FabSwingers.com forum: Verification Etiquette

By *otforbot OP Man
over a year ago

kildare

Hi all just looking for you're thoughts on Verification of people. Now we all know this can be taken with a pinch of salt give the amount of "timewasters an fakes" along with men pretending to be women/couples on here.

I would expect a "verification"to validate a persons profile and show that they really do meet and to be genuine and upfront.Now I am not looking for a 1000 word essay but surely a bit more the "sound guy will meet again"but a bit more tought and info would be great. Also is it not polite to verify someone in return if they have verified you. Now while I am happy with my verifications and show them on my page and while I might not want to show the all at least if you received one you can the decide to show it in your page or just a summary of it at least this shows that you are active and up for meets. Rant over so thoughts please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could suggest like on airbnb that you don't get the verification noted until both parties have verified.

The problem with that is I may have had a wonderful time but the other party might consider me a bore they couldn't stand. I know I have had meets where I couldn't wait to get out of the coffee shop. I even had one where I turned up at an apartment to find the woman blind d*unk along with several of her mates.

I got away by volunteering to go buy more drink and literally running back to my car.

I don't think that laydee would have welcomed my verification or me hers.

So perhaps leaving verifications at the discretion of those you meet works best No?

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Write whatever makes you happy. Just remember, if you write a good one you will be sitting between.

"rekt dis girl all nite, slut does as told"

and

"treat her well, this obedient filthy whore is worth it"

Which makes you look like a bit of a cuckold dick for writing how lovely she was and how much you enjoyed her company.

Also know your veri will only be shown for a few days then hidden while other worse written ones are left up.

So if you are okay with that, then sure, go ahead and leave a great written veri.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'I would expect a "verification"to validate a persons profile and show that they really do meet and to be genuine and upfront.'

This is it, as you said it.

It should be no more and no less.

We just don't understand why a lot in here feel the need to verify every person they talked to at a party either. With two or three verifs already we know you're real.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

"We just don't understand why a lot in here feel the need to verify every person they talked to at a party either. With two or three verifs already we know you're real.

Cause a recent veri shows you are active and renews interest in your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you join fab to get verifications or to fuck?

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By *kmanMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

"Did you join fab to get verifications or to fuck?"

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

"Did you join fab to get verifications or to fuck?

Well he is a single guy so if he joined to fuck he is living in fantasy land.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love getting my veris but i don't feel the need to share them or my veris summary. I put very little heed on veris only to prove the person has met and is genuine

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

pay no attention whatsoever to veris

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I will verify that people are as they say and make out to be on here.

I don’t necessarily need to be verified in return as I have been proven to be who I say I am.

They are good to see on men’s profiles and if I see a veri from a lady I’ve met then I’m more inclined to meet that person for a social.

If the person isn’t what they said they were or odd or scary then I wouldn’t leave a veri.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to care about veris, I think guys that don't have any care about them more, but now I couldn't care less if I never got another one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love getting my veris but i don't feel the need to share them or my veris summary. I put very little heed on veris only to prove the person has met and is genuine"

I show my summary as it proves not only am I real but worthy of return visits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all just looking for you're thoughts on Verification of people. Now we all know this can be taken with a pinch of salt give the amount of "timewasters an fakes" along with men pretending to be women/couples on here.

Whoever came up with the phrase 'rant over' needs to be wiped from the face of the earth

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Whoever came up with the phrase 'rant over' needs to be wiped from the face of the earth"

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoever came up with the phrase 'rant over' needs to be wiped from the face of the earth

Why?

Because any moron with a point to make signs off with it it now...even though it's not a rant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to write a veri and also receive a veri when I have a meet...its all part of the meet and finishes it of nicely...ive met at least 4 couples that havnt left verifications which kinda pissed me off because they were excellent meets and at least 5 women that won't leave a veri because they don't won't their fb to know they've met me or some other mad rationale which also kinda pisses me off...(And apparently I'm not allowed to say rant over)...so I won't.. .happy fabbing you filthy animals...x

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By *kmanMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

I don't mind, if I get one I return it. Or if I give one and do not get one back it is not the end of world.

To me it is more important if you really enjoyed the meet to keep the banter up and try to get to meet again. I am quite fond of repeat meets.

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