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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Struggling to get many replies. I’m not being vulgar, generally asking what they got up to at New Years, Xmas, etc. do women like this approach or do you want something more direct as it is a sex site?

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

Put more into your profile. I’d very rarely reply to a profile that nothing about them on it. Put your personality into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good question ! I never really know either cause you see a lot of status of women complain about creepers haha I’m interested to find out !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont reply as i usually get loads of the same thing everyday. And to be honest i check the profile first before the message to see if i have any interest before replying or not. Also the rules of the site states no reply means not interest too

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Women get 100s of new mails every single day Most of them with a cock pick and "wanna fck?"

So...

What do you do to make yourself stand out as a fun loving, up for the craic guy??

- A catchy/cheeky heading

- Brief interesting intro

- what you like

Even, be a little cheeky and enticing if that works well for you

It can take a little while to find your own unique approach that works. So keep going

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

Dude you're better off on the forums than messaging,you must remember that the women on here have fellas blowing smoke up their asses telling 4 outa 10s that they are 10s etc therefore they have an inflated sense of attractiveness. The simple facts arethat you wouldn't give 90%+ of them a second glance if you passed them on the street.Before the charge of the light brigade or the knights of the second crusade give me their tuppence worth,it goes both ways and I don't care what you think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dude you're better off on the forums than messaging,you must remember that the women on here have fellas blowing smoke up their asses telling 4 outa 10s that they are 10s etc therefore they have an inflated sense of attractiveness. The simple facts arethat you wouldn't give 90%+ of them a second glance if you passed them on the street.Before the charge of the light brigade or the knights of the second crusade give me their tuppence worth,it goes both ways and I don't care what you think "
How dare you say such things about the beautiful models on fab.

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"Dude you're better off on the forums than messaging,you must remember that the women on here have fellas blowing smoke up their asses telling 4 outa 10s that they are 10s etc therefore they have an inflated sense of attractiveness. The simple facts arethat you wouldn't give 90%+ of them a second glance if you passed them on the street.Before the charge of the light brigade or the knights of the second crusade give me their tuppence worth,it goes both ways and I don't care what you think "

Not all of us have an inflated sense is attractiveness I am fully aware of my bits and bobs and think it is quite funny I’m told I’m hot and amazing from a couple of pics. Don’t believe everything you read in the internet

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Dude you're better off on the forums than messaging,you must remember that the women on here have fellas blowing smoke up their asses telling 4 outa 10s that they are 10s etc therefore they have an inflated sense of attractiveness. The simple facts arethat you wouldn't give 90%+ of them a second glance if you passed them on the street.Before the charge of the light brigade or the knights of the second crusade give me their tuppence worth,it goes both ways and I don't care what you think

Not all of us have an inflated sense is attractiveness I am fully aware of my bits and bobs and think it is quite funny I’m told I’m hot and amazing from a couple of pics. Don’t believe everything you read in the internet "

So you agree that there are some peeps on here that will lie to a woman telling her her piss is perfume etc etc so would you not think that many women would start to believe the lies and thus get an over inflated perception of their looks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is this being turned into women having over inflated egos? why can't women be confident and feel sexy about themselves without being continuously knocked for it?

For what it's worth OP, try giving a bit more info on your bio and putting a bit more thought into your message to give a sense as to who you are and what you want.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Why is this being turned into women having over inflated egos? why can't women be confident and feel sexy about themselves without being continuously knocked for it?

For what it's worth OP, try giving a bit more info on your bio and putting a bit more thought into your message to give a sense as to who you are and what you want."

Unfortunately the site has become exactly that people getting over inflated egos due to sycophants telling them every thing they wish to hear,there are 5s or 6s thinking they are 10s and demanding nothing but 10s in return. There are some genuinely gorgeous peeps on here for sure but can you honestly hand on heart look at the average days most fabbed photos for example and say that most of them would be head turners in ordinary life? BTW This is not solely directed at females there are couples and males that fall into the same category.

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway


"Dude you're better off on the forums than messaging,you must remember that the women on here have fellas blowing smoke up their asses telling 4 outa 10s that they are 10s etc therefore they have an inflated sense of attractiveness. The simple facts arethat you wouldn't give 90%+ of them a second glance if you passed them on the street.Before the charge of the light brigade or the knights of the second crusade give me their tuppence worth,it goes both ways and I don't care what you think "
Ha ha you speak the truth for sure my thoughts exactly! But maybe 75% as there are hotties on this! But you totally nailed it on the head !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand what the problem is... when you fancy someone it's normal to flatter them, that happens everywhere.

Also a lot of women get horrible messages on Fab, some are downright abusive, so lay offf the judgment guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't understand what the problem is... when you fancy someone it's normal to flatter them, that happens everywhere.

Also a lot of women get horrible messages on Fab, some are downright abusive, so lay offf the judgment guys."

I would imagine women do get a lot more attention and abuse. Some lads on here have to make it harder for the rest of us. No pun intended!

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By *aillimhguy01Man
over a year ago

galway


"I don't understand what the problem is... when you fancy someone it's normal to flatter them, that happens everywhere.

Also a lot of women get horrible messages on Fab, some are downright abusive, so lay offf the judgment guys."

well said u tell them minx xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Down with the patriarchy!

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway


"I don't understand what the problem is... when you fancy someone it's normal to flatter them, that happens everywhere.

Also a lot of women get horrible messages on Fab, some are downright abusive, so lay offf the judgment guys."

That's true fair points! Think because there are so many guys to a smaller number of women, alot of guys are flattering women just to get the leg over! When in vanilla life wouldn't look twice at them! That's point am making!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand what the problem is... when you fancy someone it's normal to flatter them, that happens everywhere.

Also a lot of women get horrible messages on Fab, some are downright abusive, so lay offf the judgment guys. That's true fair points! Think because there are so many guys to a smaller number of women, alot of guys are flattering women just to get the leg over! When in vanilla life wouldn't look twice at them! That's point am making!! "

And my point is that guys do that in the real world too - all the time! Fab is no different except that maybe people are more open about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand what the problem is... when you fancy someone it's normal to flatter them, that happens everywhere.

Also a lot of women get horrible messages on Fab, some are downright abusive, so lay offf the judgment guys. That's true fair points! Think because there are so many guys to a smaller number of women, alot of guys are flattering women just to get the leg over! When in vanilla life wouldn't look twice at them! That's point am making!! "

Just curious if u wouldnt look at them twice in vanilla life why would u look at them in fab life.

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway


"I don't understand what the problem is... when you fancy someone it's normal to flatter them, that happens everywhere.

Also a lot of women get horrible messages on Fab, some are downright abusive, so lay offf the judgment guys. That's true fair points! Think because there are so many guys to a smaller number of women, alot of guys are flattering women just to get the leg over! When in vanilla life wouldn't look twice at them! That's point am making!!

And my point is that guys do that in the real world too - all the time! Fab is no different except that maybe people are more open about it."

Yeah That's a fair point! And then they block you for been open about it

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"Why is this being turned into women having over inflated egos? why can't women be confident and feel sexy about themselves without being continuously knocked for it?

For what it's worth OP, try giving a bit more info on your bio and putting a bit more thought into your message to give a sense as to who you are and what you want."

Certain men on this site really dislike the idea that women can be happy and confident in their own skin. They view us all as munters (even without knowing what we look like). Heaven forbid if we say we can pull hotties in the outside world!! Im here for couples and females - that's a bit harder in vanilla life. Men - have to be exceptional (cue insecure men stomping thieir feet waaaaahh)

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway


"I don't understand what the problem is... when you fancy someone it's normal to flatter them, that happens everywhere.

Also a lot of women get horrible messages on Fab, some are downright abusive, so lay offf the judgment guys. That's true fair points! Think because there are so many guys to a smaller number of women, alot of guys are flattering women just to get the leg over! When in vanilla life wouldn't look twice at them! That's point am making!!

Just curious if u wouldnt look at them twice in vanilla life why would u look at them in fab life."

Not talking bout me read previous posts!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dude you're better off on the forums than messaging,you must remember that the women on here have fellas blowing smoke up their asses telling 4 outa 10s that they are 10s etc therefore they have an inflated sense of attractiveness. The simple facts arethat you wouldn't give 90%+ of them a second glance if you passed them on the street.Before the charge of the light brigade or the knights of the second crusade give me their tuppence worth,it goes both ways and I don't care what you think

Not all of us have an inflated sense is attractiveness I am fully aware of my bits and bobs and think it is quite funny I’m told I’m hot and amazing from a couple of pics. Don’t believe everything you read in the internet

So you agree that there are some peeps on here that will lie to a woman telling her her piss is perfume etc etc so would you not think that many women would start to believe the lies and thus get an over inflated perception of their looks?"

I actually hate the "you're gorgeous....you should be a model, you have the best legs I've ever seen.." type messages. If that is all someone has to say to me then it"s boring as f#ck and I'm liable to switch off very quickly. May even send him a pic of me first thing on the morning when I've just fell out of bed to really scare him off. And I can smell bullshit a mile off and am not zipped up the back so no chance of an over inflated ego here...

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway


"Why is this being turned into women having over inflated egos? why can't women be confident and feel sexy about themselves without being continuously knocked for it?

For what it's worth OP, try giving a bit more info on your bio and putting a bit more thought into your message to give a sense as to who you are and what you want.

Certain men on this site really dislike the idea that women can be happy and confident in their own skin. They view us all as munters (even without knowing what we look like). Heaven forbid if we say we can pull hotties in the outside world!! Im here for couples and females - that's a bit harder in vanilla life. Men - have to be exceptional (cue insecure men stomping thieir feet waaaaahh) "

Certain guys maybe but not all ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is this being turned into women having over inflated egos? why can't women be confident and feel sexy about themselves without being continuously knocked for it?

For what it's worth OP, try giving a bit more info on your bio and putting a bit more thought into your message to give a sense as to who you are and what you want.

Certain men on this site really dislike the idea that women can be happy and confident in their own skin. They view us all as munters (even without knowing what we look like). Heaven forbid if we say we can pull hotties in the outside world!! Im here for couples and females - that's a bit harder in vanilla life. Men - have to be exceptional (cue insecure men stomping thieir feet waaaaahh) "

Well said

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"Dude you're better off on the forums than messaging,you must remember that the women on here have fellas blowing smoke up their asses telling 4 outa 10s that they are 10s etc therefore they have an inflated sense of attractiveness. The simple facts arethat you wouldn't give 90%+ of them a second glance if you passed them on the street.Before the charge of the light brigade or the knights of the second crusade give me their tuppence worth,it goes both ways and I don't care what you think

Not all of us have an inflated sense is attractiveness I am fully aware of my bits and bobs and think it is quite funny I’m told I’m hot and amazing from a couple of pics. Don’t believe everything you read in the internet

So you agree that there are some peeps on here that will lie to a woman telling her her piss is perfume etc etc so would you not think that many women would start to believe the lies and thus get an over inflated perception of their looks?

