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"Sally, slow is the key and the more you tense the less you will enjoy. Took me time but now I love it but genuinly does need to start slow and work from their " The more you tense the more it hurts | |||
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"Sally, slow is the key and the more you tense the less you will enjoy. Took me time but now I love it but genuinly does need to start slow and work from their The more you tense the more it hurts " This, relax and some lick, fingers, lube and some play to get you extra horny and wanting it badly, then your will be ready | |||
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"Sally, slow is the key and the more you tense the less you will enjoy. Took me time but now I love it but genuinly does need to start slow and work from their " I'm nice and gentle Fee | |||
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"Serious question here. I love anal play but I've issues with taking it up the bum. Am I on my own with this and is there any ladies who've overcome this. Bit of help on this would be greatly appreciated " Sally I'm an ass virgin tried so many times number one the cock wont go in lol number two when it does hurts like hell and thats only the tip of the cock in.. It's like child birth i couldn't manage that either lol | |||
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"Sally, slow is the key and the more you tense the less you will enjoy. Took me time but now I love it but genuinly does need to start slow and work from their The more you tense the more it hurts This, relax and some lick, fingers, lube and some play to get you extra horny and wanting it badly, then your will be ready " Build up, can't beat it | |||
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"loads of lube and don't try untill your ready.. too many guys rush it.. try a butt plug first maybe while ye play.. nice and slow.. you will probably have the best orgasm you ever had.. actually if you do... let me know. " Ok I will......lol | |||
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"Serious question here. I love anal play but I've issues with taking it up the bum. Am I on my own with this and is there any ladies who've overcome this. Bit of help on this would be greatly appreciated Sally I'm an ass virgin tried so many times number one the cock wont go in lol number two when it does hurts like hell and thats only the tip of the cock in.. It's like child birth i couldn't manage that either lol " This is the issue ... I'm not trying poppers but I just need to take it slow and easy. I've tried a few times now without proper success | |||
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"Sally, slow is the key and the more you tense the less you will enjoy. Took me time but now I love it but genuinly does need to start slow and work from their The more you tense the more it hurts This, relax and some lick, fingers, lube and some play to get you extra horny and wanting it badly, then your will be ready " Mmm sounds like your ready | |||
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"Sally, slow is the key and the more you tense the less you will enjoy. Took me time but now I love it but genuinly does need to start slow and work from their The more you tense the more it hurts This, relax and some lick, fingers, lube and some play to get you extra horny and wanting it badly, then your will be ready Mmm sounds like your ready" Always | |||
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"Sally, slow is the key and the more you tense the less you will enjoy. Took me time but now I love it but genuinly does need to start slow and work from their The more you tense the more it hurts This, relax and some lick, fingers, lube and some play to get you extra horny and wanting it badly, then your will be ready Mmm sounds like your ready Always " I like your style,ready for pleasure might have to put that to test sometime | |||
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"Serious question here. I love anal play but I've issues with taking it up the bum. Am I on my own with this and is there any ladies who've overcome this. Bit of help on this would be greatly appreciated Sally I'm an ass virgin tried so many times number one the cock wont go in lol number two when it does hurts like hell and thats only the tip of the cock in.. It's like child birth i couldn't manage that either lol This is the issue ... I'm not trying poppers but I just need to take it slow and easy. I've tried a few times now without proper success " Sure we can try again | |||
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"Serious question here. I love anal play but I've issues with taking it up the bum. Am I on my own with this and is there any ladies who've overcome this. Bit of help on this would be greatly appreciated Sally I'm an ass virgin tried so many times number one the cock wont go in lol number two when it does hurts like hell and thats only the tip of the cock in.. It's like child birth i couldn't manage that either lol This is the issue ... I'm not trying poppers but I just need to take it slow and easy. I've tried a few times now without proper success Sure we can try again " lucky you sally lol | |||
