FabSwingers.com forum: A lot of sherlock holmes here

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do women ask for face pics? Is that so important for you or are you like Sherlock H. To describe if there is attraction or not? For me is not hugely important, i prefer to see other things, wtb you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No face picture, no meet

Physical attraction it very important to me, the whole package

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't look for one.i prefer to chat for a while.if the chat going well and there is interest will both swap face pics then.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

if u have a face that only mammy could love you're in a spot of bother on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont mind chatting for bit then swapping face pics.

tho i think it rude if they dont reply with one even if not type, and these profiles that have no pics or unvertifed but still say must send face pic in 1st email

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I couldnt meet someone without seeing a face picture.

I need to like the face before my interest goes any further. But having said that no matter how “good looking” they are if there’s no spark between us then that’s that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldnt meet someone without seeing a face picture.

I need to like the face before my interest goes any further. But having said that no matter how “good looking” they are if there’s no spark between us then that’s that.

agree you nedd the spark

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"I don't look for one.i prefer to chat for a while.if the chat going well and there is interest will both swap face pics then."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spark is good. But empty profiles asking for one first seems off to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could have a face on ye your only after chewing on a grenade. Physical attration is something we all look for. Me included

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

"I don't look for one.i prefer to chat for a while.if the chat going well and there is interest will both swap face pics then."

Same for us. We value our privacy and that of others. We would not send a face pic in a first message nor ask for one.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

reason i like one early is you could chat for ages without one to realise there is no attraction and that the chatting has been a complete waste of time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is so much cat fishing and fake pics that I trust very little to pics... Video verification or drinks is best way to establish true attraction. Especially if you don't photograph well.

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By *xplicitlyricsMan
over a year ago

south dublin

Whats always wierd is brand new profiles with no pics at all asking for face pics in the first message, anybody could have set that profile up.

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By *r_mrs_studmuffinCouple
over a year ago

narnia

Never trust a pic always prefer to meet face to face

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

what pics do is sense if there is a bit of physical attraction there. if there is not there will be no meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When women,or couples,or men for that matter ask for a face pic(yes we do as well),you are not obliged to send.you can just ignore and stop messaging.

As I've said many times,there is someone for everyone on fab,not everyone for someone.

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By *onygirl19Woman
over a year ago

co dublin

"reason i like one early is you could chat for ages without one to realise there is no attraction and that the chatting has been a complete waste of time "

Agree 100% . I don’t see the point of not knowing if you’re attracted to someone or not .

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I honestly don't get what people's problem is with sending a face pic

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I love a nice, smile and open face.

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By *icey55Man
over a year ago

Dublin /Meath

Beauty as they say is in the eye of the beholder and while we all think of ourselves as reasonably good looking we may not be everyones cup of tea.

It is nice to put a face to a name when you are getting on with someone on mails particularly if it is heading in the direction of a coffee meet.

Most important thing for me is that spark or banter that ensures conversation can flow in a potential meet.

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By *onygirl19Woman
over a year ago

co dublin

"I honestly don't get what people's problem is with sending a face pic "

Again agree ,,, it’s not like anybody on here is going to meet without seeing what you look like first .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I honestly don't get what people's problem is with sending a face pic "

There's not a problem sending a face pic but just not everyone preferences to send one on first or second mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"I honestly don't get what people's problem is with sending a face pic

There's not a problem sending a face pic but just not everyone preferences to send one on first or second mail"
would you chat to a lad weeks upon end before exchanging a face pic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I honestly don't get what people's problem is with sending a face pic

There's not a problem sending a face pic but just not everyone preferences to send one on first or second mailwould you chat to a lad weeks upon end before exchanging a face pic?"

I won't exchange faces pic with anyone until I'm totally comfortable doing so.if that means weeks and weeks so be it.if they happy to wait fine .if it pisses them off they can move on.we are all entitled to ur on preferences on how we manage it profiles .there is no right or wrong here

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"I honestly don't get what people's problem is with sending a face pic

There's not a problem sending a face pic but just not everyone preferences to send one on first or second mailwould you chat to a lad weeks upon end before exchanging a face pic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I honestly don't get what people's problem is with sending a face pic

There's not a problem sending a face pic but just not everyone preferences to send one on first or second mailwould you chat to a lad weeks upon end before exchanging a face pic?

