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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just curious do most fellas here just go with what women say to b a lickarse or do any fellas actually have a brain r an opinion of their own???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've spoke to quite a few who are happy to disagree with me and have a wee debate. Keeps things interesting. As nice as it is to receive compliments, anybody can tell you you're beautiful. A wee bit of character makes you stand out from the crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious do most fellas here just go with what women say to b a lickarse or do any fellas actually have a brain r an opinion of their own???"

I take it your not making reference to the forum, its been a long time since you had an opinion here..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dont comment much on a post but read a good few and i always c a woman may say something and all lads just jump to agree.. and if someone asks a question they get ridiculed for it to impress a chick i just dont get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is actually a good thread. There's so many irritatingly inverted balled men on here. They'd be the brown nosers at work and the teachers pet in school. Pure fake cringy personalities. I'm glad others actually think the same haha.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks oscar souns this has been something of a trend ive noticed for a long time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hawd oan a minute...... Are you lot not all brown nosing right now?!

....just an observation lads....

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By *ack 188Man
over a year ago

Dublin 15

love the forums but can't say I suck up to anybody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're just pure dickheads. The women love them but like I said they're the teachers pet kinda person. The teacher loves them and the rest think they're dickheads haha. It's even hard to explain because most of the men I'm talking about aren't openly rude or offensive or even mean but they sure as hell do make me say "what a dickhead" when I read their comments haha.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not at all i just asked a question probably going to annoy more ppl than suck up to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a question is it not possible for a man and women to think the same way or have the same opinions on things without the man being called a white knight or people saying the man is only agreeing with a opinion to get in her pantys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hawd oan a minute...... Are you lot not all brown nosing right now?!

....just an observation lads.... "

Who would I be brown nosing though? A straight man that has absolutely nothing to offer me and absolutely nothing I want? Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hawd oan a minute...... Are you lot not all brown nosing right now?!

....just an observation lads....

Who would I be brown nosing though? A straight man that has absolutely nothing to offer me and absolutely nothing I want? Haha "

Just teasing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s interesting that most of the men who post threads like this don’t ever seem to have had any meets.

It’s almost like there’s a theme......

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Just curious do most fellas here just go with what women say to b a lickarse or do any fellas actually have a brain r an opinion of their own???"

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Some guys agree with women on the forums for the sake of approval and a possible shag... in their mind anyway.

Then you'll get "The White Knights" who come to rescue the damsel in distress from a guy who might simply be disagreeing with her.

Then there's "The Girls Blouse" who'll apologise to all female Fabbers who've ever been stood up for coffee (...even 5 years before Fab) or ever received a cock pic or read a curse word...

Thankfully though, there are men with a backbone here who simply speak what's on their mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s interesting that most of the men who post threads like this don’t ever seem to have had any meets.

It’s almost like there’s a theme......"

I've personally had a few offers of meets. A few women and probably 4 times more men haha but I do have some confidence issues so more than likely won't meet anyone here for a long time. That was a very defensive comment though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s interesting that most of the men who post threads like this don’t ever seem to have had any meets.

It’s almost like there’s a theme......

I've personally had a few offers of meets. A few women and probably 4 times more men haha but I do have some confidence issues so more than likely won't meet anyone here for a long time. That was a very defensive comment though "

Not at all, merely an observation

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

riding into battle on horseback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't believe any guy got a ride for being 'white night' on forums. So no need to keep on trying lads...

I had open fights with some F or MF over stupid crap they were posting on forum etc. My block list is looooooooooooooong.

And I never had issues with arranging interesting and quality meets. I am not bragging, just showing that F and MF prefer a man with personality not just a cock.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Strangerthing1...round of applause for the 1st idiot response..seriously i made the thread am verified by meet.. u win the lick arse of the thread award

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s interesting that most of the men who post threads like this don’t ever seem to have had any meets.

It’s almost like there’s a theme......

I've personally had a few offers of meets. A few women and probably 4 times more men haha but I do have some confidence issues so more than likely won't meet anyone here for a long time. That was a very defensive comment though

Not at all, merely an observation "

It feels like you were trying to somehow discredit the guys observation with your observation. Do you agree there are men on this site that are more or less as described by him? Or do you think every man is being true to himself when commenting on forums?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s interesting that most of the men who post threads like this don’t ever seem to have had any meets.

It’s almost like there’s a theme......"

so are you saying if they had a meet on here they wouldn't think there are lickarses and dickheads on here?

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Aw I thought this was a continuation of the Rimming thread

I'll lick any part of a woman she allows me to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s interesting that most of the men who post threads like this don’t ever seem to have had any meets.

It’s almost like there’s a theme......so are you saying if they had a meet on here they wouldn't think there are lickarses and dickheads on here? "

There’s ALL sorts on here - I merely observed that a lot of these posts by guys knocking other guys are started by people who seem to have been around a long time but never seem to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s interesting that most of the men who post threads like this don’t ever seem to have had any meets.

It’s almost like there’s a theme......

I've personally had a few offers of meets. A few women and probably 4 times more men haha but I do have some confidence issues so more than likely won't meet anyone here for a long time. That was a very defensive comment though

Not at all, merely an observation

It feels like you were trying to somehow discredit the guys observation with your observation. Do you agree there are men on this site that are more or less as described by him? Or do you think every man is being true to himself when commenting on forums? "

I wasn’t trying to discredit anyone’s observation - he could well be right. I was simply sharing my observation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just saying there are some dickheads and lickarses on this site. Should it bother me? No definitely not and I would have never started this thread myself but I am glad people think there are dickheads about haha. I love this site more for the forums than actually the potential to meet and have good sex (odd I know but like I said I've confidence issues). I used to go onto Facebook every day for the hour break in work and now I'm reading through fab forums instead cause the stuff is brilliant but dickheads are about.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

There's only a handful of this type of guy and a handful of women that fall for it.

But the combination of both created a very nasty core of people both on and off the forum's.

Recently this group of men and women have been very quiet because more and more people of both sexes have been calling them out on it and a few of them have been permanently removed from the forum's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a question is it not possible for a man and women to think the same way or have the same opinions on things without the man being called a white knight or people saying the man is only agreeing with a opinion to get in her pantys"

Don't be silly, then what would the single males whinge about and blame for their lack of social skills. Its lickarses ruining it for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious do most fellas here just go with what women say to b a lickarse or do any fellas actually have a brain r an opinion of their own???"

No, not all fellas are lickarses, there are some, there are others who are given a fools pardon, there are some that give ya a body slam when ya say the wrong thing and generally people are called out here, by women as much as men, I would say exactly the same about women as I have with men above..

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

there is plenty of lads on here who "say the right thing or do the right thing" in the hope of getting his willy wet. you even know by the way things are portrayed on here that some men are terrified to speak their minds, something I excel at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Btw op, its one thing calling people out here on the forum, by throwing up a thread, its a completely different experience when you engage with the forum on a regular basis, its only then peeps get the opportunity to determine your personality, and brain capacity, you should try it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers"

I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers"

what amazes me is some others who come on whinging about what some lads say. whether it's positive or negative alot of it is on the money be it like this thread or something about not been able to get replies even though they follow certain avenues. you call it whinging I call it stating fact in certain areas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might have to pull the sofa up and get the pop corn out

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"Btw op, its one thing calling people out here on the forum, by throwing up a thread, its a completely different experience when you engage with the forum on a regular basis, its only then peeps get the opportunity to determine your personality, and brain capacity, you should try it "

The OPs opinion is no less valid by the frequency that he chooses to post in the Irish forum, nor can any inference be drawn about 'brain capacity', (I will assume you mean intelligence).

There's a remarkable number of lurkers present that do not choose to post for their own reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments. "

OH right, my mistake, we haven't noticed that too much, that sucks, I thought the forums are usually pretty good for people being called out on their bullshit.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments.

OH right, my mistake, we haven't noticed that too much, that sucks, I thought the forums are usually pretty good for people being called out on their bullshit. "

Most of these "brown nosers" get no more than the average amount of action. They just get lots of social meets from the same few ladies because they take them out drinking and make these women feel good about themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers

I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments. "

Im confused with that post, your obviously not speaking on the op behalf, what is it your saying, that lickarses are in some way putting others down, where does ridicule come into it, again are you speaking for yourself?

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers

I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments.

Im confused with that post, your obviously not speaking on the op behalf, what is it your saying, that lickarses are in some way putting others down, where does ridicule come into it, again are you speaking for yourself?"

You are well aware of what he is trying to say and you see it here every day.

There is a group here both male and female that constantly try to ridicule other's and have driven many good people off this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Btw op, its one thing calling people out here on the forum, by throwing up a thread, its a completely different experience when you engage with the forum on a regular basis, its only then peeps get the opportunity to determine your personality, and brain capacity, you should try it

The OPs opinion is no less valid by the frequency that he chooses to post in the Irish forum, nor can any inference be drawn about 'brain capacity', (I will assume you mean intelligence).

There's a remarkable number of lurkers present that do not choose to post for their own reasons."

If you read the op post, you might see where my inference is coming from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think the op is basically saying the cliques drive people of the forums. The thing about cliques is I've seen them come and go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s interesting that most of the men who post threads like this don’t ever seem to have had any meets.

It’s almost like there’s a theme......"

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


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. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments. "

Rather than do the thumb shit, I will say that I agree with this. Snideness, passive aggression and open mockery is all too common and too accepted. Usually under a very thin veneer of humour. The dig with the smilie at the end, for example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers

I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments.

Im confused with that post, your obviously not speaking on the op behalf, what is it your saying, that lickarses are in some way putting others down, where does ridicule come into it, again are you speaking for yourself?"

I'm speaking on behalf of myself. I don't know the guy but I "think" we're on the same wavelength. I mean a lickarse isn't going to annoy anyone unless they somehow get at them. Taking sides in a disagreement is natural enough but some do it with a fakeness and sometimes an arrogance or with a air of dismissiveness. I'm not the best at putting my thoughts into words so I probably cleared up absolutely nothing haha and I feel like you're kinda edging on the side of disagreement with the guy but not in a way that I would find arrogant. People can take side or disagree but it should be politely and genuinely. There's just a fakeness and rudeness about threads and disagreements at times. I feel and I think a few more do too that this is because there's an alterior motive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers

I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments.

Im confused with that post, your obviously not speaking on the op behalf, what is it your saying, that lickarses are in some way putting others down, where does ridicule come into it, again are you speaking for yourself?

You are well aware of what he is trying to say and you see it here every day.

There is a group here both male and female that constantly try to ridicule other's and have driven many good people off this site."

No, your mistaken, I don't see it, and I'm fairly observant, nor would I sit back and let someone be ridiculed, without giving my tuppance worth.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers

I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments.

Im confused with that post, your obviously not speaking on the op behalf, what is it your saying, that lickarses are in some way putting others down, where does ridicule come into it, again are you speaking for yourself?

You are well aware of what he is trying to say and you see it here every day.

There is a group here both male and female that constantly try to ridicule other's and have driven many good people off this site.

No, your mistaken, I don't see it, and I'm fairly observant, nor would I sit back and let someone be ridiculed, without giving my tuppance worth."

Yes you do see it. An example of it this week.... a guy posted a badly worded thread looking for a meet (which is what this site is all about) and his thread was hijacked and he was ridiculed until he went UNLOS.

Do you think that's what should have happened???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers

I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments.

Im confused with that post, your obviously not speaking on the op behalf, what is it your saying, that lickarses are in some way putting others down, where does ridicule come into it, again are you speaking for yourself?

You are well aware of what he is trying to say and you see it here every day.

There is a group here both male and female that constantly try to ridicule other's and have driven many good people off this site.

No, your mistaken, I don't see it, and I'm fairly observant, nor would I sit back and let someone be ridiculed, without giving my tuppance worth."

I genuinely believe you don't see it. Some people won't. It can be passed as banter or a joke. I read your threads regularly and I don't see nastyness in you but just look at how many people do agree that this happens.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

bottom line is if you're nice all the time, live in the right area, have a well written profile, are good looking, attend meet and greets/parties and say "the right thing" always you will probably succeed here. I think I have everything covered.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

OP there are a lot of sycophants on here that will say black is white just to get a sniff of fanny and the "ladies" who encourage them are just as bad,on the other hand there are plenty of lads and ladettes who will call out these insufferable bores regularly, they usually get jumped on by they who must not be named, but, in answer to your original question there are guys who don't drool over any old fanny in here.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Just a question is it not possible for a man and women to think the same way or have the same opinions on things without the man being called a white knight or people saying the man is only agreeing with a opinion to get in her pantys"

yes of course it is possible for that to happen, but, a lot of the time it is not the case a lot of times the knicker sniffers just agree to anything the "ladies" on here say in the hope of being thrown a bone.

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"Btw op, its one thing calling people out here on the forum, by throwing up a thread, its a completely different experience when you engage with the forum on a regular basis, its only then peeps get the opportunity to determine your personality, and brain capacity, you should try it

The OPs opinion is no less valid by the frequency that he chooses to post in the Irish forum, nor can any inference be drawn about 'brain capacity', (I will assume you mean intelligence).

There's a remarkable number of lurkers present that do not choose to post for their own reasons.

If you read the op post, you might see where my inference is coming from."

I did read every post in the thread. I had no issue with what he wrote, it was your response that I took issue with. Frequent posters shouldn't get priority when it comes to expressing opinions.

On a side note, I think that you're confusing inferring and implying. Think of it like this, I imply something, then you infer from what I'm implying. Like I throw, you catch.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"bottom line is if you're nice all the time, live in the right area, have a well written profile, are good looking, attend meet and greets/parties and say "the right thing" always you will probably succeed here. I think I have everything covered. "

I wouldn't all together agree with that. It works for some of the guy's with the weaker character's. I don't do any of the above and have had great success here.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers

I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments.

Im confused with that post, your obviously not speaking on the op behalf, what is it your saying, that lickarses are in some way putting others down, where does ridicule come into it, again are you speaking for yourself?

You are well aware of what he is trying to say and you see it here every day.

There is a group here both male and female that constantly try to ridicule other's and have driven many good people off this site.

No, your mistaken, I don't see it, and I'm fairly observant, nor would I sit back and let someone be ridiculed, without giving my tuppance worth.

Yes you do see it. An example of it this week.... a guy posted a badly worded thread looking for a meet (which is what this site is all about) and his thread was hijacked and he was ridiculed until he went UNLOS.

Do you think that's what should have happened???"

Is that the two men in truck thread

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"bottom line is if you're nice all the time, live in the right area, have a well written profile, are good looking, attend meet and greets/parties and say "the right thing" always you will probably succeed here. I think I have everything covered.

I wouldn't all together agree with that. It works for some of the guy's with the weaker character's. I don't do any of the above and have had great success here."

there u go then. women telling people do this do that. what would you say to them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bottom line is if you're nice all the time, live in the right area, have a well written profile, are good looking, attend meet and greets/parties and say "the right thing" always you will probably succeed here. I think I have everything covered. "

Nothing wrong with the above, if it’s genuine.

What’s wrong with being nice? You can even disagree with someone and remain polite and respectful.

It’s also the other way around. Some people are just argumentative for the sake of it, trolling, which isn’t genuine either, as it tends to be forced.

Anyway. I love a good discussion. Would be boring if everyone agreed with me.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers

I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments.

Im confused with that post, your obviously not speaking on the op behalf, what is it your saying, that lickarses are in some way putting others down, where does ridicule come into it, again are you speaking for yourself?

You are well aware of what he is trying to say and you see it here every day.

There is a group here both male and female that constantly try to ridicule other's and have driven many good people off this site.

No, your mistaken, I don't see it, and I'm fairly observant, nor would I sit back and let someone be ridiculed, without giving my tuppance worth.

