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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Does it put you off when you realise your meet had already sex with someone else before you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was on the same day, absofuckinlutely!

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Does it put you off when you realise your meet had already sex with someone else before you? "
isn't that what here is for or do people count numbers?

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Ohhhhhhh diffo fuck that shit I don't do second best ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In what time frame ??? Same day is abit much if you ask me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like virgins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just like virgins "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it put you off when you realise your meet had already sex with someone else before you? "

The title of the thread, had me thinking of something completely different, this must be the irish version

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Meh.. It doesn't trouble me at all once everything is safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just like virgins "

Hi Kas, I'm your man

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Does it put you off when you realise your meet had already sex with someone else before you?

The title of the thread, had me thinking of something completely different, this must be the irish version "

Elaborate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it put you off when you realise your meet had already sex with someone else before you? "

Same day would defo be an issue alright

But outside of that why would it be an issue ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just like virgins

Hi Kas, I'm your man "

Mmm let think how I can make sure I'll be your first and only one

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

why would you give 2 flying f...ks who the person you're going to meet has already had sex with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just like virgins

Hi Kas, I'm your man

Mmm let think how I can make sure I'll be your first and only one "

Murder isn’t legal Kas lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not so sure why this matters, I've seen people fuck multiple partners at parties during group play ..have seen people play one to one..shower ...play with someone else ... I don't see what's wrong with it

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I'm not so sure why this matters, I've seen people fuck multiple partners at parties during group play ..have seen people play one to one..shower ...play with someone else ... I don't see what's wrong with it "
one word. jealousy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just like virgins

Hi Kas, I'm your man

Mmm let think how I can make sure I'll be your first and only one

Murder isn’t legal Kas lol"

Upss

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"why would you give 2 flying f...ks who the person you're going to meet has already had sex with?"

From a woman's perspective if he has shot already most of his ammunition it ends up in a lame ball game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not so sure why this matters, I've seen people fuck multiple partners at parties during group play ..have seen people play one to one..shower ...play with someone else ... I don't see what's wrong with it "

Cleanliness is less to godliness

Or so I’ve been told

Personally I just believe in cleanliness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it put you off when you realise your meet had already sex with someone else before you?

The title of the thread, had me thinking of something completely different, this must be the irish version

Elaborate "

A guy cums inside the woman and then the next guy gets in there with his sloppy needless to say, I spit my tea all over the xmas tree when I seen your post haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are both virgins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just like virgins

Hi Kas, I'm your man

Mmm let think how I can make sure I'll be your first and only one

Murder isn’t legal Kas lol

Upss "

But If there’s no witnesses ............

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I'm not so sure why this matters, I've seen people fuck multiple partners at parties during group play ..have seen people play one to one..shower ...play with someone else ... I don't see what's wrong with it "

Parties are a different story altogether.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

@dh

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

So how does this play out in a threesome or foursome? It shouldn't be an issue in swinging or NSA. Myself and Foo usually play before we get ready to go out swinging and when we get home.

MB

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

Wouldn't matter so much if it was in a group setting...

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"why would you give 2 flying f...ks who the person you're going to meet has already had sex with?

From a woman's perspective if he has shot already most of his ammunition it ends up in a lame ball game. "
it doesn't matter who meets who on here. I have been told some stuff lately about posters who you think are do gooders. I can tell you one thing, the site is wreaking in jealousy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not so sure why this matters, I've seen people fuck multiple partners at parties during group play ..have seen people play one to one..shower ...play with someone else ... I don't see what's wrong with it

Parties are a different story altogether. "

Why? Is it ok to judge people in some instances but not ok to judge them in others?

Stirring someone else's porridge would've been how I titled this thread if I gave a flying shite about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just like virgins

Hi Kas, I'm your man

Mmm let think how I can make sure I'll be your first and only one

Murder isn’t legal Kas lol

Upss

But If there’s no witnesses ............ "

Im from latinamerica... I can be dangerous lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just like virgins

Hi Kas, I'm your man

Mmm let think how I can make sure I'll be your first and only one

Murder isn’t legal Kas lol

Upss

But If there’s no witnesses ............

Im from latinamerica... I can be dangerous lol"

In other words you already have a spot in the Wicklow mountains is what you’re telling me

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By *anaduABCMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Does it count if uv had sex in the same decade - -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just like virgins

Hi Kas, I'm your man

Mmm let think how I can make sure I'll be your first and only one

Murder isn’t legal Kas lol

Upss

But If there’s no witnesses ............

Im from latinamerica... I can be dangerous lol"

Just in case I turn up dead I've screen shotted this

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Does it put you off when you realise your meet had already sex with someone else before you?

The title of the thread, had me thinking of something completely different, this must be the irish version

Elaborate

A guy cums inside the woman and then the next guy gets in there with his sloppy needless to say, I spit my tea all over the xmas tree when I seen your post haha"

According to online definitions it's just intercourse after intercourse with two different people not necessarily bareback and cum filled pussy and certainly not what I was referring to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it put you off when you realise your meet had already sex with someone else before you? "

It would depend, if I was developing a meet over a period of time, then I would hope their would be the necessary build up of excitement and expectation...I certainly wouldnt be wanking never mind anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know what a tracker mortgage is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So how does this play out in a threesome or foursome? It shouldn't be an issue in swinging or NSA. Myself and Foo usually play before we get ready to go out swinging and when we get home.

MB"

Yep... Hotwifes sometimes play before and after a meet and is all good

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"Does it put you off when you realise your meet had already sex with someone else before you?