Everyone to their own.the chat is as important to me as how they look.fab would be boring if we all agreed on things I suppose

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"I honestly don't get what people's problem is with sending a face pic

There's not a problem sending a face pic but just not everyone preferences to send one on first or second mailwould you chat to a lad weeks upon end before exchanging a face pic?

Everyone to their own.the chat is as important to me as how they look.fab would be boring if we all agreed on things I suppose "
most certainly. boring everyone singing off one hymn sheet. chat is important to me also but physical attraction more so as without it things will be going nowhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I honestly don't get what people's problem is with sending a face pic

There's not a problem sending a face pic but just not everyone preferences to send one on first or second mailwould you chat to a lad weeks upon end before exchanging a face pic?

Everyone to their own.the chat is as important to me as how they look.fab would be boring if we all agreed on things I suppose most certainly. boring everyone singing off one hymn sheet. chat is important to me also but physical attraction more so as without it things will be going nowhere "

So do u expect a face pic straight away?

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"I honestly don't get what people's problem is with sending a face pic

There's not a problem sending a face pic but just not everyone preferences to send one on first or second mailwould you chat to a lad weeks upon end before exchanging a face pic?

So do u expect a face pic straight away?"
first few mails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have different preferences, if you insist on a face pic before meeting and the other party isn't comfortable with that, then clearly you need to move on to the next profile.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"We all have different preferences, if you insist on a face pic before meeting and the other party isn't comfortable with that, then clearly you need to move on to the next profile."
absolutely but my point is I don't know why anyone would meet without seen a face picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I honestly don't get what people's problem is with sending a face pic

There's not a problem sending a face pic but just not everyone preferences to send one on first or second mailwould you chat to a lad weeks upon end before exchanging a face pic?

So do u expect a face pic straight away?first few mails "

There is profiles here that won't even exchange any face pics before a meet and they are entitled to this choice. Not even after a good few mails.some will like this and some won't.

At end of the day u respect each other's profiles and wishes and move on if it's not for you.simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all have different preferences, if you insist on a face pic before meeting and the other party isn't comfortable with that, then clearly you need to move on to the next profile.absolutely but my point is I don't know why anyone would meet without seen a face picture "

Because they choose to

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Because they choose to

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you learn new things everyday

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"I honestly don't get what people's problem is with sending a face pic

There's not a problem sending a face pic but just not everyone preferences to send one on first or second mailwould you chat to a lad weeks upon end before exchanging a face pic?

So do u expect a face pic straight away?first few mails

There is profiles here that won't even exchange any face pics before a meet and they are entitled to this choice. Not even after a good few mails.some will like this and some won't.

At end of the day u respect each other's profiles and wishes and move on if it's not for you.simple."
I have never read a profile on here who say they won't exchange a face pic. I guess there is a first time for everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do a lot of blind meets

Element of surprise, and anyway it's personality wins me over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t expect a face pic straight away. But would insist on it def before meeting. Within a few messages back n forth you can kinda get the vibe that you are going to get along, so then would be the right time to exchange pics. Messaging for ages without pics doesn’t make sense. As it doesn’t matter how well you get on with someone if there is zero attraction when ye meet then it’s going no where.

I wouldn’t bother with anyone who insists on a face pic straight away, I find it too demanding. but that’s my preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I honestly don't get what people's problem is with sending a face pic

There's not a problem sending a face pic but just not everyone preferences to send one on first or second mailwould you chat to a lad weeks upon end before exchanging a face pic?

So do u expect a face pic straight away?first few mails

There is profiles here that won't even exchange any face pics before a meet and they are entitled to this choice. Not even after a good few mails.some will like this and some won't.

At end of the day u respect each other's profiles and wishes and move on if it's not for you.simple.I have never read a profile on here who say they won't exchange a face pic. I guess there is a first time for everything "

Not allways written on their profile.but they will say it when chatting from the start.i have come across it.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"I don’t expect a face pic straight away. But would insist on it def before meeting. Within a few messages back n forth you can kinda get the vibe that you are going to get along, so then would be the right time to exchange pics. Messaging for ages without pics doesn’t make sense. As it doesn’t matter how well you get on with someone if there is zero attraction when ye meet then it’s going no where.