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"Serious question here. I love anal play but I've issues with taking it up the bum. Am I on my own with this and is there any ladies who've overcome this. Bit of help on this would be greatly appreciated Sally I'm an ass virgin tried so many times number one the cock wont go in lol number two when it does hurts like hell and thats only the tip of the cock in.. It's like child birth i couldn't manage that either lol This is the issue ... I'm not trying poppers but I just need to take it slow and easy. I've tried a few times now without proper success " They key is to take it at your own pace and pleny of lube At the end of the day it's a muscle that need to be trained to let things in not just out lol . Dont bother with poppers anyone taking them isn't ready and could be doing damage . I'd suggest play or using a but plug for a while or keep it in for a bit in the house . And when you feel like trying it again with someone, you take control and push back not them push in to fast Hope some of that helps . Mr dirty xx | |||
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"good advise alround.. douche before .. also helps relax.. lube well.. try some d.i.y with some butt plugs or a neat dildo.. relax....work on breathing techniques too" Exactly | |||
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"Or try finding a tiny cock sally, come on lads put ur names forward lol " It's a dirty job but someone has to do it | |||
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"trust is huge with anal sex " Yes and relaxing. Hate lube though usually if you work up a want for it. Rimming and forplay should be enough. Enjoy | |||
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"trust is huge with anal sex Yes and relaxing. Hate lube though usually if you work up a want for it. Rimming and forplay should be enough. Enjoy " | |||
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"Serious question here. I love anal play but I've issues with taking it up the bum. Am I on my own with this and is there any ladies who've overcome this. Bit of help on this would be greatly appreciated Sally I'm an ass virgin tried so many times number one the cock wont go in lol number two when it does hurts like hell and thats only the tip of the cock in.. It's like child birth i couldn't manage that either lol This is the issue ... I'm not trying poppers but I just need to take it slow and easy. I've tried a few times now without proper success Sure we can try again " Oh yos your almost perfect ... I'm a lucky lady | |||
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"A lot of men claim to know what they're doing but sadly don't. Key thing ia to take it slow, inch by inch dare I say. You enjoy ass play so try beads, small dildo, butt plug etc until you're comfortable trying something a little bigger and as already mentioned plenty of lube along the way. " Thank you ... good advise there. Some new year treats for me | |||
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"Plenty of lube and a nice smooth butt plug, plus a person who will go at your pace and follow your lead. Once you push back you're ready " Thanks sally ... I'm ready for the right guy | |||
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"Serious question here. I love anal play but I've issues with taking it up the bum. Am I on my own with this and is there any ladies who've overcome this. Bit of help on this would be greatly appreciated Sally I'm an ass virgin tried so many times number one the cock wont go in lol number two when it does hurts like hell and thats only the tip of the cock in.. It's like child birth i couldn't manage that either lol This is the issue ... I'm not trying poppers but I just need to take it slow and easy. I've tried a few times now without proper success They key is to take it at your own pace and pleny of lube At the end of the day it's a muscle that need to be trained to let things in not just out lol . Dont bother with poppers anyone taking them isn't ready and could be doing damage . I'd suggest play or using a but plug for a while or keep it in for a bit in the house . And when you feel like trying it again with someone, you take control and push back not them push in to fast Hope some of that helps . Mr dirty xx " Thank you Mr Dirty ... it us sound advise | |||
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"Or try finding a tiny cock sally, come on lads put ur names forward lol " If all men with tiny cocks could sign up here | |||
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"good advise alround.. douche before .. also helps relax.. lube well.. try some d.i.y with some butt plugs or a neat dildo.. relax....work on breathing techniques too" Thank you for that | |||
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"Or try finding a tiny cock sally, come on lads put ur names forward lol It's a dirty job but someone has to do it " Oh grey ..you not on this list | |||