The title of the thread, had me thinking of something completely different, this must be the irish version

Elaborate

A guy cums inside the woman and then the next guy gets in there with his sloppy needless to say, I spit my tea all over the xmas tree when I seen your post haha

According to online definitions it's just intercourse after intercourse with two different people not necessarily bareback and cum filled pussy and certainly not what I was referring to. "

I thought the same as BGF to be honest

MB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just like virgins

Hi Kas, I'm your man

Mmm let think how I can make sure I'll be your first and only one

Murder isn’t legal Kas lol

Upss

But If there’s no witnesses ............

Im from latinamerica... I can be dangerous lol

Just in case I turn up dead I've screen shotted this "

I have my ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh yea stirring someone else’s porridge is what I’d have thought re Sloppy Seconds

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I'm not so sure why this matters, I've seen people fuck multiple partners at parties during group play ..have seen people play one to one..shower ...play with someone else ... I don't see what's wrong with it

Parties are a different story altogether.

Why? Is it ok to judge people in some instances but not ok to judge them in others?

Stirring someone else's porridge would've been how I titled this thread if I gave a flying shite about it "

I wouldn't give a flying pancake if the person has met someone else before me as long as he can still keep up with me.

At a party you have choice and you can always hop to the next one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we are both virgins"

Taking notes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it put you off when you realise your meet had already sex with someone else before you? "

Like all these question, most women probably will care. Most men would just be delighted to get sex with 2 women in a short time frame

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"So how does this play out in a threesome or foursome? It shouldn't be an issue in swinging or NSA. Myself and Foo usually play before we get ready to go out swinging and when we get home.

MB

Yep... Hotwifes sometimes play before and after a meet and is all good "

So why is it any different for anyone else is what I am wondering. No I wouldn't have an issue with it.

MB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not so sure why this matters, I've seen people fuck multiple partners at parties during group play ..have seen people play one to one..shower ...play with someone else ... I don't see what's wrong with it "

The party is over!

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Does it put you off when you realise your meet had already sex with someone else before you?

The title of the thread, had me thinking of something completely different, this must be the irish version

Elaborate

A guy cums inside the woman and then the next guy gets in there with his sloppy needless to say, I spit my tea all over the xmas tree when I seen your post haha

According to online definitions it's just intercourse after intercourse with two different people not necessarily bareback and cum filled pussy and certainly not what I was referring to.

I thought the same as BGF to be honest

MB"

I read up in the expression before posting, otherwise I wouldn't have used it.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I'm not so sure why this matters, I've seen people fuck multiple partners at parties during group play ..have seen people play one to one..shower ...play with someone else ... I don't see what's wrong with it

Parties are a different story altogether.

Why? Is it ok to judge people in some instances but not ok to judge them in others?

Stirring someone else's porridge would've been how I titled this thread if I gave a flying shite about it

I wouldn't give a flying pancake if the person has met someone else before me as long as he can still keep up with me.

At a party you have choice and you can always hop to the next one. "
lol do you expect your meet to say " oh by the way I had sex this morning, just letting you know"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massive turn on. Obviously she didnt get the bell rung first time round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not so sure why this matters, I've seen people fuck multiple partners at parties during group play ..have seen people play one to one..shower ...play with someone else ... I don't see what's wrong with it

Cleanliness is less to godliness

Or so I’ve been told

Personally I just believe in cleanliness "

People shower so it's feck all to do with that ..if someone didn't know the person had sex that day and they're hygenic then they know no different and think they was the only person he fucked that day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" do you expect your meet to say " oh by the way I had sex this morning, just letting you know"?"

That poor first dude you didn't buck me as well as I wanted, I need a proper cocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not so sure why this matters, I've seen people fuck multiple partners at parties during group play ..have seen people play one to one..shower ...play with someone else ... I don't see what's wrong with it

Parties are a different story altogether.

Why? Is it ok to judge people in some instances but not ok to judge them in others?

Stirring someone else's porridge would've been how I titled this thread if I gave a flying shite about it

I wouldn't give a flying pancake if the person has met someone else before me as long as he can still keep up with me.

At a party you have choice and you can always hop to the next one. "

So what your really saying is, you have no objection to a guy having fucked earlier in the day or night before he fucks you as long as he has some lead left in his pencil to please you ?

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Massive turn on. Obviously she didnt get the bell rung first time round"

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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago

co Galway

Damn right it would put me off meeting her if she was with a guy beforehand on the same day!

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"Does it put you off when you realise your meet had already sex with someone else before you?

The title of the thread, had me thinking of something completely different, this must be the irish version

Elaborate

A guy cums inside the woman and then the next guy gets in there with his sloppy needless to say, I spit my tea all over the xmas tree when I seen your post haha

According to online definitions it's just intercourse after intercourse with two different people not necessarily bareback and cum filled pussy and certainly not what I was referring to.

I thought the same as BGF to be honest

MB

I read up in the expression before posting, otherwise I wouldn't have used it. "

Sorry DH but so have I and it's definition refers to a guy having sex with a person who is still carrying another person's semen in them

MB

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Damn right it would put me off meeting her if she was with a guy beforehand on the same day! "
you would never know in most cases!

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I'm not so sure why this matters, I've seen people fuck multiple partners at parties during group play ..have seen people play one to one..shower ...play with someone else ... I don't see what's wrong with it

Parties are a different story altogether.

Why? Is it ok to judge people in some instances but not ok to judge them in others?

Stirring someone else's porridge would've been how I titled this thread if I gave a flying shite about it

I wouldn't give a flying pancake if the person has met someone else before me as long as he can still keep up with me.

