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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right guys, no pisstaking please.I have met a girl who is 22 years younger than me!!!.She wants to start a relationship , but Im a little bit nervy as to how bith our families and friends will react.We are from same place and families are known to each other.Im worried that people will see me as a dirty pld bastard and her as a golddigger. Views please!

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Just go with the flow . See how your heart feels . Age is only a number . If you get on together go for it .

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By *uriousPearCouple
over a year ago

dublin 5

If you're bank rolling her then you've made a decision to have that dynamic in your relationship. If the relationship is based on attraction and feelings, then what is the issue.

Who gives a shit what other people think? And if she is a gold digger and you're a dirty old pervert, if you're happy with life, who cares?

You're consenting adults after all.

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By *agic ManuMan
over a year ago

D4


"If you're bank rolling her then you've made a decision to have that dynamic in your relationship. If the relationship is based on attraction and feelings, then what is the issue.

Who gives a shit what other people think? And if she is a gold digger and you're a dirty old pervert, if you're happy with life, who cares?

You're consenting adults after all."

Bam!!! Couldn't said it better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And if ye want a bi guy to join ye give me a tx ????

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

Shes 33 ffs ... go for it!

but if you are bankrolling her it aint gna end well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We both work and own our own homes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust your own judgement u only live once best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dude seriously! See who you want. This is your life, nobody else's. Do what you want to. Do what makes you happy. Life is simple if you allow it to be.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

If your feelings for each other are strong enough it will take those hurdles and grow stronger. If you have already doubts it won't work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're old enough not to care what others think.

Are you sure you're not giving voice to your own doubts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your feelings for each other are strong enough it will take those hurdles and grow stronger. If you have already doubts it won't work. "

DH, if there is any doubt, there is no doubt.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"If your feelings for each other are strong enough it will take those hurdles and grow stronger. If you have already doubts it won't work.

DH, if there is any doubt, there is no doubt. "

Sounds too complicated for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your feelings for each other are strong enough it will take those hurdles and grow stronger. If you have already doubts it won't work.

DH, if there is any doubt, there is no doubt.

Sounds too complicated for me "

I doubt that!

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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago

the right side of the river

Durrrrty fecker,

Nice one, ha ha

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

You are both consenting adults so what you both get up to isn't really anybody else's business if you both aren't harming anyone else.

Those who genuinely matter to you and her should want to see you both happy.

Anybody who would begrudge you both being happy together shouldn't or doesn't really matter.

Life is too short. Better to try and know rather than live with the regret of never knowing.

Best wishes if you both decide to go for it OP. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The age gap doesn't work for everyone, I was younger than my x hubby, and he left me for maturer woman, u can't win, just be careful she doesn't get bored and she will leave u for guy her age, hopefully for ur sakes it won't happen, but best of luck, keep her interested in you, if she's a keeper. Just don't get your heart broken, gud luck with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks folks for the heads up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your from portlaoise we can charm anyone

Good on you..

You should go for it life is too short

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By *atthewsundriMan
over a year ago

dundrum


"Your from portlaoise we can charm anyone

Good on you..

You should go for it life is too short "
bet U can't charm me

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas


"Right guys, no pisstaking please.I have met a girl who is 22 years younger than me!!!.She wants to start a relationship , but Im a little bit nervy as to how bith our families and friends will react.We are from same place and families are known to each other.Im worried that people will see me as a dirty pld bastard and her as a golddigger. Views please!"

If the two of ye want a relationship together fook the rest of them and what they think about ye once ye are happy work away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your from portlaoise we can charm anyone

Good on you..

You should go for it life is too short "

Thanks hun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Right guys, no pisstaking please.I have met a girl who is 22 years younger than me!!!.She wants to start a relationship , but Im a little bit nervy as to how bith our families and friends will react.We are from same place and families are known to each other.Im worried that people will see me as a dirty pld bastard and her as a golddigger. Views please!

If the two of ye want a relationship together fook the rest of them and what they think about ye once ye are happy work away "
Cheers Brutus

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are both consenting adults so what you both get up to isn't really anybody else's business if you both aren't harming anyone else.

Those who genuinely matter to you and her should want to see you both happy.

Anybody who would begrudge you both being happy together shouldn't or doesn't really matter.

