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By *ubberNumbers OP   Couple
over a year ago

dublin

I'm guessing this is the wrong place to be asking this type of question, but you lot may surprise us.

I've read up that asbstaining (for men anyway) increases quality of life, mood, productivity and intercourse itself. Have any of yous tried or are currently trying this.

I (mr RN) am currently on day 3 and I'm climbing the walls already, like a junkie needing a fix. But it has shown me that even though I'm in a healthy relationship sex wise, I do masturbate a lot.

Also like to hear what the females think about it from their perspective.

Are we all just a bunch of major wankers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I will be surprising you guys, I think its important to keep bashing away, I use it as a mindfulness technique to reduce stress I'm quite a visual guy, so erotic or pornographic material feeds into my fantasies, and sometimes there best kept to myself. I do wonder if abstinence might free up more time to clean my house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I will be surprising you guys, I think its important to keep bashing away, I use it as a mindfulness technique to reduce stress I'm quite a visual guy, so erotic or pornographic material feeds into my fantasies, and sometimes there best kept to myself. I do wonder if abstinence might free up more time to clean my house "

Yah - just another excuse not to do your dishes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a woman's view, I like to abstain for maybe 5-7 days before a party or arranged meet I think it heightens the build up and definitely adds to an already healthy sexual appetite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a woman's view, I like to abstain for maybe 5-7 days before a party or arranged meet I think it heightens the build up and definitely adds to an already healthy sexual appetite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From a woman's view, I like to abstain for maybe 5-7 days before a party or arranged meet I think it heightens the build up and definitely adds to an already healthy sexual appetite "

God help them next Saturday night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I will be surprising you guys, I think its important to keep bashing away, I use it as a mindfulness technique to reduce stress I'm quite a visual guy, so erotic or pornographic material feeds into my fantasies, and sometimes there best kept to myself. I do wonder if abstinence might free up more time to clean my house

Yah - just another excuse not to do your dishes"

Im de-stressing at the moment looking at your pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From a woman's view, I like to abstain for maybe 5-7 days before a party or arranged meet I think it heightens the build up and definitely adds to an already healthy sexual appetite

God help them next Saturday night "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I will be surprising you guys, I think its important to keep bashing away, I use it as a mindfulness technique to reduce stress I'm quite a visual guy, so erotic or pornographic material feeds into my fantasies, and sometimes there best kept to myself. I do wonder if abstinence might free up more time to clean my house

Yah - just another excuse not to do your dishes

Im de-stressing at the moment looking at your pictures "

Too much info

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Few years ago I totally abstained for over 5 months

It was an interesting exercise in restraint as the initial few weeks were hard but I did feel better and was in good form as a result

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By *ubberNumbers OP   Couple
over a year ago

dublin


"From a woman's view, I like to abstain for maybe 5-7 days before a party or arranged meet I think it heightens the build up and definitely adds to an already healthy sexual appetite "
pre party abstinence is a good idea actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From a woman's view, I like to abstain for maybe 5-7 days before a party or arranged meet I think it heightens the build up and definitely adds to an already healthy sexual appetite pre party abstinence is a good idea actually. "

Works for me lol probably too well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I abstained for the last few years of my marriage. ... not doing that again

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

ive managed barely 2 days and at that it was a struggle

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By *tripper9Man
over a year ago

Blackburn


"I abstained for the last few years of my marriage. ... not doing that again "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to wank or have my gf wank me off. Its the only thing in life these days I dont have pay for .. So no, im not going to stop, im going to keep on yanking it. ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God I don’t think I could go for that long , once a day to keep the dr away haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wud abstain on da day of a playdate as it adds to my horniness. .but alas only for a day ...& wen I now a release is imminent

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By *osmicGateMan
over a year ago

louth

abstaining from ejaculation can lead to higher testosterone levels so you'd get all the benefits of this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine it gets very hard after a while ..

Gandhi used to do this, so you're in good company op .. mind you, he used to sleep naked with his 18 year-old grandniece, so maybe better not to follow his lead too closely

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I'm interested to know if any of the guys have tried "cages" to assist with the abstinence?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will go easily for 3 to 4 days, always makes the payoff that little bit sweeter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm interested to know if any of the guys have tried "cages" to assist with the abstinence?"