At a party you have choice and you can always hop to the next one. lol do you expect your meet to say " oh by the way I had sex this morning, just letting you know"?"

Lol, no but sometimes it's easy to read the signs.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I'm not so sure why this matters, I've seen people fuck multiple partners at parties during group play ..have seen people play one to one..shower ...play with someone else ... I don't see what's wrong with it

Parties are a different story altogether.

Why? Is it ok to judge people in some instances but not ok to judge them in others?

Stirring someone else's porridge would've been how I titled this thread if I gave a flying shite about it

I wouldn't give a flying pancake if the person has met someone else before me as long as he can still keep up with me.

At a party you have choice and you can always hop to the next one. lol do you expect your meet to say " oh by the way I had sex this morning, just letting you know"?

Lol, no but sometimes it's easy to read the signs. "
I think what you really ment was you arranging to meet a guy on here and finding out he has met someone else before your arranged meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it put you off when you realise your meet had already sex with someone else before you?

The title of the thread, had me thinking of something completely different, this must be the irish version

Elaborate

A guy cums inside the woman and then the next guy gets in there with his sloppy needless to say, I spit my tea all over the xmas tree when I seen your post haha

According to online definitions it's just intercourse after intercourse with two different people not necessarily bareback and cum filled pussy and certainly not what I was referring to.

I thought the same as BGF to be honest

MB

I read up in the expression before posting, otherwise I wouldn't have used it.

Sorry DH but so have I and it's definition refers to a guy having sex with a person who is still carrying another person's semen in them

MB"

Wikipedia or urban dictionary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Sorry DH but so have I and it's definition refers to a guy having sex with a person who is still carrying another person's semen in them

MB"

The sloppy part gives it away

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Does it put you off when you realise your meet had already sex with someone else before you?

The title of the thread, had me thinking of something completely different, this must be the irish version

Elaborate

A guy cums inside the woman and then the next guy gets in there with his sloppy needless to say, I spit my tea all over the xmas tree when I seen your post haha

According to online definitions it's just intercourse after intercourse with two different people not necessarily bareback and cum filled pussy and certainly not what I was referring to.

I thought the same as BGF to be honest

MB

I read up in the expression before posting, otherwise I wouldn't have used it.

Sorry DH but so have I and it's definition refers to a guy having sex with a person who is still carrying another person's semen in them

MB"

Urban dictionary is the only one referring to semen, all other ones don't.

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I'm not so sure why this matters, I've seen people fuck multiple partners at parties during group play ..have seen people play one to one..shower ...play with someone else ... I don't see what's wrong with it

Parties are a different story altogether.

Why? Is it ok to judge people in some instances but not ok to judge them in others?

Stirring someone else's porridge would've been how I titled this thread if I gave a flying shite about it

I wouldn't give a flying pancake if the person has met someone else before me as long as he can still keep up with me.

At a party you have choice and you can always hop to the next one. lol do you expect your meet to say " oh by the way I had sex this morning, just letting you know"?

Lol, no but sometimes it's easy to read the signs. I think what you really ment was you arranging to meet a guy on here and finding out he has met someone else before your arranged meet "

No.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I'm not so sure why this matters, I've seen people fuck multiple partners at parties during group play ..have seen people play one to one..shower ...play with someone else ... I don't see what's wrong with it

Parties are a different story altogether.

Why? Is it ok to judge people in some instances but not ok to judge them in others?

Stirring someone else's porridge would've been how I titled this thread if I gave a flying shite about it

I wouldn't give a flying pancake if the person has met someone else before me as long as he can still keep up with me.

At a party you have choice and you can always hop to the next one. lol do you expect your meet to say " oh by the way I had sex this morning, just letting you know"?

Lol, no but sometimes it's easy to read the signs. I think what you really ment was you arranging to meet a guy on here and finding out he has met someone else before your arranged meet

No. "
a ha. tutu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it put you off when you realise your meet had already sex with someone else before you?

The title of the thread, had me thinking of something completely different, this must be the irish version

Elaborate

A guy cums inside the woman and then the next guy gets in there with his sloppy needless to say, I spit my tea all over the xmas tree when I seen your post haha

According to online definitions it's just intercourse after intercourse with two different people not necessarily bareback and cum filled pussy and certainly not what I was referring to.

I thought the same as BGF to be honest

MB

I read up in the expression before posting, otherwise I wouldn't have used it.

Sorry DH but so have I and it's definition refers to a guy having sex with a person who is still carrying another person's semen in them

MB

Urban dictionary is the only one referring to semen, all other ones don't. "

haha, check the fab dictionary

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Does it put you off when you realise your meet had already sex with someone else before you?

The title of the thread, had me thinking of something completely different, this must be the irish version

Elaborate

A guy cums inside the woman and then the next guy gets in there with his sloppy needless to say, I spit my tea all over the xmas tree when I seen your post haha

According to online definitions it's just intercourse after intercourse with two different people not necessarily bareback and cum filled pussy and certainly not what I was referring to.

I thought the same as BGF to be honest

MB

I read up in the expression before posting, otherwise I wouldn't have used it.

Sorry DH but so have I and it's definition refers to a guy having sex with a person who is still carrying another person's semen in them

MB

Urban dictionary is the only one referring to semen, all other ones don't.

haha, check the fab dictionary"

, actually not a bad idea it would clarify a lot of misunderstandings on here.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

You mean to tell me that some of my meets weren't virgins???

I'm sitting here in absolute shock ...