I wouldn’t bother with anyone who insists on a face pic straight away, I find it too demanding. but that’s my preference. "
totally agree with your first paragraph

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"I honestly don't get what people's problem is with sending a face pic

There's not a problem sending a face pic but just not everyone preferences to send one on first or second mailwould you chat to a lad weeks upon end before exchanging a face pic?

So do u expect a face pic straight away?first few mails

There is profiles here that won't even exchange any face pics before a meet and they are entitled to this choice. Not even after a good few mails.some will like this and some won't.

Not allways written on their profile.but they will say it when chatting from the start.i have come across it."
imo if you don't exchange face pics it should be said on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t bother with anyone who insists on a face pic straight away, I find it too demanding. but that’s my preference. totally agree with your first paragraph "

Not the second?

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I wouldn’t bother with anyone who insists on a face pic straight away, I find it too demanding. but that’s my preference. totally agree with your first paragraph

Not the second? "
if a woman asked me for a face pic in a second mail I'd have no problem obliging. what I see alot is a woman's profile asking for a face pic with your opening mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t bother with anyone who insists on a face pic straight away, I find it too demanding. but that’s my preference. totally agree with your first paragraph

Not the second? if a woman asked me for a face pic in a second mail I'd have no problem obliging. what I see alot is a woman's profile asking for a face pic with your opening mail "

Not all women have this on their profile.i don't see the issue in waiting a few mails rather than on first or second mail for a faced pic.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I wouldn’t bother with anyone who insists on a face pic straight away, I find it too demanding. but that’s my preference. totally agree with your first paragraph

Not the second? if a woman asked me for a face pic in a second mail I'd have no problem obliging. what I see alot is a woman's profile asking for a face pic with your opening mail

Not all women have this on their profile.i don't see the issue in waiting a few mails rather than on first or second mail for a faced pic."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There is so much cat fishing and fake pics that I trust very little to pics... Video verification or drinks is best way to establish true attraction. Especially if you don't photograph well."
100 hundred % agreed

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

I've no probs with pics at all after chattin for a bit ie few weeks r so , some do blind dates , been there got the t shirt never again .just not me.

I'd be warey of a sender looking pic in the first few messages

Wouldn't we all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand why people have such issues with sending face pics... Surely people don't meet without knowing what the other looks like, what if you meet and youre not attracted to someone, would you still play?

We were chatting to a couple recently who wanted to meet up for play but wouldn't send face pics or give us their real name for privacy reasons... I think if you're thay paranoid/cautious , this is probably the wrong place to be! We would never meet anyone without exchanging pics, of you don't trust us that's your perogative but we're not for you then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think when you have arranged a meet to see if things click then it is grand. But if people want them they should be ok with sending one first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d have to see a face pic before meeting tbh

No chemistry = no passion = no fun

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

there is no way I'd travel an hour or so to meet someone when there might be a chance of no physical attraction

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"there is no way I'd travel an hour or so to meet someone when there might be a chance of no physical attraction "

Ah sure that's only two miles at rush hour.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

"there is no way I'd travel an hour or so to meet someone when there might be a chance of no physical attraction

Ah sure that's only two miles at rush hour.

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that's Dublin for ya mick. bleedin jaysusssss

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"there is no way I'd travel an hour or so to meet someone when there might be a chance of no physical attraction

Ah sure that's only two miles at rush hour.

that's Dublin for ya mick. bleedin jaysusssss"

It was like that in Leitrim at one time as well but that was because we had no roads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do women ask for face pics? Is that so important for you or are you like Sherlock H. To describe if there is attraction or not? For me is not hugely important, i prefer to see other things, wtb you

Do not send any, as long as you have not chatted with her any longer. No facepic no meet..fuck off.

Most women here do not answer any messages and feel like they are at the weekly market.

Nice conversation and after a few mails the question of a meaningful picture, there is nothing wrong, but not as a opener.

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By *iversong321Woman
over a year ago

Preston/Merseyside

"dont mind chatting for bit then swapping face pics.

tho i think it rude if they dont reply with one even if not type, and these profiles that have no pics or unvertifed but still say must send face pic in 1st email "

Why should they send one if you are not their type. They dont want to fuck you.

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