FabSwingers.com forum: Well i've started 2018 being honest..

By *auraLucyLuLu OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

I've finally plucked up the courage to tell my mom that I'm bisexual.I've never told her before as I wasn't sure if I was under that "label " and fear of how she would accept or reject me nor accept it as she is pretty old school.. but I'm happy to report that I'm bisexual and it feels great to be out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did she take it? And well done .... having read your other post I would say that it wasn't easy.

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

Good on ya Laura congrats on coming out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woohoo

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By *ralSurpriseMan
over a year ago

Meath

Fair play to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for you Laura and happy New year.

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By *iftyfifty51Man
over a year ago

trim

Fair play to you. I'm sure that wasn't easy.

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By *auraLucyLuLu OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

It wasn't easy trust me... With my work and social life I'm very private. But I know with my lifestyle it would hurt more if they found out from others. So after telling my mother I called my brother who raised a glass in the pub he was in to welcome me to a life I will be happy in.,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congrats.....pleased for you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for you kiddo.xx

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By *auraLucyLuLu OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

"How did she take it? And well done .... having read your other post I would say that it wasn't easy."

It wasn't easy but I'm sick of denying who I truly am...x

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By *auraLucyLuLu OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Good on ya Laura congrats on coming out

Thank you xxx

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By *rudenMan
over a year ago

dublin

Well a daughter is a daughter no matter your mothers love is more than anything

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By *auraLucyLuLu OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Woohoo "

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fantastic and positive start to 2018.. onwards and upwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How did she take it? And well done .... having read your other post I would say that it wasn't easy.

It wasn't easy but I'm sick of denying who I truly am...x"

Not many of us truly have the balls (be they literal or metaphorical) to own up to who we all truly are or often do so too late in our lives - so I say kudos to you!

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By *ickirishallsortsMan
over a year ago

Lickie Manor

Stand back and take a bow,

I’m behind you, all the way.

https://youtu.be/zbYcte4ZEgQ

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By *auraLucyLuLu OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Stand back and take a bow,

I’m behind you, all the way.

https://youtu.be/zbYcte4ZEgQ"

Thank you because tonight is a lonely place xxxx

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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Dublin

"I've finally plucked up the courage to tell my mom that I'm bisexual.I've never told her before as I wasn't sure if I was under that "label " and fear of how she would accept or reject me nor accept it as she is pretty old school.. but I'm happy to report that I'm bisexual and it feels great to be out lol

happy days...glad the chat went well x

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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Dublin

"Stand back and take a bow,

I’m behind you, all the way.

https://youtu.be/zbYcte4ZEgQ

Thank you because tonight is a lonely place xxxx"

why lonely shouldn't be

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By *eeperscreepersMan
over a year ago

Tipp & Dublin

Fair play to you

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"How did she take it? And well done .... having read your other post I would say that it wasn't easy.

It wasn't easy but I'm sick of denying who I truly am...x"

You didn't mention that in other thread. It would have changed my answer.

Glad it worked out and you never need be lonely. Were here on forums and closer if you need it. I mean that in a platonic way but you know how to reach out, if needed

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By *auraLucyLuLu OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

"How did she take it? And well done .... having read your other post I would say that it wasn't easy.

It wasn't easy but I'm sick of denying who I truly am...x

You didn't mention that in other thread. It would have changed my answer.

Glad it worked out and you never need be lonely. Were here on forums and closer if you need it. I mean that in a platonic way but you know how to reach out, if needed

Why and what would haved changed things?

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

The part where you said you were sick of denying things

If you'd put that in original post, I would have said Tell Her regardless. If it's eating you up inside, get it out, tell others and live better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some things are just better off your chest! I spent an hour tonight spilling my heart out to my exs friend who is also my friends gf. It might work for me and it might not. But i got a lot of things said and feel slightly better lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for you Laura, things always feels heavier when we keep it to ourselves

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Some things are just better off your chest! I spent an hour tonight spilling my heart out to my exs friend who is also my friends gf. It might work for me and it might not. But i got a lot of things said and feel slightly better lol"

Not sure what you mean by"it might work for you". Are you trying to shift her?

Otherwise, yes, things are better shared, be they good or bad. A problem shared is a problem halved

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Fair play to you Laura..hope that yourself and herself are understanding because of what you said to her and thanks for being a good buddy to me here too xx

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By *sa_curiousMan
over a year ago

Waterford

What an emotional night you had Laura. Loads of admiration for what you did. You've done it now so go and enjoy 2018 to the fullest. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow what a revelation it brought a tear to my eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The truth shall set you free. Congratulations Laura. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww brill news. Having seen your other thread and I commented not to tell her unless a relationship was based on assuming you were bi curious. But you are bisexual and proud. Great start to your 2018. Go you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Woohoo

Thanks x

Good on you..might chat to you sometime and get some hints. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good woman yourself your brave x i told one member alright .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done Laura, glad it went well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read your first thread before I went to sleep, Laura.

So glad to read that everything went well.

Well done x

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By *auraLucyLuLu OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Good woman yourself your brave x i told one member alright ."

Well done you it's a start... x

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By *auraLucyLuLu OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Well done Laura, glad it went well

Thanks handsome x

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By *it_tribesmanMan
over a year ago

Galway

Well done laura

Must feel good now!

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By *auraLucyLuLu OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Thank you so much to everyone for the positive messages... nursing a sore head today but a weight has been lifted from me ...

Hope you all have a great day xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for you Laura, a new lease of life in 2018. Ana x

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By *rit on shannonMan
over a year ago

portumna

congratulations laura took great courage but great to be able to be honest with all you love. happy 2018 x

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

Great way to start the new year..brave girl!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Courageous move -

So delighted it all went went for u

New year New start for u xxx

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By *aloma12TV/TS
over a year ago

city cnt

good on ya wot a way to begin the new year xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delighted for you glad you it all worked out for you

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By *auraLucyLuLu OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Again thank you for all the well wishes... I think the copious presecco helped last night but not feeling as jolly today....

Never drinking alcohol again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Again thank you for all the well wishes... I think the copious presecco helped last night but not feeling as jolly today....

Never drinking alcohol again lol"

Not until the next time at least lol!!!

Happy New Year!

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12

"Again thank you for all the well wishes... I think the copious presecco helped last night but not feeling as jolly today....

Never drinking alcohol again lol"

Good Auld Prosecco.

Go Girl....

Great News.

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

That's great, I am sure its a weight off your shoulders and fantastic that your mother took it so well. You will have a fantastic year ahead of you and keep smiling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done to you.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad it went well hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for you!

I'd love to have the courage to do the same, but it would most likely induce a heart attack me thinks

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By *auraLucyLuLu OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Good for you!

I'd love to have the courage to do the same, but it would most likely induce a heart attack me thinks

I thought the same but was willing to risk it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done for coming out and saying it. Bravo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fantastic, well done and I hope you're happy and proud today.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Am really proud of you Laura...

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

"It wasn't easy trust me... With my work and social life I'm very private. But I know with my lifestyle it would hurt more if they found out from others. So after telling my mother I called my brother who raised a glass in the pub he was in to welcome me to a life I will be happy in.,"

Absolutely awesome and delighted for you

what fantastic start to the new year .

Si xx

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