FabSwingers.com forum: POF and tinder

By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

if any of you are on either site how do you find them? are you successful or do you find it a struggle?

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By *agic ManuMan
over a year ago

"if any of you are on either site how do you find them? are you successful or do you find it a struggle? "

I've only been on Tinder. Damn I fucked a lot. You stick to what's working and repetition is the mother of all learning.

Gave it up after I got tinderitis on my thumb. Will be back shortly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya I'd love to know also, have any couples used tinder to find a guy or girl?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used Pof up to recently. Lot of drama queens there...far removed from swinging lifestyle but hungry women there nonetheless..

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By *arveygirthycockMan
over a year ago

town

I get more sex on POF. Horny single/married women everywhere, just because they not on a out and out sex site does not make them less sexy or less horny. Some just choose different platforms...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both are decent but depending on where your from you may not have much potential locally. Kinda similar to here. Much easier to meet if your willing to travel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had 2 meets from POF, but none from tinder yet, find tinder very slow,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im on both and find I get more hits on POF.But find Tinder is much better for straight out sex. The ladies on tinder are straight up with what they want.As someone else said on this thread theres too many drama queens on POF.

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By *elticmixMan
over a year ago

Crumlin / Sligo

Had more meets on POF than here or tinder, would'nt mind a few more from here though, some execptional ladies on fab

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

imo any site your on you need a small bit of luck to creep in when you're a male

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Never on Tinder and haven't been on POF since joining here both POF and FAB were/are very successful for me I got what I needed/need from both sites..

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Pof has a lot of women who are looking for a boyfriend but will have sex after a glass of wine or two.

I just use it for dating though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pof has a lot of women who are looking for a boyfriend but will have sex after a glass of wine or two.

I just use it for dating though."

That literally describes most women and men in fairness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drama Queens on here too

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

"Pof has a lot of women who are looking for a boyfriend but will have sex after a glass of wine or two.

I just use it for dating though.

That literally describes most women and men in fairness

Yeah I am just letting he lads know, dont message asking for sex until wine o'clock.

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country

"if any of you are on either site how do you find them? are you successful or do you find it a struggle? "

On both and each in moderation

Like everything else including here, it's not to be taken too seriously

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By *it_tribesmanMan
over a year ago

Galway

Can you join tinder if you aren't on Facebook?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use Pof for dating only as I think its dating app.. Never was on tinder as dont like its connects with Facebook.

But while my dating isn't going as great as I wish Im here to have fun

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By *0shades 2000Man
over a year ago

coleraine

On both neither work for me... I’d rather see if there’s chemistry straight away rather than type on a keyboard for weeks, I read body language better than written messages... I still prefer the old fashioned way. This site is good if you want no strings attached fun though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What apps do couples use?

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By *ouplenextdoor6Couple
over a year ago

dublin

Feeld is okay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go on Pof when I need a break from fab but about a few days in I'm ready to go back to fab as it's the same faces all the time on POF. On Pof you see the face and not the goods lol and on fab you see the goods and not the face... I prefer the suspense of receiving a hot face pic in a fab message to match the hot pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think pof people are boring as TBH.

Like the connection and community on this TBH .

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By *sbotangoMan
over a year ago

Close by

"if any of you are on either site how do you find them? are you successful or do you find it a struggle? "

Have you tried AW? Works every time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What apps do couples use? "

+1 on this

Heard couples using tinder and feeld. Don't know with much success?

On feeld do you have to pay before messaging ppl?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bump

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By *ordDick1Man
over a year ago

Coleraine

Do you need Facebook to have a tinder profile???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me as im on both of them i find its easier to find casual sex.its strange but its true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had some terrible dates on tinder. Got the ride easy once on POF , could have got more if I was willing to travel outside dublin for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's more success for single lads on pof or tinder than here. People will say they're dating sites but the vast majority will have sex after a date or two dates. It's basically the same as this anyway because most women demand a social meet first before sex here. It's actually kinda sexier because the girls in general won't say anything about sex on pof or tinder so there's a real sexy build up to it. This site is cooler though. Girls straight up tell you what they do and don't like in bed here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any couples use tinder, how discreet can u be on tinder do u have to show ur face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You dont have to show your face at all.its up to you what kind of pics you upload.some ppl put up quotes of nature pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well pof and tinder I used to be on and was very successful but on fab not so much haha??

