FabSwingers.com forum: Networking between lads

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In the last few months I tried to network with lads on fab for several reasons, mostly because from time to time my MF friends ask me to recommend a man to them, or to bring additional M or few Ms to night of fun.

My friends don't want just a stunt cock, but a nice reliable man that for specific fantasy meets specific requirements!!

Few guys I already met socially enjoyed some fun thanks to connection to me and also I have been blessed with benefits of gaining access to their network.

However, my network is not big enough to be able to always find the right man for the right job and I am finding it extremely frustrating that lads have other lads blocked or are paranoid about talking to another man..., as it limits my chance to network with them and it limits opportunity for them to be involved in something amazing.

You may ask, why couples wouldn't get in touch with these men directly?

Often because it's a surprise for the lady and using their couple account for communication put at risk that she will see reply from the lad before it gets picked by the husband and deleted. Also, they not always have enough time to do all the networking, validation by themselves by the time they plan their fun.

So my appeal to men on here is the following: If you are from Dublin, or happy to travel to Dublin for some group fun, please get in touch. Let's grab pint together next year and chat.

If you are the type of a guy that doesn't struggle to pull attractive women in vanilla life, or that attractive women find you good looking, you are the type of a guy I am happy to network with.

Also, those that connected with me that have not expressed the desire and mode any effort to grab a social drink with me, will be dropped from my contacts over the next while. I am exhausted extending invitations for a chat and facing this paranoia from lads to talk to another man face to face. How can you expect to be introduced to a beautiful lady, who's somebody's wife, when you display this sort of behaviour?

So, let's make January a month of networking lads!

Just wondering what drives your distrust in other men here and not wanting to network or chat with other well verified male profiles? Same goes for receiving verifications from M profiles after MFM fun? What are you so afraid about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair play OP!

Think this is a great idea.

I'd be happy to have a pint and a chat with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peer support network, interesting initiative, I would be more than happy to put my particular skill set into the mix, for review purposes, over a drink. I've admired your principled approach to swinging, should make for an interesting conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

#networking #europeanladforpresident

#rightmanforthejob

#missionimpossible

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Thats actually a great idea and after seeing some of your female friends that came to the meet and greet I'd say you'll be swamped with guys looking to network

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

EL you really are one of the good ones, its a real struggle for us to find some one who fits what we are looking for.

Keep up the great work man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This sounds like a great idea and if it wasn't for distance I'd be up for it.

It also sounds a lot classier than the guy who mailed me asking to swap slut details recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My distrust comes from males pretending to be couples with fake pics,google search is amazing.

Also straight males asking to be a part of a gangbang with a woman,when in truth the male is bi and is wanting some male on male fun.no thanks Im straight and nothing will change that.

And then theres couples who talk the talk but wont walk the walk when it comes to actually meeting up socially,all the excuses come out suddenly.And thats when they are the ones who state about a social meet.

So yeah OP,go for it,great idea

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By *atthewsundriMan
over a year ago

dundrum

Great Idea op does it still count if grannies find me good looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea EL and fair play to you

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By *on1980Man
over a year ago

City Centre

Great idea EL, give me a shout on kik anytime

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By *murphMan
over a year ago

drogheda

I think it is a good idea as it would a group of genuine people and each would know one another I would gladly meet for a pint ?? in January if I was to be included

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This could be our fab man shed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smashing idea mate, happy to have a lads night out few beers in town giz a mail anytime lads all here for a laugh so why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea ... good to have a network of Fab friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a great idea, although I'm in NI, can we have an NI chapter? We can cooperate in cross boarder relations..

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By *unnymunroMan
over a year ago

dublin

Great idea. Count me in for a pint. I'm in the city centre too so shouldn't be hard arrange.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's great to see there is positive response from the male part of the lifestyle.

First meet is almost finalised for the first small group. Amazing.

I will be brutally honest to say that I am inviting only those gentlemen that I think my friends will like.

But, it seems there is a need and desire for more networking from within the male part of the community. Lads, organise own meets over pints and network, network, network. Hopefully, this will result in more happy ladies and more group fun they will get from the male part of FAB.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's great to see there is positive response from the male part of the lifestyle.

First meet is almost finalised for the first small group. Amazing.