Life is too short. Better to try and know rather than live with the regret of never knowing.

Best wishes if you both decide to go for it OP. Good luck."

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

If she is not in this lifestyle that may be a far greater issue then age...and on the age thing she's not 20 I don't see what anyone thinks would be of any concern...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If she is not in this lifestyle that may be a far greater issue then age...and on the age thing she's not 20 I don't see what anyone thinks would be of any concern..."
No shes not into this lifestyle.

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By *rudenMan
over a year ago

dublin

Don’t worry about until you are seventy an she is only forty eight-and she is randy as hell and you can do nothing about it

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By *oxminxCouple
over a year ago

NaughtyVille *×* Laois

I think the fact you asking this question aloud is sentiment enough to the stigma you already have about it yourself

Happy NY Foxminx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

Outside of swinging couples is there such a thing as a perfect relationship..? I don’t believe so. So if you have fun together do it and enjoy it for as long as it lasts. Might be a week, year or the rest of your lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Outside of swinging couples is there such a thing as a perfect relationship..? I don’t believe so. So if you have fun together do it and enjoy it for as long as it lasts. Might be a week, year or the rest of your lives. "

You think swinging couples have perfect relationships?

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By *efinitely SteveMan
over a year ago

Laytown near Dublin


"If you're bank rolling her then you've made a decision to have that dynamic in your relationship. If the relationship is based on attraction and feelings, then what is the issue.

Who gives a shit what other people think? And if she is a gold digger and you're a dirty old pervert, if you're happy with life, who cares?

You're consenting adults after all."

This ^^^^

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"Outside of swinging couples is there such a thing as a perfect relationship..? I don’t believe so. So if you have fun together do it and enjoy it for as long as it lasts. Might be a week, year or the rest of your lives.

You think swinging couples have perfect relationships? "

Nope. But it sounded better than “there are no perfect relationships” and immediately drawing all the ire from couples on here...!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Outside of swinging couples is there such a thing as a perfect relationship..? I don’t believe so. So if you have fun together do it and enjoy it for as long as it lasts. Might be a week, year or the rest of your lives.

You think swinging couples have perfect relationships? "
haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Outside of swinging couples is there such a thing as a perfect relationship..? I don’t believe so. So if you have fun together do it and enjoy it for as long as it lasts. Might be a week, year or the rest of your lives.

You think swinging couples have perfect relationships?

Nope. But it sounded better than “there are no perfect relationships” and immediately drawing all the ire from couples on here...! "

Sounds plausible

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

First off, congratulations on the relationship. All relationships face different issues, throughout their duration let alone at the start but these are faced easier with good communication. Talk your fears through with her and face it together.

Wishing you all the best

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"First off, congratulations on the relationship. All relationships face different issues, throughout their duration let alone at the start but these are faced easier with good communication. Talk your fears through with her and face it together.

Thank you for your kind words.

Wishing you all the best

"

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By *ork fellaMan
over a year ago

Macroom

Lifes too short Man. Live it by being happy. If she makes you happy and vice versa then why care what others think. Just go with it. Hope it goes well for ye.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lifes too short Man. Live it by being happy. If she makes you happy and vice versa then why care what others think. Just go with it. Hope it goes well for ye. "

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

for me the age thing differentiates from sex to a relationship. I'd have sex no problem with an 18yo but I wouldn't get into a serious relationship with one

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway

F##k what others think or say bud! You only live once so do what makes yah happy! If your happy being with her and she happy with you then do your thing man...Good luck to yee

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

A few things if you have to ask on a forum well then there's doubt in your mind.

She might be younger but shes not a child. You pointed out you both have jobs and your own homes... I don't think this should be an issue . Money should never come into the equation. Just go for it as some one said it might last a week a year or forever just make the most of your time together. Just be honest with her let her know of your sexual preferences. Don't let her find out by chance... that's a deal breaker. Good luck OP .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks BBD.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're bank rolling her then you've made a decision to have that dynamic in your relationship. If the relationship is based on attraction and feelings, then what is the issue.

Who gives a shit what other people think? And if she is a gold digger and you're a dirty old pervert, if you're happy with life, who cares?

You're consenting adults after all."

I need say no more

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Thanks BBD."

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