charming man with manners, he's intelligent and knows what he wants, not afraid to speak his mind, which I find so refreshing and honest. Having standards works both ways! | |||
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"Your party sounds like a fantastic idea OP ... but your attitude is horrendous! Good luck ! This couldn't be further from the truth. Having spoken to EL and been in company I cannot praise him highly enough for his refreshing attitude towards this scence and those he chooses to meet on it. He is open minded and extremely accommodating in every sense. He is hosting a small gathering at his own home and great cost and risk to his privacy. Its beggars belief that you could expect him to have an open door policy regarding people attending or outfits worn. His goal is to create something memorable for attendees and of course himself. The fact that some find his standard's off putting has might have more to do with themselves than EL. Either way if our circumstances were different we would have take up the invite in a heartbeat because he really is a fantastic guy. Best of luck EL and to all attending Agreed , I know EL in person, met several times socially,he is a charming man with manners, he's intelligent and knows what he wants, not afraid to speak his mind, which I find so refreshing and honest. Having standards works both ways! " I think people are shocked that some men have standards here. | |||
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"Your party sounds like a fantastic idea OP ... but your attitude is horrendous! Good luck ! This couldn't be further from the truth. Having spoken to EL and been in company I cannot praise him highly enough for his refreshing attitude towards this scence and those he chooses to meet on it. He is open minded and extremely accommodating in every sense. He is hosting a small gathering at his own home and great cost and risk to his privacy. Its beggars belief that you could expect him to have an open door policy regarding people attending or outfits worn. His goal is to create something memorable for attendees and of course himself. The fact that some find his standard's off putting has might have more to do with themselves than EL. Either way if our circumstances were different we would have take up the invite in a heartbeat because he really is a fantastic guy. Best of luck EL and to all attending " Open door ????? .... everyone should have standards and set them as high as you can..... but don’t knock those whose standards you may perceive to not being at the same “standard” as your own .. or on the flip side don’t hasle those for having highly standards!! But DO use manners in replying to others ... obviously OP seems a well mannered educated gent , unfortunately all his retorts are prickly and causing offence! You never know when you might meet these other non attendees at other functions! I’ve been to dark room events in clubs, great fun... so best of luck OP | |||
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"Your party sounds like a fantastic idea OP ... but your attitude is horrendous! Good luck ! This couldn't be further from the truth. Having spoken to EL and been in company I cannot praise him highly enough for his refreshing attitude towards this scence and those he chooses to meet on it. He is open minded and extremely accommodating in every sense. He is hosting a small gathering at his own home and great cost and risk to his privacy. Its beggars belief that you could expect him to have an open door policy regarding people attending or outfits worn. His goal is to create something memorable for attendees and of course himself. The fact that some find his standard's off putting has might have more to do with themselves than EL. Either way if our circumstances were different we would have take up the invite in a heartbeat because he really is a fantastic guy. Best of luck EL and to all attending Open door ????? .... everyone should have standards and set them as high as you can..... but don’t knock those whose standards you may perceive to not being at the same “standard” as your own .. or on the flip side don’t hasle those for having highly standards!! But DO use manners in replying to others ... obviously OP seems a well mannered educated gent , unfortunately all his retorts are prickly and causing offence! You never know when you might meet these other non attendees at other functions! I’ve been to dark room events in clubs, great fun... so best of luck OP " You seem a little agitated. Standards by there very nature differ from person to person and while some might find us attractive many others might not. While that would be disappointing it certainly doesnt constitute bad manners to be told sorry, your just not my type. There have been countless event and small parties held by our friends here and for one reason or another we haven't been invited but such is life. Why moan about it Personally I think its bad manners to highjack a clear concise and well written party brief because you perceive it to be bad manners which i still cant see. How about you start a separate post to ask opinions and let OP arrange his party in peace. | |||
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"So now let's run ageism up the flag pole and see who salutes...big generalisation there...no pun intended but this is my last post ...happy swinging " Speaking of generalisation... that is coming from someone who blocked ALL single males... You run yourself into this... (thanks guys for pointing this out to me) | |||