I actually hate the "you're gorgeous....you should be a model, you have the best legs I've ever seen.." type messages. If that is all someone has to say to me then it"s boring as f#ck and I'm liable to switch off very quickly. May even send him a pic of me first thing on the morning when I've just fell out of bed to really scare him off. And I can smell bullshit a mile off and am not zipped up the back so no chance of an over inflated ego here..."

Meh I've seen better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand what the problem is... when you fancy someone it's normal to flatter them, that happens everywhere.

Also a lot of women get horrible messages on Fab, some are downright abusive, so lay offf the judgment guys.

I would imagine women do get a lot more attention and abuse. Some lads on here have to make it harder for the rest of us. No pun intended!"

how do they make it harder for the rest off us.?

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway

Well yes should have read previous posts correctly! 75% doestnt mean 100% so don't get ye're knickers in a twist ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dude you're better off on the forums than messaging,you must remember that the women on here have fellas blowing smoke up their asses telling 4 outa 10s that they are 10s etc therefore they have an inflated sense of attractiveness. The simple facts arethat you wouldn't give 90%+ of them a second glance if you passed them on the street.Before the charge of the light brigade or the knights of the second crusade give me their tuppence worth,it goes both ways and I don't care what you think

Not all of us have an inflated sense is attractiveness I am fully aware of my bits and bobs and think it is quite funny I’m told I’m hot and amazing from a couple of pics. Don’t believe everything you read in the internet

So you agree that there are some peeps on here that will lie to a woman telling her her piss is perfume etc etc so would you not think that many women would start to believe the lies and thus get an over inflated perception of their looks?

I actually hate the "you're gorgeous....you should be a model, you have the best legs I've ever seen.." type messages. If that is all someone has to say to me then it"s boring as f#ck and I'm liable to switch off very quickly. May even send him a pic of me first thing on the morning when I've just fell out of bed to really scare him off. And I can smell bullshit a mile off and am not zipped up the back so no chance of an over inflated ego here...

Meh I've seen better

"

So have I...hence the reason I don't have a big heid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is this being turned into women having over inflated egos? why can't women be confident and feel sexy about themselves without being continuously knocked for it?

For what it's worth OP, try giving a bit more info on your bio and putting a bit more thought into your message to give a sense as to who you are and what you want.

Unfortunately the site has become exactly that people getting over inflated egos due to sycophants telling them every thing they wish to hear,there are 5s or 6s thinking they are 10s and demanding nothing but 10s in return. There are some genuinely gorgeous peeps on here for sure but can you honestly hand on heart look at the average days most fabbed photos for example and say that most of them would be head turners in ordinary life? BTW This is not solely directed at females there are couples and males that fall into the same category."

Attractive isn't just a body shape, for alot of us on fab it's personality that holds the appeal, and when your responding to little black words on a screen, it's the personality that shines through not the pics

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"Dude you're better off on the forums than messaging,you must remember that the women on here have fellas blowing smoke up their asses telling 4 outa 10s that they are 10s etc therefore they have an inflated sense of attractiveness. The simple facts arethat you wouldn't give 90%+ of them a second glance if you passed them on the street.Before the charge of the light brigade or the knights of the second crusade give me their tuppence worth,it goes both ways and I don't care what you think

Not all of us have an inflated sense is attractiveness I am fully aware of my bits and bobs and think it is quite funny I’m told I’m hot and amazing from a couple of pics. Don’t believe everything you read in the internet

So you agree that there are some peeps on here that will lie to a woman telling her her piss is perfume etc etc so would you not think that many women would start to believe the lies and thus get an over inflated perception of their looks?

I actually hate the "you're gorgeous....you should be a model, you have the best legs I've ever seen.." type messages. If that is all someone has to say to me then it"s boring as f#ck and I'm liable to switch off very quickly. May even send him a pic of me first thing on the morning when I've just fell out of bed to really scare him off. And I can smell bullshit a mile off and am not zipped up the back so no chance of an over inflated ego here...

Meh I've seen better

So have I...hence the reason I don't have a big heid "

Not sure about your loaf but You have great pins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often get blocked for saying Hello lol The women here think they are gods. Dnt believe anyone telling you to add more to your profile etc I seen a guy commenting here recently and the ladies were tripping over themselves for him. Not a thing on his profile but a few body pics showing his muscles.

I posted a body pic myself here some time ago. It was an old pic when i was in shape. Used to get a few messages / replies back then but nothing these days. Doesn't bother me though. Iam on many other sites where i get replies and chat etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dude you're better off on the forums than messaging,you must remember that the women on here have fellas blowing smoke up their asses telling 4 outa 10s that they are 10s etc therefore they have an inflated sense of attractiveness. The simple facts arethat you wouldn't give 90%+ of them a second glance if you passed them on the street.Before the charge of the light brigade or the knights of the second crusade give me their tuppence worth,it goes both ways and I don't care what you think

Not all of us have an inflated sense is attractiveness I am fully aware of my bits and bobs and think it is quite funny I’m told I’m hot and amazing from a couple of pics. Don’t believe everything you read in the internet

So you agree that there are some peeps on here that will lie to a woman telling her her piss is perfume etc etc so would you not think that many women would start to believe the lies and thus get an over inflated perception of their looks?

I actually hate the "you're gorgeous....you should be a model, you have the best legs I've ever seen.." type messages. If that is all someone has to say to me then it"s boring as f#ck and I'm liable to switch off very quickly. May even send him a pic of me first thing on the morning when I've just fell out of bed to really scare him off. And I can smell bullshit a mile off and am not zipped up the back so no chance of an over inflated ego here...

Meh I've seen better

So have I...hence the reason I don't have a big heid

Not sure about your loaf but You have great pins "

Don't start that shite! You'll have a riot on your hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This topic is like a broken record at this stage on forums

Everyone knows the ratio of men to women here and a lot will only meet based on attraction

Some people will allways accuse of women have over inflated egos ,stuck up gullabe

When in reality they are independent; strong minded know what they like and who they like.

All because some people not getting what they want when and how.

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway


"Why is this being turned into women having over inflated egos? why can't women be confident and feel sexy about themselves without being continuously knocked for it?

For what it's worth OP, try giving a bit more info on your bio and putting a bit more thought into your message to give a sense as to who you are and what you want.

Certain men on this site really dislike the idea that women can be happy and confident in their own skin. They view us all as munters (even without knowing what we look like). Heaven forbid if we say we can pull hotties in the outside world!! Im here for couples and females - that's a bit harder in vanilla life. Men - have to be exceptional (cue insecure men stomping thieir feet waaaaahh)

Well said "

Yep Women also have to be exceptional....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dude you're better off on the forums than messaging,you must remember that the women on here have fellas blowing smoke up their asses telling 4 outa 10s that they are 10s etc therefore they have an inflated sense of attractiveness. The simple facts arethat you wouldn't give 90%+ of them a second glance if you passed them on the street.Before the charge of the light brigade or the knights of the second crusade give me their tuppence worth,it goes both ways and I don't care what you think "

Wether you like it or not there is Truth in that but sadly you usually either receive a backlash or get a ban when you tell it like it is here

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"Dude you're better off on the forums than messaging,you must remember that the women on here have fellas blowing smoke up their asses telling 4 outa 10s that they are 10s etc therefore they have an inflated sense of attractiveness. The simple facts arethat you wouldn't give 90%+ of them a second glance if you passed them on the street.Before the charge of the light brigade or the knights of the second crusade give me their tuppence worth,it goes both ways and I don't care what you think

Not all of us have an inflated sense is attractiveness I am fully aware of my bits and bobs and think it is quite funny I’m told I’m hot and amazing from a couple of pics. Don’t believe everything you read in the internet

So you agree that there are some peeps on here that will lie to a woman telling her her piss is perfume etc etc so would you not think that many women would start to believe the lies and thus get an over inflated perception of their looks?

I actually hate the "you're gorgeous....you should be a model, you have the best legs I've ever seen.." type messages. If that is all someone has to say to me then it"s boring as f#ck and I'm liable to switch off very quickly. May even send him a pic of me first thing on the morning when I've just fell out of bed to really scare him off. And I can smell bullshit a mile off and am not zipped up the back so no chance of an over inflated ego here...

Meh I've seen better

So have I...hence the reason I don't have a big heid

Not sure about your loaf but You have great pins

Don't start that shite! You'll have a riot on your hands "

You're right I withdraw that comment you have average pins

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway


"Dude you're better off on the forums than messaging,you must remember that the women on here have fellas blowing smoke up their asses telling 4 outa 10s that they are 10s etc therefore they have an inflated sense of attractiveness. The simple facts arethat you wouldn't give 90%+ of them a second glance if you passed them on the street.Before the charge of the light brigade or the knights of the second crusade give me their tuppence worth,it goes both ways and I don't care what you think

Wether you like it or not there is Truth in that but sadly you usually either receive a backlash or get a ban when you tell it like it is here "

Or someone is insecure and blocks yah for nothing! Hear that happens alot here so just comply with the majority ! Having the quack peeps Happy New Year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand what the problem is... when you fancy someone it's normal to flatter them, that happens everywhere.

Also a lot of women get horrible messages on Fab, some are downright abusive, so lay offf the judgment guys."

Most guys don't fancy the women here and that's a fact. Sex is powerful. A man will lower his standards dramatically if it means sex. If this site was a dating site with all the women seeking relationships then you would see a very different pattern here. The fakeness here is beyond belief and what's more shocking is how many people are blind to it. I had an argument here once and learned quickly how fake this place is. You could have an argument with a women here and the men will jump to her aid and make fun of the guy without knowing a thing. Then ye have other men that will message you privately telling you that your right but there terrified to speak out publicly because it won't sit well with others and could affect there future meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand what the problem is... when you fancy someone it's normal to flatter them, that happens everywhere.

Also a lot of women get horrible messages on Fab, some are downright abusive, so lay offf the judgment guys.

Most guys don't fancy the women here and that's a fact. Sex is powerful. A man will lower his standards dramatically if it means sex. If this site was a dating site with all the women seeking relationships then you would see a very different pattern here. The fakeness here is beyond belief and what's more shocking is how many people are blind to it. I had an argument here once and learned quickly how fake this place is. You could have an argument with a women here and the men will jump to her aid and make fun of the guy without knowing a thing. Then ye have other men that will message you privately telling you that your right but there terrified to speak out publicly because it won't sit well with others and could affect there future meets.