Yes you do see it. An example of it this week.... a guy posted a badly worded thread looking for a meet (which is what this site is all about) and his thread was hijacked and he was ridiculed until he went UNLOS.

Do you think that's what should have happened???

Is that the two men in truck thread "

Yes

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"bottom line is if you're nice all the time, live in the right area, have a well written profile, are good looking, attend meet and greets/parties and say "the right thing" always you will probably succeed here. I think I have everything covered.

I wouldn't all together agree with that. It works for some of the guy's with the weaker character's. I don't do any of the above and have had great success here.there u go then. women telling people do this do that. what would you say to them?"

I'd say don't listen to them women lol

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By *un4tooCouple
over a year ago

north cork

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By *un4tooCouple
over a year ago

north cork


"Don't believe any guy got a ride for being 'white night' on forums. So no need to keep on trying lads...

I had open fights with some F or MF over stupid crap they were posting on forum etc. My block list is looooooooooooooong.

And I never had issues with arranging interesting and quality meets. I am not bragging, just showing that F and MF prefer a man with personality not just a cock. "

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By *un4tooCouple
over a year ago

north cork


"Strangerthing1...round of applause for the 1st idiot response..seriously i made the thread am verified by meet.. u win the lick arse of the thread award "

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Just curious do most fellas here just go with what women say to b a lickarse or do any fellas actually have a brain r an opinion of their own???"

I have a brain and plenty of opinions of my own. I won't agree with a woman or be a lickarse just to try and woo a woman. I'm me. Not every woman is going to like me. If some do then brill. Always better just being yourself and a woman will respect you so much more for it. They can smell and spot desperation a mile away and it is really not attractive. Lol

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Just a question is it not possible for a man and women to think the same way or have the same opinions on things without the man being called a white knight or people saying the man is only agreeing with a opinion to get in her pantys"

^^^ This. I do think some of the guys on here get a rough time sometimes. Some people can be harsh.

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Aw I thought this was a continuation of the Rimming thread

I'll lick any part of a woman she allows me to "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aw I thought this was a continuation of the Rimming thread

I'll lick any part of a woman she allows me to "

You can all ways start another thread with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Strangerthing1...round of applause for the 1st idiot response..seriously i made the thread am verified by meet.. u win the lick arse of the thread award "

Sorry I’m lost - can you explain who’s arse I was licking with my original comment and observation?

Perhaps it was one of these imaginary damsels in distress we hear so much about

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Aw I thought this was a continuation of the Rimming thread

I'll lick any part of a woman she allows me to

You can all ways start another thread with this "

I would but I consider "another thread" to be the purpose of the tinsel stringed tampon discussion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Btw op, its one thing calling people out here on the forum, by throwing up a thread, its a completely different experience when you engage with the forum on a regular basis, its only then peeps get the opportunity to determine your personality, and brain capacity, you should try it

The OPs opinion is no less valid by the frequency that he chooses to post in the Irish forum, nor can any inference be drawn about 'brain capacity', (I will assume you mean intelligence).

There's a remarkable number of lurkers present that do not choose to post for their own reasons.

If you read the op post, you might see where my inference is coming from.

I did read every post in the thread. I had no issue with what he wrote, it was your response that I took issue with. Frequent posters shouldn't get priority when it comes to expressing opinions.

On a side note, I think that you're confusing inferring and implying. Think of it like this, I imply something, then you infer from what I'm implying. Like I throw, you catch. "

I can appreciate you pick your issues, maybe your coming up with a different conclusion, than what was meant, but maybe youd like to school me on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers

I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments.

Im confused with that post, your obviously not speaking on the op behalf, what is it your saying, that lickarses are in some way putting others down, where does ridicule come into it, again are you speaking for yourself?

You are well aware of what he is trying to say and you see it here every day.

There is a group here both male and female that constantly try to ridicule other's and have driven many good people off this site.

No, your mistaken, I don't see it, and I'm fairly observant, nor would I sit back and let someone be ridiculed, without giving my tuppance worth.

Yes you do see it. An example of it this week.... a guy posted a badly worded thread looking for a meet (which is what this site is all about) and his thread was hijacked and he was ridiculed until he went UNLOS.

Do you think that's what should have happened???"

The guy went unlos after two replies, mine being one of them, he was gone before the next 50 arrived.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers

I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments.

Im confused with that post, your obviously not speaking on the op behalf, what is it your saying, that lickarses are in some way putting others down, where does ridicule come into it, again are you speaking for yourself?

You are well aware of what he is trying to say and you see it here every day.

There is a group here both male and female that constantly try to ridicule other's and have driven many good people off this site.

No, your mistaken, I don't see it, and I'm fairly observant, nor would I sit back and let someone be ridiculed, without giving my tuppance worth.

Yes you do see it. An example of it this week.... a guy posted a badly worded thread looking for a meet (which is what this site is all about) and his thread was hijacked and he was ridiculed until he went UNLOS.

Do you think that's what should have happened???

The guy went unlos after two replies, mine being one of them, he was gone before the next 50 arrived."

I don't know when he went UNLOS, but I see a thread full of nonsense responses and ridicule. Nobody that posted had any interest in the thread only to ridicule the guy. This is OK on a nonsense thread, but it was a guy trying to arrange a meet and anybody that had no interest in meeting shouldn't have posted. This guy was driven off the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious do most fellas here just go with what women say to b a lickarse or do any fellas actually have a brain r an opinion of their own???"

I wouldn't worry about it. These saps don't get any action anyway, except perhaps some stupid coffee meet after which he will inevitable verify her as being 'stunning' even though she may just as easily resemble a beached whale. Sex will not follow and he will be back to fawn over her on a forum thread where his chances of getting his dick wet will decrease ever more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers

I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments.

Im confused with that post, your obviously not speaking on the op behalf, what is it your saying, that lickarses are in some way putting others down, where does ridicule come into it, again are you speaking for yourself?

You are well aware of what he is trying to say and you see it here every day.

There is a group here both male and female that constantly try to ridicule other's and have driven many good people off this site.

No, your mistaken, I don't see it, and I'm fairly observant, nor would I sit back and let someone be ridiculed, without giving my tuppance worth.

Yes you do see it. An example of it this week.... a guy posted a badly worded thread looking for a meet (which is what this site is all about) and his thread was hijacked and he was ridiculed until he went UNLOS.

Do you think that's what should have happened???

The guy went unlos after two replies, mine being one of them, he was gone before the next 50 arrived.

I don't know when he went UNLOS, but I see a thread full of nonsense responses and ridicule. Nobody that posted had any interest in the thread only to ridicule the guy. This is OK on a nonsense thread, but it was a guy trying to arrange a meet and anybody that had no interest in meeting shouldn't have posted. This guy was driven off the site."

I would normally agree with you on the insufferable nonsense, but that was a particular stupid fucking thread that deserved hammering

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Just curious do most fellas here just go with what women say to b a lickarse or do any fellas actually have a brain r an opinion of their own???

I wouldn't worry about it. These saps don't get any action anyway, except perhaps some stupid coffee meet after which he will inevitable verify her as being 'stunning' even though she may just as easily resemble a beached whale. Sex will not follow and he will be back to fawn over her on a forum thread where his chances of getting his dick wet will decrease ever more.

"

oh banannaman did you really just speak your mind?

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers

I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments.

Im confused with that post, your obviously not speaking on the op behalf, what is it your saying, that lickarses are in some way putting others down, where does ridicule come into it, again are you speaking for yourself?

You are well aware of what he is trying to say and you see it here every day.

There is a group here both male and female that constantly try to ridicule other's and have driven many good people off this site.

No, your mistaken, I don't see it, and I'm fairly observant, nor would I sit back and let someone be ridiculed, without giving my tuppance worth.

Yes you do see it. An example of it this week.... a guy posted a badly worded thread looking for a meet (which is what this site is all about) and his thread was hijacked and he was ridiculed until he went UNLOS.

Do you think that's what should have happened???

The guy went unlos after two replies, mine being one of them, he was gone before the next 50 arrived.

I don't know when he went UNLOS, but I see a thread full of nonsense responses and ridicule. Nobody that posted had any interest in the thread only to ridicule the guy. This is OK on a nonsense thread, but it was a guy trying to arrange a meet and anybody that had no interest in meeting shouldn't have posted. This guy was driven off the site.

I would normally agree with you on the insufferable nonsense, but that was a particular stupid fucking thread that deserved hammering"

I'm just using it as a recent example of the typical behaviour of some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious do most fellas here just go with what women say to b a lickarse or do any fellas actually have a brain r an opinion of their own???

I wouldn't worry about it. These saps don't get any action anyway, except perhaps some stupid coffee meet after which he will inevitable verify her as being 'stunning' even though she may just as easily resemble a beached whale. Sex will not follow and he will be back to fawn over her on a forum thread where his chances of getting his dick wet will decrease ever more.

oh banannaman did you really just speak your mind? "

Are you actually suggesting that I don't normally speak my mind?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers

I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments.

Im confused with that post, your obviously not speaking on the op behalf, what is it your saying, that lickarses are in some way putting others down, where does ridicule come into it, again are you speaking for yourself?

You are well aware of what he is trying to say and you see it here every day.

There is a group here both male and female that constantly try to ridicule other's and have driven many good people off this site.

No, your mistaken, I don't see it, and I'm fairly observant, nor would I sit back and let someone be ridiculed, without giving my tuppance worth.

Yes you do see it. An example of it this week.... a guy posted a badly worded thread looking for a meet (which is what this site is all about) and his thread was hijacked and he was ridiculed until he went UNLOS.

Do you think that's what should have happened???

The guy went unlos after two replies, mine being one of them, he was gone before the next 50 arrived.

I don't know when he went UNLOS, but I see a thread full of nonsense responses and ridicule. Nobody that posted had any interest in the thread only to ridicule the guy. This is OK on a nonsense thread, but it was a guy trying to arrange a meet and anybody that had no interest in meeting shouldn't have posted. This guy was driven off the site."

The guy scarpered after the two replies, I assume people took it upon themselves to make nonsense out of two guys looking to meet a woman on a layby in their truck, half the thread turned into a teenage flirting session, and was called out, for behaving like 10 year olds, just another example of no discrimination here with some folk, whether they be male or female..

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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago

nr Letterkenny


"They're just pure dickheads. The women love them but like I said they're the teachers pet kinda person. The teacher loves them and the rest think they're dickheads haha. It's even hard to explain because most of the men I'm talking about aren't openly rude or offensive or even mean but they sure as hell do make me say "what a dickhead" when I read their comments haha."

spot on.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers

I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments.

Im confused with that post, your obviously not speaking on the op behalf, what is it your saying, that lickarses are in some way putting others down, where does ridicule come into it, again are you speaking for yourself?

You are well aware of what he is trying to say and you see it here every day.

There is a group here both male and female that constantly try to ridicule other's and have driven many good people off this site.

No, your mistaken, I don't see it, and I'm fairly observant, nor would I sit back and let someone be ridiculed, without giving my tuppance worth.

Yes you do see it. An example of it this week.... a guy posted a badly worded thread looking for a meet (which is what this site is all about) and his thread was hijacked and he was ridiculed until he went UNLOS.

Do you think that's what should have happened???

The guy went unlos after two replies, mine being one of them, he was gone before the next 50 arrived.

I don't know when he went UNLOS, but I see a thread full of nonsense responses and ridicule. Nobody that posted had any interest in the thread only to ridicule the guy. This is OK on a nonsense thread, but it was a guy trying to arrange a meet and anybody that had no interest in meeting shouldn't have posted. This guy was driven off the site.

The guy scarpered after the two replies, I assume people took it upon themselves to make nonsense out of two guys looking to meet a woman on a layby in their truck, half the thread turned into a teenage flirting session, and was called out, for behaving like 10 year olds, just another example of no discrimination here with some folk, whether they be male or female.."

It's not about the content. It's about how people are treated.

Had you any interest in this meet??

If your answer is no then why did you post on a meet thread you had no interest in????

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Just curious do most fellas here just go with what women say to b a lickarse or do any fellas actually have a brain r an opinion of their own???

I wouldn't worry about it. These saps don't get any action anyway, except perhaps some stupid coffee meet after which he will inevitable verify her as being 'stunning' even though she may just as easily resemble a beached whale. Sex will not follow and he will be back to fawn over her on a forum thread where his chances of getting his dick wet will decrease ever more.

oh banannaman did you really just speak your mind?

Are you actually suggesting that I don't normally speak my mind?"

I'm suggesting that it's good seen more speak their mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers

I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments.

Im confused with that post, your obviously not speaking on the op behalf, what is it your saying, that lickarses are in some way putting others down, where does ridicule come into it, again are you speaking for yourself?

You are well aware of what he is trying to say and you see it here every day.

There is a group here both male and female that constantly try to ridicule other's and have driven many good people off this site.

No, your mistaken, I don't see it, and I'm fairly observant, nor would I sit back and let someone be ridiculed, without giving my tuppance worth.

Yes you do see it. An example of it this week.... a guy posted a badly worded thread looking for a meet (which is what this site is all about) and his thread was hijacked and he was ridiculed until he went UNLOS.

Do you think that's what should have happened???

The guy went unlos after two replies, mine being one of them, he was gone before the next 50 arrived.

I don't know when he went UNLOS, but I see a thread full of nonsense responses and ridicule. Nobody that posted had any interest in the thread only to ridicule the guy. This is OK on a nonsense thread, but it was a guy trying to arrange a meet and anybody that had no interest in meeting shouldn't have posted. This guy was driven off the site.

The guy scarpered after the two replies, I assume people took it upon themselves to make nonsense out of two guys looking to meet a woman on a layby in their truck, half the thread turned into a teenage flirting session, and was called out, for behaving like 10 year olds, just another example of no discrimination here with some folk, whether they be male or female..

It's not about the content. It's about how people are treated.

Had you any interest in this meet??

If your answer is no then why did you post on a meet thread you had no interest in????"

I have a bullshit tolerance level, like a lot here, and has already been said, it was worthy of being hammered.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers

I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments.

Im confused with that post, your obviously not speaking on the op behalf, what is it your saying, that lickarses are in some way putting others down, where does ridicule come into it, again are you speaking for yourself?

You are well aware of what he is trying to say and you see it here every day.

There is a group here both male and female that constantly try to ridicule other's and have driven many good people off this site.

No, your mistaken, I don't see it, and I'm fairly observant, nor would I sit back and let someone be ridiculed, without giving my tuppance worth.

Yes you do see it. An example of it this week.... a guy posted a badly worded thread looking for a meet (which is what this site is all about) and his thread was hijacked and he was ridiculed until he went UNLOS.

Do you think that's what should have happened???

The guy went unlos after two replies, mine being one of them, he was gone before the next 50 arrived.

I don't know when he went UNLOS, but I see a thread full of nonsense responses and ridicule. Nobody that posted had any interest in the thread only to ridicule the guy. This is OK on a nonsense thread, but it was a guy trying to arrange a meet and anybody that had no interest in meeting shouldn't have posted. This guy was driven off the site.

The guy scarpered after the two replies, I assume people took it upon themselves to make nonsense out of two guys looking to meet a woman on a layby in their truck, half the thread turned into a teenage flirting session, and was called out, for behaving like 10 year olds, just another example of no discrimination here with some folk, whether they be male or female..

It's not about the content. It's about how people are treated.

Had you any interest in this meet??

If your answer is no then why did you post on a meet thread you had no interest in????

I have a bullshit tolerance level, like a lot here, and has already been said, it was worthy of being hammered."

Your not answering my questions??

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I presume that one of the first responders told him to post in the Meets section, like he should have?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers

I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments.

Im confused with that post, your obviously not speaking on the op behalf, what is it your saying, that lickarses are in some way putting others down, where does ridicule come into it, again are you speaking for yourself?