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"They say squats tighten up the arse cheeks " Need to loosen that area up | |||
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"Key is to relax, try with someone you've met before. Go on top, then you're in control of the penetration act. It will/does hurt a bit but with every time dipping in a bit further the muscle relaxes and pain diminishes. If you're tense and afraid of the pain, you're making it worse and you never get there. " I think your advise is sound and I will follow it. I've got that someone I trust, now I just need to relax | |||
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"I wonder how how many guys who are imparting their wisdom, have actually taken it up the arse, mmmmm, one or two seem to know what their talking about " Well I'm taking notes here so if you've knowledge to impart please share | |||
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"Plenty of lube and a nice smooth butt plug, plus a person who will go at your pace and follow your lead. Once you push back you're ready Thanks sally ... I'm ready for the right guy " As someone else said too, focus on your breathing. Slow everything down, relax and move with it. | |||
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"I tried this for so long so can relate! Admittedly I still find it a bit ouchie going in but love it now. For me, plenty of lube, and a little clit vibrator on my button on full blast. It’s kinda like pinching yourself elsewhere when you have a blood test to distract you. Haha. Once it’s in, I’m always the one that starts the build up/moving until it’s starts to feel really good. Definitely all about the vibrator and taking it at my pace (for me). Helps to have a patient guy or girl too. Worth persevering though because the first anal/clit orgasm It almost blew my head off! Good luck!" I'm going to use the vibe .. brilliant idea | |||
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"I wonder how how many guys who are imparting their wisdom, have actually taken it up the arse, mmmmm, one or two seem to know what their talking about Well I'm taking notes here so if you've knowledge to impart please share " Well there's not really much left to say, unless you want an anaesthetic for your arse | |||
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"Plenty of lube and a nice smooth butt plug, plus a person who will go at your pace and follow your lead. Once you push back you're ready Thanks sally ... I'm ready for the right guy As someone else said too, focus on your breathing. Slow everything down, relax and move with it. " Like a dance | |||
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"I wonder how how many guys who are imparting their wisdom, have actually taken it up the arse, mmmmm, one or two seem to know what their talking about Well I'm taking notes here so if you've knowledge to impart please share Well there's not really much left to say, unless you want an anaesthetic for your arse " Maybe . | |||
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"Plenty of lube and a nice smooth butt plug, plus a person who will go at your pace and follow your lead. Once you push back you're ready Thanks sally ... I'm ready for the right guy As someone else said too, focus on your breathing. Slow everything down, relax and move with it. Like a dance " Just like a dance | |||
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"Serious question here. I love anal play but I've issues with taking it up the bum. Am I on my own with this and is there any ladies who've overcome this. Bit of help on this would be greatly appreciated " Come to me and we can practice on it | |||
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"Serious question here. I love anal play but I've issues with taking it up the bum. Am I on my own with this and is there any ladies who've overcome this. Bit of help on this would be greatly appreciated Come to me and we can practice on it " Kerry here I cum | |||
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"I wonder how how many guys who are imparting their wisdom, have actually taken it up the arse, mmmmm, one or two seem to know what their talking about Well I'm taking notes here so if you've knowledge to impart please share Well there's not really much left to say, unless you want an anaesthetic for your arse Maybe . " I think there are lines for anal that slightly numb the area, initially at least. Think I saw them on Lovehoney but if I did, then I'm sure they must be available on your face sex shop site also | |||
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"Serious question here. I love anal play but I've issues with taking it up the bum. Am I on my own with this and is there any ladies who've overcome this. Bit of help on this would be greatly appreciated " Pick the man very carefully and go very slow | |||