"

Even if alot of guys don't fancy the woman on here and they are lowering their standards for a shag

Doesn't mean the woman on here are going to lower their standards, in a nutshell we don't appreciate some men thinking we are prostitutes who don't take a payment

It doesn't mean us woman have over

inflated egos, it's just means we have the right to pick and choose who we want to chat and meet with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand what the problem is... when you fancy someone it's normal to flatter them, that happens everywhere.

Also a lot of women get horrible messages on Fab, some are downright abusive, so lay offf the judgment guys.

Most guys don't fancy the women here and that's a fact. Sex is powerful. A man will lower his standards dramatically if it means sex. If this site was a dating site with all the women seeking relationships then you would see a very different pattern here. The fakeness here is beyond belief and what's more shocking is how many people are blind to it. I had an argument here once and learned quickly how fake this place is. You could have an argument with a women here and the men will jump to her aid and make fun of the guy without knowing a thing. Then ye have other men that will message you privately telling you that your right but there terrified to speak out publicly because it won't sit well with others and could affect there future meets.

"

You are not wrong. But time people stopped being sheep and be their own person, ignore the fakeness and gossip etc. As many cool peeps on fab as there are loonies. The forums are not the be all thank feck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand what the problem is... when you fancy someone it's normal to flatter them, that happens everywhere.

Also a lot of women get horrible messages on Fab, some are downright abusive, so lay offf the judgment guys.

Most guys don't fancy the women here and that's a fact. Sex is powerful. A man will lower his standards dramatically if it means sex. If this site was a dating site with all the women seeking relationships then you would see a very different pattern here. The fakeness here is beyond belief and what's more shocking is how many people are blind to it. I had an argument here once and learned quickly how fake this place is. You could have an argument with a women here and the men will jump to her aid and make fun of the guy without knowing a thing. Then ye have other men that will message you privately telling you that your right but there terrified to speak out publicly because it won't sit well with others and could affect there future meets.

"

Lowering my standards for sex hmm abit stereotypical there .I never do .

But in general if ladies don't like you they should reply we a nice message think it's manners.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"Why is this being turned into women having over inflated egos? why can't women be confident and feel sexy about themselves without being continuously knocked for it?

For what it's worth OP, try giving a bit more info on your bio and putting a bit more thought into your message to give a sense as to who you are and what you want.

Certain men on this site really dislike the idea that women can be happy and confident in their own skin. They view us all as munters (even without knowing what we look like). Heaven forbid if we say we can pull hotties in the outside world!! Im here for couples and females - that's a bit harder in vanilla life. Men - have to be exceptional (cue insecure men stomping thieir feet waaaaahh)

Well said Yep Women also have to be exceptional.... "

And any man with any self respect would agree with you.Why would anyone even think about fucking someone who they didn't think was exceptional?

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"I don't understand what the problem is... when you fancy someone it's normal to flatter them, that happens everywhere.

Also a lot of women get horrible messages on Fab, some are downright abusive, so lay offf the judgment guys.

Most guys don't fancy the women here and that's a fact. Sex is powerful. A man will lower his standards dramatically if it means sex. If this site was a dating site with all the women seeking relationships then you would see a very different pattern here. The fakeness here is beyond belief and what's more shocking is how many people are blind to it. I had an argument here once and learned quickly how fake this place is. You could have an argument with a women here and the men will jump to her aid and make fun of the guy without knowing a thing. Then ye have other men that will message you privately telling you that your right but there terrified to speak out publicly because it won't sit well with others and could affect there future meets.

Lowering my standards for sex hmm abit stereotypical there .I never do .

But in general if ladies don't like you they should reply we a nice message think it's manners.

"

.....is someone going to tell him??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iam not suggesting everyone has lower standards but let's call a spade a spade. There is lots of men that might not particularly Fancy a woman but if that woman is naughty sexually then he'll entertain her and give her his time etc If she's willing to suck him off then he will surely meet her..... But he does not fancy her.

This is why most men can fuck women here and then walk away and never meet again (in most cases) because they don't give a crap. Why? Because they never fancied you to begin with. Most women are intelligent enough to acknowledge this and they play the game just as good but there are many that are blind to the reality here

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown

There seems to be a shocking amount of bitterness and bad feeling on this thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seems to be a shocking amount of bitterness and bad feeling on this thread!"

This is the thing that bugs me. Why must it be bitterness? Why can't it be the case that there's Truth in it? I've no bitterness toward anybody here because i don't know anybody here. Ye cant win here. If a woman was rude and you gave out about it your immediately called bitter but if it's the other way around the lady gets an arm around her and gets told to ignore them lol

The women here can do no wrong.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"There seems to be a shocking amount of bitterness and bad feeling on this thread!

This is the thing that bugs me. Why must it be bitterness? Why can't it be the case that there's Truth in it? I've no bitterness toward anybody here because i don't know anybody here. Ye cant win here. If a woman was rude and you gave out about it your immediately called bitter but if it's the other way around the lady gets an arm around her and gets told to ignore them lol

The women here can do no wrong. "

Rubbish! I've been pulled up before and the last time I looked I was female. Certainly don't need any white knights thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seems to be a shocking amount of bitterness and bad feeling on this thread!

This is the thing that bugs me. Why must it be bitterness? Why can't it be the case that there's Truth in it? I've no bitterness toward anybody here because i don't know anybody here. Ye cant win here. If a woman was rude and you gave out about it your immediately called bitter but if it's the other way around the lady gets an arm around her and gets told to ignore them lol

The women here can do no wrong.

Rubbish! I've been pulled up before and the last time I looked I was female. Certainly don't need any white knights thanks."

Oh well then it must never happen. You showed me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot of people and sorry to say men refer to this site as a SEX SITE...

Even tho we all have the same agenda, and yes sex, some think of it as a site were they look at a profile and think right that's who I'm having sex with and send the message "fancy a fuck"

Its a swinging site, a site were people with a more liberated attitude to sex come to meet like minded people....

That doesn't mean we are going to just have sex with anyone

Its about the fun and enticement of meeting someone new, doesn't mean everyone who meets are wanting a long lasting relationship...

Its about a mutual like of mind and respect of that

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown

Just because you can’t get a meet or a reply does not mean the women are “up their own ass”. Did someone make you sign up to fab? There is no obligation to reply (although I reply to every message I can) and certainly no obligation to meet. Guys if you feel the site is unfair, if you don’t like the standard of women just leave. Nobody here owes you anything so if you do stay just suck it up and play the game.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"There seems to be a shocking amount of bitterness and bad feeling on this thread!

This is the thing that bugs me. Why must it be bitterness? Why can't it be the case that there's Truth in it? I've no bitterness toward anybody here because i don't know anybody here. Ye cant win here. If a woman was rude and you gave out about it your immediately called bitter but if it's the other way around the lady gets an arm around her and gets told to ignore them lol

The women here can do no wrong.

Rubbish! I've been pulled up before and the last time I looked I was female. Certainly don't need any white knights thanks.

Oh well then it must never happen. You showed me "

It does happen. You said 'The women here can do no wrong' That is rubbish! I did not say men don't white knight. Far from it but women DO get pulled up. So the notion that men suck up to all women is flawed. Loads of men hate women on here. And it shows sometimes in their posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just because you can’t get a meet or a reply does not mean the women are “up their own ass”. Did someone make you sign up to fab? There is no obligation to reply (although I reply to every message I can) and certainly no obligation to meet. Guys if you feel the site is unfair, if you don’t like the standard of women just leave. Nobody here owes you anything so if you do stay just suck it up and play the game."

Your right. All iam trying to say is that i understand woman have so many options here and they can't keep every guy happy etc I get that. But i think it's unfair when so many women ignore and block men for no reason. Yes.... It does happen ALOT. Alot of guys here are treated like dirt simply because they aren't as attractive as the girls here want them to be. If a guy speaks out about it being difficult to get meets he is then ridiculed and made feel like he's being a loser. If a girl was to do the same thing she would have multiple men showing support and private messaging her. It's just fake and slyness. Iam not necessarily bothered by it. Iam just speaking the truth

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway


"Why is this being turned into women having over inflated egos? why can't women be confident and feel sexy about themselves without being continuously knocked for it?

For what it's worth OP, try giving a bit more info on your bio and putting a bit more thought into your message to give a sense as to who you are and what you want.

Certain men on this site really dislike the idea that women can be happy and confident in their own skin. They view us all as munters (even without knowing what we look like). Heaven forbid if we say we can pull hotties in the outside world!! Im here for couples and females - that's a bit harder in vanilla life. Men - have to be exceptional (cue insecure men stomping thieir feet waaaaahh)

Well said Yep Women also have to be exceptional....

And any man with any self respect would agree with you.Why would anyone even think about fucking someone who they didn't think was exceptional?"

Yes totally agree with you well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say yo lady's you's Lookin some "LD"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just say yo lady's you's Lookin some "LD" "

So thaaaats how u do it eh? Smooth moves hardyboy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are thousands of people using this site

If you think that its just single men that don't get meets regular think again

Every gender on this site don't get meets on a regular basis

Its a needle in a haystack finding people you connect with

People connect to people not pictures and a profile

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown

Sorry guys but have you looked around lately? Men are treated as disposable in every way these days. Look at sexual assault laws, work related deaths this past few years have been 97% men, we are conscripted and sent to kill or be killed in war and yet women do complain that they supposedly earn 20% less (bullshit, even government websites prove this to be wrong). Our one weakness is sex and it’s used to control us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are thousands of people using this site

If you think that its just single men that don't get meets regular think again

Every gender on this site don't get meets on a regular basis

Its a needle in a haystack finding people you connect with

People connect to people not pictures and a profile "

Well that's a lie lol There's addicts getting meets here because they look good. Not because of there likeable personalities.

Your nuts if you think people won't meet anyone unless there's a connection. Let me create a fake profile of a guy that's hot with a 6 pack etc I won't bother putting any info on the ye profile and i guarantee ill have offers before the end of the week and your gonna try and tell me it's about connection not looks. Your living in another world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry guys but have you looked around lately? Men are treated as disposable in every way these days. Look at sexual assault laws, work related deaths this past few years have been 97% men, we are conscripted and sent to kill or be killed in war and yet women do complain that they supposedly earn 20% less (bullshit, even government websites prove this to be wrong). Our one weakness is sex and it’s used to control us."

So males on fab not getting replies is part of a global conspiracy?