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

How many posters here are telling the women on POF that they want a relationship in order to get sex?

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"How many posters here are telling the women on POF that they want a relationship in order to get sex? "

I've seen a few on here that are on POF... you'd recognise them from pics never from profile synopsis. Two very different stories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seem to have more luck on pof.although its not so obvious it is better than fab for hook ups

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many posters here are telling the women on POF that they want a relationship in order to get sex?

I've seen a few on here that are on POF... you'd recognise them from pics never from profile synopsis. Two very different stories

I take it your on pof, could you explain to me if ya don't mind, I'm on neither, but curious, are the other sites merely for opportunistic sex, and whatever manipulation is required to achieve that is the norm, I see so many here state they are not looking for relationships here, I'm wondering then if that preference changes on pof or the other one..

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

"How many posters here are telling the women on POF that they want a relationship in order to get sex?

I've seen a few on here that are on POF... you'd recognise them from pics never from profile synopsis. Two very different stories

Pof is generally used for sex. A lot pretend they want to date but it’s just to get you in to bed

I got bored after 2 months and left! And tinder I lasted 5 minutes lol

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

Never used tinder, was previously on POF but it's not a good dating site maybe it's changed but I doubt it. I left and joined fab a few years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if any of you are on either site how do you find them? are you successful or do you find it a struggle? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if any of you are on either site how do you find them? are you successful or do you find it a struggle? "

I deleted both after five minutes of downloading had great fun on other sites not sure if I'm allowed say which ones here though

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"How many posters here are telling the women on POF that they want a relationship in order to get sex?

I've seen a few on here that are on POF... you'd recognise them from pics never from profile synopsis. Two very different stories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if any of you are on either site how do you find them? are you successful or do you find it a struggle?

I deleted both after five minutes of downloading had great fun on other sites not sure if I'm allowed say which ones here though"

Why not? Competitors? I'd like to know these sites haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if any of you are on either site how do you find them? are you successful or do you find it a struggle?

I deleted both after five minutes of downloading had great fun on other sites not sure if I'm allowed say which ones here though

Why not? Competitors? I'd like to know these sites haha"

After a few months on Fab I've only just managed to post on formula don't want to mess that up lol but you can pm me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if any of you are on either site how do you find them? are you successful or do you find it a struggle?

I deleted both after five minutes of downloading had great fun on other sites not sure if I'm allowed say which ones here though

Why not? Competitors? I'd like to know these sites haha

After a few months on Fab I've only just managed to post on formula don't want to mess that up lol but you can pm me

Forum poxy autospell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"imo any site your on you need a small bit of luck to creep in when you're a male "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"imo any site your on you need a small bit of luck to creep in when you're a male "

No you don't ive always,replied to messages so long as they are polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pof worked out quite well for us.. Mr Kinky was my first date on it and 5 years later here we are on fab as a solid couple

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"imo any site your on you need a small bit of luck to creep in when you're a male

No you don't ive always,replied to messages so long as they are polite"

Not everyone does, nor do they have to. Site rules clearly state no reply means not interested.

However, I personally would always prefer a reply, even when it's a no thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Feeld is okay"

But it's linked to your Facebook.....does it post anything or say your on it.....discreet is best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"imo any site your on you need a small bit of luck to creep in when you're a male

No you don't ive always,replied to messages so long as they are polite

Not everyone does, nor do they have to. Site rules clearly state no reply means not interested.

However, I personally would always prefer a reply, even when it's a no thankyou

I agree at least the sender knows where they stand and can move on

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By *reetimefun99Man
over a year ago

leinster

I was on both went to a few social meets from sites as well, left both years ago, there was a massive crossover on sites so it's basically the same people, it was fun too I met loads of women on them from all over the country and travelled to a few other countries to meet as well.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"How many posters here are telling the women on POF that they want a relationship in order to get sex?

