FabSwingers.com forum: Is it me that's the problem

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been using this site on and off for about 4 years now maybe a lil longer and in that 4 years I've had 2 meets from this site, more than a Handfull of time wasters that never lead anywhere. Is the site slow because I live in Wexford in the countryside or am I just an ugly cunt no one wants to meet hahaha what's other people's views from outside of the major cities

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where is your profile pic - are u fully engaging in the site ?

Do u like to look but not offer the same stimulation in return - it’s not looks, it’s attitude and you need to be positive and manage expectations.

Just because someone meets u for an initial meet doesn’t guarantee anything .... every1 gets stood up and sometimes turned down ..... that’s life.

By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"I've been using this site on and off for about 4 years now maybe a lil longer and in that 4 years I've had 2 meets from this site, more than a Handfull of time wasters that never lead anywhere. Is the site slow because I live in Wexford in the countryside or am I just an ugly cunt no one wants to meet hahaha what's other people's views from outside of the major cities "

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It does take a little bit of time for a guy to get his head around Fab but if you're not getting action left, right and centre after 4 years, you might want to change tactics here...

Your pics are better than most lads here and you wrote a bit about yourself so fairplay...

But if you want want action, you got to sell excitement not "average". You got to stand out a bit and that can mean creative pics, an alluring profile and a good intro that you send to women...

Also consider... What are your three best qualities or things you having going for you? Playfullness, humour, banter, etc. Find out what they are and play those to your strengths...

...If an old fella like me can get a few meets, a young lion/buck like you most definitely can and will. You're as good as any man here so start believing in yourself