FabSwingers.com forum: Newbie advice

By *armantaz OP Man
over a year ago

Carlow

Hi all,

Obviously there are a lot more guys on here than ladies.

Do the ladies here ever take a chance on newbies?

Obviously when I mail someone it’s not a cut and paste job, aggressive or rude. I don’t mail multiple times.

I’m happy to send photos privately, cam, Skype or meet for coffee but given how much messages the ladies are clearly getting what’s the best way to get involved with some of the fun?

Is it a case of perseverance?

Perplexed newbie

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I've meet one or two that have just joined a few days or a few weeks also met one that was hear a yr without a meet and he turned out to be one of the best meets and unfortunately no one gave him a chance...xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try making your profile stand out a bit - there’s a pile of fellas profiles with just a silhouette - get some decent pics up - first impressions matter

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Try making your profile stand out a bit - there’s a pile of fellas profiles with just a silhouette - get some decent pics up - first impressions matter "
Hmmmmm like yours now that's hot.....xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all,

Obviously there are a lot more guys on here than ladies.

Do the ladies here ever take a chance on newbies?

Obviously when I mail someone it’s not a cut and paste job, aggressive or rude. I don’t mail multiple times.

I’m happy to send photos privately, cam, Skype or meet for coffee but given how much messages the ladies are clearly getting what’s the best way to get involved with some of the fun?

Is it a case of perseverance?

Perplexed newbie"

Perseverance without being an ass. Do not get abusive with anyone. Develop a thick skin and prepare to be perplexed sometimes.

Put some time and effort into your profile - get some pics up and write about yourself or what you are looking for..... make your profile an extension of you whereby it grabs someone's attention. Know what you are looking for and don't come across like any port in a storm would do. There is nothing wrong with being picky.

Put yourself out there - use the forum and chatrooms .... there are different people using them so you might bump into the type of person in one and not the other.

But overall be polite and mannerly.....respect is the key......... oh and be patient too.

Think that covers a lot and if too vague then apologies but trying to give some fairly general advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all,

Obviously there are a lot more guys on here than ladies.

Do the ladies here ever take a chance on newbies?

Obviously when I mail someone it’s not a cut and paste job, aggressive or rude. I don’t mail multiple times.

I’m happy to send photos privately, cam, Skype or meet for coffee but given how much messages the ladies are clearly getting what’s the best way to get involved with some of the fun?

Is it a case of perseverance?

Perplexed newbie

Perseverance without being an ass. Do not get abusive with anyone. Develop a thick skin and prepare to be perplexed sometimes.

Put yourself out there - use the forum and chatrooms .... there are different people using them so you might bump into the type of person in one and not the other.

But overall be polite and mannerly.....respect is the key......... oh and be patient too.

Think that covers a lot and if too vague then apologies but trying to give some fairly general advice."

Very sound advice !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Solid advice has been given to be honest. It is a real struggle to get meets for most folks, me included.

Good luck.

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By *appyharry1000Man
over a year ago

somewhere galway

dead right really hard yo get a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all,

Obviously there are a lot more guys on here than ladies.

Do the ladies here ever take a chance on newbies?

Obviously when I mail someone it’s not a cut and paste job, aggressive or rude. I don’t mail multiple times.

I’m happy to send photos privately, cam, Skype or meet for coffee but given how much messages the ladies are clearly getting what’s the best way to get involved with some of the fun?

Is it a case of perseverance?

Perplexed newbie

Perseverance without being an ass. Do not get abusive with anyone. Develop a thick skin and prepare to be perplexed sometimes.

Put yourself out there - use the forum and chatrooms .... there are different people using them so you might bump into the type of person in one and not the other.

But overall be polite and mannerly.....respect is the key......... oh and be patient too.

Think that covers a lot and if too vague then apologies but trying to give some fairly general advice.

Very sound advice !"

Thanks Goldie .... I'm not just a pretty face ...... slthough some would say I'm not even that lol

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