You are well aware of what he is trying to say and you see it here every day.

There is a group here both male and female that constantly try to ridicule other's and have driven many good people off this site.

No, your mistaken, I don't see it, and I'm fairly observant, nor would I sit back and let someone be ridiculed, without giving my tuppance worth.

Yes you do see it. An example of it this week.... a guy posted a badly worded thread looking for a meet (which is what this site is all about) and his thread was hijacked and he was ridiculed until he went UNLOS.

Do you think that's what should have happened???

The guy went unlos after two replies, mine being one of them, he was gone before the next 50 arrived.

I don't know when he went UNLOS, but I see a thread full of nonsense responses and ridicule. Nobody that posted had any interest in the thread only to ridicule the guy. This is OK on a nonsense thread, but it was a guy trying to arrange a meet and anybody that had no interest in meeting shouldn't have posted. This guy was driven off the site.

The guy scarpered after the two replies, I assume people took it upon themselves to make nonsense out of two guys looking to meet a woman on a layby in their truck, half the thread turned into a teenage flirting session, and was called out, for behaving like 10 year olds, just another example of no discrimination here with some folk, whether they be male or female..

It's not about the content. It's about how people are treated.

Had you any interest in this meet??

If your answer is no then why did you post on a meet thread you had no interest in????

I have a bullshit tolerance level, like a lot here, and has already been said, it was worthy of being hammered.

Your not answering my questions??

"

I wanted to highlight in a humorous way, how much of a gobshite I thought he was, I think he agreed.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers

I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments.

Im confused with that post, your obviously not speaking on the op behalf, what is it your saying, that lickarses are in some way putting others down, where does ridicule come into it, again are you speaking for yourself?

You are well aware of what he is trying to say and you see it here every day.

There is a group here both male and female that constantly try to ridicule other's and have driven many good people off this site.

No, your mistaken, I don't see it, and I'm fairly observant, nor would I sit back and let someone be ridiculed, without giving my tuppance worth.

Yes you do see it. An example of it this week.... a guy posted a badly worded thread looking for a meet (which is what this site is all about) and his thread was hijacked and he was ridiculed until he went UNLOS.

Do you think that's what should have happened???

The guy went unlos after two replies, mine being one of them, he was gone before the next 50 arrived.

I don't know when he went UNLOS, but I see a thread full of nonsense responses and ridicule. Nobody that posted had any interest in the thread only to ridicule the guy. This is OK on a nonsense thread, but it was a guy trying to arrange a meet and anybody that had no interest in meeting shouldn't have posted. This guy was driven off the site.

The guy scarpered after the two replies, I assume people took it upon themselves to make nonsense out of two guys looking to meet a woman on a layby in their truck, half the thread turned into a teenage flirting session, and was called out, for behaving like 10 year olds, just another example of no discrimination here with some folk, whether they be male or female..

It's not about the content. It's about how people are treated.

Had you any interest in this meet??

If your answer is no then why did you post on a meet thread you had no interest in????

I have a bullshit tolerance level, like a lot here, and has already been said, it was worthy of being hammered.

Your not answering my questions??

I wanted to highlight in a humorous way, how much of a gobshite I thought he was, I think he agreed."

Disregard that nonsense.

Had you any interest in the meet??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers

I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments.

Im confused with that post, your obviously not speaking on the op behalf, what is it your saying, that lickarses are in some way putting others down, where does ridicule come into it, again are you speaking for yourself?

You are well aware of what he is trying to say and you see it here every day.

There is a group here both male and female that constantly try to ridicule other's and have driven many good people off this site.

No, your mistaken, I don't see it, and I'm fairly observant, nor would I sit back and let someone be ridiculed, without giving my tuppance worth.

Yes you do see it. An example of it this week.... a guy posted a badly worded thread looking for a meet (which is what this site is all about) and his thread was hijacked and he was ridiculed until he went UNLOS.

Do you think that's what should have happened???

The guy went unlos after two replies, mine being one of them, he was gone before the next 50 arrived.

I don't know when he went UNLOS, but I see a thread full of nonsense responses and ridicule. Nobody that posted had any interest in the thread only to ridicule the guy. This is OK on a nonsense thread, but it was a guy trying to arrange a meet and anybody that had no interest in meeting shouldn't have posted. This guy was driven off the site.

The guy scarpered after the two replies, I assume people took it upon themselves to make nonsense out of two guys looking to meet a woman on a layby in their truck, half the thread turned into a teenage flirting session, and was called out, for behaving like 10 year olds, just another example of no discrimination here with some folk, whether they be male or female..

It's not about the content. It's about how people are treated.

Had you any interest in this meet??

If your answer is no then why did you post on a meet thread you had no interest in????

I have a bullshit tolerance level, like a lot here, and has already been said, it was worthy of being hammered.

Your not answering my questions??

I wanted to highlight in a humorous way, how much of a gobshite I thought he was, I think he agreed.

Disregard that nonsense.

Had you any interest in the meet??"

Other than making fun of it, no.

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers

I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments.

Im confused with that post, your obviously not speaking on the op behalf, what is it your saying, that lickarses are in some way putting others down, where does ridicule come into it, again are you speaking for yourself?

You are well aware of what he is trying to say and you see it here every day.

There is a group here both male and female that constantly try to ridicule other's and have driven many good people off this site.

No, your mistaken, I don't see it, and I'm fairly observant, nor would I sit back and let someone be ridiculed, without giving my tuppance worth.

Yes you do see it. An example of it this week.... a guy posted a badly worded thread looking for a meet (which is what this site is all about) and his thread was hijacked and he was ridiculed until he went UNLOS.

Do you think that's what should have happened???

The guy went unlos after two replies, mine being one of them, he was gone before the next 50 arrived.

I don't know when he went UNLOS, but I see a thread full of nonsense responses and ridicule. Nobody that posted had any interest in the thread only to ridicule the guy. This is OK on a nonsense thread, but it was a guy trying to arrange a meet and anybody that had no interest in meeting shouldn't have posted. This guy was driven off the site.

The guy scarpered after the two replies, I assume people took it upon themselves to make nonsense out of two guys looking to meet a woman on a layby in their truck, half the thread turned into a teenage flirting session, and was called out, for behaving like 10 year olds, just another example of no discrimination here with some folk, whether they be male or female..

It's not about the content. It's about how people are treated.

Had you any interest in this meet??

If your answer is no then why did you post on a meet thread you had no interest in????

I have a bullshit tolerance level, like a lot here, and has already been said, it was worthy of being hammered.

Your not answering my questions??

I wanted to highlight in a humorous way, how much of a gobshite I thought he was, I think he agreed."

So this post confirms you set out to ridicule him and you taught he was a "gobshite". Well played

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers

I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments.

Im confused with that post, your obviously not speaking on the op behalf, what is it your saying, that lickarses are in some way putting others down, where does ridicule come into it, again are you speaking for yourself?

You are well aware of what he is trying to say and you see it here every day.

There is a group here both male and female that constantly try to ridicule other's and have driven many good people off this site.

No, your mistaken, I don't see it, and I'm fairly observant, nor would I sit back and let someone be ridiculed, without giving my tuppance worth.

Yes you do see it. An example of it this week.... a guy posted a badly worded thread looking for a meet (which is what this site is all about) and his thread was hijacked and he was ridiculed until he went UNLOS.

Do you think that's what should have happened???

The guy went unlos after two replies, mine being one of them, he was gone before the next 50 arrived.

I don't know when he went UNLOS, but I see a thread full of nonsense responses and ridicule. Nobody that posted had any interest in the thread only to ridicule the guy. This is OK on a nonsense thread, but it was a guy trying to arrange a meet and anybody that had no interest in meeting shouldn't have posted. This guy was driven off the site.

The guy scarpered after the two replies, I assume people took it upon themselves to make nonsense out of two guys looking to meet a woman on a layby in their truck, half the thread turned into a teenage flirting session, and was called out, for behaving like 10 year olds, just another example of no discrimination here with some folk, whether they be male or female..

It's not about the content. It's about how people are treated.

Had you any interest in this meet??

If your answer is no then why did you post on a meet thread you had no interest in????

I have a bullshit tolerance level, like a lot here, and has already been said, it was worthy of being hammered.

Your not answering my questions??

I wanted to highlight in a humorous way, how much of a gobshite I thought he was, I think he agreed.

Disregard that nonsense.

Had you any interest in the meet??

Other than making fun of it, no."

So your here to hijack meet threads which is the main objective of everybody on this site and to drive them away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers

I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments.

Im confused with that post, your obviously not speaking on the op behalf, what is it your saying, that lickarses are in some way putting others down, where does ridicule come into it, again are you speaking for yourself?

You are well aware of what he is trying to say and you see it here every day.

There is a group here both male and female that constantly try to ridicule other's and have driven many good people off this site.

No, your mistaken, I don't see it, and I'm fairly observant, nor would I sit back and let someone be ridiculed, without giving my tuppance worth.

Yes you do see it. An example of it this week.... a guy posted a badly worded thread looking for a meet (which is what this site is all about) and his thread was hijacked and he was ridiculed until he went UNLOS.

Do you think that's what should have happened???

The guy went unlos after two replies, mine being one of them, he was gone before the next 50 arrived.

I don't know when he went UNLOS, but I see a thread full of nonsense responses and ridicule. Nobody that posted had any interest in the thread only to ridicule the guy. This is OK on a nonsense thread, but it was a guy trying to arrange a meet and anybody that had no interest in meeting shouldn't have posted. This guy was driven off the site.

The guy scarpered after the two replies, I assume people took it upon themselves to make nonsense out of two guys looking to meet a woman on a layby in their truck, half the thread turned into a teenage flirting session, and was called out, for behaving like 10 year olds, just another example of no discrimination here with some folk, whether they be male or female..

It's not about the content. It's about how people are treated.

Had you any interest in this meet??

If your answer is no then why did you post on a meet thread you had no interest in????

I have a bullshit tolerance level, like a lot here, and has already been said, it was worthy of being hammered.

Your not answering my questions??

I wanted to highlight in a humorous way, how much of a gobshite I thought he was, I think he agreed.

So this post confirms you set out to ridicule him and you taught he was a "gobshite". Well played "

The OP in that thread left after a few

posts, the thread then descended into BANTER. Nothing more. Are people that sensitive these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers

I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments.

Im confused with that post, your obviously not speaking on the op behalf, what is it your saying, that lickarses are in some way putting others down, where does ridicule come into it, again are you speaking for yourself?

You are well aware of what he is trying to say and you see it here every day.

There is a group here both male and female that constantly try to ridicule other's and have driven many good people off this site.

No, your mistaken, I don't see it, and I'm fairly observant, nor would I sit back and let someone be ridiculed, without giving my tuppance worth.

Yes you do see it. An example of it this week.... a guy posted a badly worded thread looking for a meet (which is what this site is all about) and his thread was hijacked and he was ridiculed until he went UNLOS.

Do you think that's what should have happened???

The guy went unlos after two replies, mine being one of them, he was gone before the next 50 arrived.

I don't know when he went UNLOS, but I see a thread full of nonsense responses and ridicule. Nobody that posted had any interest in the thread only to ridicule the guy. This is OK on a nonsense thread, but it was a guy trying to arrange a meet and anybody that had no interest in meeting shouldn't have posted. This guy was driven off the site.

The guy scarpered after the two replies, I assume people took it upon themselves to make nonsense out of two guys looking to meet a woman on a layby in their truck, half the thread turned into a teenage flirting session, and was called out, for behaving like 10 year olds, just another example of no discrimination here with some folk, whether they be male or female..

It's not about the content. It's about how people are treated.

Had you any interest in this meet??

If your answer is no then why did you post on a meet thread you had no interest in????

I have a bullshit tolerance level, like a lot here, and has already been said, it was worthy of being hammered.

Your not answering my questions??

I wanted to highlight in a humorous way, how much of a gobshite I thought he was, I think he agreed.

So this post confirms you set out to ridicule him and you taught he was a "gobshite". Well played "

I set out to expose what I felt was a very dodgy request by two guys.

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By *jb_1980Man
over a year ago

limerick

If you speak out here or express an opinion you get grief or blocked...

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers

I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments.

Im confused with that post, your obviously not speaking on the op behalf, what is it your saying, that lickarses are in some way putting others down, where does ridicule come into it, again are you speaking for yourself?

You are well aware of what he is trying to say and you see it here every day.

There is a group here both male and female that constantly try to ridicule other's and have driven many good people off this site.

No, your mistaken, I don't see it, and I'm fairly observant, nor would I sit back and let someone be ridiculed, without giving my tuppance worth.

Yes you do see it. An example of it this week.... a guy posted a badly worded thread looking for a meet (which is what this site is all about) and his thread was hijacked and he was ridiculed until he went UNLOS.

Do you think that's what should have happened???

The guy went unlos after two replies, mine being one of them, he was gone before the next 50 arrived.

I don't know when he went UNLOS, but I see a thread full of nonsense responses and ridicule. Nobody that posted had any interest in the thread only to ridicule the guy. This is OK on a nonsense thread, but it was a guy trying to arrange a meet and anybody that had no interest in meeting shouldn't have posted. This guy was driven off the site.

The guy scarpered after the two replies, I assume people took it upon themselves to make nonsense out of two guys looking to meet a woman on a layby in their truck, half the thread turned into a teenage flirting session, and was called out, for behaving like 10 year olds, just another example of no discrimination here with some folk, whether they be male or female..

It's not about the content. It's about how people are treated.

Had you any interest in this meet??

If your answer is no then why did you post on a meet thread you had no interest in????

I have a bullshit tolerance level, like a lot here, and has already been said, it was worthy of being hammered.

Your not answering my questions??

I wanted to highlight in a humorous way, how much of a gobshite I thought he was, I think he agreed.

So this post confirms you set out to ridicule him and you taught he was a "gobshite". Well played

The OP in that thread left after a few

posts, the thread then descended into BANTER. Nothing more. Are people that sensitive these days. "

It's a general thing. Not just that thread alone. When I used it as an example I wasn't aware this guy had posted on it.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers

I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments.

Im confused with that post, your obviously not speaking on the op behalf, what is it your saying, that lickarses are in some way putting others down, where does ridicule come into it, again are you speaking for yourself?

You are well aware of what he is trying to say and you see it here every day.

There is a group here both male and female that constantly try to ridicule other's and have driven many good people off this site.

No, your mistaken, I don't see it, and I'm fairly observant, nor would I sit back and let someone be ridiculed, without giving my tuppance worth.

Yes you do see it. An example of it this week.... a guy posted a badly worded thread looking for a meet (which is what this site is all about) and his thread was hijacked and he was ridiculed until he went UNLOS.

Do you think that's what should have happened???

The guy went unlos after two replies, mine being one of them, he was gone before the next 50 arrived.

I don't know when he went UNLOS, but I see a thread full of nonsense responses and ridicule. Nobody that posted had any interest in the thread only to ridicule the guy. This is OK on a nonsense thread, but it was a guy trying to arrange a meet and anybody that had no interest in meeting shouldn't have posted. This guy was driven off the site.

The guy scarpered after the two replies, I assume people took it upon themselves to make nonsense out of two guys looking to meet a woman on a layby in their truck, half the thread turned into a teenage flirting session, and was called out, for behaving like 10 year olds, just another example of no discrimination here with some folk, whether they be male or female..

It's not about the content. It's about how people are treated.

Had you any interest in this meet??

If your answer is no then why did you post on a meet thread you had no interest in????

I have a bullshit tolerance level, like a lot here, and has already been said, it was worthy of being hammered.

Your not answering my questions??

I wanted to highlight in a humorous way, how much of a gobshite I thought he was, I think he agreed.