I will be brutally honest to say that I am inviting only those gentlemen that I think my friends will like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im on it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair play sir sounds good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair play to you OP

As a couple, looking to try organise a mmmf or something similar type groups proves a tough task and the only option being to ask single profiles if they know of or can recommend someone else.

Proves too time consuming and messy.

Your approach is a breath of fresh air

Well done

Keep us tuned on progress

DnA

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By *it_tribesmanMan
over a year ago

Galway

Keep up the good work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This could be our fab man shed

Love it

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By *kmanMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

"Fair play OP!

Think this is a great idea.

I'd be happy to have a pint and a chat with you."

I second that but I am Donegal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done op.. keep up the networking..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good on you OP. Brilliant idea. Need more of that for sure

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So lovely to see that what I wrote in the original post meets needs of F and MF (also thank you for private messages about it).

Hopefully this will start a change of attitude towards single lads on forum... Or am I hoping for too much and earlier hell freezes than single lads get good treatment on FAB forums?

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Well done OP for the initiative.

I'll count myself out as I certainly don't count in the instantly attractive to ladies or wielder of the Jedi sword either.

Hope it goes well but do make sure it doesn't become a"clique" or the forums slagging will be mental

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

Fair play OP, hope it goes well for you and good to see someone trying to help others out.

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By *aythekiddMan
over a year ago

Carlow

Totally agree OP in fact back in my fresh faced naive days of Fab I even tried organising a guy's only social.....let's just say I ran into alot of the same problems you seem to be having

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add me on LinkedIn

Joking aside. Good idea. Keep me posted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fair play OP!

Think this is a great idea.

I'd be happy to have a pint and a chat with you.

I second that but I am Donegal

;;Note to self plan a trip to donegal at some point soon. Can then say ‘I’m in ur area lol’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excellent idea OP. ..hopefully the network will expand in the new year!!!????????

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

Networking rules!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Totally agree OP in fact back in my fresh faced naive days of Fab I even tried organising a guy's only social.....let's just say I ran into alot of the same problems you seem to be having

Really? I though that night was a success? I wasn't following the forum that closely though.

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By *aythekiddMan
over a year ago

Carlow

"Totally agree OP in fact back in my fresh faced naive days of Fab I even tried organising a guy's only social.....let's just say I ran into alot of the same problems you seem to be having

Really? I though that night was a success? I wasn't following the forum that closely though."

Unfortunately not, almost everyone bailed last minute or straight up ghosted me with no excuse. It wasn't all bad I had a few fab friends that showed up to save the night but I learned then that guys on fab aren't the most reliable always

But I really do think we should try and network more so good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think this is a very constructive way to go about things - can be busy at work regularly but more than welcome to hear more and meet for a coffee to discuss more

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Totally agree OP in fact back in my fresh faced naive days of Fab I even tried organising a guy's only social.....let's just say I ran into alot of the same problems you seem to be having

Really? I though that night was a success? I wasn't following the forum that closely though.

But I really do think we should try and network more so good luck "

Their loss. You are sound guy. Met you at socia in October. You are reliable.

But you are right. Many lads are too shy. I think they want but get scared at the end. We all been there but some of us decided to show up and now we are enjoying the lifestyle

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By *aythekiddMan
over a year ago

Carlow

Yes remember meeting you back then and I look forward to the chance to chat in person again.

If this networking movement takes off maybe I'll try the guys social thing again but this time I'll keep it to just a short list of reliable fabbers... hell maybe I'll just make it co-ed and that'll sort all the problems

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By *ugeload_atxMan
over a year ago

Goatstown

I think this is a very good idea and I am very keen to join the network. January is probably a better month to start the meet&greets as many of us will be away from Dublin for the holidays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea OP

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"In the last few months I tried to network with lads on fab for several reasons, mostly because from time to time my MF friends ask me to recommend a man to them, or to bring additional M or few Ms to night of fun.

My friends don't want just a stunt cock, but a nice reliable man that for specific fantasy meets specific requirements!!

Few guys I already met socially enjoyed some fun thanks to connection to me and also I have been blessed with benefits of gaining access to their network.

You may ask, why couples wouldn't get in touch with these men directly?