Too frickin funny

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown

Lol no but males are in general treated worse than women at the moment and treated as disposable. When is the last time you saw a woman up a ladder building a roof?

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

It’s fascinating how many times this type of thread comes up.

But lots of guys still don’t get it: the ratio is skewed between men to women, approx 15:1.

This drives certain behaviours:

1) Women get buried with messages from guys - some literally dozens every day. They don’t have time to go through them all.

2) lots of those messages are lazy and half-assed - but this in itself is driven by frustrated guys not getting replies and so “spamming” lots of women in their attraction spectrum.

3) Women can afford to be choosy in this reality. If you were a man and the ratios reversed, wouldn’t you be..?? That’s unfair, that’s cruel but it’s just life. The top 10% will generally win through, and that’s not necessarily going by looks or body

4) Guys on here - in general - are still not learning and so raising the quality of their profiles & pics. Sorry guys, but it’s a world of selection and if you want selected, perform better and stand out ..!

5) Good manners, respecting boundaries (I.e don’t message someone to death when you don’t get a response..!!), showing an interest and being original are king.

6) Most importantly: you will rarely get responses. Accept this fact and alter your behaviour and ego threshold accordingly.

Oh, and have a great year

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway


"Sorry guys but have you looked around lately? Men are treated as disposable in every way these days. Look at sexual assault laws, work related deaths this past few years have been 97% men, we are conscripted and sent to kill or be killed in war and yet women do complain that they supposedly earn 20% less (bullshit, even government websites prove this to be wrong). Our one weakness is sex and it’s used to control us.

So males on fab not getting replies is part of a global conspiracy?

Too frickin funny"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol no but males are in general treated worse than women at the moment and treated as disposable. When is the last time you saw a woman up a ladder building a roof?"

Gosh, I didn't realise men are pressganged into building work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s fascinating how many times this type of thread comes up.

But lots of guys still don’t get it: the ratio is skewed between men to women, approx 15:1.

This drives certain behaviours:

1) Women get buried with messages from guys - some literally dozens every day. They don’t have time to go through them all.

2) lots of those messages are lazy and half-assed - but this in itself is driven by frustrated guys not getting replies and so “spamming” lots of women in their attraction spectrum.

3) Women can afford to be choosy in this reality. If you were a man and the ratios reversed, wouldn’t you be..?? That’s unfair, that’s cruel but it’s just life. The top 10% will generally win through, and that’s not necessarily going by looks or body

4) Guys on here - in general - are still not learning and so raising the quality of their profiles & pics. Sorry guys, but it’s a world of selection and if you want selected, perform better and stand out ..!

5) Good manners, respecting boundaries (I.e don’t message someone to death when you don’t get a response..!!), showing an interest and being original are king.

6) Most importantly: you will rarely get responses. Accept this fact and alter your behaviour and ego threshold accordingly.

Oh, and have a great year "

Very well expressed, unfortunately,a complete waste of your time on those whose EQ isn't up to getting it.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"Lol no but males are in general treated worse than women at the moment and treated as disposable. When is the last time you saw a woman up a ladder building a roof?"

Just after I saw a man giving birth to a baby in the maternity unit....or was it before. I just don't know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s fascinating how many times this type of thread comes up.

But lots of guys still don’t get it: the ratio is skewed between men to women, approx 15:1.

This drives certain behaviours:

1) Women get buried with messages from guys - some literally dozens every day. They don’t have time to go through them all.

2) lots of those messages are lazy and half-assed - but this in itself is driven by frustrated guys not getting replies and so “spamming” lots of women in their attraction spectrum.

3) Women can afford to be choosy in this reality. If you were a man and the ratios reversed, wouldn’t you be..?? That’s unfair, that’s cruel but it’s just life. The top 10% will generally win through, and that’s not necessarily going by looks or body

4) Guys on here - in general - are still not learning and so raising the quality of their profiles & pics. Sorry guys, but it’s a world of selection and if you want selected, perform better and stand out ..!

5) Good manners, respecting boundaries (I.e don’t message someone to death when you don’t get a response..!!), showing an interest and being original are king.

6) Most importantly: you will rarely get responses. Accept this fact and alter your behaviour and ego threshold accordingly.

Oh, and have a great year "

Great advice. This should be given to all newbies to manage expectations

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Dude you're better off on the forums than messaging,you must remember that the women on here have fellas blowing smoke up their asses telling 4 outa 10s that they are 10s etc therefore they have an inflated sense of attractiveness. The simple facts arethat you wouldn't give 90%+ of them a second glance if you passed them on the street.Before the charge of the light brigade or the knights of the second crusade give me their tuppence worth,it goes both ways and I don't care what you think

Wether you like it or not there is Truth in that but sadly you usually either receive a backlash or get a ban when you tell it like it is here "

Checked a few of the repliers to my post and would you believe it they have blocked me hahaha same all the time,you tell a few home truths and they get uptight and block you but it saves me the bother myself

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway


"Lol no but males are in general treated worse than women at the moment and treated as disposable. When is the last time you saw a woman up a ladder building a roof?

Just after I saw a man giving birth to a baby in the maternity unit....or was it before. I just don't know!"

I just hope he got pregnacy leave from work and not have to go back after few days!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dude you're better off on the forums than messaging,you must remember that the women on here have fellas blowing smoke up their asses telling 4 outa 10s that they are 10s etc therefore they have an inflated sense of attractiveness. The simple facts arethat you wouldn't give 90%+ of them a second glance if you passed them on the street.Before the charge of the light brigade or the knights of the second crusade give me their tuppence worth,it goes both ways and I don't care what you think

Wether you like it or not there is Truth in that but sadly you usually either receive a backlash or get a ban when you tell it like it is here Or someone is insecure and blocks yah for nothing! Hear that happens alot here so just comply with the majority ! Having the quack

peeps Happy New Year "

Maybe people block you simply because they don't like you - nothing to do with insecurity. Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dude you're better off on the forums than messaging,you must remember that the women on here have fellas blowing smoke up their asses telling 4 outa 10s that they are 10s etc therefore they have an inflated sense of attractiveness. The simple facts arethat you wouldn't give 90%+ of them a second glance if you passed them on the street.Before the charge of the light brigade or the knights of the second crusade give me their tuppence worth,it goes both ways and I don't care what you think

Wether you like it or not there is Truth in that but sadly you usually either receive a backlash or get a ban when you tell it like it is here Or someone is insecure and blocks yah for nothing! Hear that happens alot here so just comply with the majority ! Having the quack

peeps Happy New Year

Maybe people block you simply because they don't like you - nothing to do with insecurity. Each to their own.

"

If you say hello to someone and get blocked. How can there even be an argument that they don't like you? Don't be ridiculous

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"Lol no but males are in general treated worse than women at the moment and treated as disposable. When is the last time you saw a woman up a ladder building a roof?

Just after I saw a man giving birth to a baby in the maternity unit....or was it before. I just don't know! I just hope he got pregnacy leave from work and not have to go back after few days!!!! "

Nah he was straight back building the roof. His boss was a woman!

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Dude you're better off on the forums than messaging,you must remember that the women on here have fellas blowing smoke up their asses telling 4 outa 10s that they are 10s etc therefore they have an inflated sense of attractiveness. The simple facts arethat you wouldn't give 90%+ of them a second glance if you passed them on the street.Before the charge of the light brigade or the knights of the second crusade give me their tuppence worth,it goes both ways and I don't care what you think

Wether you like it or not there is Truth in that but sadly you usually either receive a backlash or get a ban when you tell it like it is here Or someone is insecure and blocks yah for nothing! Hear that happens alot here so just comply with the majority ! Having the quack

peeps Happy New Year

Maybe people block you simply because they don't like you - nothing to do with insecurity. Each to their own.

If you say hello to someone and get blocked. How can there even be an argument that they don't like you? Don't be ridiculous "

Thank God I'm a Trump fan I'm going to build the wall for him with all these blocks I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dude you're better off on the forums than messaging,you must remember that the women on here have fellas blowing smoke up their asses telling 4 outa 10s that they are 10s etc therefore they have an inflated sense of attractiveness. The simple facts arethat you wouldn't give 90%+ of them a second glance if you passed them on the street.Before the charge of the light brigade or the knights of the second crusade give me their tuppence worth,it goes both ways and I don't care what you think

Wether you like it or not there is Truth in that but sadly you usually either receive a backlash or get a ban when you tell it like it is here Or someone is insecure and blocks yah for nothing! Hear that happens alot here so just comply with the majority ! Having the quack

peeps Happy New Year

Maybe people block you simply because they don't like you - nothing to do with insecurity. Each to their own.

If you say hello to someone and get blocked. How can there even be an argument that they don't like you? Don't be ridiculous "

It's hardly ridiculous to suggest that someone's forum persona might lead to other users deciding they don't particularly care for the individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are thousands of people using this site

If you think that its just single men that don't get meets regular think again

Every gender on this site don't get meets on a regular basis

Its a needle in a haystack finding people you connect with

People connect to people not

pictures and a profile

Well that's a lie lol There's addicts getting meets here because they look good. Not because of there likeable personalities.

Your nuts if you think people won't meet anyone unless there's a connection. Let me create a fake profile of a guy that's hot with a 6 pack etc I won't bother putting any info on the ye profile and i guarantee ill have offers before the end of the week and your gonna try and tell me it's about connection not looks. Your living in another world "

Have to disagree with you

Again coming to lowering standards, I don't lower mine...

I dont give a shit about gym bodies, I connect with personality..

Yes I know what's attractive attributes to myself and its not a gym body pic

I don't have the need for a six pack to turn me on..

Im attracted to what I'm attracted to

So there for its not a six pack pic or a cock pic

And I won't apologise for not replying to all messages I get

Im not obligated to reply as I don't know a thing about the person who has sent a message

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"Dude you're better off on the forums than messaging,you must remember that the women on here have fellas blowing smoke up their asses telling 4 outa 10s that they are 10s etc therefore they have an inflated sense of attractiveness. The simple facts arethat you wouldn't give 90%+ of them a second glance if you passed them on the street.Before the charge of the light brigade or the knights of the second crusade give me their tuppence worth,it goes both ways and I don't care what you think

Wether you like it or not there is Truth in that but sadly you usually either receive a backlash or get a ban when you tell it like it is here Or someone is insecure and blocks yah for nothing! Hear that happens alot here so just comply with the majority ! Having the quack

peeps Happy New Year

Maybe people block you simply because they don't like you - nothing to do with insecurity. Each to their own.

