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By *oungGent94 OP   Man
over a year ago

Craigavon

So the age old topic once again.

I’m meet verified multiple times

I have pictures

I swap face pics upon request

But yet it’s getting harder and harder to get a reply let alone a meet nowadays

Take a look at my profile.. any suggestions for improvement are welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These threads are getting to be a bit common on here now,and they kinda smack of "everyone look at me" and desperation too.

Just be yourself and give it time.

Go to a few social meets too.

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown

Verified by webcam would generally put us off, we prefer someone to be meet verified. This is just us however

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By *oungGent94 OP   Man
over a year ago

Craigavon


"These threads are getting to be a bit common on here now,and they kinda smack of "everyone look at me" and desperation too.

Just be yourself and give it time.

Go to a few social meets too."

I’m simply asking for advice i’ve seen threads where people have had great help from experienced members, i’m just after the same

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By *oungGent94 OP   Man
over a year ago

Craigavon


"Verified by webcam would generally put us off, we prefer someone to be meet verified. This is just us however"

Hey Portadowncpl I have three verifications by meeting. Unfortunately the members are no longer on the site or have new profiles which I can’t really do anything about

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By *ewbies201Couple
over a year ago

lisburn

Too young, that's the simple answer.

Sorry to be blunt

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By *oungGent94 OP   Man
over a year ago

Craigavon


"Too young, that's the simple answer.

Sorry to be blunt"

That’s fine, although i’m tryna aim the post at people who’s age limits I fall within obviously.

Although it never stopped mrs Newbies in the chatrooms in the past haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is merely just my genuine opinion so nobody go on the attack please.

I personally believe that most women here are up themselves. Not necessarily in real life but on fab and it's understandable. There are women here of all shapes and sizes and some of whom get incredible attention here that they wouldn't normally get in the real world. This can elevate their ego into thinking they are above alot of people unless your very attractive.

This is not intended to be hurtful to anyone but most women here are to my eyes average looking at best and most average looking men will have no problems pulling average looking women in the real world but here it's totally different. Those average lookin women here have their egos stroked so much that they think they are above average looking men.

This place is without doubt the hardest place ever to meet attractive women especially locally. There is far too much choice/options here for women

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By *hadowcookieCouple
over a year ago

Portlaoise


"This is merely just my genuine opinion so nobody go on the attack please.

I personally believe that most women here are up themselves. Not necessarily in real life but on fab and it's understandable. There are women here of all shapes and sizes and some of whom get incredible attention here that they wouldn't normally get in the real world. This can elevate their ego into thinking they are above alot of people unless your very attractive.

This is not intended to be hurtful to anyone but most women here are to my eyes average looking at best and most average looking men will have no problems pulling average looking women in the real world but here it's totally different. Those average lookin women here have their egos stroked so much that they think they are above average looking men.

This place is without doubt the hardest place ever to meet attractive women especially locally. There is far too much choice/options here for women "

Hammer nail head

Since we joined fab, my Mrs knows for a fact that she could get any amount of handsome adonis types, as young as she likes, as often as she likes, as many as she likes

... Sure, why would she ever settle for anything less???

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By *ad-InfluenceMan
over a year ago

Dublin 8

I don't normally post on these threads but here you go.

1: Mediocre profile with nothing of interest in it

2: Pic of your 'package'. This sinks your chances before a female even looks at the rest of your profile.

3: No proper verifications. If both the ones you cammed with wanted to get their hands on you , why didn't they ?

4: Location and age

5: Can you accommodate ?

Women on here get 200-500 messages a day, every day from all sorts of dopes. Have you ever tried to read that many let alone reply ? If you do not stand out in that amount of mails then you're just one of the rest. If your pics aren't unique then you are just another one of the crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is merely just my genuine opinion so nobody go on the attack please.

I personally believe that most women here are up themselves. Not necessarily in real life but on fab and it's understandable. There are women here of all shapes and sizes and some of whom get incredible attention here that they wouldn't normally get in the real world. This can elevate their ego into thinking they are above alot of people unless your very attractive.

This is not intended to be hurtful to anyone but most women here are to my eyes average looking at best and most average looking men will have no problems pulling average looking women in the real world but here it's totally different. Those average lookin women here have their egos stroked so much that they think they are above average looking men.

