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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So multiple times over the course of a few weeks i have spoke to women that had no photos visible on their profile. When asked to swap photos they have claimed they don't show photos. I then asked "who the hell is gonna meet you without seeing you first" but apparently lots of guys are happy to arrange meets with women without seen any pics. Is this really goin on because it sounds pretty fuckin crazy to me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes this really happens.

I won't send a face pic and I've had at least five meets over the years. I've been chatting to the lady's (I've met) for some time beforehand tho.

The last lady I met was unverified too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure it be good this site full of suprises

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville


"So multiple times over the course of a few weeks i have spoke to women that had no photos visible on their profile. When asked to swap photos they have claimed they don't show photos. I then asked "who the hell is gonna meet you without seeing you first" but apparently lots of guys are happy to arrange meets with women without seen any pics. Is this really goin on because it sounds pretty fuckin crazy to me lol "

I'm happy to coffee meet without face pics exchanged but I personally would require some body pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This blows my mind lol Ain't no way in hell i would arrange to meet somebody that refuses to show me a photo. I literally think that's madness lol

To be told women are meeting you without seeing any idea of what you look like is even more messed up (no offence)

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Yes it happens I have only done it once but it was part of the roll play. Mostly coffee is coffee but this one ended up in a hotel room for the evening

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe this is where some of us are going wrong. Women won't meet because they know what we look like We need to hide our photos guys ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes it happens I have only done it once but it was part of the roll play. Mostly coffee is coffee but this one ended up in a hotel room for the evening "

That's nuts lol Great that it worked out though i guess

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville


"Maybe this is where some of us are going wrong. Women won't meet because they know what we look like We need to hide our photos guys ha "

I'd imaging some discreet people are reluctant to meet somebody else who is happy to post face pics on a swing sex site

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I’m sure it be good this site full of suprises "

You're full of surprises Sunny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This blows my mind lol Ain't no way in hell i would arrange to meet somebody that refuses to show me a photo. I literally think that's madness lol

To be told women are meeting you without seeing any idea of what you look like is even more messed up (no offence)"

TBH all first meets are social/coffee meets and see if there's a connection. (I haven't played with anyone on a first meet.)

Maybe your the problem you can't get meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This blows my mind lol Ain't no way in hell i would arrange to meet somebody that refuses to show me a photo. I literally think that's madness lol

To be told women are meeting you without seeing any idea of what you look like is even more messed up (no offence)

TBH all first meets are social/coffee meets and see if there's a connection. (I haven't played with anyone on a first meet.)

Maybe your the problem you can't get meets. "

Oh i know iam the problem lol Iam not too fussed about meeting none the less. I find the women iam attracted to are not attracted to me and those that are attracted to me are hot attractive to me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind swapping a face photo but it happens rarely as I meet for coffee first without swapping face photos as thats all I meet for initially, coffee! Any guy that insists or pressures for a face photo is ignored.

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By *anaduABCMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I don't mind swapping a face photo but it happens rarely as I meet for coffee first without swapping face photos as thats all I meet for initially, coffee! Any guy that insists or pressures for a face photo is ignored."

Pria in my dreams id have coffee with you -

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't mind swapping a face photo but it happens rarely as I meet for coffee first without swapping face photos as thats all I meet for initially, coffee! Any guy that insists or pressures for a face photo is ignored."

But does it not scare you meeting a guy for coffee and you have no idea who's gonna turn up pretty much lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind swapping a face photo but it happens rarely as I meet for coffee first without swapping face photos as thats all I meet for initially, coffee! Any guy that insists or pressures for a face photo is ignored.

But does it not scare you meeting a guy for coffee and you have no idea who's gonna turn up pretty much lol "

No!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, we would never meet someone without exchanging face pics first. It saves any awkwardness of meeting in person and there being no physical attraction.

We have a procedure in place.

First we swap face pics. If there is attraction on both sides we the chat on Kik. If from chatting on Kik we can see the person isn't an asshole then we will then arrange a social meet. During the social meet we are able to weigh up the person's character and if they are safe or not plus it also gives them a chance to be comfortable with us.

If the social meet goes well we will then arrange a play meet.

Without face pics first the rest does not happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of fake couple and female profiles on this site.

Any profile with no pics and no verifications sets alarm bells off in my head straight away.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I don't mind swapping a face photo but it happens rarely as I meet for coffee first without swapping face photos as thats all I meet for initially, coffee! Any guy that insists or pressures for a face photo is ignored.

But does it not scare you meeting a guy for coffee and you have no idea who's gonna turn up pretty much lol "

What's scary about it? it's just a coffee meet!

I met twice without swapping face pics, one got very steamy and the other one got quickly cold but not because of the looks.

Pictures can be very deceptive anyway so by the end of the day, you can only check the quality when you finally have the goods in front of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind swapping a face photo but it happens rarely as I meet for coffee first without swapping face photos as thats all I meet for initially, coffee! Any guy that insists or pressures for a face photo is ignored.

But does it not scare you meeting a guy for coffee and you have no idea who's gonna turn up pretty much lol

What's scary about it? it's just a coffee meet!

I met twice without swapping face pics, one got very steamy and the other one got quickly cold but not because of the looks.

Pictures can be very deceptive anyway so by the end of the day, you can only check the quality when you finally have the goods in front of you. "

And its also about knowing how to and what to do with the goods in front of you too.