So this post confirms you set out to ridicule him and you taught he was a "gobshite". Well played

The OP in that thread left after a few

posts, the thread then descended into BANTER. Nothing more. Are people that sensitive these days. "

I think some are, yes. Although by even responding to your post, I may be called out as an example of the OP's issue.

It's the internet. Everybody has an opinion. Some match with others, be they make/female, doesn't matter. It's a discussion, regardless. Some will take offense and vocalise it, others will agree and vocalise it.

At the end of the day, everyone is entitled to their viewpoint and expressing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It seems people can't or shouldn't have opinions these days because someone somewhere will always be offended so I would just like to state that I agree with everybody on this thread whether their views contradict each other or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It's the internet. Everybody has an opinion. Some match with others, be they make/female, doesn't matter. It's a discussion, regardless. Some will take offense and vocalise it, others will agree and vocalise it.

At the end of the day, everyone is entitled to their viewpoint and expressing it."

Yup, This thread is a good example of the wide variety differing opinions, I'm just surprised the arse licking thread is more popular than the pussy eating one. Maybe the OP was right all along

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"

It's the internet. Everybody has an opinion. Some match with others, be they make/female, doesn't matter. It's a discussion, regardless. Some will take offense and vocalise it, others will agree and vocalise it.

At the end of the day, everyone is entitled to their viewpoint and expressing it.

Yup, This thread is a good example of the wide variety differing opinions, I'm just surprised the arse licking thread is more popular than the pussy eating one. Maybe the OP was right all along "

As I mentioned above, I'm happy to lick any part of a lady in allowed to that's digression from the thread and clearly frowned upon, so I apologise for that.

Which is probably me being a Lickarse too, for good measure!

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"

It's the internet. Everybody has an opinion. Some match with others, be they make/female, doesn't matter. It's a discussion, regardless. Some will take offense and vocalise it, others will agree and vocalise it.

At the end of the day, everyone is entitled to their viewpoint and expressing it.

Yup, This thread is a good example of the wide variety differing opinions, I'm just surprised the arse licking thread is more popular than the pussy eating one. Maybe the OP was right all along

As I mentioned above, I'm happy to lick any part of a lady in allowed to that's digression from the thread and clearly frowned upon, so I apologise for that.

Which is probably me being a Lickarse too, for good measure! "

Having said that, which one did you feel more compelled to comment on GiveUp?

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Sorry guys, feel free to continue your debate. Apologies for what I'm sure you view as a sidetrack/hijack

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Just curious do most fellas here just go with what women say to b a lickarse or do any fellas actually have a brain r an opinion of their own???"

I think it boils down to the fact that when most lads join up here they think that they have to behave/reply a certain way to get some pussy,but,then they realise that the majority of peeps on here wouldn't warrant a second glance on the street never mind fawning over so why bother pretending otherwise.

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By *ightfury1Man
over a year ago

Co Armagh

I’d say if the fella is desperate for a meet and veri then more than likely yeah they will be a arse lick when really they should be doing the opposite

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I don't know why 'non dickheads' bother so much about the 'slimeheads' and why we've to label and categorise each and everyone. The latter won't get any more meets through their behaviour

and I'd say it's on par between groups bashing each other on the forum.

Both behaviour is off putting IMO.

Oh and I nearly forgot, interestingly there's only one category of women on here: we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and I nearly forgot, interestingly there's only one category of women on here: we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... "

If you didn't have tits we would throw rocks at you all

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I don't know why 'non dickheads' bother so much about the 'slimeheads' and why we've to label and categorise each and everyone. The latter won't get any more meets through their behaviour

and I'd say it's on par between groups bashing each other on the forum.

Both behaviour is off putting IMO.

Oh and I nearly forgot, interestingly there's only one category of women on here: we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... "

the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Oh and I nearly forgot, interestingly there's only one category of women on here: we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here....

If you didn't have tits we would throw rocks at you all "

It's not the tits, it's the black hole and the immense gravitational waves originating from it and sucking you in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know why 'non dickheads' bother so much about the 'slimeheads' and why we've to label and categorise each and everyone. The latter won't get any more meets through their behaviour

and I'd say it's on par between groups bashing each other on the forum.

Both behaviour is off putting IMO.

Oh and I nearly forgot, interestingly there's only one category of women on here: we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling. "

Tut.. Tut.. Tut

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I don't know why 'non dickheads' bother so much about the 'slimeheads' and why we've to label and categorise each and everyone. The latter won't get any more meets through their behaviour

and I'd say it's on par between groups bashing each other on the forum.

Both behaviour is off putting IMO.

Oh and I nearly forgot, interestingly there's only one category of women on here: we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling. "

We'd be utterly stupid not making the most of the choice.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I don't know why 'non dickheads' bother so much about the 'slimeheads' and why we've to label and categorise each and everyone. The latter won't get any more meets through their behaviour

and I'd say it's on par between groups bashing each other on the forum.

Both behaviour is off putting IMO.

Oh and I nearly forgot, interestingly there's only one category of women on here: we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

We'd be utterly stupid not making the most of the choice. "

and the attention from lads who just want to get their willies wet in anything.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I don't know why 'non dickheads' bother so much about the 'slimeheads' and why we've to label and categorise each and everyone. The latter won't get any more meets through their behaviour

and I'd say it's on par between groups bashing each other on the forum.

Both behaviour is off putting IMO.

Oh and I nearly forgot, interestingly there's only one category of women on here: we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

Tut.. Tut.. Tut "

kasandra. how are you today?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I don't know why 'non dickheads' bother so much about the 'slimeheads' and why we've to label and categorise each and everyone. The latter won't get any more meets through their behaviour

and I'd say it's on par between groups bashing each other on the forum.

Both behaviour is off putting IMO.

Oh and I nearly forgot, interestingly there's only one category of women on here: we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

Tut.. Tut.. Tut kasandra. how are you today?"

Are you licking arse, dbswyw?

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I don't know why 'non dickheads' bother so much about the 'slimeheads' and why we've to label and categorise each and everyone. The latter won't get any more meets through their behaviour

and I'd say it's on par between groups bashing each other on the forum.

Both behaviour is off putting IMO.

Oh and I nearly forgot, interestingly there's only one category of women on here: we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

Tut.. Tut.. Tut kasandra. how are you today?

Are you licking arse, dbswyw? "

not at all just asking the llady how she is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know why 'non dickheads' bother so much about the 'slimeheads' and why we've to label and categorise each and everyone. The latter won't get any more meets through their behaviour

and I'd say it's on par between groups bashing each other on the forum.

Both behaviour is off putting IMO.

Oh and I nearly forgot, interestingly there's only one category of women on here: we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling. "

The choice?!

The odds may be good, but the goods are most often odd

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling. "

I wouldn't go as far as to say all, certainly some women will do better on FAB than outside. There are different reasons for this, the ratio of men and women, some men being willing to fuck anything..... This phrase all seem to be 'utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding' is a strawman argument. I've said it before, every dance on fab is a ladies choice. If a woman cannot get what she wants here, the she really needs to re-examine her expectations

Speaking a biker now there's plenty of Honda 50's here that think they're KTMs. Honda 50's are great fun to ride, but most bikers would be embarrassed to be seen on them.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I don't know why 'non dickheads' bother so much about the 'slimeheads' and why we've to label and categorise each and everyone. The latter won't get any more meets through their behaviour

and I'd say it's on par between groups bashing each other on the forum.

Both behaviour is off putting IMO.

Oh and I nearly forgot, interestingly there's only one category of women on here: we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

The choice?!

The odds may be good, but the goods are most often odd"

stop geordie with the choice ye have and how easy men are to get, you couldn't complain

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

I wouldn't go as far as to say all, certainly some women will do better on FAB than outside. There are different reasons for this, the ratio of men and women, some men being willing to fuck anything..... This phrase all seem to be 'utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding' is a strawman argument. I've said it before, every dance on fab is a ladies choice. If a woman cannot get what she wants here, the she really needs to re-examine her expectations

Speaking a biker now there's plenty of Honda 50's here that think they're KTMs. Honda 50's are great fun to ride, but most bikers would be embarrassed to be seen on them.

"

"If a woman cannot get what she wants here, then she really needs to re-examine her expectations"

that's it exactly

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth


"I dont comment much on a post but read a good few and i always c a woman may say something and all lads just jump to agree.. and if someone asks a question they get ridiculed for it to impress a chick i just dont get it"

Totally they agree with the woman 100% in the hope of getting their legs over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

I wouldn't go as far as to say all, certainly some women will do better on FAB than outside. There are different reasons for this, the ratio of men and women, some men being willing to fuck anything..... This phrase all seem to be 'utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding' is a strawman argument. I've said it before, every dance on fab is a ladies choice. If a woman cannot get what she wants here, the she really needs to re-examine her expectations

Speaking a biker now there's plenty of Honda 50's here that think they're KTMs. Honda 50's are great fun to ride, but most bikers would be embarrassed to be seen on them.

"If a woman cannot get what she wants here, then she really needs to re-examine her expectations"

that's it exactly "

And if a fella cant get what he wants he should do the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

I wouldn't go as far as to say all, certainly some women will do better on FAB than outside. There are different reasons for this, the ratio of men and women, some men being willing to fuck anything..... This phrase all seem to be 'utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding' is a strawman argument. I've said it before, every dance on fab is a ladies choice. If a woman cannot get what she wants here, the she really needs to re-examine her expectations

Speaking a biker now there's plenty of Honda 50's here that think they're KTMs. Honda 50's are great fun to ride, but most bikers would be embarrassed to be seen on them.

"If a woman cannot get what she wants here, then she really needs to re-examine her expectations"

that's it exactly

And if a fella cant get what he wants he should do the same "

Exactly

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

I wouldn't go as far as to say all, certainly some women will do better on FAB than outside. There are different reasons for this, the ratio of men and women, some men being willing to fuck anything..... This phrase all seem to be 'utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding' is a strawman argument. I've said it before, every dance on fab is a ladies choice. If a woman cannot get what she wants here, the she really needs to re-examine her expectations

Speaking a biker now there's plenty of Honda 50's here that think they're KTMs. Honda 50's are great fun to ride, but most bikers would be embarrassed to be seen on them.

"If a woman cannot get what she wants here, then she really needs to re-examine her expectations"

that's it exactly

And if a fella cant get what he wants he should do the same "

That is simply untrue for several reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

I wouldn't go as far as to say all, certainly some women will do better on FAB than outside. There are different reasons for this, the ratio of men and women, some men being willing to fuck anything..... This phrase all seem to be 'utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding' is a strawman argument. I've said it before, every dance on fab is a ladies choice. If a woman cannot get what she wants here, the she really needs to re-examine her expectations

Speaking a biker now there's plenty of Honda 50's here that think they're KTMs. Honda 50's are great fun to ride, but most bikers would be embarrassed to be seen on them.

"If a woman cannot get what she wants here, then she really needs to re-examine her expectations"

that's it exactly

And if a fella cant get what he wants he should do the same

That is simply untrue for several reasons."

Entitled to my opinion as you are.we can agree to disagree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not debating in this thread at all....but

this analogy gave me a laugh

"Speaking as a biker now there's plenty of Honda 50's here that think they're KTMs. Honda 50's are great fun to ride, but most bikers would be embarrassed to be seen on them."

You'd have to think this is funny ....whether you agree or not

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

I wouldn't go as far as to say all, certainly some women will do better on FAB than outside. There are different reasons for this, the ratio of men and women, some men being willing to fuck anything..... This phrase all seem to be 'utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding' is a strawman argument. I've said it before, every dance on fab is a ladies choice. If a woman cannot get what she wants here, the she really needs to re-examine her expectations

Speaking a biker now there's plenty of Honda 50's here that think they're KTMs. Honda 50's are great fun to ride, but most bikers would be embarrassed to be seen on them.

"If a woman cannot get what she wants here, then she really needs to re-examine her expectations"

that's it exactly

And if a fella cant get what he wants he should do the same "

completely different circumstances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

I wouldn't go as far as to say all, certainly some women will do better on FAB than outside. There are different reasons for this, the ratio of men and women, some men being willing to fuck anything..... This phrase all seem to be 'utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding' is a strawman argument. I've said it before, every dance on fab is a ladies choice. If a woman cannot get what she wants here, the she really needs to re-examine her expectations

Speaking a biker now there's plenty of Honda 50's here that think they're KTMs. Honda 50's are great fun to ride, but most bikers would be embarrassed to be seen on them.

"If a woman cannot get what she wants here, then she really needs to re-examine her expectations"

that's it exactly

And if a fella cant get what he wants he should do the same completely different circumstances "

You will have the normal problem of the ratio of men to women here but other than that how does circumstances different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not debating in this thread at all....but

this analogy gave me a laugh

"Speaking as a biker now there's plenty of Honda 50's here that think they're KTMs. Honda 50's are great fun to ride, but most bikers would be embarrassed to be seen on them."

You'd have to think this is funny ....whether you agree or not "

excellent analogy

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

I wouldn't go as far as to say all, certainly some women will do better on FAB than outside. There are different reasons for this, the ratio of men and women, some men being willing to fuck anything..... This phrase all seem to be 'utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding' is a strawman argument. I've said it before, every dance on fab is a ladies choice. If a woman cannot get what she wants here, the she really needs to re-examine her expectations

Speaking a biker now there's plenty of Honda 50's here that think they're KTMs. Honda 50's are great fun to ride, but most bikers would be embarrassed to be seen on them.

"If a woman cannot get what she wants here, then she really needs to re-examine her expectations"

that's it exactly

And if a fella cant get what he wants he should do the same

That is simply untrue for several reasons.

Entitled to my opinion as you are.we can agree to disagree."

If you qualify your opinion with some reasons, then I may not dismiss it as untrue so quickly. An opinion based on fact and reasoning is something I can consider. You're entitled to hold a different opinion but not to different facts.

Fab is a totally different experience for men and women. a guy can do everything right here and get nowhere through no fault of his own, are you really telling me the reverse is true?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will always have those people derailing threads to suit their agenda, the same people will back up female/couple knowing that they're 100% in the wrong..

it's laughable really..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The single male experience on a swingers site will always be a hard climb up a sheer wall, but just like a rock climber, your chances of success vastly improve through experience and effective equipment.

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over a year ago


"we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

I wouldn't go as far as to say all, certainly some women will do better on FAB than outside. There are different reasons for this, the ratio of men and women, some men being willing to fuck anything..... This phrase all seem to be 'utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding' is a strawman argument. I've said it before, every dance on fab is a ladies choice. If a woman cannot get what she wants here, the she really needs to re-examine her expectations

Speaking a biker now there's plenty of Honda 50's here that think they're KTMs. Honda 50's are great fun to ride, but most bikers would be embarrassed to be seen on them.

"If a woman cannot get what she wants here, then she really needs to re-examine her expectations"

that's it exactly

And if a fella cant get what he wants he should do the same

That is simply untrue for several reasons.

Entitled to my opinion as you are.we can agree to disagree.

If you qualify your opinion with some reasons, then I may not dismiss it as untrue so quickly. An opinion based on fact and reasoning is something I can consider. You're entitled to hold a different opinion but not to different facts.

Fab is a totally different experience for men and women. a guy can do everything right here and get nowhere through no fault of his own, are you really telling me the reverse is true?"

A fact based on your and maybe a few other men's opinion?