So my appeal to men on here is the following: If you are from Dublin, or happy to travel to Dublin for some group fun, please get in touch. Let's grab pint together next year and chat.

If you are the type of a guy that doesn't struggle to pull attractive women in vanilla life, or that attractive women find you good looking, you are the type of a guy I am happy to network with.

So, let's make January a month of networking lads!

Brilliant idea I wish they would do this over here too x

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By *ohnandGemCouple
over a year ago

Louth/Meath/Dublin

Kudos EL, I've always liked and respected your attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea bro!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Great idea ... good to have a network of Fab friends

Ah Evie i thought you had a network already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"#networking #europeanladforpresident

#rightmanforthejob

#missionimpossible

#missiondoable

#elforpresidentoffab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a nice guy with both a great idea and a great attitude. .. Hooe this works

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By *hocoholicWoman
over a year ago

The big D

Wouldn’t it be great to have a trustworthy guy who could recommend decent respectful mates to join in some fun. When I planned mmf’s etc I spent so much time searching, chatting & shopping about that it took away some of the kink, it felt like I was interviewing for a job lol.

Good luck op & can I throw my 2cents in... if u were to offer to assist f & mf in finding their perfect playmates & it didn’t necessary have to include u would u think about expanding ur age preferences. I know I came across ur profile b4 & tried messaging but I’m outside ur preference which I respect but if u were to be networking & wanting contacts & fabfriends would u not want to include a wider audience.

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By *ex555Man
over a year ago

down south

Great idea networking

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By *olepullerMan
over a year ago

Newry

mercuriom into setting up anNI chapter too m8

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Kudos EL, I've always liked and respected your attitude."

thank you kindly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wouldn’t it be great to have a trustworthy guy who could recommend decent respectful mates to join in some fun. When I planned mmf’s etc I spent so much time searching, chatting & shopping about that it took away some of the kink, it felt like I was interviewing for a job lol.

I hope more guys will start networking between each other, so once you find one guy that you are happy with, he can recommend another man that he is comfortable to play with. MMF or MMMF, in my humble opinion, are much better when gents know one another and are not competing but working as a team in such set up (I don't like playing with those 100% super straight lads, as they can display high discomfort in group play when being close to another man, which can kill the mood).

As I mentioned before, I network for the benefit of my friends and my own (so only limited to men that I think my friends would like and I would want to play alongside, etc.). I don't have ambitions to be the central point of reference for people I don't know etc. This would have taken too much time from my already busy life.

If you see my verification from a social or play scenario on a single guy's account, that means I am recommending him (wording of my verification will make it clear).

You say how much time it took to plan your mmf, what I get sometimes annoyed with is, when I spend hours on looking for guys for gangbang and later the MF that asked for my help, goes radio silent and doesn't cancel the thing, just stops communication. I had that happening 3 times to me already and that is why I am limiting my help to close friends and I will not longer handle communication. Only will advise whom I suggest and why and it will be up to them to organise, confirm etc. So I don't look like a time waster to the lads that spoke with me etc.

Lads, if you get a message from me asking for a pint and chat, would be great if you found time and met me for a short convo. Don't be afraid... haha

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By *ugeload_atxMan
over a year ago

Goatstown

EuropeanLad,

Should we message you individually or expressing interest here suffices? Assuming one has the "right stuff" you're looking for.

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By *icklowhornMan
over a year ago

Dublin Wicklow

Great idea op, I’m on for a pint or coffee

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lads, you are missing the point. The shout out is not for lads to apply for networking with me, I will choose and contact guys I am interested in chatting with and hopefully they will not have single lads blocked from contacting them... if they do, I will fab the pic and hopefully they understand it’s for that purpose (some already understood that, which is great).

The shout out if for guys to start networking with others as it simply helps and is needed.

The idea is that we don’t treat each other as competition but start cooperating. But not just with me... :P Do it with other lads too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea. I’m always open for networking. I hope that means friendly pints

I’m not gonna try jump any lad unless he asks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea Pal! I’m in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea EL, networking is a key to life

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By *ickirishallsortsMan
over a year ago

Lickie Manor

Hey EL. Really nice to see you fighting the good fight.

As you know the secret to successful networking Is a four letter word

Talk.

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