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By *lippery-when-wet-180 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

If your profile is hidden is that not an indication to people that you aren’t available for messaging and chatting? Why do so many message still when you are hidden

To me if I hide my profile I am not available, I may come on and have a look at the forum and participate there but I am not available for meeting or for chatting. Is this not what is meant by hiding the profile? Just wondering thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might be a case of 'come out come out wherever you are'...in my own case a hidden profile is a Do Not Disturb sign on the door. If someone doesn't wish to be contacted...respect that wish.

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By *lippery-when-wet-180 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

That would be my view I’d never mail them! I’ve even got a friend request while hidden

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By *rishman444Man
over a year ago

letterkenny

Well I just clicked on your profile and it's hiden so how do I message u if I can't get in I think if people have message u b 4 they must still be able to

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By *lippery-when-wet-180 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"Well I just clicked on your profile and it's hiden so how do I message u if I can't get in I think if people have message u b 4 they must still be able to "

You can message it’s at the top, I’ve had new people and new messages not from a previous chat lol

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By *rishman444Man
over a year ago

letterkenny

Sorry so u can lol never seen that I just thought wen hiden that would stop all messages well one thing I will say there's no point in hiding then if your still going to get all the messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block all mail if you don’t want to hear from anyone new while you’re hidden.

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By *lippery-when-wet-180 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"Block all mail if you don’t want to hear from anyone new while you’re hidden."

Good idea! Drives me mad lol

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By *lippery-when-wet-180 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"Sorry so u can lol never seen that I just thought wen hiden that would stop all messages well one thing I will say there's no point in hiding then if your still going to get all the messages "

Then I get asked to meet up and given out to for being here if I’m not meeting

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By *ailburkeMan
over a year ago

near you


"Well I just clicked on your profile and it's hiden so how do I message u if I can't get in I think if people have message u b 4 they must still be able to

You can message it’s at the top, I’ve had new people and new messages not from a previous chat lol "

Thanks for the heads up on how to message you while having your profile blocked leaving this post now to message you with "im in your area fancy a meet" hi hows your day going " how are you finding fab " what you into " all questions will be asked in seperate messages,i do hope we can be friends after this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block all mail if you don’t want to hear from anyone new while you’re hidden.

Good idea! Drives me mad lol"

I hear ya!

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By *rishman444Man
over a year ago

letterkenny


"Sorry so u can lol never seen that I just thought wen hiden that would stop all messages well one thing I will say there's no point in hiding then if your still going to get all the messages

Then I get asked to meet up

and given out to for being here if I’m not meeting "

Yes some men don't understand wen u say noooooo u can be on here to look and not meet or chat that is your choice not there's and sure u can message someone to chat even so your hiden am sure they will get fed up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I don't get is, on there profile it says male or couples or females whatever it my be and you mail them, then you get block or hidden! And they don't even look at your profile! Just strange! I know there are people on here pissing off fabbers, just don't brush everyone with the same brush.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Block all mail if you don’t want to hear from anyone new while you’re hidden.

Good idea! Drives me mad lol

I hear ya! "

This is the only way to go if you want a quiet profile.

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Block all mail if you don’t want to hear from anyone new while you’re hidden.

Good idea! Drives me mad lol

I hear ya!

This is the only way to go if you want a quiet profile. "

No if you really want a quiet profile then change your profile to that of a straight single male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I don't get is, on there profile it says male or couples or females whatever it my be and you mail them, then you get block or hidden! And they don't even look at your profile! Just strange! I know there are people on here pissing off fabbers, just don't brush everyone with the same brush. "

It's possible to browse without leaving a trace, look in your privacy settings (I think that's where it is). Just because someone's profile says they're looking for men, it doesn't mean they're looking for you, or possibly for someone of your age. People are entitled to their preferences, and if someone is pissing you off, the block button is your friend

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By *rishman444Man
over a year ago

letterkenny


"Block all mail if you don’t want to hear from anyone new while you’re hidden.

Good idea! Drives me mad lol

I hear ya!

This is the only way to go if you want a quiet profile.

No if you really want a quiet profile then change your profile to that of a straight single male "

Lol nice one I would go with this it's bullet proof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I don't get is, on there profile it says male or couples or females whatever it my be and you mail them, then you get block or hidden! And they don't even look at your profile! Just strange! I know there are people on here pissing off fabbers, just don't brush everyone with the same brush.

It's possible to browse without leaving a trace, look in your privacy settings (I think that's where it is). Just because someone's profile says they're looking for men, it doesn't mean they're looking for you, or possibly for someone of your age. People are entitled to their preferences, and if someone is pissing you off, the block button is your friend "

I totally understand the preference and age and all that but it's just getting crazy now, ah well I just keep on blocking as you said

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

From a personal point of view we don’t have any problems with anyone who wants to hide their profile, only if they’re fully active on site and always hidden do we have issues...

Why should someone be able to have access to our profile when we can’t theirs?

F

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By *lippery-when-wet-180 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"From a personal point of view we don’t have any problems with anyone who wants to hide their profile, only if they’re fully active on site and always hidden do we have issues...

Why should someone be able to have access to our profile when we can’t theirs?

F "

I get that totally! I’m just not in a position to meet at the moment and haven’t time to respond to messages but like the forum lol well on it’s good days lol and if I’ve been chatting to someone and they want to see I unhide while they do and hide again lol

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By *lippery-when-wet-180 OP   Woman
over a year ago

South Dub


"Well I just clicked on your profile and it's hiden so how do I message u if I can't get in I think if people have message u b 4 they must still be able to

You can message it’s at the top, I’ve had new people and new messages not from a previous chat lol

Thanks for the heads up on how to message you while having your profile blocked leaving this post now to message you with "im in your area fancy a meet" hi hows your day going " how are you finding fab " what you into " all questions will be asked in seperate messages,i do hope we can be friends after this "

I don’t know if we can you like to suck toes

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By *ailburkeMan
over a year ago

near you


"Well I just clicked on your profile and it's hiden so how do I message u if I can't get in I think if people have message u b 4 they must still be able to

You can message it’s at the top, I’ve had new people and new messages not from a previous chat lol

Thanks for the heads up on how to message you while having your profile blocked leaving this post now to message you with "im in your area fancy a meet" hi hows your day going " how are you finding fab " what you into " all questions will be asked in seperate messages,i do hope we can be friends after this

I don’t know if we can you like to suck toes "

I like to suck tits to so dont get too upset we could fine commen ground yet, sure look ill keep bombarding you with mails until i get a responce that i like or ill throw a load of abuse at you because your up tight and you wont fuck on demaned then you can block me a put up a post saying what an ass i am but befor that we could knock a few weeks out of this

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin


"Well I just clicked on your profile and it's hiden so how do I message u if I can't get in I think if people have message u b 4 they must still be able to

You can message it’s at the top, I’ve had new people and new messages not from a previous chat lol

Thanks for the heads up on how to message you while having your profile blocked leaving this post now to message you with "im in your area fancy a meet" hi hows your day going " how are you finding fab " what you into " all questions will be asked in seperate messages,i do hope we can be friends after this

I don’t know if we can you like to suck toes "

I do sexy ladies toes that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From a personal point of view we don’t have any problems with anyone who wants to hide their profile, only if they’re fully active on site and always hidden do we have issues...

Why should someone be able to have access to our profile when we can’t theirs?

F "

Yeah likewise, the precious ones as I like to refer to them as

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

If i see a friends profile hidden i might message just as a kinda 'hope everythings ok' kinda way..other than that i generally wouldnt mail hidden profiles at all..

..then again..i havent sent a single message in over a fortnight on here!!!...and i only have 5 friends..

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