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Guess it depends. If you have met the person on a previous occasions and know they have high standards of cleanliness/safety, then you would assume that they maintain those standards with all meets. If that's the case, then likely not an issue, along with a probable ego boost, thinking they just had average sex earlier and prefer what you do to them.

If they turned up already "full", then I'm running a mile away, blocking them and getting myself an STI check

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

To me, sloppy seconds men's they had bareback sex with previous, have semen in them from that and likely expect you to go in bareback also. Not happening with me!

Although from the New Lady Pics I review on a relatively frequent basis, bareback seems to be even more popular than ever. I know some here worship at that church but I'm never going to be in that congregation.

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Guess it depends. If you have met the person on a previous occasions and know they have high standards of cleanliness/safety, then you would assume that they maintain those standards with all meets. If that's the case, then likely not an issue, along with a probable ego boost, thinking they just had average sex earlier and prefer what you do to them.

If they turned up already "full", then I'm running a mile away, blocking them and getting myself an STI check "

Why would you do an STI check if you did a runner? Having a sneaky taste before the run?

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Guess it depends. If you have met the person on a previous occasions and know they have high standards of cleanliness/safety, then you would assume that they maintain those standards with all meets. If that's the case, then likely not an issue, along with a probable ego boost, thinking they just had average sex earlier and prefer what you do to them.

If they turned up already "full", then I'm running a mile away, blocking them and getting myself an STI check

Why would you do an STI check if you did a runner? Having a sneaky taste before the run? "

In the case where I had met her before and been led to believe she had standards and then she turns up sloppy

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Guess it depends. If you have met the person on a previous occasions and know they have high standards of cleanliness/safety, then you would assume that they maintain those standards with all meets. If that's the case, then likely not an issue, along with a probable ego boost, thinking they just had average sex earlier and prefer what you do to them.

If they turned up already "full", then I'm running a mile away, blocking them and getting myself an STI check

Why would you do an STI check if you did a runner? Having a sneaky taste before the run?

In the case where I had met her before and been led to believe she had standards and then she turns up sloppy "

A condom is your best friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A condom is your best friend.

Very true

Surly it be crazy too think you are not someone’s sloppy seconds on a swingers site .. means nothing as long as ur safe lol

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Guess it depends. If you have met the person on a previous occasions and know they have high standards of cleanliness/safety, then you would assume that they maintain those standards with all meets. If that's the case, then likely not an issue, along with a probable ego boost, thinking they just had average sex earlier and prefer what you do to them.

If they turned up already "full", then I'm running a mile away, blocking them and getting myself an STI check

Why would you do an STI check if you did a runner? Having a sneaky taste before the run?

In the case where I had met her before and been led to believe she had standards and then she turns up sloppy

A condom is your best friend. "

I never play without a jacket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By oath yes!

It's bad enough stirring my own porridge at breakfast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if they had sex with someone else on that day, they are an STI risk, but if their last meet was on the previous day, they’re not?

That’s quite some logic!

So for some, if they had a meet on that day before you, it’s a no go.

So what time limit do you put on it?

If they had sex until 11pm the previous day and meet you at 9am next day, is this ok?

How about they had a meet on that day at 9 am and then meet you at 7pm that evening?

Just trying to put some logic in this with some math

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if they had sex with someone else on that day, they are an STI risk, but if their last meet was on the previous day, they’re not?

That’s quite some logic!

So for some, if they had a meet on that day before you, it’s a no go.

So what time limit do you put on it?

If they had sex until 11pm the previous day and meet you at 9am next day, is this ok?

How about they had a meet on that day at 9 am and then meet you at 7pm that evening?

Just trying to put some logic in this with some math "

This is almost getting as complicated as keeping a mogwai

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Thankfully I always go first, even with other mens wives so I have never been in this situation. It sounds scary and confusing to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thankfully I always go first, even with other mens wives so I have never been in this situation. It sounds scary and confusing to me."

Of course the husband wouldn’t dare fucking his own wife on that day

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir

Yes sloppy seconds has an original meaning of second best but generally it's out there now as cum filled. Anyway, working with the other scenario, I don't get why it is a problem as long as safety is adhered to. I don't discuss or justify my sex life with anyone beyond my partner and wouldn't ask that of another fabber. This is NSA swinging. Beyond your interactions with them, what they do is there own business.

MB

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Yes sloppy seconds has an original meaning of second best but generally it's out there now as cum filled. Anyway, working with the other scenario, I don't get why it is a problem as long as safety is adhered to. I don't discuss or justify my sex life with anyone beyond my partner and wouldn't ask that of another fabber. This is NSA swinging. Beyond your interactions with them, what they do is there own business.

MB"
Jesus, we agree on something the world is gonna end!!

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"Yes sloppy seconds has an original meaning of second best but generally it's out there now as cum filled. Anyway, working with the other scenario, I don't get why it is a problem as long as safety is adhered to. I don't discuss or justify my sex life with anyone beyond my partner and wouldn't ask that of another fabber. This is NSA swinging. Beyond your interactions with them, what they do is there own business.

MBJesus, we agree on something the world is gonna end!!"

MB

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

it's like I said on a thread recently, jealousy and bitchiness etc are unbelievable on here. talking just about sex it's a site where you meet others, it's not your business who your potential meet has already met or If he/she is going to meet somebody else before you.

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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago

and surrounding areas


"Yes sloppy seconds has an original meaning of second best but generally it's out there now as cum filled. Anyway, working with the other scenario, I don't get why it is a problem as long as safety is adhered to. I don't discuss or justify my sex life with anyone beyond my partner and wouldn't ask that of another fabber. This is NSA swinging. Beyond your interactions with them, what they do is there own business.

