FabSwingers.com forum: How to convince partner to join me on fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering if anybody has convinced there partner to join fab with them. I’d like to have my partner join up with another man for her birthday present.

Will she think I’m totally crazy ?

Ideas?

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By *ir1967Man
over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid

"Just wondering if anybody has convinced there partner to join fab with them. I’d like to have my partner join up with another man for her birthday present.

Will she think I’m totally crazy ?

Ideas?"

Take it easy and slow . Was that fantasy of yours ever a subject to pillow talk? And if so, how did she reacted on this ?

After all it’s down to communicating. Depending on her background , whether conservative or liberal you should weigh the speed to approach it. It’s like a seed which takes time to grow into a flower.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't "convince" your partner to do anything unless she wants to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks.

Maybe convince was wrong word.

Maybe I’m looking for the pros and cons or reassurance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks.

Maybe convince was wrong word.

Maybe I’m looking for the pros and cons or reassurance.

Open communication is the key, she needs to be able to trust you and your motivations. Does she know you have an account here?

Nobody here can tell you how your partner is likely to react.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering if anybody has convinced there partner to join fab with them. I’d like to have my partner join up with another man for her birthday present.

Will she think I’m totally crazy ?

Ideas?"

Show her your account on here and let her read your verification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

plant the seed.. she how she responds. I presume she doesn't know your here ?

slowly slowly.

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Tell her all

she will either kick you in the nuts or join you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Show her your account on here and let her read your verification "

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By *oxminxCouple
over a year ago

NaughtyVille *×* Laois

"Just wondering if anybody has convinced there partner to join fab with them. I’d like to have my partner join up with another man for her birthday present.

Will she think I’m totally crazy ?

Ideas?

Show her your account on here and let her read your verification "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering if anybody has convinced there partner to join fab with them. I’d like to have my partner join up with another man for her birthday present.

Will she think I’m totally crazy ?

Ideas?

Show her your account on here and let her read your verification

If she doesn't join i will lol

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Sit down and watch a documentary on swinging or even a comedy around threesomes with her...

At the end of watching, just nonchalantly ask her:

"What do you make of that for a lifestyle?"

Done properly, you might even make it sound like her idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can't be convinced if they don't want to. Respect that or find someone who wants to be in the lifestyle if it means that much to you. You absolutely cannot emotionally bludgeon someone to swing .

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow

"Just wondering if anybody has convinced there partner to join fab with them. I’d like to have my partner join up with another man for her birthday present.

Will she think I’m totally crazy ?

Ideas?

Show her your account on here and let her read your verification "

And poof its hidden

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