If you say hello to someone and get blocked. How can there even be an argument that they don't like you? Don't be ridiculous

It's hardly ridiculous to suggest that someone's forum persona might lead to other users deciding they don't particularly care for the individual. "

Forum posts - just another filter.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

Doctor Who would be proud of me

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway


"Dude you're better off on the forums than messaging,you must remember that the women on here have fellas blowing smoke up their asses telling 4 outa 10s that they are 10s etc therefore they have an inflated sense of attractiveness. The simple facts arethat you wouldn't give 90%+ of them a second glance if you passed them on the street.Before the charge of the light brigade or the knights of the second crusade give me their tuppence worth,it goes both ways and I don't care what you think

Wether you like it or not there is Truth in that but sadly you usually either receive a backlash or get a ban when you tell it like it is here Or someone is insecure and blocks yah for nothing! Hear that happens alot here so just comply with the majority ! Having the quack

peeps Happy New Year

Maybe people block you simply because they don't like you - nothing to do with insecurity. Each to their own. When they don't even know a person... nah it is insecurity soz! But yah each to their own for sure....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of you are living in a bubble. Reality ain't for everyone.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

I am genuinely pleased by the shortage of hoofbeats on here,apart from a few it's not bad at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dude you're better off on the forums than messaging,you must remember that the women on here have fellas blowing smoke up their asses telling 4 outa 10s that they are 10s etc therefore they have an inflated sense of attractiveness. The simple facts arethat you wouldn't give 90%+ of them a second glance if you passed them on the street.Before the charge of the light brigade or the knights of the second crusade give me their tuppence worth,it goes both ways and I don't care what you think

Wether you like it or not there is Truth in that but sadly you usually either receive a backlash or get a ban when you tell it like it is here Or someone is insecure and blocks yah for nothing! Hear that happens alot here so just comply with the majority ! Having the quack

peeps Happy New Year

Maybe people block you simply because they don't like you - nothing to do with insecurity. Each to their own.

If you say hello to someone and get blocked. How can there even be an argument that they don't like you? Don't be ridiculous

It's hardly ridiculous to suggest that someone's forum persona might lead to other users deciding they don't particularly care for the individual. "

Think you are wrong with that one. Because I would not say boo a goose but yet people block me.

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway


"Lol no but males are in general treated worse than women at the moment and treated as disposable. When is the last time you saw a woman up a ladder building a roof?

Just after I saw a man giving birth to a baby in the maternity unit....or was it before. I just don't know! I just hope he got pregnacy leave from work and not have to go back after few days!!!!

Nah he was straight back building the roof. His boss was a woman!"

But if she then heads to maternity unit to give birth, he's stuck on that roof!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dude you're better off on the forums than messaging,you must remember that the women on here have fellas blowing smoke up their asses telling 4 outa 10s that they are 10s etc therefore they have an inflated sense of attractiveness. The simple facts arethat you wouldn't give 90%+ of them a second glance if you passed them on the street.Before the charge of the light brigade or the knights of the second crusade give me their tuppence worth,it goes both ways and I don't care what you think

Wether you like it or not there is Truth in that but sadly you usually either receive a backlash or get a ban when you tell it like it is here Or someone is insecure and blocks yah for nothing! Hear that happens alot here so just comply with the majority ! Having the quack

peeps Happy New Year

Maybe people block you simply because they don't like you - nothing to do with insecurity. Each to their own.

If you say hello to someone and get blocked. How can there even be an argument that they don't like you? Don't be ridiculous

It's hardly ridiculous to suggest that someone's forum persona might lead to other users deciding they don't particularly care for the individual. Think you are wrong with that one. Because I would not say boo a goose but yet people block me."

She was just trying to be a smart ass.... Hence why i ignored her idiocrisy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dude you're better off on the forums than messaging,you must remember that the women on here have fellas blowing smoke up their asses telling 4 outa 10s that they are 10s etc therefore they have an inflated sense of attractiveness. The simple facts arethat you wouldn't give 90%+ of them a second glance if you passed them on the street.Before the charge of the light brigade or the knights of the second crusade give me their tuppence worth,it goes both ways and I don't care what you think

Wether you like it or not there is Truth in that but sadly you usually either receive a backlash or get a ban when you tell it like it is here Or someone is insecure and blocks yah for nothing! Hear that happens alot here so just comply with the majority ! Having the quack

peeps Happy New Year

Maybe people block you simply because they don't like you - nothing to do with insecurity. Each to their own.

If you say hello to someone and get blocked. How can there even be an argument that they don't like you? Don't be ridiculous

It's hardly ridiculous to suggest that someone's forum persona might lead to other users deciding they don't particularly care for the individual. Think you are wrong with that one. Because I would not say boo a goose but yet people block me.

She was just trying to be a smart ass.... Hence why i ignored her idiocrisy "

Did you perhaps mean idiocy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dude you're better off on the forums than messaging,you must remember that the women on here have fellas blowing smoke up their asses telling 4 outa 10s that they are 10s etc therefore they have an inflated sense of attractiveness. The simple facts arethat you wouldn't give 90%+ of them a second glance if you passed them on the street.Before the charge of the light brigade or the knights of the second crusade give me their tuppence worth,it goes both ways and I don't care what you think

Wether you like it or not there is Truth in that but sadly you usually either receive a backlash or get a ban when you tell it like it is here Or someone is insecure and blocks yah for nothing! Hear that happens alot here so just comply with the majority ! Having the quack

peeps Happy New Year

Maybe people block you simply because they don't like you - nothing to do with insecurity. Each to their own.

If you say hello to someone and get blocked. How can there even be an argument that they don't like you? Don't be ridiculous

It's hardly ridiculous to suggest that someone's forum persona might lead to other users deciding they don't particularly care for the individual. Think you are wrong with that one. Because I would not say boo a goose but yet people block me.

She was just trying to be a smart ass.... Hence why i ignored her idiocrisy

Did you perhaps mean idiocy? "

Yup lol fab needs to give us the option to edit our comments lol

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"Lol no but males are in general treated worse than women at the moment and treated as disposable. When is the last time you saw a woman up a ladder building a roof?

Just after I saw a man giving birth to a baby in the maternity unit....or was it before. I just don't know! I just hope he got pregnacy leave from work and not have to go back after few days!!!!

Nah he was straight back building the roof. His boss was a woman! But if she then heads to maternity unit to give birth, he's stuck on that roof!! "

He's the one that's given birth and was straight back to work. The woman was up the ladder.

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

I’ve blocked a fair few from their posts on the forum. Don’t like the way the speak to others makes it easier to wheedle out the ones I wouldn’t chat too

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway


"Lol no but males are in general treated worse than women at the moment and treated as disposable. When is the last time you saw a woman up a ladder building a roof?

Just after I saw a man giving birth to a baby in the maternity unit....or was it before. I just don't know! I just hope he got pregnacy leave from work and not have to go back after few days!!!!

Nah he was straight back building the roof. His boss was a woman! But if she then heads to maternity unit to give birth, he's stuck on that roof!!

He's the one that's given birth and was straight back to work. The woman was up the ladder."

Ah someone stole that ladder when he was in giving birth! She's gone shopping sales are on!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yup lol fab needs to give us the option to edit our comments lol "

Rubbish! Much more fun to have them left in perpetuity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I can say on this thread now

Is dry your eyes guys !!

No one actually gives a fuck if you get a message unread, or read and blocked !!

But keep the bromance thread alive and sign up for the UNDATEABLES !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All I can say on this thread now

Is dry your eyes guys !!

No one actually gives a fuck if you get a message unread, or read and blocked !!

But keep the bromance thread alive and sign up for the UNDATEABLES !

"

You sound like a right barrel of laughs.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"Lol no but males are in general treated worse than women at the moment and treated as disposable. When is the last time you saw a woman up a ladder building a roof?

Just after I saw a man giving birth to a baby in the maternity unit....or was it before. I just don't know! I just hope he got pregnacy leave from work and not have to go back after few days!!!!

Nah he was straight back building the roof. His boss was a woman! But if she then heads to maternity unit to give birth, he's stuck on that roof!!

He's the one that's given birth and was straight back to work. The woman was up the ladder. Ah someone stole that ladder when he was in giving birth! She's gone shopping sales are on!!!! "

PMSL

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway


"Lol no but males are in general treated worse than women at the moment and treated as disposable. When is the last time you saw a woman up a ladder building a roof?

Just after I saw a man giving birth to a baby in the maternity unit....or was it before. I just don't know! I just hope he got pregnacy leave from work and not have to go back after few days!!!!

Nah he was straight back building the roof. His boss was a woman! But if she then heads to maternity unit to give birth, he's stuck on that roof!!

He's the one that's given birth and was straight back to work. The woman was up the ladder. Ah someone stole that ladder when he was in giving birth! She's gone shopping sales are on!!!!

PMSL "

yeah she bought shoes.... again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All I can say on this thread now

Is dry your eyes guys !!

No one actually gives a fuck if you get a message unread, or read and blocked !!

But keep the bromance thread alive and sign up for the UNDATEABLES !

"

Prime example of an ego trip. Half us guys might not have the slightest bit of interest in you so ye might wanna sign up for the undateables too my dear

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"All I can say on this thread now

Is dry your eyes guys !!

No one actually gives a fuck if you get a message unread, or read and blocked !!

But keep the bromance thread alive and sign up for the UNDATEABLES !

"

......come over to the dark side hun. The ladies are were the fun is at (shuuush don't tell the men I'm trying to steal ya)

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"Lol no but males are in general treated worse than women at the moment and treated as disposable. When is the last time you saw a woman up a ladder building a roof?

Just after I saw a man giving birth to a baby in the maternity unit....or was it before. I just don't know! I just hope he got pregnacy leave from work and not have to go back after few days!!!!

Nah he was straight back building the roof. His boss was a woman! But if she then heads to maternity unit to give birth, he's stuck on that roof!!

He's the one that's given birth and was straight back to work. The woman was up the ladder. Ah someone stole that ladder when he was in giving birth! She's gone shopping sales are on!!!!

PMSL yeah she bought shoes.... again "

...and a new handbag. Can never have too many handbags!!

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By *atthewsundriMan
over a year ago

dundrum


"All I can say on this thread now

Is dry your eyes guys !!

No one actually gives a fuck if you get a message unread, or read and blocked !!

But keep the bromance thread alive and sign up for the UNDATEABLES !

"

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway


"Lol no but males are in general treated worse than women at the moment and treated as disposable. When is the last time you saw a woman up a ladder building a roof?

Just after I saw a man giving birth to a baby in the maternity unit....or was it before. I just don't know! I just hope he got pregnacy leave from work and not have to go back after few days!!!!