Aw hells no, they look wrong. Sheer willpower is the way forward.

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By *auraLucyLuLuWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I'm interested to know if any of the guys have tried "cages" to assist with the abstinence?

Aw hells no, they look wrong. Sheer willpower is the way forward."

Lol thanks for the honesty

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By *ubberNumbers OP   Couple
over a year ago

dublin


"I imagine it gets very hard after a while ..

Gandhi used to do this, so you're in good company op .. mind you, he used to sleep naked with his 18 year-old grandniece, so maybe better not to follow his lead too closely "

Haha, the 18 year old part sounds great, but no thanks on the niece part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant abstain as there does be a sperm build up and it actually hurts .I do abstain when Im in a relationship or when I know Im gonna meet somebody as it helps for heavier cumming and greater pleasure . Harry

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By *K430Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I'm guessing this is the wrong place to be asking this type of question, but you lot may surprise us.

I've read up that asbstaining (for men anyway) increases quality of life, mood, productivity and intercourse itself. Have any of yous tried or are currently trying this.

I (mr RN) am currently on day 3 and I'm climbing the walls already, like a junkie needing a fix. But it has shown me that even though I'm in a healthy relationship sex wise, I do masturbate a lot.

Also like to hear what the females think about it from their perspective.

Are we all just a bunch of major wankers? "

Firstly ,we are all a bunch of wankers , secondly will we actually live longer by giving up wanking , or will it just seem longer

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I just go with the flow. I never experimented with abstinence, unless it happens naturally. When I'm busy there's less play unless I'm stressed then there's more. Meets don't influence my self play, when I meet I'm full on no matter what.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Let's all have some December fun and have no more of this foolish talk ...until January 1st

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By *imTam691Man
over a year ago

Dublin/Kildare/Meath

I tried to abstain for a week one of time just to see if I could. And I know a week isn't a long time but you've got to start somewhere.....Palm and her 5 friends paid a visit on the 4th or 5th day so that went out the window pretty quick!

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"I tried to abstain for a week one of time just to see if I could. And I know a week isn't a long time but you've got to start somewhere.....Palm and her 5 friends paid a visit on the 4th or 5th day so that went out the window pretty quick! "

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What went out the window exactly buddy?

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I tried to abstain for a week one of time just to see if I could. And I know a week isn't a long time but you've got to start somewhere.....Palm and her 5 friends paid a visit on the 4th or 5th day so that went out the window pretty quick!

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What went out the window exactly buddy?"

Probably spunk. The force was strong with that one after 5 days so likely broke the glass

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I tried to abstain for a week one of time just to see if I could. And I know a week isn't a long time but you've got to start somewhere.....Palm and her 5 friends paid a visit on the 4th or 5th day so that went out the window pretty quick!

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What went out the window exactly buddy?

Probably spunk. The force was strong with that one after 5 days so likely broke the glass "

And let that be a lesson to all you abstainers. Do not deny yourself, unless you have installed double/triple glazing. It's not just about the heat, it's a safety issue

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By *eeperscreepersMan
over a year ago

Tipp

To hell with that, masturbation is the one pastime I have left

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By *ountrygent90Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"I'm interested to know if any of the guys have tried "cages" to assist with the abstinence?"

Have done 8 days abstinence as an experiment. Thinking about getting a cage and giving the key to a lady, to decide how long it stays on.

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By *onny26IrishMan
over a year ago

cork

After a week theres a real full load n quite horny. Never ever got past 2 weeks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An wankholic me lol . I find it weird if I do it to often my sexual appetite for going out and picking up a lady doesn't seem to happen I become lazy I don't know is that just me or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're a male and you are not having sex on a regular basis then its important for your health to masterbate regularly. Good prostate health is important as men get older so clearing the pipes is part of maintaining that health. So if possible don't abstain

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I think it's a load of hogwash abstaining from it . You need to wank end of story .

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I think it's a load of hogwash abstaining from it . You need to wank end of story . "

It's not hogwash Chocko.

It's mouthwash for ladies

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