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By *hat ever you want - OP   Man
over a year ago

dub lad

When chatting to someone and you send a face pic only to be blanked --- wow

Don't take much to just say sorry pal not for me thanks do .

Is it just me ---

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes that response provokes bad manners in return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be careful of mojorisin81 she is a fake sent name and pic to it after a bit of mailing then got blocked when asked for hers she did the same to another guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone i sent pics to and i wasn't for them just said thanks but no thanks can't complain about that no point causing bs when they ain't interested

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Be careful of mojorisin81 she is a fake sent name and pic to it after a bit of mailing then got blocked when asked for hers she did the same to another guy "

That doesn't mean she's a fake ffs. Enjoy your timeout for breaking the rules as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not the only 1 that said it

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

Have to say I find it incredibly difficult to reply after a face pic has been sent and say you aren’t for me lol I’d find it horrible being said to me and I’d rather think they didn’t see it and move on

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"When chatting to someone and you send a face pic only to be blanked --- wow

Don't take much to just say sorry pal not for me thanks do .

Is it just me --- "

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It's the way the Fab world works...

As long as you have a few sexy contacts, who cares if others block, delete, ignore or say "sorry, not my type"

As long as you have an abundance mentality here, you'll meet sexy people again and again...

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Would it help if you knew it happens us all?

Loads never talk to me again after seeing my face. Loads don't want sexy talk with me, or to swap pics. Loads have blocked me without ever even talking to me.

But, also loads want to talk naughty with me, be filthy with me, meet me, have sex with me, over and over again.

So chin up.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

if i see a face pic id very rarely reply if I didn't like it

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By *hat ever you want - OP   Man
over a year ago

dub lad


"Anyone i sent pics to and i wasn't for them just said thanks but no thanks can't complain about that no point causing bs when they ain't interested "

That's what I'd do -- it's nice to be nice but there just deleted and blocked --

A simple not for us thanks would of done --ah well

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By *hat ever you want - OP   Man
over a year ago

dub lad


"Have to say I find it incredibly difficult to reply after a face pic has been sent and say you aren’t for me lol I’d find it horrible being said to me and I’d rather think they didn’t see it and move on "

Getting used to the rejection side of this place lol

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

Dont send facepics anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me neither

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By *ebelickerMan
over a year ago

Cork

A sensitive soul , your better off leaving this site not 4 U

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal


"A sensitive soul , your better off leaving this site not 4 U"

..dunno about that..the OP ..not unlike most us probably has good days and bad days on here...id say most people have got hacked off on here at some stage or another...its easy to be flippant...

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By *hat ever you want - OP   Man
over a year ago

dub lad


"A sensitive soul , your better off leaving this site not 4 U"

It's called manners some people have then others don't -- ah well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's more to do with experience than manners. Often when you say no thank you to someone, they ask why (as if somehow the answer to the why question could change your mind) and then it continues and gets exhausting and they get aggressive. Just looking through my mailbox now and reading a message where I said no thank you five times to the same person. That's why it's easier to just block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's more to do with experience than manners. Often when you say no thank you to someone, they ask why (as if somehow the answer to the why question could change your mind) and then it continues and gets exhausting and they get aggressive. Just looking through my mailbox now and reading a message where I said no thank you five times to the same person. That's why it's easier to just block."
Why not say no thanks and if they ask again then block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's more to do with experience than manners. Often when you say no thank you to someone, they ask why (as if somehow the answer to the why question could change your mind) and then it continues and gets exhausting and they get aggressive. Just looking through my mailbox now and reading a message where I said no thank you five times to the same person. That's why it's easier to just block."

Yes, you really have to wonder what people expect in response to "so why won't you meet me"

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By *witch86Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Some people get offended and go off on one if you tell them 'sorry not interested'

In the case of single females and a lot of couples profiles, they're being inundated with 100+ messages a day so they simply don't have time to reply to everyone who leaves them a message

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"It's more to do with experience than manners. Often when you say no thank you to someone, they ask why (as if somehow the answer to the why question could change your mind) and then it continues and gets exhausting and they get aggressive. Just looking through my mailbox now and reading a message where I said no thank you five times to the same person. That's why it's easier to just block.

Yes, you really have to wonder what people expect in response to "so why won't you meet me" "

Where the feck have you been?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's more to do with experience than manners. Often when you say no thank you to someone, they ask why (as if somehow the answer to the why question could change your mind) and then it continues and gets exhausting and they get aggressive. Just looking through my mailbox now and reading a message where I said no thank you five times to the same person. That's why it's easier to just block. Why not say no thanks and if they ask again then block."

sometimes i do that, sometimes i don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's more to do with experience than manners. Often when you say no thank you to someone, they ask why (as if somehow the answer to the why question could change your mind) and then it continues and gets exhausting and they get aggressive. Just looking through my mailbox now and reading a message where I said no thank you five times to the same person. That's why it's easier to just block.

Yes, you really have to wonder what people expect in response to "so why won't you meet me"

Where the feck have you been? "

Stepped out for some fresh air

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"It's more to do with experience than manners. Often when you say no thank you to someone, they ask why (as if somehow the answer to the why question could change your mind) and then it continues and gets exhausting and they get aggressive. Just looking through my mailbox now and reading a message where I said no thank you five times to the same person. That's why it's easier to just block.

Yes, you really have to wonder what people expect in response to "so why won't you meet me"

Where the feck have you been?

Stepped out for some fresh air "

You've missed very little to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all the years on and off on here, I had maximum 3 guys not accepting my no thanks reply.

I think it’s because I thank them for the photo, tell them I’m not interested (i never say you’re not my type) and wish them all the best and lots of fun.

I think this is sufficiently assertive, kind as much as possible, not personal and implies that they can have fun with someone else.

Mind you, I only do this if I already had a conversation and we agreed on a face pic exchange.

I think blocking someone after you had a conversation and they sent you a pic, is harsh. Get some balls and be honest but kind. Block them, if they get awkward after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When chatting to someone and you send a face pic only to be blanked --- wow

Don't take much to just say sorry pal not for me thanks do .

Is it just me --- "

That's why you should never send a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I think blocking someone after you had a conversation and they sent you a pic, is harsh. Get some balls and be honest but kind. Block them, if they get awkward after. "

I agree, blocking that way is poor manners and reeks of an entitlement complex

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

nothing wrong with blocking, helps you avoid the ones not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A sensitive soul , your better off leaving this site not 4 U

It's called manners some people have then others don't -- ah well"

Read not rules no reply means no interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I think blocking someone after you had a conversation and they sent you a pic, is harsh. Get some balls and be honest but kind. Block them, if they get awkward after.

I agree, blocking that way is poor manners and reeks of an entitlement complex "

Not necessarily entitlement, some people simply lack social skills and aren't assertive enough about their boundaries.

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