Nah he was straight back building the roof. His boss was a woman! But if she then heads to maternity unit to give birth, he's stuck on that roof!!

He's the one that's given birth and was straight back to work. The woman was up the ladder. Ah someone stole that ladder when he was in giving birth! She's gone shopping sales are on!!!!

PMSL yeah she bought shoes.... again

...and a new handbag. Can never have too many handbags!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All I can say on this thread now

Is dry your eyes guys !!

No one actually gives a fuck if you get a message unread, or read and blocked !!

But keep the bromance thread alive and sign up for the UNDATEABLES !

......come over to the dark side hun. The ladies are were the fun is at (shuuush don't tell the men I'm trying to steal ya) "

Can I come too? Sounds like that's where all the real fun is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway


"All I can say on this thread now

Is dry your eyes guys !!

No one actually gives a fuck if you get a message unread, or read and blocked !!

But keep the bromance thread alive and sign up for the UNDATEABLES !

......come over to the dark side hun. The ladies are were the fun is at (shuuush don't tell the men I'm trying to steal ya) "

Off shopping with yee so...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is this being turned into women having over inflated egos? why can't women be confident and feel sexy about themselves without being continuously knocked for it?

For what it's worth OP, try giving a bit more info on your bio and putting a bit more thought into your message to give a sense as to who you are and what you want."

@GalwayMinx - I couldn’t send you a message as outside your filters ... but just to say your photos are very nice ?? indeed !!

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"Why is this being turned into women having over inflated egos? why can't women be confident and feel sexy about themselves without being continuously knocked for it?

For what it's worth OP, try giving a bit more info on your bio and putting a bit more thought into your message to give a sense as to who you are and what you want.

@GalwayMinx - I couldn’t send you a message as outside your filters ... but just to say your photos are very nice ?? indeed !! "

Dear oh dear DB - was that a shameless public attempt to get GM to reconsider her age limits and open herself up to your charms...??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All I can say on this thread now

Is dry your eyes guys !!

No one actually gives a fuck if you get a message unread, or read and blocked !!

But keep the bromance thread alive and sign up for the UNDATEABLES !

Prime example of an ego trip. Half us guys might not have the slightest bit of interest in you so ye might wanna sign up for the undateables too my dear "

No thanks they all want to marry me ffs!!

Have you ever thought about stop looking in your mirror mirror on the wall mirror?

You keep saying the woman on here are up their own asses

BUT have you ever thought about maybe your up your own ass ?

Maybe you expect the ladies to fall at your feet but believe it or not we all have lives away from fab

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"All I can say on this thread now

Is dry your eyes guys !!

No one actually gives a fuck if you get a message unread, or read and blocked !!

But keep the bromance thread alive and sign up for the UNDATEABLES !

......come over to the dark side hun. The ladies are were the fun is at (shuuush don't tell the men I'm trying to steal ya) Off shopping with yee so..."

...only if you hold the bags

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"All I can say on this thread now

Is dry your eyes guys !!

No one actually gives a fuck if you get a message unread, or read and blocked !!

But keep the bromance thread alive and sign up for the UNDATEABLES !

......come over to the dark side hun. The ladies are were the fun is at (shuuush don't tell the men I'm trying to steal ya)

Can I come too? Sounds like that's where all the real fun is!"

...room for one more (shuuush it's a secret and I think we can pull it off (insert own joke here).

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

Things this thread discussion maybe is missing:

The soft sound of waves rolling into the seashore

A babbling little stream, meandering through a sunny meadow

Beautiful blue skies in summer with birds singing in the trees

Goodwill, tolerance and understanding between man and woman kind

The vision of skin headed thugs stomping the guts out of their rivals on a grey city street

Delete as appropriate...

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway


"All I can say on this thread now

Is dry your eyes guys !!

No one actually gives a fuck if you get a message unread, or read and blocked !!

But keep the bromance thread alive and sign up for the UNDATEABLES !

......come over to the dark side hun. The ladies are were the fun is at (shuuush don't tell the men I'm trying to steal ya) Off shopping with yee so...

...only if you hold the bags "

I've to buy a new ladder anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All I can say on this thread now

Is dry your eyes guys !!

No one actually gives a fuck if you get a message unread, or read and blocked !!

But keep the bromance thread alive and sign up for the UNDATEABLES !

Prime example of an ego trip. Half us guys might not have the slightest bit of interest in you so ye might wanna sign up for the undateables too my dear

No thanks they all want to marry me ffs!!

Have you ever thought about stop looking in your mirror mirror on the wall mirror?

You keep saying the woman on here are up their own asses

BUT have you ever thought about maybe your up your own ass ?

Maybe you expect the ladies to fall at your feet but believe it or not we all have lives away from fab "

Most women NOT all women. Great counter argument. Yeah iam the problem. Iam up my own ass. Your a genius girl. Needless to say it's not your intelligence people meet you for

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

I bet you two could have really explosive sex together....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway, in summation, OP, you've probably gotten a good insight here into how not to improve your chances of a meet.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"All I can say on this thread now

Is dry your eyes guys !!

No one actually gives a fuck if you get a message unread, or read and blocked !!

But keep the bromance thread alive and sign up for the UNDATEABLES !

......come over to the dark side hun. The ladies are were the fun is at (shuuush don't tell the men I'm trying to steal ya) Off shopping with yee so...

...only if you hold the bags I've to buy a new ladder anyway "

I need a new handbag. Only got 10 ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just upload some pics of a sexy guy topless. Meets galore. Happy days. When you meet in person just apologies for your deceiving pictures. Think of it as seen a hot girl here and then seeing her without make up

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"Anyway, in summation, OP, you've probably gotten a good insight here into how not to improve your chances of a meet."

Hey - what do you think you’re doing, giving a response in this thread that’s vaguely related to what the OP asked and is a sensible piece of advice...??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyway, in summation, OP, you've probably gotten a good insight here into how not to improve your chances of a meet.

Hey - what do you think you’re doing, giving a response in this thread that’s vaguely related to what the OP asked and is a sensible piece of advice...??! "

Shit, sorry, don't worry, I won't do it again

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway


"All I can say on this thread now

Is dry your eyes guys !!

No one actually gives a fuck if you get a message unread, or read and blocked !!

But keep the bromance thread alive and sign up for the UNDATEABLES !

......come over to the dark side hun. The ladies are were the fun is at (shuuush don't tell the men I'm trying to steal ya) Off shopping with yee so...

...only if you hold the bags I've to buy a new ladder anyway

I need a new handbag. Only got 10 ffs "

Yeah you need 4 more more in fairness! Then you'd have a handbag on each arm for every day of the week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time reading the forums for a while. Its good to see its still the same guys thinking they know it all while simultaneously complaining about not getting replies/meets and being blocked. The usual gas stuff

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By *agic ManuMan
over a year ago

D4


"Dude you're better off on the forums than messaging,you must remember that the women on here have fellas blowing smoke up their asses telling 4 outa 10s that they are 10s etc therefore they have an inflated sense of attractiveness. The simple facts arethat you wouldn't give 90%+ of them a second glance if you passed them on the street.Before the charge of the light brigade or the knights of the second crusade give me their tuppence worth,it goes both ways and I don't care what you think

Not all of us have an inflated sense is attractiveness I am fully aware of my bits and bobs and think it is quite funny I’m told I’m hot and amazing from a couple of pics. Don’t believe everything you read in the internet

So you agree that there are some peeps on here that will lie to a woman telling her her piss is perfume etc etc so would you not think that many women would start to believe the lies and thus get an over inflated perception of their looks?

I actually hate the "you're gorgeous....you should be a model, you have the best legs I've ever seen.." type messages. If that is all someone has to say to me then it"s boring as f#ck and I'm liable to switch off very quickly. May even send him a pic of me first thing on the morning when I've just fell out of bed to really scare him off. And I can smell bullshit a mile off and am not zipped up the back so no chance of an over inflated ego here..."

Just went to check those legs of yours out of curiosity. Nice!

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

why do these threads always end up in slinging matches.. ppl are entitled to there own opinions even if some are talking outta thier own arses. why cant ppl just enjoy fab for what they each get out of it instead of the same argumentative weekly threads..

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"why do these threads always end up in slinging matches.. ppl are entitled to there own opinions even if some are talking outta thier own arses. why cant ppl just enjoy fab for what they each get out of it instead of the same argumentative weekly threads.."

Cause they get craic out of it Sweets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All I can say on this thread now

Is dry your eyes guys !!

No one actually gives a fuck if you get a message unread, or read and blocked !!

But keep the bromance thread alive and sign up for the UNDATEABLES !

Sure you couldn't reply to my earlier reasonable responses earlier on in the thread

You could only respond to my posts when they aggrevated you

Do you only respond when you get aggtated and not when you get reasonable responses

I noticed earlier in the thread you ignored my reasonable responses to automaticlly respond to messages that directly challenged your view

But now you responded to me when I directly challenge your view

Hmmm I wonder why ?

Prime example of an ego trip. Half us guys might not have the slightest bit of interest in you so ye might wanna sign up for the undateables too my dear

No thanks they all want to marry me ffs!!

Have you ever thought about stop looking in your mirror mirror on the wall mirror?

You keep saying the woman on here are up their own asses

BUT have you ever thought about maybe your up your own ass ?

Maybe you expect the ladies to fall at your feet but believe it or not we all have lives away from fab

Most women NOT all women. Great counter argument. Yeah iam the problem. Iam up my own ass. Your a genius girl. Needless to say it's not your intelligence people meet you for "

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"All I can say on this thread now

Is dry your eyes guys !!

No one actually gives a fuck if you get a message unread, or read and blocked !!

But keep the bromance thread alive and sign up for the UNDATEABLES !

......come over to the dark side hun. The ladies are were the fun is at (shuuush don't tell the men I'm trying to steal ya) Off shopping with yee so...

...only if you hold the bags I've to buy a new ladder anyway

I need a new handbag. Only got 10 ffs Yeah you need 4 more more in fairness! Then you'd have a handbag on each arm for every day of the week "

Ooo I like your thinking!! And if course shoes to go with them

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway


"All I can say on this thread now

Is dry your eyes guys !!

No one actually gives a fuck if you get a message unread, or read and blocked !!

But keep the bromance thread alive and sign up for the UNDATEABLES !

......come over to the dark side hun. The ladies are were the fun is at (shuuush don't tell the men I'm trying to steal ya) Off shopping with yee so...