Does that make it a real fact because you wrote it

Man women or couple we all have our own expectations of what we joined fab for. They will change as time goes on.some will have high expectations and some will have low or some have no expectations and just go with the flow.now we are all adults here so as posted earlier on why should a women here on fab have to recheck her expectations and not a man here.i am basing this on we are all adults and are equal.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

I wouldn't go as far as to say all, certainly some women will do better on FAB than outside. There are different reasons for this, the ratio of men and women, some men being willing to fuck anything..... This phrase all seem to be 'utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding' is a strawman argument. I've said it before, every dance on fab is a ladies choice. If a woman cannot get what she wants here, the she really needs to re-examine her expectations

Speaking a biker now there's plenty of Honda 50's here that think they're KTMs. Honda 50's are great fun to ride, but most bikers would be embarrassed to be seen on them.

"

Why is it a straw man's argument? While the point hasn't been made explicitly, if I read through this thread of cock fighting, I've to come to exactly that conclusion as it is implemented in several post on here and not the first time, it turns up rather often in threads. There's rarely any credits given that the ladies can make up their on minds and won't see through arse licking, knicker creeping or competition bashing. Same applies to the 'some spoil it for the good ones' brigade.

Further arguments like some wouldn't get a second look in the real world is always used when chances of a meet are being debated on here, first of all not every bloke on here is an Adonis either (or in your bike analogy language not everyone's a young Peter Fonda or Dennis Hopper) and secondly beauty comes in different shapes and forms and with it their admirers. Sometimes I get the impression that some think we ladies should be grateful that there's someone to ride us and just spread the legs or bend over.

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over a year ago


"we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

I wouldn't go as far as to say all, certainly some women will do better on FAB than outside. There are different reasons for this, the ratio of men and women, some men being willing to fuck anything..... This phrase all seem to be 'utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding' is a strawman argument. I've said it before, every dance on fab is a ladies choice. If a woman cannot get what she wants here, the she really needs to re-examine her expectations

Speaking a biker now there's plenty of Honda 50's here that think they're KTMs. Honda 50's are great fun to ride, but most bikers would be embarrassed to be seen on them.

"If a woman cannot get what she wants here, then she really needs to re-examine her expectations"

that's it exactly

And if a fella cant get what he wants he should do the same

That is simply untrue for several reasons.

Entitled to my opinion as you are.we can agree to disagree.

If you qualify your opinion with some reasons, then I may not dismiss it as untrue so quickly. An opinion based on fact and reasoning is something I can consider. You're entitled to hold a different opinion but not to different facts.

Fab is a totally different experience for men and women. a guy can do everything right here and get nowhere through no fault of his own, are you really telling me the reverse is true?

A fact based on your and maybe a few other men's opinion?

Does that make it a real fact because you wrote it

Man women or couple we all have our own expectations of what we joined fab for. They will change as time goes on.some will have high expectations and some will have low or some have no expectations and just go with the flow.now we are all adults here so as posted earlier on why should a women here on fab have to recheck her expectations and not a man here.i am basing this on we are all adults and are equal.

"

You're not being totally honest with yourself if you think fab is the same for women as it is for men. Due the the ratio of males to females, females should or atleast have a way higher chance of getting what they want from the site compared to men with way less effort. I had a female friend on this that had no pictures, a tiny bio, wasn't meet or picture verified and told me one day she had over 50 unread mails. She wasn't ignoring people either. That was the sheer quantity of texts she was receiving. There's Hollywood star looking men not getting that attention on this

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

What's a "suck lickarse"?

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

I wouldn't go as far as to say all, certainly some women will do better on FAB than outside. There are different reasons for this, the ratio of men and women, some men being willing to fuck anything..... This phrase all seem to be 'utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding' is a strawman argument. I've said it before, every dance on fab is a ladies choice. If a woman cannot get what she wants here, the she really needs to re-examine her expectations

Speaking a biker now there's plenty of Honda 50's here that think they're KTMs. Honda 50's are great fun to ride, but most bikers would be embarrassed to be seen on them.

"If a woman cannot get what she wants here, then she really needs to re-examine her expectations"

that's it exactly

And if a fella cant get what he wants he should do the same

That is simply untrue for several reasons.

Entitled to my opinion as you are.we can agree to disagree.

If you qualify your opinion with some reasons, then I may not dismiss it as untrue so quickly. An opinion based on fact and reasoning is something I can consider. You're entitled to hold a different opinion but not to different facts.

Fab is a totally different experience for men and women. a guy can do everything right here and get nowhere through no fault of his own, are you really telling me the reverse is true?

A fact based on your and maybe a few other men's opinion?

Does that make it a real fact because you wrote it

Man women or couple we all have our own expectations of what we joined fab for. They will change as time goes on.some will have high expectations and some will have low or some have no expectations and just go with the flow.now we are all adults here so as posted earlier on why should a women here on fab have to recheck her expectations and not a man here.i am basing this on we are all adults and are equal.

"

men and women are not in the same boat here. why? the biggest reason, numbers. as was said if a woman can't succeed on here something is wrong. also,as was said, a man could do everything right here and still not succeed. women have a serious problem comprehending this when it's so easy understand. lots of men would fuck a cracked plate to make their cocks cum, it's as simple as that

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over a year ago


"we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

I wouldn't go as far as to say all, certainly some women will do better on FAB than outside. There are different reasons for this, the ratio of men and women, some men being willing to fuck anything..... This phrase all seem to be 'utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding' is a strawman argument. I've said it before, every dance on fab is a ladies choice. If a woman cannot get what she wants here, the she really needs to re-examine her expectations

Speaking a biker now there's plenty of Honda 50's here that think they're KTMs. Honda 50's are great fun to ride, but most bikers would be embarrassed to be seen on them.

"If a woman cannot get what she wants here, then she really needs to re-examine her expectations"

that's it exactly

And if a fella cant get what he wants he should do the same

That is simply untrue for several reasons.

Entitled to my opinion as you are.we can agree to disagree.

If you qualify your opinion with some reasons, then I may not dismiss it as untrue so quickly. An opinion based on fact and reasoning is something I can consider. You're entitled to hold a different opinion but not to different facts.

Fab is a totally different experience for men and women. a guy can do everything right here and get nowhere through no fault of his own, are you really telling me the reverse is true?

A fact based on your and maybe a few other men's opinion?

Does that make it a real fact because you wrote it

Man women or couple we all have our own expectations of what we joined fab for. They will change as time goes on.some will have high expectations and some will have low or some have no expectations and just go with the flow.now we are all adults here so as posted earlier on why should a women here on fab have to recheck her expectations and not a man here.i am basing this on we are all adults and are equal.

You're not being totally honest with yourself if you think fab is the same for women as it is for men. Due the the ratio of males to females, females should or atleast have a way higher chance of getting what they want from the site compared to men with way less effort. I had a female friend on this that had no pictures, a tiny bio, wasn't meet or picture verified and told me one day she had over 50 unread mails. She wasn't ignoring people either. That was the sheer quantity of texts she was receiving. There's Hollywood star looking men not getting that attention on this "

Yes I am being honest with myself.yes there is bigger ratio of men to women here.no one disagreeing with that. I have said that all ready in another post above if u read earlier posts.

Saying that there is a lot of guys that dossent seem to have a problem with fab or meets.some may have to wait longer to get noticed.some may even have to go socials and m& g .

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over a year ago


"I don't know why 'non dickheads' bother so much about the 'slimeheads' and why we've to label and categorise each and everyone. The latter won't get any more meets through their behaviour

and I'd say it's on par between groups bashing each other on the forum.

Both behaviour is off putting IMO.

Oh and I nearly forgot, interestingly there's only one category of women on here: we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

Tut.. Tut.. Tut kasandra. how are you today?

Are you licking arse, dbswyw? not at all just asking the llady how she is"

This beautiful lady is grant today, thanks

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over a year ago


"we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

I wouldn't go as far as to say all, certainly some women will do better on FAB than outside. There are different reasons for this, the ratio of men and women, some men being willing to fuck anything..... This phrase all seem to be 'utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding' is a strawman argument. I've said it before, every dance on fab is a ladies choice. If a woman cannot get what she wants here, the she really needs to re-examine her expectations

Speaking a biker now there's plenty of Honda 50's here that think they're KTMs. Honda 50's are great fun to ride, but most bikers would be embarrassed to be seen on them.

"If a woman cannot get what she wants here, then she really needs to re-examine her expectations"

that's it exactly

And if a fella cant get what he wants he should do the same

That is simply untrue for several reasons.

Entitled to my opinion as you are.we can agree to disagree.

If you qualify your opinion with some reasons, then I may not dismiss it as untrue so quickly. An opinion based on fact and reasoning is something I can consider. You're entitled to hold a different opinion but not to different facts.

Fab is a totally different experience for men and women. a guy can do everything right here and get nowhere through no fault of his own, are you really telling me the reverse is true?

A fact based on your and maybe a few other men's opinion?

Does that make it a real fact because you wrote it

Man women or couple we all have our own expectations of what we joined fab for. They will change as time goes on.some will have high expectations and some will have low or some have no expectations and just go with the flow.now we are all adults here so as posted earlier on why should a women here on fab have to recheck her expectations and not a man here.i am basing this on we are all adults and are equal.

men and women are not in the same boat here. why? the biggest reason, numbers. as was said if a woman can't succeed on here something is wrong. also,as was said, a man could do everything right here and still not succeed. women have a serious problem comprehending this when it's so easy understand. lots of men would fuck a cracked plate to make their cocks cum, it's as simple as that "

Some men have a problem comprehending that because some women on fab they just don't want a quick leg over but there u go .

I don't see women putting up threads complaining of not succeeding only men

So as you stated earlier on in a post about if a women not getting what she wants should the same not apply to men

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

I wouldn't go as far as to say all, certainly some women will do better on FAB than outside. There are different reasons for this, the ratio of men and women, some men being willing to fuck anything..... This phrase all seem to be 'utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding' is a strawman argument. I've said it before, every dance on fab is a ladies choice. If a woman cannot get what she wants here, the she really needs to re-examine her expectations

Speaking a biker now there's plenty of Honda 50's here that think they're KTMs. Honda 50's are great fun to ride, but most bikers would be embarrassed to be seen on them.

"If a woman cannot get what she wants here, then she really needs to re-examine her expectations"

that's it exactly

And if a fella cant get what he wants he should do the same

That is simply untrue for several reasons.

Entitled to my opinion as you are.we can agree to disagree.

If you qualify your opinion with some reasons, then I may not dismiss it as untrue so quickly. An opinion based on fact and reasoning is something I can consider. You're entitled to hold a different opinion but not to different facts.

Fab is a totally different experience for men and women. a guy can do everything right here and get nowhere through no fault of his own, are you really telling me the reverse is true?

A fact based on your and maybe a few other men's opinion?

Does that make it a real fact because you wrote it

Man women or couple we all have our own expectations of what we joined fab for. They will change as time goes on.some will have high expectations and some will have low or some have no expectations and just go with the flow.now we are all adults here so as posted earlier on why should a women here on fab have to recheck her expectations and not a man here.i am basing this on we are all adults and are equal.

"

Ok, we're all adults, (i hope) but no, I dont think that we are all equal. The ratio issue is more than numbers. It skews things a bit. To look at it in economic terms, when demand is greater than supply, price goes up. People will pay more for less. On fab men outnumber women, I'm guessing 6:1 at least. So it's a woman's market on FAB. Outside of fab, things are different.

The other factor is agency. With few exceptions, most women will not be proactive, but instead wait to be approached. Maybe shy,old fashioned, scared of rejection.... It's incumbent on the man to make write the personally tailored, targeted message.

Thats just the reality here. I would like to respond further and hope to reply to DH's post above before the thread hits 176. But I go to go earn some £££

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over a year ago


"It’s interesting that most of the men who post threads like this don’t ever seem to have had any meets.

It’s almost like there’s a theme......"

I must start agreeing with women on the forums then..... Like heck I will lol. If I don't see eye to eye then Ill say it... Got a few haters as a result but also found a few ladies appreciate someone with their own balls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

I wouldn't go as far as to say all, certainly some women will do better on FAB than outside. There are different reasons for this, the ratio of men and women, some men being willing to fuck anything..... This phrase all seem to be 'utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding' is a strawman argument. I've said it before, every dance on fab is a ladies choice. If a woman cannot get what she wants here, the she really needs to re-examine her expectations

Speaking a biker now there's plenty of Honda 50's here that think they're KTMs. Honda 50's are great fun to ride, but most bikers would be embarrassed to be seen on them.

"If a woman cannot get what she wants here, then she really needs to re-examine her expectations"

that's it exactly

And if a fella cant get what he wants he should do the same

That is simply untrue for several reasons.

Entitled to my opinion as you are.we can agree to disagree.

If you qualify your opinion with some reasons, then I may not dismiss it as untrue so quickly. An opinion based on fact and reasoning is something I can consider. You're entitled to hold a different opinion but not to different facts.

Fab is a totally different experience for men and women. a guy can do everything right here and get nowhere through no fault of his own, are you really telling me the reverse is true?

A fact based on your and maybe a few other men's opinion?

Does that make it a real fact because you wrote it

Man women or couple we all have our own expectations of what we joined fab for. They will change as time goes on.some will have high expectations and some will have low or some have no expectations and just go with the flow.now we are all adults here so as posted earlier on why should a women here on fab have to recheck her expectations and not a man here.i am basing this on we are all adults and are equal.

Ok, we're all adults, (i hope) but no, I dont think that we are all equal. The ratio issue is more than numbers. It skews things a bit. To look at it in economic terms, when demand is greater than supply, price goes up. People will pay more for less. On fab men outnumber women, I'm guessing 6:1 at least. So it's a woman's market on FAB. Outside of fab, things are different.

The other factor is agency. With few exceptions, most women will not be proactive, but instead wait to be approached. Maybe shy,old fashioned, scared of rejection.... It's incumbent on the man to make write the personally tailored, targeted message.

Thats just the reality here. I would like to respond further and hope to reply to DH's post above before the thread hits 176. But I go to go earn some £££ "

Plenty of women here make the first approach and don't wait for the man to nail first.have done so on occasions myself

Enjoy us day

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

I wouldn't go as far as to say all, certainly some women will do better on FAB than outside. There are different reasons for this, the ratio of men and women, some men being willing to fuck anything..... This phrase all seem to be 'utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding' is a strawman argument. I've said it before, every dance on fab is a ladies choice. If a woman cannot get what she wants here, the she really needs to re-examine her expectations

Speaking a biker now there's plenty of Honda 50's here that think they're KTMs. Honda 50's are great fun to ride, but most bikers would be embarrassed to be seen on them.

"If a woman cannot get what she wants here, then she really needs to re-examine her expectations"

that's it exactly

And if a fella cant get what he wants he should do the same

That is simply untrue for several reasons.

Entitled to my opinion as you are.we can agree to disagree.

If you qualify your opinion with some reasons, then I may not dismiss it as untrue so quickly. An opinion based on fact and reasoning is something I can consider. You're entitled to hold a different opinion but not to different facts.

Fab is a totally different experience for men and women. a guy can do everything right here and get nowhere through no fault of his own, are you really telling me the reverse is true?

A fact based on your and maybe a few other men's opinion?

Does that make it a real fact because you wrote it

Man women or couple we all have our own expectations of what we joined fab for. They will change as time goes on.some will have high expectations and some will have low or some have no expectations and just go with the flow.now we are all adults here so as posted earlier on why should a women here on fab have to recheck her expectations and not a man here.i am basing this on we are all adults and are equal.

men and women are not in the same boat here. why? the biggest reason, numbers. as was said if a woman can't succeed on here something is wrong. also,as was said, a man could do everything right here and still not succeed. women have a serious problem comprehending this when it's so easy understand. lots of men would fuck a cracked plate to make their cocks cum, it's as simple as that

Some men have a problem comprehending that because some women on fab they just don't want a quick leg over but there u go .