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"I wonder how how many guys who are imparting their wisdom, have actually taken it up the arse, mmmmm, one or two seem to know what their talking about Well I'm taking notes here so if you've knowledge to impart please share " Insert ben wa balls into your pussy 2.5 hours before your planned play session. Prepare yourself for anal sex by first evacuating your bowels, then thoroughly douching in the shower with an enema kit. Assume the doggie position with your knees at the side of the bed, apply lube to ass and cock, have appropriate condoms. Insert cock slowly, then stop, you push back on the cock and set the pace. Once you can take it all in, hold a wand vibe to your clit, the ben wa balls should be touching your gspot, you might want to squirt, and finally listen to the jingle bells of multiple orgasms | |||
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"I wonder how how many guys who are imparting their wisdom, have actually taken it up the arse, mmmmm, one or two seem to know what their talking about Well I'm taking notes here so if you've knowledge to impart please share Insert ben wa balls into your pussy 2.5 hours before your planned play session. Prepare yourself for anal sex by first evacuating your bowels, then thoroughly douching in the shower with an enema kit. Assume the doggie position with your knees at the side of the bed, apply lube to ass and cock, have appropriate condoms. Insert cock slowly, then stop, you push back on the cock and set the pace. Once you can take it all in, hold a wand vibe to your clit, the ben wa balls should be touching your gspot, you might want to squirt, and finally listen to the jingle bells of multiple orgasms " That's good knowledge | |||
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"Plenty of lube and a nice smooth butt plug, plus a person who will go at your pace and follow your lead. Once you push back you're ready " Listen to Sally O’Brien she knows these things. I think it also helps for the first few times is take control yourself be on top or do the pushing and be able to allow yourself to control pressure maneuver a bit to get the best angles. The type of lube makes a big difference too. Also if you douche before playing give yourself an hour or more so what little natural lubrication you have back there is built up. If it’s still wet from douching it can reduce the effectiveness or water based lubes. Another good technique which may seem counter intuitive is to push a little bit as if you were going to the toilet. That makes it go in more easily. It makes a big difference. Good luck and have fun. | |||
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"Plenty of lube and a nice smooth butt plug, plus a person who will go at your pace and follow your lead. Once you push back you're ready Listen to Sally O’Brien she knows these things. I think it also helps for the first few times is take control yourself be on top or do the pushing and be able to allow yourself to control pressure maneuver a bit to get the best angles. The type of lube makes a big difference too. Also if you douche before playing give yourself an hour or more so what little natural lubrication you have back there is built up. If it’s still wet from douching it can reduce the effectiveness or water based lubes. Another good technique which may seem counter intuitive is to push a little bit as if you were going to the toilet. That makes it go in more easily. It makes a big difference. Good luck and have fun. " SallyOBrien had a good teacher | |||
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" SallyOBrien had a good teacher " And I never even got an Apple once | |||
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" SallyOBrien had a good teacher And I never even got an Apple once " You got a cherry, what more did you want | |||
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"I wonder how how many guys who are imparting their wisdom, have actually taken it up the arse, mmmmm, one or two seem to know what their talking about Well I'm taking notes here so if you've knowledge to impart please share Insert ben wa balls into your pussy 2.5 hours before your planned play session. Prepare yourself for anal sex by first evacuating your bowels, then thoroughly douching in the shower with an enema kit. Assume the doggie position with your knees at the side of the bed, apply lube to ass and cock, have appropriate condoms. Insert cock slowly, then stop, you push back on the cock and set the pace. Once you can take it all in, hold a wand vibe to your clit, the ben wa balls should be touching your gspot, you might want to squirt, and finally listen to the jingle bells of multiple orgasms That's good knowledge " Noooo not doggy for your first time! I'd advise to lie on your side like spooning, then allow him slow entrance that way, you'll know when it's in | |||
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"Just go for the plunge Sally! Add a knob of margarine to help it on its way.... You’ll never believe it’s not butter " You’re welcome, Fooey | |||
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"Just go for the plunge Sally! Add a knob of margarine to help it on its way.... You’ll never believe it’s not butter You’re welcome, Fooey " Poor Madam B. My butt cheeks clench for you. | |||