...only if you hold the bags I've to buy a new ladder anyway

I need a new handbag. Only got 10 ffs Yeah you need 4 more more in fairness! Then you'd have a handbag on each arm for every day of the week

Ooo I like your thinking!! And if course shoes to go with them "

Yeah and you can put a spare pair of shoes in one of the bags and phone and stuff in the other....sorted ! Hey we'll just yah know talk about serious stuff here while everyone else fights

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"All I can say on this thread now

Is dry your eyes guys !!

No one actually gives a fuck if you get a message unread, or read and blocked !!

But keep the bromance thread alive and sign up for the UNDATEABLES !

......come over to the dark side hun. The ladies are were the fun is at (shuuush don't tell the men I'm trying to steal ya) Off shopping with yee so...

...only if you hold the bags I've to buy a new ladder anyway

I need a new handbag. Only got 10 ffs Yeah you need 4 more more in fairness! Then you'd have a handbag on each arm for every day of the week

Ooo I like your thinking!! And if course shoes to go with them Yeah and you can put a spare pair of shoes in one of the bags and phone and stuff in the other....sorted ! Hey we'll just yah know talk about serious stuff here while everyone else fights "

These are the important issues: shoes and handbags. Oh and where to stop for lunch!

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway


"All I can say on this thread now

Is dry your eyes guys !!

No one actually gives a fuck if you get a message unread, or read and blocked !!

But keep the bromance thread alive and sign up for the UNDATEABLES !

......come over to the dark side hun. The ladies are were the fun is at (shuuush don't tell the men I'm trying to steal ya) Off shopping with yee so...

...only if you hold the bags I've to buy a new ladder anyway

I need a new handbag. Only got 10 ffs Yeah you need 4 more more in fairness! Then you'd have a handbag on each arm for every day of the week

Ooo I like your thinking!! And if course shoes to go with them Yeah and you can put a spare pair of shoes in one of the bags and phone and stuff in the other....sorted ! Hey we'll just yah know talk about serious stuff here while everyone else fights

These are the important issues: shoes and handbags. Oh and where to stop for lunch!"

Yeah and a strong coffee as i will need it after going around to all those shops with you

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside


"All I can say on this thread now

Is dry your eyes guys !!

No one actually gives a fuck if you get a message unread, or read and blocked !!

But keep the bromance thread alive and sign up for the UNDATEABLES !

......come over to the dark side hun. The ladies are were the fun is at (shuuush don't tell the men I'm trying to steal ya) Off shopping with yee so...

...only if you hold the bags I've to buy a new ladder anyway

I need a new handbag. Only got 10 ffs Yeah you need 4 more more in fairness! Then you'd have a handbag on each arm for every day of the week

Ooo I like your thinking!! And if course shoes to go with them Yeah and you can put a spare pair of shoes in one of the bags and phone and stuff in the other....sorted ! Hey we'll just yah know talk about serious stuff here while everyone else fights

These are the important issues: shoes and handbags. Oh and where to stop for lunch! Yeah and a strong coffee as i will need it after going around to all those shops with you "

Pmsl x

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway


"All I can say on this thread now

Is dry your eyes guys !!

No one actually gives a fuck if you get a message unread, or read and blocked !!

But keep the bromance thread alive and sign up for the UNDATEABLES !

......come over to the dark side hun. The ladies are were the fun is at (shuuush don't tell the men I'm trying to steal ya) Off shopping with yee so...

...only if you hold the bags I've to buy a new ladder anyway

I need a new handbag. Only got 10 ffs Yeah you need 4 more more in fairness! Then you'd have a handbag on each arm for every day of the week

Ooo I like your thinking!! And if course shoes to go with them Yeah and you can put a spare pair of shoes in one of the bags and phone and stuff in the other....sorted ! Hey we'll just yah know talk about serious stuff here while everyone else fights

These are the important issues: shoes and handbags. Oh and where to stop for lunch! Yeah and a strong coffee as i will need it after going around to all those shops with you

Pmsl x"

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just say yo lady's you's Lookin some "LD" "

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By *ord Willy McFuck-BucketMan
over a year ago

newcastle

What was the opening question again?

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"What was the opening question again?"

What time is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dude you're better off on the forums than messaging,you must remember that the women on here have fellas blowing smoke up their asses telling 4 outa 10s that they are 10s etc therefore they have an inflated sense of attractiveness. The simple facts arethat you wouldn't give 90%+ of them a second glance if you passed them on the street.Before the charge of the light brigade or the knights of the second crusade give me their tuppence worth,it goes both ways and I don't care what you think

Not all of us have an inflated sense is attractiveness I am fully aware of my bits and bobs and think it is quite funny I’m told I’m hot and amazing from a couple of pics. Don’t believe everything you read in the internet

So you agree that there are some peeps on here that will lie to a woman telling her her piss is perfume etc etc so would you not think that many women would start to believe the lies and thus get an over inflated perception of their looks?

I actually hate the "you're gorgeous....you should be a model, you have the best legs I've ever seen.." type messages. If that is all someone has to say to me then it"s boring as f#ck and I'm liable to switch off very quickly. May even send him a pic of me first thing on the morning when I've just fell out of bed to really scare him off. And I can smell bullshit a mile off and am not zipped up the back so no chance of an over inflated ego here...

Just went to check those legs of yours out of curiosity. Nice! "

Cheers.... Nice arse....didnae look....honest....

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Hilarious read and perfect example of a derailed fab thread. There's one post dealing with the op's question, about 5 with general good advise.

The rest is criticism by some perfect men about the aesthetic underperformance of the fab women and the female impertinence of being choosy.

Op, I can't stand what are/were you up to over Xmas/Easter/bank holiday messages because it's none of anyone's business especially when I don't know them.

pick up on some detail on the profile, or pm someone in context of a forum thread or reply to a status update etc.

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"Dude you're better off on the forums than messaging,you must remember that the women on here have fellas blowing smoke up their asses telling 4 outa 10s that they are 10s etc therefore they have an inflated sense of attractiveness. The simple facts arethat you wouldn't give 90%+ of them a second glance if you passed them on the street.Before the charge of the light brigade or the knights of the second crusade give me their tuppence worth,it goes both ways and I don't care what you think

Not all of us have an inflated sense is attractiveness I am fully aware of my bits and bobs and think it is quite funny I’m told I’m hot and amazing from a couple of pics. Don’t believe everything you read in the internet

So you agree that there are some peeps on here that will lie to a woman telling her her piss is perfume etc etc so would you not think that many women would start to believe the lies and thus get an over inflated perception of their looks?

I actually hate the "you're gorgeous....you should be a model, you have the best legs I've ever seen.." type messages. If that is all someone has to say to me then it"s boring as f#ck and I'm liable to switch off very quickly. May even send him a pic of me first thing on the morning when I've just fell out of bed to really scare him off. And I can smell bullshit a mile off and am not zipped up the back so no chance of an over inflated ego here...

Just went to check those legs of yours out of curiosity. Nice!

Cheers.... Nice arse....didnae look....honest.... "

Ah its average at best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More then one post dealt with Op's question. The rest were just not counted because they contained home truths that alot of people here don't want to accept.

Any time a man in particular has an issue here it's always the same pattern. Somehow it's his fault. It's always something he's doing wrong. It seems it's impossible to comprehend that just maybe some women here are rude or are in fact up themselves because of the ego stroking they receive on a daily basis.

There's far more men here that agree with what's being said then don't agree. They just don't care to say it publicly because they know it's an unpopular opinion and would put women off them. Personally i couldn't give a shit about meets or licking arse to try keep in the good books with women here. I'll speak my mind and if iam ever proven to be wrong ill put my hands up and apologize.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More then one post dealt with Op's question. The rest were just not counted because they contained home truths that alot of people here don't want to accept.

Any time a man in particular has an issue here it's always the same pattern. Somehow it's his fault. It's always something he's doing wrong. It seems it's impossible to comprehend that just maybe some women here are rude or are in fact up themselves because of the ego stroking they receive on a daily basis.

There's far more men here that agree with what's being said then don't agree. They just don't care to say it publicly because they know it's an unpopular opinion and would put women off them. Personally i couldn't give a shit about meets or licking arse to try keep in the good books with women here. I'll speak my mind and if iam ever proven to be wrong ill put my hands up and apologize.

"

You're coming across loud and clear....opinions are like arseholes.... Everybody's got one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More then one post dealt with Op's question. The rest were just not counted because they contained home truths that alot of people here don't want to accept.

Any time a man in particular has an issue here it's always the same pattern. Somehow it's his fault. It's always something he's doing wrong. It seems it's impossible to comprehend that just maybe some women here are rude or are in fact up themselves because of the ego stroking they receive on a daily basis.

There's far more men here that agree with what's being said then don't agree. They just don't care to say it publicly because they know it's an unpopular opinion and would put women off them. Personally i couldn't give a shit about meets or licking arse to try keep in the good books with women here. I'll speak my mind and if iam ever proven to be wrong ill put my hands up and apologize.

You're coming across loud and clear....opinions are like arseholes.... Everybody's got one."

But some opinions are dismissed because they are not the popular opinion.

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

Dont understand the whinging..use fab your own way.If you need it then accept it can be tough and work at it, and if you're here for banter and craic then use it for that.No need to slate people, but at the same time everyone should be allowed to air their views without being denegrated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More then one post dealt with Op's question. The rest were just not counted because they contained home truths that alot of people here don't want to accept.

Any time a man in particular has an issue here it's always the same pattern. Somehow it's his fault. It's always something he's doing wrong. It seems it's impossible to comprehend that just maybe some women here are rude or are in fact up themselves because of the ego stroking they receive on a daily basis.

There's far more men here that agree with what's being said then don't agree. They just don't care to say it publicly because they know it's an unpopular opinion and would put women off them. Personally i couldn't give a shit about meets or licking arse to try keep in the good books with women here. I'll speak my mind and if iam ever proven to be wrong ill put my hands up and apologize.

You're coming across loud and clear....opinions are like arseholes.... Everybody's got one. But some opinions are dismissed because they are not the popular opinion."

Isn't that the way with everything in life though? So why should Fab be any different?

If some men want to spin every female on here a line to try and get on their bones, that's their business.

If some women chose to fall for shite patter, that's their business.

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By *uriousPearCouple
over a year ago

dublin 5

Whatever shop is selling the red pills had better order in a new batch.

The swing world is a delightful world of absolute fantasy and if we choose to only respond to guys that, God forid,we have a physical attraction to then whose business is it. My partner and I are both pretty solid 5s when it comes to looks. We're alright, eyes and ear in the right place and full sets of teeth but we won't be winning any contests any time soon.

If I, Ms, can fuck a fuck who is 'out of my league' is absolutely will but of there is no spark it won't happen.