MB"

we always play the day of a meet or a party as we are always horned up to the last , , dont see a problem with meeting people who played that day either , wouldnt bother us at all , comdoms are must regardless of the time frame

Mrs crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if I'm having a one on one meet then I'd prefer to know beforehand. If it's a party then it is what it is

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"if I'm having a one on one meet then I'd prefer to know beforehand. If it's a party then it is what it is "
why would you prefer to know? out of curiosity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What someone does and who they do it with is no concern of mine, as long as they turn up clean and tidy and ready for more. I don't understand why some people get annoyed about this, it smacks of territorialism and I personally don't think it belongs in the swinging world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if I'm having a one on one meet then I'd prefer to know beforehand. If it's a party then it is what it is "

Surely it's none of your business as long as they turn up for your meet, they could lie and say jesas you mad I would never meet someone before you ... Reality check

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By *eauhoMan
over a year ago

City Centre

I'd find it a turn on!

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"What someone does and who they do it with is no concern of mine, as long as they turn up clean and tidy and ready for more. I don't understand why some people get annoyed about this, it smacks of territorialism and I personally don't think it belongs in the swinging world. "
many men with sex can meet many women but alot of women are not able or don't want to meet alot of men. why? because women want one bloke who they have good sex with but here's where the problem arises on fab. with lots they get jealous and bitchiness creeps in when he's meeting other women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother us tbh as long as they where able to play without showing signs of exhaustion !.Whatever people do in their own time is their business ,after all we may have played before hand aswell !

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"if I'm having a one on one meet then I'd prefer to know beforehand. If it's a party then it is what it is

Surely it's none of your business as long as they turn up for your meet, they could lie and say jesas you mad I would never meet someone before you ... Reality check "
some live in cocooland on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if I'm having a one on one meet then I'd prefer to know beforehand. If it's a party then it is what it is

Surely it's none of your business as long as they turn up for your meet, they could lie and say jesas you mad I would never meet someone before you ... Reality check "

I'm entitled to my preference. There's no need to be rude to me about it at all.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"if I'm having a one on one meet then I'd prefer to know beforehand. If it's a party then it is what it is

Surely it's none of your business as long as they turn up for your meet, they could lie and say jesas you mad I would never meet someone before you ... Reality check

I'm entitled to my preference. There's no need to be rude to me about it at all. "
I don't think it's about preference. think about it in reality tiny, it's none of your business and in all honesty how are you going to find out.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"if I'm having a one on one meet then I'd prefer to know beforehand. If it's a party then it is what it is

Surely it's none of your business as long as they turn up for your meet, they could lie and say jesas you mad I would never meet someone before you ... Reality check

I'm entitled to my preference. There's no need to be rude to me about it at all. I don't think it's about preference. think about it in reality tiny, it's none of your business and in all honesty how are you going to find out."
tiny?

take

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

I’ve had excellent sex with one and within 12hrs met someone else and had excellent sex! Just cause you meet and have sex in same day doesn’t mean you aren’t washing in between or using protection! I would be hornier after I’ve had excellent sex and want more! Don’t see a problem with meeting as many as you want in a day or them if you are clean and on the ball

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"What someone does and who they do it with is no concern of mine, as long as they turn up clean and tidy and ready for more. I don't understand why some people get annoyed about this, it smacks of territorialism and I personally don't think it belongs in the swinging world. many men with sex can meet many women but alot of women are not able or don't want to meet alot of men. why? because women want one bloke who they have good sex with but here's where the problem arises on fab. with lots they get jealous and bitchiness creeps in when he's meeting other women. "

Please don't turn this into another jealousy thread, bump yours if you wish to re-chew this topic again.

I simply wanted to know people's stand on the topic and I've understanding for both point of views. I've done up to 3 meets in 12/24 hours, for some it's a turn on to know that you're coming from another meet. With others you want the full attention when there is a build up via chat for a while.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"What someone does and who they do it with is no concern of mine, as long as they turn up clean and tidy and ready for more. I don't understand why some people get annoyed about this, it smacks of territorialism and I personally don't think it belongs in the swinging world. many men with sex can meet many women but alot of women are not able or don't want to meet alot of men. why? because women want one bloke who they have good sex with but here's where the problem arises on fab. with lots they get jealous and bitchiness creeps in when he's meeting other women.

Please don't turn this into another jealousy thread, bump yours if you wish to re-chew this topic again.

I simply wanted to know people's stand on the topic and I've understanding for both point of views. I've done up to 3 meets in 12/24 hours, for some it's a turn on to know that you're coming from another meet. With others you want the full attention when there is a build up via chat for a while. "
my point been you probably won't know if you're the only one or not.

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"What someone does and who they do it with is no concern of mine, as long as they turn up clean and tidy and ready for more. I don't understand why some people get annoyed about this, it smacks of territorialism and I personally don't think it belongs in the swinging world. many men with sex can meet many women but alot of women are not able or don't want to meet alot of men. why? because women want one bloke who they have good sex with but here's where the problem arises on fab. with lots they get jealous and bitchiness creeps in when he's meeting other women.

Please don't turn this into another jealousy thread, bump yours if you wish to re-chew this topic again.

I simply wanted to know people's stand on the topic and I've understanding for both point of views. I've done up to 3 meets in 12/24 hours, for some it's a turn on to know that you're coming from another meet. With others you want the full attention when there is a build up via chat for a while. my point been you probably won't know if you're the only one or not. "

I'd say you can gauge that to a certain extent depending on who you're meeting and your conversation flow but yes there's no guarantee and eventually it's not of your business as others said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way would not like that at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it was on the same day, absofuckinlutely!"