I don't see women putting up threads complaining of not succeeding only men

So as you stated earlier on in a post about if a women not getting what she wants should the same not apply to men"

threads of women not succeeding? lol that's because it's simple for women to succeed. that's what's been said

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

I wouldn't go as far as to say all, certainly some women will do better on FAB than outside. There are different reasons for this, the ratio of men and women, some men being willing to fuck anything..... This phrase all seem to be 'utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding' is a strawman argument. I've said it before, every dance on fab is a ladies choice. If a woman cannot get what she wants here, the she really needs to re-examine her expectations

Speaking a biker now there's plenty of Honda 50's here that think they're KTMs. Honda 50's are great fun to ride, but most bikers would be embarrassed to be seen on them.

"If a woman cannot get what she wants here, then she really needs to re-examine her expectations"

that's it exactly

And if a fella cant get what he wants he should do the same

That is simply untrue for several reasons.

Entitled to my opinion as you are.we can agree to disagree.

If you qualify your opinion with some reasons, then I may not dismiss it as untrue so quickly. An opinion based on fact and reasoning is something I can consider. You're entitled to hold a different opinion but not to different facts.

Fab is a totally different experience for men and women. a guy can do everything right here and get nowhere through no fault of his own, are you really telling me the reverse is true?

A fact based on your and maybe a few other men's opinion?

Does that make it a real fact because you wrote it

Man women or couple we all have our own expectations of what we joined fab for. They will change as time goes on.some will have high expectations and some will have low or some have no expectations and just go with the flow.now we are all adults here so as posted earlier on why should a women here on fab have to recheck her expectations and not a man here.i am basing this on we are all adults and are equal.

men and women are not in the same boat here. why? the biggest reason, numbers. as was said if a woman can't succeed on here something is wrong. also,as was said, a man could do everything right here and still not succeed. women have a serious problem comprehending this when it's so easy understand. lots of men would fuck a cracked plate to make their cocks cum, it's as simple as that

Some men have a problem comprehending that because some women on fab they just don't want a quick leg over but there u go .

I don't see women putting up threads complaining of not succeeding only men

So as you stated earlier on in a post about if a women not getting what she wants should the same not apply to menthreads of women not succeeding? lol that's because it's simple for women to succeed. that's what's been said "

if a woman can't succeed on here with the way things are there is something amiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

I wouldn't go as far as to say all, certainly some women will do better on FAB than outside. There are different reasons for this, the ratio of men and women, some men being willing to fuck anything..... This phrase all seem to be 'utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding' is a strawman argument. I've said it before, every dance on fab is a ladies choice. If a woman cannot get what she wants here, the she really needs to re-examine her expectations

Speaking a biker now there's plenty of Honda 50's here that think they're KTMs. Honda 50's are great fun to ride, but most bikers would be embarrassed to be seen on them.

"If a woman cannot get what she wants here, then she really needs to re-examine her expectations"

that's it exactly

And if a fella cant get what he wants he should do the same

That is simply untrue for several reasons.

Entitled to my opinion as you are.we can agree to disagree.

If you qualify your opinion with some reasons, then I may not dismiss it as untrue so quickly. An opinion based on fact and reasoning is something I can consider. You're entitled to hold a different opinion but not to different facts.

Fab is a totally different experience for men and women. a guy can do everything right here and get nowhere through no fault of his own, are you really telling me the reverse is true?

A fact based on your and maybe a few other men's opinion?

Does that make it a real fact because you wrote it

Man women or couple we all have our own expectations of what we joined fab for. They will change as time goes on.some will have high expectations and some will have low or some have no expectations and just go with the flow.now we are all adults here so as posted earlier on why should a women here on fab have to recheck her expectations and not a man here.i am basing this on we are all adults and are equal.

men and women are not in the same boat here. why? the biggest reason, numbers. as was said if a woman can't succeed on here something is wrong. also,as was said, a man could do everything right here and still not succeed. women have a serious problem comprehending this when it's so easy understand. lots of men would fuck a cracked plate to make their cocks cum, it's as simple as that

Some men have a problem comprehending that because some women on fab they just don't want a quick leg over but there u go .

I don't see women putting up threads complaining of not succeeding only men

So as you stated earlier on in a post about if a women not getting what she wants should the same not apply to menthreads of women not succeeding? lol that's because it's simple for women to succeed. that's what's been said "

A lot of men succeed here

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

I wouldn't go as far as to say all, certainly some women will do better on FAB than outside. There are different reasons for this, the ratio of men and women, some men being willing to fuck anything..... This phrase all seem to be 'utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding' is a strawman argument. I've said it before, every dance on fab is a ladies choice. If a woman cannot get what she wants here, the she really needs to re-examine her expectations

Speaking a biker now there's plenty of Honda 50's here that think they're KTMs. Honda 50's are great fun to ride, but most bikers would be embarrassed to be seen on them.

"If a woman cannot get what she wants here, then she really needs to re-examine her expectations"

that's it exactly

And if a fella cant get what he wants he should do the same

That is simply untrue for several reasons.

Entitled to my opinion as you are.we can agree to disagree.

If you qualify your opinion with some reasons, then I may not dismiss it as untrue so quickly. An opinion based on fact and reasoning is something I can consider. You're entitled to hold a different opinion but not to different facts.

Fab is a totally different experience for men and women. a guy can do everything right here and get nowhere through no fault of his own, are you really telling me the reverse is true?

A fact based on your and maybe a few other men's opinion?

Does that make it a real fact because you wrote it

Man women or couple we all have our own expectations of what we joined fab for. They will change as time goes on.some will have high expectations and some will have low or some have no expectations and just go with the flow.now we are all adults here so as posted earlier on why should a women here on fab have to recheck her expectations and not a man here.i am basing this on we are all adults and are equal.

Ok, we're all adults, (i hope) but no, I dont think that we are all equal. The ratio issue is more than numbers. It skews things a bit. To look at it in economic terms, when demand is greater than supply, price goes up. People will pay more for less. On fab men outnumber women, I'm guessing 6:1 at least. So it's a woman's market on FAB. Outside of fab, things are different.

The other factor is agency. With few exceptions, most women will not be proactive, but instead wait to be approached. Maybe shy,old fashioned, scared of rejection.... It's incumbent on the man to make write the personally tailored, targeted message.

Thats just the reality here. I would like to respond further and hope to reply to DH's post above before the thread hits 176. But I go to go earn some £££

Plenty of women here make the first approach and don't wait for the man to nail first.have done so on occasions myself

Enjoy us day"

I never once received an opening mail from a woman here and that's no exaggeration

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

I wouldn't go as far as to say all, certainly some women will do better on FAB than outside. There are different reasons for this, the ratio of men and women, some men being willing to fuck anything..... This phrase all seem to be 'utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding' is a strawman argument. I've said it before, every dance on fab is a ladies choice. If a woman cannot get what she wants here, the she really needs to re-examine her expectations

Speaking a biker now there's plenty of Honda 50's here that think they're KTMs. Honda 50's are great fun to ride, but most bikers would be embarrassed to be seen on them.

"If a woman cannot get what she wants here, then she really needs to re-examine her expectations"

that's it exactly

And if a fella cant get what he wants he should do the same

That is simply untrue for several reasons.

Entitled to my opinion as you are.we can agree to disagree.

If you qualify your opinion with some reasons, then I may not dismiss it as untrue so quickly. An opinion based on fact and reasoning is something I can consider. You're entitled to hold a different opinion but not to different facts.

Fab is a totally different experience for men and women. a guy can do everything right here and get nowhere through no fault of his own, are you really telling me the reverse is true?

A fact based on your and maybe a few other men's opinion?

Does that make it a real fact because you wrote it

Man women or couple we all have our own expectations of what we joined fab for. They will change as time goes on.some will have high expectations and some will have low or some have no expectations and just go with the flow.now we are all adults here so as posted earlier on why should a women here on fab have to recheck her expectations and not a man here.i am basing this on we are all adults and are equal.

Ok, we're all adults, (i hope) but no, I dont think that we are all equal. The ratio issue is more than numbers. It skews things a bit. To look at it in economic terms, when demand is greater than supply, price goes up. People will pay more for less. On fab men outnumber women, I'm guessing 6:1 at least. So it's a woman's market on FAB. Outside of fab, things are different.

The other factor is agency. With few exceptions, most women will not be proactive, but instead wait to be approached. Maybe shy,old fashioned, scared of rejection.... It's incumbent on the man to make write the personally tailored, targeted message.

Thats just the reality here. I would like to respond further and hope to reply to DH's post above before the thread hits 176. But I go to go earn some £££

Plenty of women here make the first approach and don't wait for the man to nail first.have done so on occasions myself

Enjoy us dayI never once received an opening mail from a woman here and that's no exaggeration "

plus on a thread yesterday or the day before there was many women who said they won't send the first mail and initiate a convo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

I wouldn't go as far as to say all, certainly some women will do better on FAB than outside. There are different reasons for this, the ratio of men and women, some men being willing to fuck anything..... This phrase all seem to be 'utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding' is a strawman argument. I've said it before, every dance on fab is a ladies choice. If a woman cannot get what she wants here, the she really needs to re-examine her expectations

Speaking a biker now there's plenty of Honda 50's here that think they're KTMs. Honda 50's are great fun to ride, but most bikers would be embarrassed to be seen on them.

"If a woman cannot get what she wants here, then she really needs to re-examine her expectations"

that's it exactly

And if a fella cant get what he wants he should do the same

That is simply untrue for several reasons.

Entitled to my opinion as you are.we can agree to disagree.

If you qualify your opinion with some reasons, then I may not dismiss it as untrue so quickly. An opinion based on fact and reasoning is something I can consider. You're entitled to hold a different opinion but not to different facts.

Fab is a totally different experience for men and women. a guy can do everything right here and get nowhere through no fault of his own, are you really telling me the reverse is true?

A fact based on your and maybe a few other men's opinion?

Does that make it a real fact because you wrote it

Man women or couple we all have our own expectations of what we joined fab for. They will change as time goes on.some will have high expectations and some will have low or some have no expectations and just go with the flow.now we are all adults here so as posted earlier on why should a women here on fab have to recheck her expectations and not a man here.i am basing this on we are all adults and are equal.

Ok, we're all adults, (i hope) but no, I dont think that we are all equal. The ratio issue is more than numbers. It skews things a bit. To look at it in economic terms, when demand is greater than supply, price goes up. People will pay more for less. On fab men outnumber women, I'm guessing 6:1 at least. So it's a woman's market on FAB. Outside of fab, things are different.

The other factor is agency. With few exceptions, most women will not be proactive, but instead wait to be approached. Maybe shy,old fashioned, scared of rejection.... It's incumbent on the man to make write the personally tailored, targeted message.

Thats just the reality here. I would like to respond further and hope to reply to DH's post above before the thread hits 176. But I go to go earn some £££

Plenty of women here make the first approach and don't wait for the man to nail first.have done so on occasions myself

Enjoy us dayI never once received an opening mail from a woman here and that's no exaggeration "

It does happen believe it or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyways after all this long bullshit have we determine if we "men" are sucker and lickarses ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyways after all this long bullshit have we determine if we "men" are sucker and lickarses ?"

Think this will all ways be a on going debate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyways after all this long bullshit have we determine if we "men" are sucker and lickarses ?

Think this will all ways be a on going debate "

I would like to be nice to you and lick your arse but that would just prove the point won't it... so i demand you refer to me as Sir kiss dont tell and dont make direct eye contact please

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over a year ago


"we all seem to be utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding. You might wonder why any guy wants to meet a woman on here.... the most laughable is ridiculously demanding. I'd say something if they were model material but the ridiculously demanding comes from the choice they have and the head swelling.

I wouldn't go as far as to say all, certainly some women will do better on FAB than outside. There are different reasons for this, the ratio of men and women, some men being willing to fuck anything..... This phrase all seem to be 'utterly stupid, terribly ugly and ridiculously demanding' is a strawman argument. I've said it before, every dance on fab is a ladies choice. If a woman cannot get what she wants here, the she really needs to re-examine her expectations

Speaking a biker now there's plenty of Honda 50's here that think they're KTMs. Honda 50's are great fun to ride, but most bikers would be embarrassed to be seen on them.

"If a woman cannot get what she wants here, then she really needs to re-examine her expectations"

that's it exactly

And if a fella cant get what he wants he should do the same

That is simply untrue for several reasons.

Entitled to my opinion as you are.we can agree to disagree.

If you qualify your opinion with some reasons, then I may not dismiss it as untrue so quickly. An opinion based on fact and reasoning is something I can consider. You're entitled to hold a different opinion but not to different facts.

Fab is a totally different experience for men and women. a guy can do everything right here and get nowhere through no fault of his own, are you really telling me the reverse is true?

A fact based on your and maybe a few other men's opinion?

Does that make it a real fact because you wrote it

Man women or couple we all have our own expectations of what we joined fab for. They will change as time goes on.some will have high expectations and some will have low or some have no expectations and just go with the flow.now we are all adults here so as posted earlier on why should a women here on fab have to recheck her expectations and not a man here.i am basing this on we are all adults and are equal.

Ok, we're all adults, (i hope) but no, I dont think that we are all equal. The ratio issue is more than numbers. It skews things a bit. To look at it in economic terms, when demand is greater than supply, price goes up. People will pay more for less. On fab men outnumber women, I'm guessing 6:1 at least. So it's a woman's market on FAB. Outside of fab, things are different.

The other factor is agency. With few exceptions, most women will not be proactive, but instead wait to be approached. Maybe shy,old fashioned, scared of rejection.... It's incumbent on the man to make write the personally tailored, targeted message.

Thats just the reality here. I would like to respond further and hope to reply to DH's post above before the thread hits 176. But I go to go earn some £££

Plenty of women here make the first approach and don't wait for the man to nail first.have done so on occasions myself

Enjoy us dayI never once received an opening mail from a woman here and that's no exaggeration

It does happen believe it or not"

A few do... But with the way the ratios are they don't need to and probably most take the easy option of guys coning to them. Those that do sometimes get the cream.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You always get the single men who come out with the same lines e.g. your the hottest nonsense.

Some real sickners who when then message you can see why they have no meets.

But

There is alot of genuine single males who are great to chat with and that can actually carry a conversation.

You will always get the prats but don't let them ruin it for the genuine ones x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You always get the single men who come out with the same lines e.g. your the hottest nonsense.

Some real sickners who when then message you can see why they have no meets.

But

There is alot of genuine single males who are great to chat with and that can actually carry a conversation.

You will always get the prats but don't let them ruin it for the genuine ones x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just ignore the posts if they annoy you, people here from all walks of life with endless opinions. There isn't some conspiracy of brown noses trying to snatch up all the damsels in distress. There are plenty more sound people on here to make up for the occasional dickhead.

So many threads from single lads complaining about other single lads, it's bizarre. whiteknightswhingers

I don't think the guy is worried "brown nosers" will steal women. It's more that those kind of people make other people feel ridiculed with their comments. It's hard to explain. Some people might not even see it cause it can be subtle but there are ways to get at people with seemingly normal comments.

Im confused with that post, your obviously not speaking on the op behalf, what is it your saying, that lickarses are in some way putting others down, where does ridicule come into it, again are you speaking for yourself?

You are well aware of what he is trying to say and you see it here every day.

There is a group here both male and female that constantly try to ridicule other's and have driven many good people off this site.

No, your mistaken, I don't see it, and I'm fairly observant, nor would I sit back and let someone be ridiculed, without giving my tuppance worth.

I genuinely believe you don't see it. Some people won't. It can be passed as banter or a joke. I read your threads regularly and I don't see nastyness in you but just look at how many people do agree that this happens. "

I overlooked your reply, and was meaning to come back to it. I'm not oblivious or nieve to the dynamic that unfolds here with people. Just follow where the energy eminates from, then work your way down to the more subtle levels of peoples interaction here.. in general I don't find there to be a culture of bullying, or even pockets of it for that matter. I have heard people refer to this culture past tense. In the last couple of months I have only observed one guy here who seems to be more deliberate in his attacks to undermine and humiliate a lady here on the forum, its probably the only example I have experienced over my period of time here, I'm not sure whether there is a pattern of this behaviour with the guy, outside the example I have given, time will tell, as it does with most things.