We met the hottest guy last year for a drink and he was as dull as dishwater, went our separate ways.

If the initial physical attraction is not there from pictures, why would we take it further?

I have no idea if any of that makes any sense but my mind is boggled from the never ending line of Adonis' that are queuing up to fuck this 5!

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By *uriousPearCouple
over a year ago

dublin 5

I forgot to mention....spelling errors are an instant turn off. I'm a teacher, it makes my eye twitch.

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By *agic ManuMan
over a year ago

D4


"I forgot to mention....spelling errors are an instant turn off. I'm a teacher, it makes my eye twitch."

Teacher ... instant turn on

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"I forgot to mention....spelling errors are an instant turn off. I'm a teacher, it makes my eye twitch."
so you meant god forbid not god forid then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I forgot to mention....spelling errors are an instant turn off. I'm a teacher, it makes my eye twitch.so you meant god forbid not god forid then "
Brilliant.

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By *atthewsundriMan
over a year ago

dundrum


"I forgot to mention....spelling errors are an instant turn off. I'm a teacher, it makes my eye twitch.so you meant god forbid not god forid then "

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By *uriousPearCouple
over a year ago

dublin 5


"I forgot to mention....spelling errors are an instant turn off. I'm a teacher, it makes my eye twitch.so you meant god forbid not god forid then "

Well played sir!

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"I forgot to mention....spelling errors are an instant turn off. I'm a teacher, it makes my eye twitch.so you meant god forbid not god forid then "

God... it's capitalised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More then one post dealt with Op's question. The rest were just not counted because they contained home truths that alot of people here don't want to accept.

Any time a man in particular has an issue here it's always the same pattern. Somehow it's his fault. It's always something he's doing wrong. It seems it's impossible to comprehend that just maybe some women here are rude or are in fact up themselves because of the ego stroking they receive on a daily basis.

There's far more men here that agree with what's being said then don't agree. They just don't care to say it publicly because they know it's an unpopular opinion and would put women off them. Personally i couldn't give a shit about meets or licking arse to try keep in the good books with women here. I'll speak my mind and if iam ever proven to be wrong ill put my hands up and apologize.

"

Who are you speaking for? Both most men and most women?

Nobody on this site is obliged to respond to anybody else unless they want to and need no excuse for it. To pretend you have some insight into anybody else' reasoning and to suggest people are being rude or up themselves is just makes you seem salty.

People don't respond for one reason, they are not interested.

Things that can help change that-

Improve your profile and approve your approach in your messaging.

Things that wont help that-

Whinging and blaming others in forums.

Unless blaming women's egos helps to feed your own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More then one post dealt with Op's question. The rest were just not counted because they contained home truths that alot of people here don't want to accept.

Any time a man in particular has an issue here it's always the same pattern. Somehow it's his fault. It's always something he's doing wrong. It seems it's impossible to comprehend that just maybe some women here are rude or are in fact up themselves because of the ego stroking they receive on a daily basis.

There's far more men here that agree with what's being said then don't agree. They just don't care to say it publicly because they know it's an unpopular opinion and would put women off them. Personally i couldn't give a shit about meets or licking arse to try keep in the good books with women here. I'll speak my mind and if iam ever proven to be wrong ill put my hands up and apologize.

Who are you speaking for? Both most men and most women?

Nobody on this site is obliged to respond to anybody else unless they want to and need no excuse for it. To pretend you have some insight into anybody else' reasoning and to suggest people are being rude or up themselves is just makes you seem salty.

People don't respond for one reason, they are not interested.

Things that can help change that-

Improve your profile and approve your approach in your messaging.

Things that wont help that-

Whinging and blaming others in forums.

Unless blaming women's egos helps to feed your own "

Iam not whinging. Iam not even trying to find meets. Iam just telling it as it is. Psychology suggests that when women have more options then they are used too. There egos get inflated and there standards go up. That's not a bad thing but it results in alot of them being rude to guys who they might not treat that way if they met in real life. People need to relax and accept truth instead of getting defensive and taking things personally. If i had dozens of good looking women messaging me then id be thrilled with myself. My ego would rise and id start rejecting girls that i once would of given my time too. Money has the same affect on people. It's just how it is and to deny and reject that reality is niave

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By *rivexMan
over a year ago

hotel

Unfortunately males are ten a penny, couples and beautiful Irish women who want to break the mould are so few and far between.

The numbers don’t work it’s a balls, but it’s like the weather here, grin and get better or you may as well give up.

It’s a swinging site not a whore site. Anything worth getting doesn’t come easy.

Guys, don’t whinge. Just get better, learn. You expect it to happen after giving some couple a hi? Get out of the race.

A couple who even admit to each other they would like to explore with other people are brave as fuck. A couple to invite another guy are far braver. The risks they over came even to admit it to themselves, let alone the perils of admiting it to the person they love is astounding.

Cut them some slack.

A single guy has nothing to lose, a lady and couple here who even accept the messages of a guy are rare.

They don’t respond because of you.

Not them.

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By *uriousPearCouple
over a year ago

dublin 5

Depends on which god

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More then one post dealt with Op's question. The rest were just not counted because they contained home truths that alot of people here don't want to accept.

Any time a man in particular has an issue here it's always the same pattern. Somehow it's his fault. It's always something he's doing wrong. It seems it's impossible to comprehend that just maybe some women here are rude or are in fact up themselves because of the ego stroking they receive on a daily basis.

There's far more men here that agree with what's being said then don't agree. They just don't care to say it publicly because they know it's an unpopular opinion and would put women off them. Personally i couldn't give a shit about meets or licking arse to try keep in the good books with women here. I'll speak my mind and if iam ever proven to be wrong ill put my hands up and apologize.

Who are you speaking for? Both most men and most women?

Nobody on this site is obliged to respond to anybody else unless they want to and need no excuse for it. To pretend you have some insight into anybody else' reasoning and to suggest people are being rude or up themselves is just makes you seem salty.

People don't respond for one reason, they are not interested.

Things that can help change that-

Improve your profile and approve your approach in your messaging.

Things that wont help that-

Whinging and blaming others in forums.

Unless blaming women's egos helps to feed your own "

But of course some ladies egos are inflated here by men that in all honesty would get up on a sick hen.But the truth is some of those ladies would not get a second look in the real world.If you have to lower you standard to get something in my opinion it wasn't worth getting in the first place.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Some guys sound like broken records on here. Fabulous forum wanking.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Some guys sound like broken records on here. Fabulous forum wanking. "

I agree DH. Repetition is boring as f.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"I forgot to mention....spelling errors are an instant turn off. I'm a teacher, it makes my eye twitch.so you meant god forbid not god forid then

God... it's capitalised "

It would be capitalised if I were a believer but seeing as I am not there is no obligation for me to do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some guys sound like broken records on here. Fabulous forum wanking. "
A bit like some of you ladies.

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By *uriousPearCouple
over a year ago

dublin 5


"Some guys sound like broken records on here. Fabulous forum wanking. A bit like some of you ladies."

That's just stirring shit at this point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *uriousPearCouple
over a year ago

dublin 5


"Some guys sound like broken records on here. Fabulous forum wanking. A bit like some of you ladies.

That's just stirring shit at this point Why because its my opinion."

The entire thread has been a bizarre 'men are like this' and 'women are like that.'

It does nothing to advance the conversation. You may as well respond to this with 'I know you are but what am I?'

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"[Removed by embarrassed poster at 03/01/18 14:04:02]"

Not surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by embarrassed poster at 03/01/18 14:04:02]

Not surprised "

Ah look at my friend _oser playing with his words. Lol

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By *uriousPearCouple
over a year ago

dublin 5


"[Removed by embarrassed poster at 03/01/18 14:04:02]

Not surprised "

He's great craic altogether this lad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But of course some ladies egos are inflated here by men that in all honesty would get up on a sick hen.But the truth is some of those ladies would not get a second look in the real world.If you have to lower you standard to get something in my opinion it wasn't worth getting in the first place."

Clearly there are a lot more men with bruised egos than ladies with inflated ones. Only one of these needs to get over themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But of course some ladies egos are inflated here by men that in all honesty would get up on a sick hen.But the truth is some of those ladies would not get a second look in the real world.If you have to lower you standard to get something in my opinion it wasn't worth getting in the first place.

Clearly there are a lot more men with bruised egos than ladies with inflated ones. Only one of these needs to get over themselves.

"

And that's the ladies right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But of course some ladies egos are inflated here by men that in all honesty would get up on a sick hen.But the truth is some of those ladies would not get a second look in the real world.If you have to lower you standard to get something in my opinion it wasn't worth getting in the first place.

Clearly there are a lot more men with bruised egos than ladies with inflated ones. Only one of these needs to get over themselves.

"

I can safely say that my ego has not been bruised in anyway on this site.

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal


"But of course some ladies egos are inflated here by men that in all honesty would get up on a sick hen.But the truth is some of those ladies would not get a second look in the real world.If you have to lower you standard to get something in my opinion it wasn't worth getting in the first place.

Clearly there are a lot more men with bruised egos than ladies with inflated ones. Only one of these needs to get over themselves.

I can safely say that my ego has not been bruised in anyway on this site."

..jaysus..mine definately has.Had the legs pulled from under me plenty of times on here in the past, lots of moments of doubt, amd many nights feeling about 2 foot tall..

.luckily, im not the type to dwell, but as a guy if youve never had one of those nights you are truly blessed..

.

.or full of crap..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But of course some ladies egos are inflated here by men that in all honesty would get up on a sick hen.But the truth is some of those ladies would not get a second look in the real world.If you have to lower you standard to get something in my opinion it wasn't worth getting in the first place.

Clearly there are a lot more men with bruised egos than ladies with inflated ones. Only one of these needs to get over themselves.

I can safely say that my ego has not been bruised in anyway on this site.

..jaysus..mine definately has.Had the legs pulled from under me plenty of times on here in the past, lots of moments of doubt, amd many nights feeling about 2 foot tall..

.luckily, im not the type to dwell, but as a guy if youve never had one of those nights you are truly blessed..

.

.or full of crap.. "

I don't think I'm Lucky or blessed. I'm just not desperate.

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

So anyway, apparently if you get bitten by a radioactive spider, there’s a chance you could turn into a superhero with spider-like powers. But only in Glasnevin.

Anyone else hear that...??

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"So anyway, apparently if you get bitten by a radioactive spider, there’s a chance you could turn into a superhero with spider-like powers. But only in Glasnevin.

Anyone else hear that...?? "

There aren't many of those around here ...think it was another Fab rumour....

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