^^^^ this

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"What someone does and who they do it with is no concern of mine, as long as they turn up clean and tidy and ready for more. I don't understand why some people get annoyed about this, it smacks of territorialism and I personally don't think it belongs in the swinging world. many men with sex can meet many women but alot of women are not able or don't want to meet alot of men. why? because women want one bloke who they have good sex with but here's where the problem arises on fab. with lots they get jealous and bitchiness creeps in when he's meeting other women.

Please don't turn this into another jealousy thread, bump yours if you wish to re-chew this topic again.

I simply wanted to know people's stand on the topic and I've understanding for both point of views. I've done up to 3 meets in 12/24 hours, for some it's a turn on to know that you're coming from another meet. With others you want the full attention when there is a build up via chat for a while. my point been you probably won't know if you're the only one or not.

I'd say you can gauge that to a certain extent depending on who you're meeting and your conversation flow but yes there's no guarantee and eventually it's not of your business as others said. "
absolutely

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"If it was on the same day, absofuckinlutely!

^^^^ this "
if only I lived in the vicinity of northern Ireland...

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry


"What someone does and who they do it with is no concern of mine, as long as they turn up clean and tidy and ready for more. I don't understand why some people get annoyed about this, it smacks of territorialism and I personally don't think it belongs in the swinging world. many men with sex can meet many women but alot of women are not able or don't want to meet alot of men. why? because women want one bloke who they have good sex with but here's where the problem arises on fab. with lots they get jealous and bitchiness creeps in when he's meeting other women.

Please don't turn this into another jealousy thread, bump yours if you wish to re-chew this topic again.

I simply wanted to know people's stand on the topic and I've understanding for both point of views. I've done up to 3 meets in 12/24 hours, for some it's a turn on to know that you're coming from another meet. With others you want the full attention when there is a build up via chat for a while. "

Jealousy, competition and hypergamy are all related to this topic, Sometimes people might come to the decision but for different reasons. And it is also true that one arouses one might repel another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why would you give 2 flying f...ks who the person you're going to meet has already had sex with?

From a woman's perspective if he has shot already most of his ammunition it ends up in a lame ball game. "

You have been with the wrong people so lol... I am definitely not a lame ball player doghunter lol. Drop me a mail. ??

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city


"Surely it's none of your business as long as they turn up for your meet, they could lie and say jesas you mad I would never meet someone before you ... Reality check "

So you are saying that, because men lie about their preferences women should have none at all and just be a bike?

I know this is fab and people lie like its going out of fashion. That if a woman adds "straight only" to her profile, her next 3 veris will be from guys who wear womens underwear while having sex with other men and she wont know. That everyone who knows he is bi will not outcast the guy over it, they will think its funny.

We all know that if a girl says in this thread that she prefer a guy not to have sex with someone else on the same day without saying, that their next meet will stop off for bareback sex on the way to meet her.

That does not mean people should throw their preferences in the bin, and just let anyone climb on them. Just means there are loads of really creepy people, thats all. If you find out someone broke someones preference on purpose, then never ever ever ever have sex with them yourself. Cause they will break yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done this several times - had two meets in one day or even evening - usually when the first planned one fucked off early

I would not however be telling meet number 2

None of their business as far as I'm concerned

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Surely it's none of your business as long as they turn up for your meet, they could lie and say jesas you mad I would never meet someone before you ... Reality check

So you are saying that, because men lie about their preferences women should have none at all and just be a bike?

I know this is fab and people lie like its going out of fashion. That if a woman adds "straight only" to her profile, her next 3 veris will be from guys who wear womens underwear while having sex with other men and she wont know. That everyone who knows he is bi will not outcast the guy over it, they will think its funny.

We all know that if a girl says in this thread that she prefer a guy not to have sex with someone else on the same day without saying, that their next meet will stop off for bareback sex on the way to meet her.

That does not mean people should throw their preferences in the bin, and just let anyone climb on them. Just means there are loads of really creepy people, thats all. If you find out someone broke someones preference on purpose, then never ever ever ever have sex with them yourself. Cause they will break yours."
if you're meeting a person on here you will not know who they're meeting before you. that's all is been said. it's none of your business and on a site where your attribute is sex I havnt a clue why it would bother you. what people get uppidy about on here is unreal. ride like there is no tomorrow, don't ride at all. who gives a flying fuck.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city


"if you're meeting a person on here you will not know who they're meeting before you. that's all is been said. it's none of your business and on a site where your attribute is sex I havnt a clue why it would bother you. what people get uppidy about on here is unreal. ride like there is no tomorrow, don't ride at all. who gives a flying fuck."

Actually there are several countries proposing laws and some already have them where withholding information to get sex is illegal. (the uk a big lie to get sex will land you in jail, a small one wont, yet)

It's morally repulsive to know someone has a preference and to know you do not meet it and have sex with them anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lying to get sex is absolutely disgusting. I'd rather never bang again than tell lies to get a bure into bed. I definitely wouldn't be down for sloppy seconds but as pointed out already how would I even know if someone met someone before me?

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"if you're meeting a person on here you will not know who they're meeting before you. that's all is been said. it's none of your business and on a site where your attribute is sex I havnt a clue why it would bother you. what people get uppidy about on here is unreal. ride like there is no tomorrow, don't ride at all. who gives a flying fuck.

