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Do You Lower Your Standards When Swinging?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If it isn't going to happen in the vanilla world. Is it going to happen in the swinging world. If your goal is to swap then surely their must be some compromise.

So guys, in order to have fun with a male, female, couple do you need to find them as attractive as you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No - i raise them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it isn't going to happen in the vanilla world. Is it going to happen in the swinging world. If your goal is to swap then surely their must be some compromise.

So guys, in order to have fun with a male, female, couple do you need to find them as attractive as you?"

Do you really need to ask this question?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it isn't going to happen in the vanilla world. Is it going to happen in the swinging world. If your goal is to swap then surely their must be some compromise.

So guys, in order to have fun with a male, female, couple do you need to find them as attractive as you?

Do you really need to ask this question?"

haha, when I see your name on the thread, im not sure if its the kiss of death for the thread or its going to stoke discussion

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

most men as I said before would jump at the smell of a fanny, don't mind who it's attached to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i was on a couples profile i always seemed to draw the short straw regarding the male half of the couples .. just as well im bi .. prefer a single profile

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"If it isn't going to happen in the vanilla world. Is it going to happen in the swinging world. If your goal is to swap then surely their must be some compromise.

So guys, in order to have fun with a male, female, couple do you need to find them as attractive as you?"

I am not sure about the wording of this...as attractive as you?

Attraction and connection is paramount for us and it takes a lot of time to figure it out.

Situational sex is what I call it and no, not why we are here or what we signed up for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it isn't going to happen in the vanilla world. Is it going to happen in the swinging world. If your goal is to swap then surely their must be some compromise.

So guys, in order to have fun with a male, female, couple do you need to find them as attractive as you?"

Why would you lower ur standards in the vanilla world or swinging world

Attraction and connection for me allways

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

if you look at a person and say I'm not physically attracted to you, could you still fancy them in other ways or is that it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not! My standards remain as that in a vanilla situation which are as high as the next person. I'd rather go without sex than fuck just anyone, hence the reason I have sex very rarely

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth


"If it isn't going to happen in the vanilla world. Is it going to happen in the swinging world. If your goal is to swap then surely their must be some compromise.

So guys, in order to have fun with a male, female, couple do you need to find them as attractive as you?"

I think it lowers standards that why you have so many not so attractive people swinging in the first place becuase they struggle in the vanilla world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to read this a couple of times ... what stands out is the phrase " as attractive as you" ... someone's attractiveness is not necessarily just about looks. One man may find me for example very attractive another not at all. To define a person on looks alone is shortchanging both them and yourself.

To answer the question I've been approached by very attractive men and more average looking men and I base all my decisions the same. Is there a connection, commen ground. Is he a good person and can he string a sentence together, does he make me laugh. How attractive I am or I'm not never comes into the equation. I'd never presume to be better then anyone ... naked we are all the same, self conscious and vulnerable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking back on my previous partners I would say my standards are the same. I try to judge on a bit more than looks.

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