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

.......no.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyways after all this long bullshit have we determine if we "men" are sucker and lickarses ?"

I think it was determined that some are and some aren’t.

It’s definitely complicated based on all the discussions.

THE END

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The single male experience on a swingers site will always be a hard climb up a sheer wall, but just like a rock climber, your chances of success vastly improve through experience and effective equipment."

Quote of the week!

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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago

Louth/Meath/Dublin

If it's been mentioned above that "most men here will get up on a cracked plate" and that women predominantly don't want those type of men, then surely it's logical that women will have to make the effort to vet said men?

No, it's just easier to say women have it easy.

I'd say women have it a tad easier...not necessarily easy.

Fab is a microcosm for everyday life. There are lick arses, saddos, attention cravers, idiots, devious scumbags, and the are some decent people too.

You gotta ask yourself....which one are you?

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"If it's been mentioned above that "most men here will get up on a cracked plate" and that women predominantly don't want those type of men, then surely it's logical that women will have to make the effort to vet said men?

No, it's just easier to say women have it easy.

I'd say women have it a tad easier...not necessarily easy.

Fab is a microcosm for everyday life. There are lick arses, saddos, attention cravers, idiots, devious scumbags, and the are some decent people too.

You gotta ask yourself....which one are you?"

I'm the forum aristocat. it can't survive without me or would be boring as shit without me

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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago

Louth/Meath/Dublin


"If it's been mentioned above that "most men here will get up on a cracked plate" and that women predominantly don't want those type of men, then surely it's logical that women will have to make the effort to vet said men?

No, it's just easier to say women have it easy.

I'd say women have it a tad easier...not necessarily easy.

Fab is a microcosm for everyday life. There are lick arses, saddos, attention cravers, idiots, devious scumbags, and the are some decent people too.

You gotta ask yourself....which one are you?I'm the forum aristocat. it can't survive without me or would be boring as shit without me "

You're not exactly wrong. Like the monarchy when one of you goes away there's another of you in line of succession. This must be the longest profile yet you've stuck around on?

You're exactly like her Maj, and like England I think fab would survive without you.

(Sorry couldn't resist )

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"If it's been mentioned above that "most men here will get up on a cracked plate" and that women predominantly don't want those type of men, then surely it's logical that women will have to make the effort to vet said men?

No, it's just easier to say women have it easy.

I'd say women have it a tad easier...not necessarily easy.

Fab is a microcosm for everyday life. There are lick arses, saddos, attention cravers, idiots, devious scumbags, and the are some decent people too.

You gotta ask yourself....which one are you?I'm the forum aristocat. it can't survive without me or would be boring as shit without me

You're not exactly wrong. Like the monarchy when one of you goes away there's another of you in line of succession. This must be the longest profile yet you've stuck around on?

You're exactly like her Maj, and like England I think fab would survive without you.

(Sorry couldn't resist )"

I'm nothing like her anyway. I'm just me. I was never here before so you must be mistaken. I have a relative who was though .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s interesting that most of the men who post threads like this don’t ever seem to have had any meets.

It’s almost like there’s a theme......"

What is your point here? This could be taken up 2 different ways

1. You think it's possibly sour grapes on the it's behalf

2. What the op is pointing out is actually the case, which would say a lot more about the members they're meeting than the lickarses themselves!

I hope you mean option 2 above but I doubt it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s interesting that most of the men who post threads like this don’t ever seem to have had any meets.

It’s almost like there’s a theme......

What is your point here? This could be taken up 2 different ways

1. You think it's possibly sour grapes on the it's behalf

2. What the op is pointing out is actually the case, which would say a lot more about the members they're meeting than the lickarses themselves!

I hope you mean option 2 above but I doubt it! "

My observation was simply that posts like this one, slagging off other fellas for being lickarses never appear to be made by people who have had meets.

That is not to say there aren’t lickarses on here but I would have to say I see more moaning posts on this forum than I see arse licking

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over a year ago


"It’s interesting that most of the men who post threads like this don’t ever seem to have had any meets.

It’s almost like there’s a theme......

What is your point here? This could be taken up 2 different ways

1. You think it's possibly sour grapes on the it's behalf

2. What the op is pointing out is actually the case, which would say a lot more about the members they're meeting than the lickarses themselves!

I hope you mean option 2 above but I doubt it!

My observation was simply that posts like this one, slagging off other fellas for being lickarses never appear to be made by people who have had meets.

That is not to say there aren’t lickarses on here but I would have to say I see more moaning posts on this forum than I see arse licking"

My mistake! I thought you were making quiet a good point that I agreed with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had loads of meets and I'm quick to chastise obvious lickarsery

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway

Couldn't care less if someone was a lick or not! Agree though with a previous post here ... there are more moaners than lick arses on this site!!

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"

I genuinely believe you don't see it. Some people won't. It can be passed as banter or a joke. I read your threads regularly and I don't see nastyness in you but just look at how many people do agree that this happens.

I overlooked your reply, and was meaning to come back to it. I'm not oblivious or nieve to the dynamic that unfolds here with people. Just follow where the energy eminates from, then work your way down to the more subtle levels of peoples interaction here.. in general I don't find there to be a culture of bullying, or even pockets of it for that matter. I have heard people refer to this culture past tense. In the last couple of months I have only observed one guy here who seems to be more deliberate in his attacks to undermine and humiliate a lady here on the forum, its probably the only example I have experienced over my period of time here, I'm not sure whether there is a pattern of this behaviour with the guy, outside the example I have given, time will tell, as it does with most things. "

Bullying is a fact of life here, is it as overt as was 2 years ago when I first joined up? Nowhere near as much. Does it still happen? Yes it does, sometimes it is subtle, often disguised as humour and often its group work. The great advantage of doing as a group means that no one person is responsible. It doesn't change the impact though. It isn't restricted to gender either. I have received messages from women acknowledging that they have been bullied here by other women.

The purpose hasn't changed, it is still intended to belittle people, intimidate them from giving their opinions and invalidate their positions.

Already in this thread we have seen someone implying a correlation between the sort of person that makes this sort of post and the number of meets they have or have not. And your (BiGuy) own early contributions to was an attempt to invalidate the OP on the grounds that he doesn't post here frequently. Since then these people agreeing with the op have been labelled as moaners. I have yet to see a woman been labelled as moaning when she posts about the low standard of messages she gets.

I may be seen as a difficult person by many here on the forum, that doesn't bother me, to borrow a line from a song 'i don't need you to suck my dick to help me feel good about myself'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I genuinely believe you don't see it. Some people won't. It can be passed as banter or a joke. I read your threads regularly and I don't see nastyness in you but just look at how many people do agree that this happens.

I overlooked your reply, and was meaning to come back to it. I'm not oblivious or nieve to the dynamic that unfolds here with people. Just follow where the energy eminates from, then work your way down to the more subtle levels of peoples interaction here.. in general I don't find there to be a culture of bullying, or even pockets of it for that matter. I have heard people refer to this culture past tense. In the last couple of months I have only observed one guy here who seems to be more deliberate in his attacks to undermine and humiliate a lady here on the forum, its probably the only example I have experienced over my period of time here, I'm not sure whether there is a pattern of this behaviour with the guy, outside the example I have given, time will tell, as it does with most things.

Bullying is a fact of life here, is it as overt as was 2 years ago when I first joined up? Nowhere near as much. Does it still happen? Yes it does, sometimes it is subtle, often disguised as humour and often its group work. The great advantage of doing as a group means that no one person is responsible. It doesn't change the impact though. It isn't restricted to gender either. I have received messages from women acknowledging that they have been bullied here by other women.

The purpose hasn't changed, it is still intended to belittle people, intimidate them from giving their opinions and invalidate their positions.

Already in this thread we have seen someone implying a correlation between the sort of person that makes this sort of post and the number of meets they have or have not. And your (BiGuy) own early contributions to was an attempt to invalidate the OP on the grounds that he doesn't post here frequently. Since then these people agreeing with the op have been labelled as moaners. I have yet to see a woman been labelled as moaning when she posts about the low standard of messages she gets.

I may be seen as a difficult person by many here on the forum, that doesn't bother me, to borrow a line from a song 'i don't need you to suck my dick to help me feel good about myself'"

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I find its just the ones who write in text speak with bad spelling, who pretend to be assertive guys that are the real lick arses.

That's just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I genuinely believe you don't see it. Some people won't. It can be passed as banter or a joke. I read your threads regularly and I don't see nastyness in you but just look at how many people do agree that this happens.

I overlooked your reply, and was meaning to come back to it. I'm not oblivious or nieve to the dynamic that unfolds here with people. Just follow where the energy eminates from, then work your way down to the more subtle levels of peoples interaction here.. in general I don't find there to be a culture of bullying, or even pockets of it for that matter. I have heard people refer to this culture past tense. In the last couple of months I have only observed one guy here who seems to be more deliberate in his attacks to undermine and humiliate a lady here on the forum, its probably the only example I have experienced over my period of time here, I'm not sure whether there is a pattern of this behaviour with the guy, outside the example I have given, time will tell, as it does with most things.

Bullying is a fact of life here, is it as overt as was 2 years ago when I first joined up? Nowhere near as much. Does it still happen? Yes it does, sometimes it is subtle, often disguised as humour and often its group work. The great advantage of doing as a group means that no one person is responsible. It doesn't change the impact though. It isn't restricted to gender either. I have received messages from women acknowledging that they have been bullied here by other women.

The purpose hasn't changed, it is still intended to belittle people, intimidate them from giving their opinions and invalidate their positions.

Already in this thread we have seen someone implying a correlation between the sort of person that makes this sort of post and the number of meets they have or have not. And your (BiGuy) own early contributions to was an attempt to invalidate the OP on the grounds that he doesn't post here frequently. Since then these people agreeing with the op have been labelled as moaners. I have yet to see a woman been labelled as moaning when she posts about the low standard of messages she gets.

I may be seen as a difficult person by many here on the forum, that doesn't bother me, to borrow a line from a song 'i don't need you to suck my dick to help me feel good about myself'"

If we could add to your definition of bullying, id like to throw the intellectual bully into the mix, we know the folks who are smarter (have a higher IQ). They have more knowledge in a certain field, and generally carry the sense of entitlement to be dismissive and disrespectful in trying to embaress and humiliate others, their speciality is condendescension. Im actually quite fond of this type character, providing they can mix it up with plebbs like myself.

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By *razy-88Man
over a year ago

belfast

Am I the only one who enjoys licking an arse

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"

I genuinely believe you don't see it. Some people won't. It can be passed as banter or a joke. I read your threads regularly and I don't see nastyness in you but just look at how many people do agree that this happens.

I overlooked your reply, and was meaning to come back to it. I'm not oblivious or nieve to the dynamic that unfolds here with people. Just follow where the energy eminates from, then work your way down to the more subtle levels of peoples interaction here.. in general I don't find there to be a culture of bullying, or even pockets of it for that matter. I have heard people refer to this culture past tense. In the last couple of months I have only observed one guy here who seems to be more deliberate in his attacks to undermine and humiliate a lady here on the forum, its probably the only example I have experienced over my period of time here, I'm not sure whether there is a pattern of this behaviour with the guy, outside the example I have given, time will tell, as it does with most things.

Bullying is a fact of life here, is it as overt as was 2 years ago when I first joined up? Nowhere near as much. Does it still happen? Yes it does, sometimes it is subtle, often disguised as humour and often its group work. The great advantage of doing as a group means that no one person is responsible. It doesn't change the impact though. It isn't restricted to gender either. I have received messages from women acknowledging that they have been bullied here by other women.

The purpose hasn't changed, it is still intended to belittle people, intimidate them from giving their opinions and invalidate their positions.

Already in this thread we have seen someone implying a correlation between the sort of person that makes this sort of post and the number of meets they have or have not. And your (BiGuy) own early contributions to was an attempt to invalidate the OP on the grounds that he doesn't post here frequently. Since then these people agreeing with the op have been labelled as moaners. I have yet to see a woman been labelled as moaning when she posts about the low standard of messages she gets.

I may be seen as a difficult person by many here on the forum, that doesn't bother me, to borrow a line from a song 'i don't need you to suck my dick to help me feel good about myself'

If we could add to your definition of bullying, id like to throw the intellectual bully into the mix, we know the folks who are smarter (have a higher IQ). They have more knowledge in a certain field, and generally carry the sense of entitlement to be dismissive and disrespectful in trying to embaress and humiliate others, their speciality is condendescension. Im actually quite fond of this type character, providing they can mix it up with plebbs like myself."

You're sore at being called out on your shit. I get that, do try and get over it, maybe see it as a learning opportunity.

As to the intellectual bullying, that made me laugh. I'm autistic, straight up. My kids say we have weapons grade autism. When I was younger my nickname was sidewinder. Perhaps you can see why.

And playing the victim because you've been called out on your bullying is nothing short of pitiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I genuinely believe you don't see it. Some people won't. It can be passed as banter or a joke. I read your threads regularly and I don't see nastyness in you but just look at how many people do agree that this happens.

I overlooked your reply, and was meaning to come back to it. I'm not oblivious or nieve to the dynamic that unfolds here with people. Just follow where the energy eminates from, then work your way down to the more subtle levels of peoples interaction here.. in general I don't find there to be a culture of bullying, or even pockets of it for that matter. I have heard people refer to this culture past tense. In the last couple of months I have only observed one guy here who seems to be more deliberate in his attacks to undermine and humiliate a lady here on the forum, its probably the only example I have experienced over my period of time here, I'm not sure whether there is a pattern of this behaviour with the guy, outside the example I have given, time will tell, as it does with most things.

Bullying is a fact of life here, is it as overt as was 2 years ago when I first joined up? Nowhere near as much. Does it still happen? Yes it does, sometimes it is subtle, often disguised as humour and often its group work. The great advantage of doing as a group means that no one person is responsible. It doesn't change the impact though. It isn't restricted to gender either. I have received messages from women acknowledging that they have been bullied here by other women.

The purpose hasn't changed, it is still intended to belittle people, intimidate them from giving their opinions and invalidate their positions.

Already in this thread we have seen someone implying a correlation between the sort of person that makes this sort of post and the number of meets they have or have not. And your (BiGuy) own early contributions to was an attempt to invalidate the OP on the grounds that he doesn't post here frequently. Since then these people agreeing with the op have been labelled as moaners. I have yet to see a woman been labelled as moaning when she posts about the low standard of messages she gets.

I may be seen as a difficult person by many here on the forum, that doesn't bother me, to borrow a line from a song 'i don't need you to suck my dick to help me feel good about myself'

If we could add to your definition of bullying, id like to throw the intellectual bully into the mix, we know the folks who are smarter (have a higher IQ). They have more knowledge in a certain field, and generally carry the sense of entitlement to be dismissive and disrespectful in trying to embaress and humiliate others, their speciality is condendescension. Im actually quite fond of this type character, providing they can mix it up with plebbs like myself.

You're sore at being called out on your shit. I get that, do try and get over it, maybe see it as a learning opportunity.

As to the intellectual bullying, that made me laugh. I'm autistic, straight up. My kids say we have weapons grade autism. When I was younger my nickname was sidewinder. Perhaps you can see why.

And playing the victim because you've been called out on your bullying is nothing short of pitiful.

"

About time someone told him a few home truths well done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I genuinely believe you don't see it. Some people won't. It can be passed as banter or a joke. I read your threads regularly and I don't see nastyness in you but just look at how many people do agree that this happens.