Actually there are several countries proposing laws and some already have them where withholding information to get sex is illegal. (the uk a big lie to get sex will land you in jail, a small one wont, yet)

It's morally repulsive to know someone has a preference and to know you do not meet it and have sex with them anyway."
ok

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Lying to get sex is absolutely disgusting. I'd rather never bang again than tell lies to get a bure into bed. I definitely wouldn't be down for sloppy seconds but as pointed out already how would I even know if someone met someone before me?"
how do you lie in this regard to get sex. you're not lying.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city


"how do you lie in this regard to get sex. you're not lying. "

It's called fully informed consent. If you hold something back that could cause the person to say "no", then they have not fully consented.

For example if you were on top of someone having sex and said "I fucked a guy/girl on the way here", There is a chance that they might not have consented. That is plain to anyone.

That she would shout stop and kick you off her. You think that's okay just because you kept it secret and she never got the chance to kick you off or say no?

What exactly is wrong with being honest and saying you have another meet planned? "I had asked 2 or 3 to meet and one has already said yeah". Whats wrong with that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how do you lie in this regard to get sex. you're not lying.

It's called fully informed consent. If you hold something back that could cause the person to say "no", then they have not fully consented.

For example if you were on top of someone having sex and said "I fucked a guy/girl on the way here", There is a chance that they might not have consented. That is plain to anyone.

That she would shout stop and kick you off her. You think that's okay just because you kept it secret and she never got the chance to kick you off or say no?

What exactly is wrong with being honest and saying you have another meet planned? "I had asked 2 or 3 to meet and one has already said yeah". Whats wrong with that?"

How are you supposed to know what would or would not have made her change her mind? Should I be telling her I had eggs for breakfast in case she has an egg phobia and would normally run a mile from someone who just had eggs? Where's the line here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how do you lie in this regard to get sex. you're not lying.

It's called fully informed consent. If you hold something back that could cause the person to say "no", then they have not fully consented.

For example if you were on top of someone having sex and said "I fucked a guy/girl on the way here", There is a chance that they might not have consented. That is plain to anyone.

That she would shout stop and kick you off her. You think that's okay just because you kept it secret and she never got the chance to kick you off or say no?

What exactly is wrong with being honest and saying you have another meet planned? "I had asked 2 or 3 to meet and one has already said yeah". Whats wrong with that?"

Im not sure where your going with this, much of the morality that goes on about sex probably stems from efforts to discourage promiscuity and thereby increase paternal certainty and encourage male parental investment. What specific moral rules are you referring to ?

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"how do you lie in this regard to get sex. you're not lying.

It's called fully informed consent. If you hold something back that could cause the person to say "no", then they have not fully consented.

For example if you were on top of someone having sex and said "I fucked a guy/girl on the way here", There is a chance that they might not have consented. That is plain to anyone.

That she would shout stop and kick you off her. You think that's okay just because you kept it secret and she never got the chance to kick you off or say no?

What exactly is wrong with being honest and saying you have another meet planned? "I had asked 2 or 3 to meet and one has already said yeah". Whats wrong with that?"
I never heard such shite in all my life. the next time I have sex I must prepare my list to tell her beforehand

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"how do you lie in this regard to get sex. you're not lying.

It's called fully informed consent. If you hold something back that could cause the person to say "no", then they have not fully consented.

For example if you were on top of someone having sex and said "I fucked a guy/girl on the way here", There is a chance that they might not have consented. That is plain to anyone.

That she would shout stop and kick you off her. You think that's okay just because you kept it secret and she never got the chance to kick you off or say no?

What exactly is wrong with being honest and saying you have another meet planned? "I had asked 2 or 3 to meet and one has already said yeah". Whats wrong with that?I never heard such shite in all my life. the next time I have sex I must prepare my list to tell her beforehand "

Don't forget to tell her about the kitten you ran over with your bike when you were twelve. It child be relevant... "animal lovers only".

Mind you, killing kittens seems to be a good thing nowadays.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"how do you lie in this regard to get sex. you're not lying.

It's called fully informed consent. If you hold something back that could cause the person to say "no", then they have not fully consented.

For example if you were on top of someone having sex and said "I fucked a guy/girl on the way here", There is a chance that they might not have consented. That is plain to anyone.

That she would shout stop and kick you off her. You think that's okay just because you kept it secret and she never got the chance to kick you off or say no?

What exactly is wrong with being honest and saying you have another meet planned? "I had asked 2 or 3 to meet and one has already said yeah". Whats wrong with that?I never heard such shite in all my life. the next time I have sex I must prepare my list to tell her beforehand

Don't forget to tell her about the kitten you ran over with your bike when you were twelve. It child be relevant... "animal lovers only".

Mind you, killing kittens seems to be a good thing nowadays. "
you're gone a bit gagga the last few days mick

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By *BelfastGuyMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"I just like virgins "

Hard to find thou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there is a 12 hour gap is that okay the second guy didn't mind anyway the third cancelled though....

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"how do you lie in this regard to get sex. you're not lying.

It's called fully informed consent. If you hold something back that could cause the person to say "no", then they have not fully consented.

For example if you were on top of someone having sex and said "I fucked a guy/girl on the way here", There is a chance that they might not have consented. That is plain to anyone.

That she would shout stop and kick you off her. You think that's okay just because you kept it secret and she never got the chance to kick you off or say no?

What exactly is wrong with being honest and saying you have another meet planned? "I had asked 2 or 3 to meet and one has already said yeah". Whats wrong with that?I never heard such shite in all my life. the next time I have sex I must prepare my list to tell her beforehand

Don't forget to tell her about the kitten you ran over with your bike when you were twelve. It child be relevant... "animal lovers only".

