FabSwingers.com forum: LTR

By *HELYPPA OP Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

I want to open my heart to ask men on this site about something that I don't have answer.

If I have a profile on any dating app/website, the conversation turns into something sexual during the first lines. I have no problems about talking about sex, God knows how much I enjoy it, but it seems me there's no place to look for someone interested in having something serious. Nobody is interested in having a conversation (yes, I know fabswingers is for that, but it's not the point now)

Being kinky and poliamorous makes my seek even worst. Any sincere tips will be welcome.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think when someone mentions that they're polyamorous be they male or female that they come across as people who are easy to bed. In Irish society anything outside monogamy is still taboo. I think the average Irish Joe sees anyone who wants anything more than monogamy isn't suitable for a serious relationship. Not many people want to share a wife or girlfriend or husband or boyfriend like that. And dating sites are really nothing more than hook up sites for the vast majority of users. That's my personal opinion anyway.

By *oisyoctopusWoman
over a year ago

Drogheda

I've had great success with ok cupid, speaking as a bi poly switch. The important thing, as ever, is sticking the important information in the profile. That and filters!

I've made some damn fine friendships there and had a number of dalliances and relationships come from time there.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah I think even if you’re looking for a monogamous relationship, it’s very rare to find someone who’s looking for more than a hook up. I don’t know why.

And before the “this is sex site” comments come in, I’m talking about dating sites.

By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I have the reverse problem. I have talked to maybe 300 girls this year who wanted relationship with me. All of them really pretty, wanting to go for walks with me, thinking I am hilarious, intelligent, witty etc etc.

Not talked to one person all year that just wanted sex.