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I need a face pic before a social so I know who to look for!

I met someone once without one and ended up having a pot of tea with someone that was supposed to be meeting someone else!

My actual meet was laughing his head off cause he saw me., it all worked out in the end.. so no.. face pic is essential.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This blows my mind lol Ain't no way in hell i would arrange to meet somebody that refuses to show me a photo. I literally think that's madness lol

To be told women are meeting you without seeing any idea of what you look like is even more messed up (no offence)"

Most of my meets have been without a face pic. And whose to say the face pic you get is actually reflective of what they really look like? I've heard brilliant stories on here... some 15 years older, some are not photogenic and looked fantastic, some are Google pics , some represent them well.

At the end of the day it's about chemistry. We all need that chemistry and you can't have that with a photo .

Just a note on face pics.... ask those with 30+ veris, are all of them similar looking? I doubt it very much. None of my veris look like each other.

PS. ..I never meet anyone who insists on a face pic, they may ask me in conversation while we're getting to know each other and a meet is most likely and we'll exchange and I always insist as they asked that they be polite and show me theirs first... I show mine if they show theirs

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Never have and never would meet without a pic. Everyone has their own way of doing things on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe this is where some of us are going wrong. Women won't meet because they know what we look like We need to hide our photos guys ha

I'd imaging some discreet people are reluctant to meet somebody else who is happy to post face pics on a swing sex site"
I totally agree with this

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

For me getting a face pic is just another security check for want of a better phrase. I'd never ask for or give a face pic until we'd clicked and a meet was imminent.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"For me getting a face pic is just another security check for want of a better phrase. I'd never ask for or give a face pic until we'd clicked and a meet was imminent. "

I'd send u a pic of me arse it's better looking than me face will that do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Iam genuinely shocked lol I would never have thought that a woman would reply to you here if you didn't have pics let alone meet you. I could NEVER get a reply when i had no pics.

I also think it's a recipe for disaster as you could potentially enjoy talkin to the person and feel there's something there and then meet and they could be extremely unattractive to you which is surely gonna be bitterly disappointing for you both let alone awkward.

Each to their own. But i can't get my head around this lol I think your nuts if your meeting people with absolutely no knowledge of how they look or if there's any attraction.

So many of you would not meet a guy if you knew there was no attraction but yet your happy to meet that same guy if he never showed his pics lol

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Iam genuinely shocked lol I would never have thought that a woman would reply to you here if you didn't have pics let alone meet you. I could NEVER get a reply when i had no pics.

I also think it's a recipe for disaster as you could potentially enjoy talkin to the person and feel there's something there and then meet and they could be extremely unattractive to you which is surely gonna be bitterly disappointing for you both let alone awkward.

Each to their own. But i can't get my head around this lol I think your nuts if your meeting people with absolutely no knowledge of how they look or if there's any attraction.

So many of you would not meet a guy if you knew there was no attraction but yet your happy to meet that same guy if he never showed his pics lol "

Just because u see a pic and think there's an attraction it doesn't follow that that attraction will mature upon meeting in person

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"For me getting a face pic is just another security check for want of a better phrase. I'd never ask for or give a face pic until we'd clicked and a meet was imminent.

I'd send u a pic of me arse it's better looking than me face will that do "

I doubt that cj... ya big ride.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Iam genuinely shocked lol I would never have thought that a woman would reply to you here if you didn't have pics let alone meet you. I could NEVER get a reply when i had no pics.

I also think it's a recipe for disaster as you could potentially enjoy talkin to the person and feel there's something there and then meet and they could be extremely unattractive to you which is surely gonna be bitterly disappointing for you both let alone awkward.

Each to their own. But i can't get my head around this lol I think your nuts if your meeting people with absolutely no knowledge of how they look or if there's any attraction.

So many of you would not meet a guy if you knew there was no attraction but yet your happy to meet that same guy if he never showed his pics lol

Just because u see a pic and think there's an attraction it doesn't follow that that attraction will mature upon meeting in person "

I get that and i agree but if you see a pic and feel attraction then at least you can both then feel potential and take things further etc Obviously it's possible things still don't work out. Without a pic i see no point in waisting time talking and arranging a meet when the odds are that it's all for nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the ladies here ask for a face picture straight away. I went to a couple of meetings which from the pictures looked right up my street and then when we met personally both of them looked slightly different... same people but not just as hot as the pictures portrayed them. More recently I had a meet with someone the pictures look rather average and when I saw her entering the bar my jaw dropped and dingle hit the roof lol

So yeah pictures can be deceiving, go for it, if there is no attraction there is no harm in saying no.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Iam genuinely shocked lol I would never have thought that a woman would reply to you here if you didn't have pics let alone meet you. I could NEVER get a reply when i had no pics.

I also think it's a recipe for disaster as you could potentially enjoy talkin to the person and feel there's something there and then meet and they could be extremely unattractive to you which is surely gonna be bitterly disappointing for you both let alone awkward.

Each to their own. But i can't get my head around this lol I think your nuts if your meeting people with absolutely no knowledge of how they look or if there's any attraction.

So many of you would not meet a guy if you knew there was no attraction but yet your happy to meet that same guy if he never showed his pics lol "

Who said no pic? Just no face pic. Sure I want to see a cock pic, you've to check what you're getting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Supply and command I guess

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