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"Trying to see if there is any interest from F and MF in a small gathering of likeminded people on Friday, the 12th of January. It would take place in an apartment located centrally in Dublin. The idea is simple. Maximum of 10 well selected people (verified and good looking). Nice chat and few drinks to kick off the party with... Dress code, smart and sexy. ladies - elegant and sexy lingerie and nice dresses gentlemen - shirts, slacks, elegant shoes kind of a thing At certain moment, the lights will be switched off and only the light coming from the fireplace and candles will lit the room. Whatever happens next, is left to imagination. Half dark room fun and you will never be 100% sure who is touching your body (you will need to be comfortable with this)... Ladies and couples, please let me know either by PM or posting here in the forum, if there is any interest in such fun. If enough interest is expressed, I will set this up. Gentlemen, if we haven't chatted before, I am not interested in hearing from you, unless you come recommended by a participating F or MF. I give plenty of opportunities to gents to network with me, so if you haven't bothered, I won't bother either. Is it a good idea for a small party? " | |||
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"Sounds amazing...pity im out of ur age range and at a distance. The very best of luck op " Yes it definitely does. Same way as the op and myself are sadly outside yours | |||
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"Sounds amazing...pity im out of ur age range and at a distance. The very best of luck op Yes it definitely does. Same way as the op and myself are sadly outside yours" Ah yes.. I have noticed... Unfortunately my fences are not cumming down, However maybe our paths may cross at a future event | |||
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"Sounds amazing...pity im out of ur age range and at a distance. The very best of luck op Yes it definitely does. Same way as the op and myself are sadly outside yours Ah yes.. I have noticed... Unfortunately my fences are not cumming down, However maybe our paths may cross at a future event " I'm thinking he may let you in, based on pics alone | |||
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"Sounds amazing...pity im out of ur age range and at a distance. The very best of luck op Yes it definitely does. Same way as the op and myself are sadly outside yours Ah yes.. I have noticed... Unfortunately my fences are not cumming down, However maybe our paths may cross at a future event I'm thinking he may let you in, based on pics alone" it a great night to plan im sure op has many of guests to choose from, so Im good on the side line on this one...but thank u JD | |||
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"Sounds amazing...pity im out of ur age range and at a distance. The very best of luck op Yes it definitely does. Same way as the op and myself are sadly outside yours Ah yes.. I have noticed... Unfortunately my fences are not cumming down, However maybe our paths may cross at a future event I'm thinking he may let you in, based on pics alone it a great night to plan im sure op has many of guests to choose from, so Im good on the side line on this one...but thank u JD " Xxxx Weird how this emoji was blinking at me as I typed response | |||
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"Sounds amazing...pity im out of ur age range and at a distance. The very best of luck op Yes it definitely does. Same way as the op and myself are sadly outside yours Ah yes.. I have noticed... Unfortunately my fences are not cumming down, However maybe our paths may cross at a future event I'm thinking he may let you in, based on pics alone it a great night to plan im sure op has many of guests to choose from, so Im good on the side line on this one...but thank u JD Xxxx Weird how this emoji was blinking at me as I typed response " Imagine that!! It winks bahahaha | |||
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"Sounds amazing...pity im out of ur age range and at a distance. The very best of luck op Yes it definitely does. Same way as the op and myself are sadly outside yours Ah yes.. I have noticed... Unfortunately my fences are not cumming down, However maybe our paths may cross at a future event I'm thinking he may let you in, based on pics alone it a great night to plan im sure op has many of guests to choose from, so Im good on the side line on this one...but thank u JD Xxxx Weird how this emoji was blinking at me as I typed response Imagine that!! It winks bahahaha" That, or it was just you | |||
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"Sounds amazing...pity im out of ur age range and at a distance. The very best of luck op Yes it definitely does. Same way as the op and myself are sadly outside yours Ah yes.. I have noticed... Unfortunately my fences are not cumming down, However maybe our paths may cross at a future event " Yes those fences are needed I'm sure otherwise ones inbox would collapse with stampede Mmm yes one hopes that our paths meet at a fun junction in the near future | |||
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