This place is without doubt the hardest place ever to meet attractive women especially locally. There is far too much choice/options here for women

Hammer nail head

Since we joined fab, my Mrs knows for a fact that she could get any amount of handsome adonis types, as young as she likes, as often as she likes, as many as she likes

... Sure, why would she ever settle for anything less??? "

Precisely. It's frustrating but totally understandable

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"This is merely just my genuine opinion so nobody go on the attack please.

I personally believe that most women here are up themselves. Not necessarily in real life but on fab and it's understandable. There are women here of all shapes and sizes and some of whom get incredible attention here that they wouldn't normally get in the real world. This can elevate their ego into thinking they are above alot of people unless your very attractive.

This is not intended to be hurtful to anyone but most women here are to my eyes average looking at best and most average looking men will have no problems pulling average looking women in the real world but here it's totally different. Those average lookin women here have their egos stroked so much that they think they are above average looking men.

This place is without doubt the hardest place ever to meet attractive women especially locally. There is far too much choice/options here for women "

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There are loads of sexy, sinful attractive women on Fab A little chat, charm and charisma usually works wonders with them...

A big cck usually helps too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pfffft I've had to lower my standards here and i forever get rejected. Girls that are even less then average are impossible to pull lol Far too many handsome men stroking their egos. Telling ye ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP....you got verified before.

So just be yourself and go and meet people at socials or look up the meets section.

You know how to do it so just do it,so this thread is kinda pointless.

It kinda comes accross as attention seeking and woe is me,which some women and couples wont like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the age old topic once again.

I’m meet verified multiple times

I have pictures

I swap face pics upon request

But yet it’s getting harder and harder to get a reply let alone a meet nowadays

Take a look at my profile.. any suggestions for improvement are welcome "

Why you hiding your profile??

Pointless thread so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Says profile hidden to me

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

It's true, it's easier for girls on here to get a guy like me, handsome, fit body etc.

But most of them don't, cause basically they don't have the self esteem for it.

So don't let the fact that you have an average body make you think it's the reason you don't do well. Cause the guys with average bodies do the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is merely just my genuine opinion so nobody go on the attack please.

I personally believe that most women here are up themselves. Not necessarily in real life but on fab and it's understandable. There are women here of all shapes and sizes and some of whom get incredible attention here that they wouldn't normally get in the real world. This can elevate their ego into thinking they are above alot of people unless your very attractive.

This is not intended to be hurtful to anyone but most women here are to my eyes average looking at best and most average looking men will have no problems pulling average looking women in the real world but here it's totally different. Those average lookin women here have their egos stroked so much that they think they are above average looking men.

This place is without doubt the hardest place ever to meet attractive women especially locally. There is far too much choice/options here for women

Hammer nail head

Since we joined fab, my Mrs knows for a fact that she could get any amount of handsome adonis types, as young as she likes, as often as she likes, as many as she likes

... Sure, why would she ever settle for anything less??? "

And, if you were to step outside the couple scenario for a moment, do you think your options would be as fruitful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's true, it's easier for girls on here to get a guy like me, handsome, fit body etc.

But most of them don't, cause basically they don't have the self esteem for it.

So don't let the fact that you have an average body make you think it's the reason you don't i do well. Cause the guys with average bodies do the best. "
i would say i am average body a dad bod if ya like and i have been very lucky to have lots of meets on here probably more than my share to be honest but im not complaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After reading these forums in the last few weeks and getting slated by some for the advice i gave to new guys on here i decided to invite 2 to my party nite to help them on their fab journey and got some of the ladies to text them to make them not be frightened of attending and they did not show up even though the had texted me up to 6 o c yes evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After reading these forums in the last few weeks and getting slated by some for the advice i gave to new guys on here i decided to invite 2 to my party nite to help them on their fab journey and got some of the ladies to text them to make them not be frightened of attending and they did not show up even though the had texted me up to 6 o c yes evening "

These people would be called timewasters and muppets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After reading these forums in the last few weeks and getting slated by some for the advice i gave to new guys on here i decided to invite 2 to my party nite to help them on their fab journey and got some of the ladies to text them to make them not be frightened of attending and they did not show up even though the had texted me up to 6 o c yes evening "

Sounds like your running the whole show here lol So you just tell ladies who to text and they do as there told? Teach me your ways lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not like that but text better coming from a lady than a man to an invite to party the ladys liked what they read on their profile and would have enjoyed getting to know them

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