I overlooked your reply, and was meaning to come back to it. I'm not oblivious or nieve to the dynamic that unfolds here with people. Just follow where the energy eminates from, then work your way down to the more subtle levels of peoples interaction here.. in general I don't find there to be a culture of bullying, or even pockets of it for that matter. I have heard people refer to this culture past tense. In the last couple of months I have only observed one guy here who seems to be more deliberate in his attacks to undermine and humiliate a lady here on the forum, its probably the only example I have experienced over my period of time here, I'm not sure whether there is a pattern of this behaviour with the guy, outside the example I have given, time will tell, as it does with most things.

Bullying is a fact of life here, is it as overt as was 2 years ago when I first joined up? Nowhere near as much. Does it still happen? Yes it does, sometimes it is subtle, often disguised as humour and often its group work. The great advantage of doing as a group means that no one person is responsible. It doesn't change the impact though. It isn't restricted to gender either. I have received messages from women acknowledging that they have been bullied here by other women.

The purpose hasn't changed, it is still intended to belittle people, intimidate them from giving their opinions and invalidate their positions.

Already in this thread we have seen someone implying a correlation between the sort of person that makes this sort of post and the number of meets they have or have not. And your (BiGuy) own early contributions to was an attempt to invalidate the OP on the grounds that he doesn't post here frequently. Since then these people agreeing with the op have been labelled as moaners. I have yet to see a woman been labelled as moaning when she posts about the low standard of messages she gets.

I may be seen as a difficult person by many here on the forum, that doesn't bother me, to borrow a line from a song 'i don't need you to suck my dick to help me feel good about myself'

If we could add to your definition of bullying, id like to throw the intellectual bully into the mix, we know the folks who are smarter (have a higher IQ). They have more knowledge in a certain field, and generally carry the sense of entitlement to be dismissive and disrespectful in trying to embaress and humiliate others, their speciality is condendescension. Im actually quite fond of this type character, providing they can mix it up with plebbs like myself.

You're sore at being called out on your shit. I get that, do try and get over it, maybe see it as a learning opportunity.

As to the intellectual bullying, that made me laugh. I'm autistic, straight up. My kids say we have weapons grade autism. When I was younger my nickname was sidewinder. Perhaps you can see why.

And playing the victim because you've been called out on your bullying is nothing short of pitiful.

"

Its good to see ya getting down and dirty, the only time ive seen you getting called out on your shit, was your patronising comments, which have been generally directed at women, I think you have a wee fragile ego, but your arrogance masks it well. I offered you that babys soother as a gift, with good reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I genuinely believe you don't see it. Some people won't. It can be passed as banter or a joke. I read your threads regularly and I don't see nastyness in you but just look at how many people do agree that this happens.

I overlooked your reply, and was meaning to come back to it. I'm not oblivious or nieve to the dynamic that unfolds here with people. Just follow where the energy eminates from, then work your way down to the more subtle levels of peoples interaction here.. in general I don't find there to be a culture of bullying, or even pockets of it for that matter. I have heard people refer to this culture past tense. In the last couple of months I have only observed one guy here who seems to be more deliberate in his attacks to undermine and humiliate a lady here on the forum, its probably the only example I have experienced over my period of time here, I'm not sure whether there is a pattern of this behaviour with the guy, outside the example I have given, time will tell, as it does with most things.

Bullying is a fact of life here, is it as overt as was 2 years ago when I first joined up? Nowhere near as much. Does it still happen? Yes it does, sometimes it is subtle, often disguised as humour and often its group work. The great advantage of doing as a group means that no one person is responsible. It doesn't change the impact though. It isn't restricted to gender either. I have received messages from women acknowledging that they have been bullied here by other women.

The purpose hasn't changed, it is still intended to belittle people, intimidate them from giving their opinions and invalidate their positions.

Already in this thread we have seen someone implying a correlation between the sort of person that makes this sort of post and the number of meets they have or have not. And your (BiGuy) own early contributions to was an attempt to invalidate the OP on the grounds that he doesn't post here frequently. Since then these people agreeing with the op have been labelled as moaners. I have yet to see a woman been labelled as moaning when she posts about the low standard of messages she gets.

I may be seen as a difficult person by many here on the forum, that doesn't bother me, to borrow a line from a song 'i don't need you to suck my dick to help me feel good about myself'

If we could add to your definition of bullying, id like to throw the intellectual bully into the mix, we know the folks who are smarter (have a higher IQ). They have more knowledge in a certain field, and generally carry the sense of entitlement to be dismissive and disrespectful in trying to embaress and humiliate others, their speciality is condendescension. Im actually quite fond of this type character, providing they can mix it up with plebbs like myself.

You're sore at being called out on your shit. I get that, do try and get over it, maybe see it as a learning opportunity.

As to the intellectual bullying, that made me laugh. I'm autistic, straight up. My kids say we have weapons grade autism. When I was younger my nickname was sidewinder. Perhaps you can see why.

And playing the victim because you've been called out on your bullying is nothing short of pitiful.

About time someone told him a few home truths well done. "

haha, dribbles, are ya getting an avatar makeover, the dark shadow

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over a year ago


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I genuinely believe you don't see it. Some people won't. It can be passed as banter or a joke. I read your threads regularly and I don't see nastyness in you but just look at how many people do agree that this happens.

I overlooked your reply, and was meaning to come back to it. I'm not oblivious or nieve to the dynamic that unfolds here with people. Just follow where the energy eminates from, then work your way down to the more subtle levels of peoples interaction here.. in general I don't find there to be a culture of bullying, or even pockets of it for that matter. I have heard people refer to this culture past tense. In the last couple of months I have only observed one guy here who seems to be more deliberate in his attacks to undermine and humiliate a lady here on the forum, its probably the only example I have experienced over my period of time here, I'm not sure whether there is a pattern of this behaviour with the guy, outside the example I have given, time will tell, as it does with most things.

Bullying is a fact of life here, is it as overt as was 2 years ago when I first joined up? Nowhere near as much. Does it still happen? Yes it does, sometimes it is subtle, often disguised as humour and often its group work. The great advantage of doing as a group means that no one person is responsible. It doesn't change the impact though. It isn't restricted to gender either. I have received messages from women acknowledging that they have been bullied here by other women.

The purpose hasn't changed, it is still intended to belittle people, intimidate them from giving their opinions and invalidate their positions.

Already in this thread we have seen someone implying a correlation between the sort of person that makes this sort of post and the number of meets they have or have not. And your (BiGuy) own early contributions to was an attempt to invalidate the OP on the grounds that he doesn't post here frequently. Since then these people agreeing with the op have been labelled as moaners. I have yet to see a woman been labelled as moaning when she posts about the low standard of messages she gets.

I may be seen as a difficult person by many here on the forum, that doesn't bother me, to borrow a line from a song 'i don't need you to suck my dick to help me feel good about myself'

If we could add to your definition of bullying, id like to throw the intellectual bully into the mix, we know the folks who are smarter (have a higher IQ). They have more knowledge in a certain field, and generally carry the sense of entitlement to be dismissive and disrespectful in trying to embaress and humiliate others, their speciality is condendescension. Im actually quite fond of this type character, providing they can mix it up with plebbs like myself.

You're sore at being called out on your shit. I get that, do try and get over it, maybe see it as a learning opportunity.

As to the intellectual bullying, that made me laugh. I'm autistic, straight up. My kids say we have weapons grade autism. When I was younger my nickname was sidewinder. Perhaps you can see why.

And playing the victim because you've been called out on your bullying is nothing short of pitiful.

About time someone told him a few home truths well done.

haha, dribbles, are ya getting an avatar makeover, the dark shadow "

I showed you up for what you are many times on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I genuinely believe you don't see it. Some people won't. It can be passed as banter or a joke. I read your threads regularly and I don't see nastyness in you but just look at how many people do agree that this happens.

I overlooked your reply, and was meaning to come back to it. I'm not oblivious or nieve to the dynamic that unfolds here with people. Just follow where the energy eminates from, then work your way down to the more subtle levels of peoples interaction here.. in general I don't find there to be a culture of bullying, or even pockets of it for that matter. I have heard people refer to this culture past tense. In the last couple of months I have only observed one guy here who seems to be more deliberate in his attacks to undermine and humiliate a lady here on the forum, its probably the only example I have experienced over my period of time here, I'm not sure whether there is a pattern of this behaviour with the guy, outside the example I have given, time will tell, as it does with most things.

Bullying is a fact of life here, is it as overt as was 2 years ago when I first joined up? Nowhere near as much. Does it still happen? Yes it does, sometimes it is subtle, often disguised as humour and often its group work. The great advantage of doing as a group means that no one person is responsible. It doesn't change the impact though. It isn't restricted to gender either. I have received messages from women acknowledging that they have been bullied here by other women.

The purpose hasn't changed, it is still intended to belittle people, intimidate them from giving their opinions and invalidate their positions.

Already in this thread we have seen someone implying a correlation between the sort of person that makes this sort of post and the number of meets they have or have not. And your (BiGuy) own early contributions to was an attempt to invalidate the OP on the grounds that he doesn't post here frequently. Since then these people agreeing with the op have been labelled as moaners. I have yet to see a woman been labelled as moaning when she posts about the low standard of messages she gets.

I may be seen as a difficult person by many here on the forum, that doesn't bother me, to borrow a line from a song 'i don't need you to suck my dick to help me feel good about myself'

If we could add to your definition of bullying, id like to throw the intellectual bully into the mix, we know the folks who are smarter (have a higher IQ). They have more knowledge in a certain field, and generally carry the sense of entitlement to be dismissive and disrespectful in trying to embaress and humiliate others, their speciality is condendescension. Im actually quite fond of this type character, providing they can mix it up with plebbs like myself.

You're sore at being called out on your shit. I get that, do try and get over it, maybe see it as a learning opportunity.

As to the intellectual bullying, that made me laugh. I'm autistic, straight up. My kids say we have weapons grade autism. When I was younger my nickname was sidewinder. Perhaps you can see why.

And playing the victim because you've been called out on your bullying is nothing short of pitiful.

About time someone told him a few home truths well done.

haha, dribbles, are ya getting an avatar makeover, the dark shadow I showed you up for what you are many times on the forums."

haha, you really do give yourself too much credit where have you been hiding for the last few days, the wife walked in on ya a few times today, as you were typing sweet messages to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I genuinely believe you don't see it. Some people won't. It can be passed as banter or a joke. I read your threads regularly and I don't see nastyness in you but just look at how many people do agree that this happens.

I overlooked your reply, and was meaning to come back to it. I'm not oblivious or nieve to the dynamic that unfolds here with people. Just follow where the energy eminates from, then work your way down to the more subtle levels of peoples interaction here.. in general I don't find there to be a culture of bullying, or even pockets of it for that matter. I have heard people refer to this culture past tense. In the last couple of months I have only observed one guy here who seems to be more deliberate in his attacks to undermine and humiliate a lady here on the forum, its probably the only example I have experienced over my period of time here, I'm not sure whether there is a pattern of this behaviour with the guy, outside the example I have given, time will tell, as it does with most things.

Bullying is a fact of life here, is it as overt as was 2 years ago when I first joined up? Nowhere near as much. Does it still happen? Yes it does, sometimes it is subtle, often disguised as humour and often its group work. The great advantage of doing as a group means that no one person is responsible. It doesn't change the impact though. It isn't restricted to gender either. I have received messages from women acknowledging that they have been bullied here by other women.

The purpose hasn't changed, it is still intended to belittle people, intimidate them from giving their opinions and invalidate their positions.

Already in this thread we have seen someone implying a correlation between the sort of person that makes this sort of post and the number of meets they have or have not. And your (BiGuy) own early contributions to was an attempt to invalidate the OP on the grounds that he doesn't post here frequently. Since then these people agreeing with the op have been labelled as moaners. I have yet to see a woman been labelled as moaning when she posts about the low standard of messages she gets.

I may be seen as a difficult person by many here on the forum, that doesn't bother me, to borrow a line from a song 'i don't need you to suck my dick to help me feel good about myself'

If we could add to your definition of bullying, id like to throw the intellectual bully into the mix, we know the folks who are smarter (have a higher IQ). They have more knowledge in a certain field, and generally carry the sense of entitlement to be dismissive and disrespectful in trying to embaress and humiliate others, their speciality is condendescension. Im actually quite fond of this type character, providing they can mix it up with plebbs like myself.

You're sore at being called out on your shit. I get that, do try and get over it, maybe see it as a learning opportunity.

As to the intellectual bullying, that made me laugh. I'm autistic, straight up. My kids say we have weapons grade autism. When I was younger my nickname was sidewinder. Perhaps you can see why.

And playing the victim because you've been called out on your bullying is nothing short of pitiful.

About time someone told him a few home truths well done.

haha, dribbles, are ya getting an avatar makeover, the dark shadow I showed you up for what you are many times on the forums.

haha, you really do give yourself too much credit where have you been hiding for the last few days, the wife walked in on ya a few times today, as you were typing sweet messages to me "

No credit needed. I just put in a few words and you did the rest all by yourself.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"

I genuinely believe you don't see it. Some people won't. It can be passed as banter or a joke. I read your threads regularly and I don't see nastyness in you but just look at how many people do agree that this happens.

I overlooked your reply, and was meaning to come back to it. I'm not oblivious or nieve to the dynamic that unfolds here with people. Just follow where the energy eminates from, then work your way down to the more subtle levels of peoples interaction here.. in general I don't find there to be a culture of bullying, or even pockets of it for that matter. I have heard people refer to this culture past tense. In the last couple of months I have only observed one guy here who seems to be more deliberate in his attacks to undermine and humiliate a lady here on the forum, its probably the only example I have experienced over my period of time here, I'm not sure whether there is a pattern of this behaviour with the guy, outside the example I have given, time will tell, as it does with most things.

Bullying is a fact of life here, is it as overt as was 2 years ago when I first joined up? Nowhere near as much. Does it still happen? Yes it does, sometimes it is subtle, often disguised as humour and often its group work. The great advantage of doing as a group means that no one person is responsible. It doesn't change the impact though. It isn't restricted to gender either. I have received messages from women acknowledging that they have been bullied here by other women.

The purpose hasn't changed, it is still intended to belittle people, intimidate them from giving their opinions and invalidate their positions.

Already in this thread we have seen someone implying a correlation between the sort of person that makes this sort of post and the number of meets they have or have not. And your (BiGuy) own early contributions to was an attempt to invalidate the OP on the grounds that he doesn't post here frequently. Since then these people agreeing with the op have been labelled as moaners. I have yet to see a woman been labelled as moaning when she posts about the low standard of messages she gets.

I may be seen as a difficult person by many here on the forum, that doesn't bother me, to borrow a line from a song 'i don't need you to suck my dick to help me feel good about myself'

If we could add to your definition of bullying, id like to throw the intellectual bully into the mix, we know the folks who are smarter (have a higher IQ). They have more knowledge in a certain field, and generally carry the sense of entitlement to be dismissive and disrespectful in trying to embaress and humiliate others, their speciality is condendescension. Im actually quite fond of this type character, providing they can mix it up with plebbs like myself.

You're sore at being called out on your shit. I get that, do try and get over it, maybe see it as a learning opportunity.

As to the intellectual bullying, that made me laugh. I'm autistic, straight up. My kids say we have weapons grade autism. When I was younger my nickname was sidewinder. Perhaps you can see why.

And playing the victim because you've been called out on your bullying is nothing short of pitiful.

About time someone told him a few home truths well done.

haha, dribbles, are ya getting an avatar makeover, the dark shadow I showed you up for what you are many times on the forums.

haha, you really do give yourself too much credit where have you been hiding for the last few days, the wife walked in on ya a few times today, as you were typing sweet messages to me No credit needed. I just put in a few words and you did the rest all by yourself."

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