Mind you, killing kittens seems to be a good thing nowadays. you're gone a bit gagga the last few days mick"

That's the biggest thing you've ever said to me!

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"how do you lie in this regard to get sex. you're not lying.

It's called fully informed consent. If you hold something back that could cause the person to say "no", then they have not fully consented.

For example if you were on top of someone having sex and said "I fucked a guy/girl on the way here", There is a chance that they might not have consented. That is plain to anyone.

That she would shout stop and kick you off her. You think that's okay just because you kept it secret and she never got the chance to kick you off or say no?

What exactly is wrong with being honest and saying you have another meet planned? "I had asked 2 or 3 to meet and one has already said yeah". Whats wrong with that?I never heard such shite in all my life. the next time I have sex I must prepare my list to tell her beforehand

Don't forget to tell her about the kitten you ran over with your bike when you were twelve. It child be relevant... "animal lovers only".

Mind you, killing kittens seems to be a good thing nowadays. you're gone a bit gagga the last few days mick

That's the biggest thing you've ever said to me! "
biggest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say it would put me off at all and i know it hasn't put any of my meets off meeting me.

In my opinion having subsequent meets in short succession is no reflection on the quality of the meet. Nothing wrong with having a greedy day

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"how do you lie in this regard to get sex. you're not lying.

It's called fully informed consent. If you hold something back that could cause the person to say "no", then they have not fully consented.

For example if you were on top of someone having sex and said "I fucked a guy/girl on the way here", There is a chance that they might not have consented. That is plain to anyone.

That she would shout stop and kick you off her. You think that's okay just because you kept it secret and she never got the chance to kick you off or say no?

What exactly is wrong with being honest and saying you have another meet planned? "I had asked 2 or 3 to meet and one has already said yeah". Whats wrong with that?I never heard such shite in all my life. the next time I have sex I must prepare my list to tell her beforehand

Don't forget to tell her about the kitten you ran over with your bike when you were twelve. It child be relevant... "animal lovers only".

Mind you, killing kittens seems to be a good thing nowadays. you're gone a bit gagga the last few days mick

That's the biggest thing you've ever said to me! biggest?"

Ah ffs! I was in a hurry typing that as I had to drive and I didn't get to check it! Nicest thing obviously!

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By *ornyandwellhungMan
over a year ago

belfast


"I just like virgins "

Yea, they're my favourite too!

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"how do you lie in this regard to get sex. you're not lying.

It's called fully informed consent. If you hold something back that could cause the person to say "no", then they have not fully consented.

For example if you were on top of someone having sex and said "I fucked a guy/girl on the way here", There is a chance that they might not have consented. That is plain to anyone.

That she would shout stop and kick you off her. You think that's okay just because you kept it secret and she never got the chance to kick you off or say no?

What exactly is wrong with being honest and saying you have another meet planned? "I had asked 2 or 3 to meet and one has already said yeah". Whats wrong with that?I never heard such shite in all my life. the next time I have sex I must prepare my list to tell her beforehand

Don't forget to tell her about the kitten you ran over with your bike when you were twelve. It child be relevant... "animal lovers only".

Mind you, killing kittens seems to be a good thing nowadays. you're gone a bit gagga the last few days mick

That's the biggest thing you've ever said to me! biggest?

Ah ffs! I was in a hurry typing that as I had to drive and I didn't get to check it! Nicest thing obviously! "
I'm a nice person mick

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"how do you lie in this regard to get sex. you're not lying.

It's called fully informed consent. If you hold something back that could cause the person to say "no", then they have not fully consented.

For example if you were on top of someone having sex and said "I fucked a guy/girl on the way here", There is a chance that they might not have consented. That is plain to anyone.

That she would shout stop and kick you off her. You think that's okay just because you kept it secret and she never got the chance to kick you off or say no?

What exactly is wrong with being honest and saying you have another meet planned? "I had asked 2 or 3 to meet and one has already said yeah". Whats wrong with that?I never heard such shite in all my life. the next time I have sex I must prepare my list to tell her beforehand

Don't forget to tell her about the kitten you ran over with your bike when you were twelve. It child be relevant... "animal lovers only".

Mind you, killing kittens seems to be a good thing nowadays. you're gone a bit gagga the last few days mick

That's the biggest thing you've ever said to me! biggest?

Ah ffs! I was in a hurry typing that as I had to drive and I didn't get to check it! Nicest thing obviously! I'm a nice person mick "

I've heard it said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhh wouldn't like that at all

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"how do you lie in this regard to get sex. you're not lying.

It's called fully informed consent. If you hold something back that could cause the person to say "no", then they have not fully consented.

For example if you were on top of someone having sex and said "I fucked a guy/girl on the way here", There is a chance that they might not have consented. That is plain to anyone.

That she would shout stop and kick you off her. You think that's okay just because you kept it secret and she never got the chance to kick you off or say no?

What exactly is wrong with being honest and saying you have another meet planned? "I had asked 2 or 3 to meet and one has already said yeah". Whats wrong with that?I never heard such shite in all my life. the next time I have sex I must prepare my list to tell her beforehand

Don't forget to tell her about the kitten you ran over with your bike when you were twelve. It child be relevant... "animal lovers only".

Mind you, killing kittens seems to be a good thing nowadays. you're gone a bit gagga the last few days mick

That's the biggest thing you've ever said to me! biggest?

Ah ffs! I was in a hurry typing that as I had to drive and I didn't get to check it! Nicest thing obviously! I'm a nice person mick

I've heard it said. "
I love to speak my mind and I don't follow like a sheep. it's not liked In the fab world

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