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By *ove2lick76 OP   Man
over a year ago

Ardee

Anyone else alone xmas day due to not getting home/work blah blah...

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham

How does the Elvis song

"Are you lonesome this Christmas"

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By *ove2lick76 OP   Man
over a year ago

Ardee

We quick to forget those on own

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

I do every second Christmas day with my kids since I separated. This year they are going to my ex but I am doing our Christmas the day before and spending Christmas day with Fooey. In the past I have either spent it with friends or extended family which is lovely but I do love to snuggle up peacefully in my own house at the end of the day. Make it special to you op, merry Christmas

Madame B

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"I do every second Christmas day with my kids since I separated. This year they are going to my ex but I am doing our Christmas the day before and spending Christmas day with Fooey. In the past I have either spent it with friends or extended family which is lovely but I do love to snuggle up peacefully in my own house at the end of the day. Make it special to you op, merry Christmas

Madame B"

Hoe Hoe Hoe

Get those sprouts on luvvie, or else they won’t be ready for Christmas dinner!

Fooey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww OP maybe your hotel will be doing a Christmas dinner

Go to it, there maybe people in the same position as you and be glad to share abit of company a dinner and glass of wine

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By *ove2lick76 OP   Man
over a year ago

Ardee

Same boat...kids with ex this xmas so drop them back for xmas eve and do our own thing first...so volunteered the horrible shifts between xmas and new year so can take them new year too. ...as for family we not go there...all bickering among themselves so to hell with that lol if was anyone near and alone I'd have invited for dinner and they bring drink...and not in a perv way lol...just my good deed as i was there long enough when first separated and know what can feel like esp that day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seperated 11 months, loads of invites to friends and family but i think i would rather be alone.

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By *ove2lick76 OP   Man
over a year ago

Ardee


"Seperated 11 months, loads of invites to friends and family but i think i would rather be alone. "

Most do rather be alone but for some it overwhelming for first xmas alone and last think need is see rest of family with their kiss or having to answer family questions etc...I was at low point while back and afraid admit...hence post...no one need be alone...even if it just to chat some the pervs on here lol....we all just normal folk in our real lives despite the facade we might put on for others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seperated 11 months, loads of invites to friends and family but i think i would rather be alone.

Most do rather be alone but for some it overwhelming for first xmas alone and last think need is see rest of family with their kiss or having to answer family questions etc...I was at low point while back and afraid admit...hence post...no one need be alone...even if it just to chat some the pervs on here lol....we all just normal folk in our real lives despite the facade we might put on for others"

very true thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is one of the nicest treads on here xx

Whatever happens have a peaceful and wonderfull xmas

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas


"I do every second Christmas day with my kids since I separated. This year they are going to my ex but I am doing our Christmas the day before and spending Christmas day with Fooey. In the past I have either spent it with friends or extended family which is lovely but I do love to snuggle up peacefully in my own house at the end of the day. Make it special to you op, merry Christmas

Madame B

Hoe Hoe Hoe

Get those sprouts on luvvie, or else they won’t be ready for Christmas dinner!

Fooey "

I thought you were cummin in mine fmbl lol oh I mean coming to mine

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By *ove2lick76 OP   Man
over a year ago

Ardee


"Seperated 11 months, loads of invites to friends and family but i think i would rather be alone.

Most do rather be alone but for some it overwhelming for first xmas alone and last think need is see rest of family with their kiss or having to answer family questions etc...I was at low point while back and afraid admit...hence post...no one need be alone...even if it just to chat some the pervs on here lol....we all just normal folk in our real lives despite the facade we might put on for others

very true thank you"

Well you make sure make best of it...it only one day of year at end of day and feel free pm if need pass a bit of time...light fire,watch shite telly or just have a day doing what YOU want but whatever it is have a good one

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By *cobieeMan
over a year ago

Meath

Separated 3 years,single,no kids and working 07.30-20.30 on Christmas Day and then home to an empty house....ye got to play the cards you're dealt with i suppose...It's only one day.....but hey,there's always St Stephens day to look forward to.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Avoiding people who have invited you is not good to do. One day they will stop inviting you.

I have spent many celebrations alone, I spend new years alone, have spent a christmas or two alone. I have also spent prolonged periods of time with no contact with any other humans.

Thankfully I like being alone. However I also don't get invited to spend it with anyone either.

My advice, learn to be comfortable alone with yourself and if given the chance spend time with others.

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By *ove2lick76 OP   Man
over a year ago

Ardee


"Avoiding people who have invited you is not good to do. One day they will stop inviting you.

I have spent many celebrations alone, I spend new years alone, have spent a christmas or two alone. I have also spent prolonged periods of time with no contact with any other humans.

Thankfully I like being alone. However I also don't get invited to spend it with anyone either.

My advice, learn to be comfortable alone with yourself and if given the chance spend time with others."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i broke up with my x did not want to go to family that first christmas so i put my name down as a helper on christmas day and realy enjoyed the day felt beter in myself and realised the things i had in life the 600 people coming in for dinner had not got all year round amd stopped feeling sorry for myself and now 5 years on would not miss christmas day helping out in dub its great fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so nice to be alone, but as has been said, it's just one day. I think sometimes the expectations are huge and the anti climax can be hard to deal with. Being happy in your own company is good, there are plenty of people who will be alone in a crowd on that day too and that's a really tough one.

I hope everybody has some times of pure and simple joy on Christmas day and in the days that follow.

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