I've seen a few on here that are on POF... you'd recognise them from pics never from profile synopsis. Two very different stories

I was on POF . It's like any site you get out of it what you put into it. I met a few guys on it and had fun. A lot of guys are on here too. I've one friend that's on here that I met on POF we chat all the time and he's a good friend of mine so it's very similar to fab. One thing about fab is that I find the people more honest. At least here you know what people are looking for. Other sites I've been on I think I scare most males because of my preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know what happened with tinder and POF. I must be dead to them or something, and whereas POF has the odd easily spotted fake profile, tinder is innundated with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Feeld is okay

But it's linked to your Facebook.....does it post anything or say your on it.....discreet is best"

I suppose most ppl set up a fake profile for dirty stuff?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use POF and have done for longer than Fab very successfully for nsa. Clearly avoid those not looking nsa which is easy with the filter system they have in place. Quite a few ladies on here use it, some use it for dating (easy to spot fab ladies as their language used in writing their profiles often gives it away -certain common fab phrases especial do and don't

) They tend to block you if you raise it so clearly looking for vanilla dates.

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By *leasureOrbitCouple
over a year ago

city centre

"Feeld is okay

But it's linked to your Facebook.....does it post anything or say your on it.....discreet is best"

Nope it doesn’t. It also allows you the option to not show you to Facebook friends of yours who are also on the app. We tried feeld for a while but there’s very few users in Ireland so we ended up deleting it after a few months (though we got a meet out of it in Vegas!).

We’ve found Tinder and okcupid good sites for meeting women....(particularly for finding vanillas who are looking to be converted to the swingside!)....but ultimately Fab is still the best for us. It’s great for the M&G and party scene, there’s more functionality and its much easier to out fakes and messers here.

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By *arveygirthycockMan
over a year ago

town

"How many posters here are telling the women on POF that they want a relationship in order to get sex? "

You dont have to say you want a relationship on POF.

It asks you what you want: relationship, marriage even but also clearly states and is posted on your profile “is not seeking a relationship of any kind”. Its written on your profile. Of course thats if you want to put that up. You could of course not click that option.

I personally only go for the women who have that on the profile as i have it on mine. Also when i get mail they clearly see thats my intention.

Pof is good, as i stated earlier i think every women/man wants sex, some are comfortable on here posting pics of what they had for dinner and some like to keep it lower key, the outcome is the same though. Sex!

In my opinion of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally for myself i would use pof and tinder for vanilla dating

I find fab a lot easier and more straight forward as regards nsa fun and getting my needs taking care of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Feeld is okay

But it's linked to your Facebook.....does it post anything or say your on it.....discreet is best

Do u have to pay to msg ppl on feeld?

Any body on killing kittens website

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By *arveygirthycockMan
over a year ago

town

Also..fabs so easy.....SAID NO SINGLE MALE EVER !!!!

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy

"How many posters here are telling the women on POF that they want a relationship in order to get sex?

I've seen a few on here that are on POF... you'd recognise them from pics never from profile synopsis. Two very different stories

Pof is generally used for sex. A lot pretend they want to date but it’s just to get you in to bed

I got bored after 2 months and left! And tinder I lasted 5 minutes lol"

Every other profile I read on POF states they're vehemently not interested in just sex.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I was on pof and also Hi5/Tagged.

I met a few from both but pof used to be the best. There was a big change though. You had to list what you were seeking and "intimate encounter" was the popular one. They did away with that though and I very quickly discovered that they were trying to convert it back into a proper dating site as I got deleted without warning anytime I made an indecent proposal. The last time I got deleted I didn't bother going back.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

"I was on pof and also Hi5/Tagged.

So, what your saying is they don't like the "Wanna fuck" messages

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"I was on pof and also Hi5/Tagged.

So, what your saying is they don't like the "Wanna fuck" messages

No, it's not so much the women as admin. They're sanitising the place. I've spoken to women who had the same experience.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

"I was on pof and also Hi5/Tagged.

So, what your saying is they don't like the "Wanna fuck" messages

No, it's not so much the women as admin. They're sanitising the place. I've spoken to women who had the same experience. "

That's what I meant lol

It's only for smooth talkers... like me

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

for meets and wham bam thank you mam shags they blow this place out of the water,don't have to put up with the sycophants on them either,this place is mainly used for forums now not meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on pof initally but now only on fab. Too many wham bam and I prefer higher sex drives and long play sessions which I find easier to get here than on pof as you can be more honest and upfront here of what your needs are

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

"for meets and wham bam thank you mam shags they blow this place out of the water,don't have to put up with the sycophants on them either,this place is mainly used for forums now not meets."

What are you saying...? This place does something else other than forums...??!

Why does no one tell me this stuff....!

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