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"Just go for the plunge Sally! Add a knob of margarine to help it on its way.... You’ll never believe it’s not butter You’re welcome, Fooey Poor Madam B. My butt cheeks clench for you. " | |||
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"Just go for the plunge Sally! Add a knob of margarine to help it on its way.... You’ll never believe it’s not butter You’re welcome, Fooey Poor Madam B. My butt cheeks clench for you. " It’s called the Foo method.... 60% of the time it works everytime | |||
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"Serious question here. I love anal play but I've issues with taking it up the bum. Am I on my own with this and is there any ladies who've overcome this. Bit of help on this would be greatly appreciated " And, What a Gorgeous Ass you have, And you can push back As Slowly As You Like,. | |||
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"Plenty of lube and a nice smooth butt plug, plus a person who will go at your pace and follow your lead. Once you push back you're ready Listen to Sally O’Brien she knows these things. I think it also helps for the first few times is take control yourself be on top or do the pushing and be able to allow yourself to control pressure maneuver a bit to get the best angles. The type of lube makes a big difference too. Also if you douche before playing give yourself an hour or more so what little natural lubrication you have back there is built up. If it’s still wet from douching it can reduce the effectiveness or water based lubes. Another good technique which may seem counter intuitive is to push a little bit as if you were going to the toilet. That makes it go in more easily. It makes a big difference. Good luck and have fun. SallyOBrien had a good teacher " Sally O Brian is a wise and might I say lucky woman | |||
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"In my experience size is not all important... I had a not that big guy and because he was not into anal.. He just did it few times because I wanted, I experienced some pain and not that enjoyable, but had a partner bigger size that was into anal as much as me and no pain... Preparation, relax, horniness is the key So shally, don't be afraid of big cocks for anal.. Go for it girl lol" Lol .... himself will be pleased with that statement | |||
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"Just go for the plunge Sally! Add a knob of margarine to help it on its way.... You’ll never believe it’s not butter " Bahaha. ... oh I'm a real butter girl | |||
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"Jaysos Sally, you got so much advice, you better start cracking and stop hanging on the forum or Santi won't cum at all " Oh Friday treats when I start my hols ... I'm prepared | |||
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"Jaysos Sally, you got so much advice, you better start cracking and stop hanging on the forum or Santi won't cum at all Oh Friday treats when I start my hols ... I'm prepared " Lucky you! I've to wait with my fab explosion until after Christmas but it will be a feast. | |||
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"Jaysos Sally, you got so much advice, you better start cracking and stop hanging on the forum or Santi won't cum at all Oh Friday treats when I start my hols ... I'm prepared Lucky you! I've to wait with my fab explosion until after Christmas but it will be a feast. " This will be a very merry Christmas. .. enjoy your calm, get rest | |||
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"Jaysos Sally, you got so much advice, you better start cracking and stop hanging on the forum or Santi won't cum at all Oh Friday treats when I start my hols ... I'm prepared Lucky you! I've to wait with my fab explosion until after Christmas but it will be a feast. This will be a very merry Christmas. .. enjoy your calm, get rest " The calm before the storm | |||
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"Jaysos Sally, you got so much advice, you better start cracking and stop hanging on the forum or Santi won't cum at all Oh Friday treats when I start my hols ... I'm prepared Lucky you! I've to wait with my fab explosion until after Christmas but it will be a feast. This will be a very merry Christmas. .. enjoy your calm, get rest " Well if u need ant help wuth the job i can get into my sleigh and visit | |||
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"Jaysos Sally, you got so much advice, you better start cracking and stop hanging on the forum or Santi won't cum at all Oh Friday treats when I start my hols ... I'm prepared Lucky you! I've to wait with my fab explosion until after Christmas but it will be a feast. This will be a very merry Christmas. .. enjoy your calm, get rest The calm before the storm " Seen lucky you | |||
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"Well Sally, do much advice, methods ... " Last tango in Paris" with the marg interesting lol so what's it to be nice and slow or Marg/ Real butter .... ????" Real butter | |||
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