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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My first post.

Hi all. So after two weeks of chatting to my potential first meet on here tonight.

We swap numbers, she gives me her postcode, sat nav points the way and off I go.

Decide to ring the number she gave me when im on the road " the number you have dialed has not been recognised"

First thoughts were...shes taking the piss..what a bitch. Luckily I had only been on the road 5 mins.

So abandoned the misson and decided to head home. No sooner do I get in the door and the number I stored started ringing my phone.

Wtf vodafone? What have you done? My potential meet thinks im a jerk with a lame excuse now.

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By *cl2010Couple
over a year ago

cork

Were you not just 10 minutes then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first post.

Hi all. So after two weeks of chatting to my potential first meet on here tonight.

We swap numbers, she gives me her postcode, sat nav points the way and off I go.

Decide to ring the number she gave me when im on the road " the number you have dialed has not been recognised"

First thoughts were...shes taking the piss..what a bitch. Luckily I had only been on the road 5 mins.

So abandoned the misson and decided to head home. No sooner do I get in the door and the number I stored started ringing my phone.

Wtf vodafone? What have you done? My potential meet thinks im a jerk with a lame excuse now.

"

Consider yourself fortunate, ya had the prospect of a meet after only 3 weeks here, with that kind of charisma it shouldn't take you long to nail it down

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah but trying to explain that sounded like a weak excuse and set a bad tone. I was doomed there and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah but trying to explain that sounded like a weak excuse and set a bad tone. I was doomed there and then

"

Maybe consider changing your provider, the lady might have done likewise

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha. Will chalk it down to experience.

Next time I should try ringing a 2nd time before jumping to conclusions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha. Will chalk it down to experience.

Next time I should try ringing a 2nd time before jumping to conclusions. "

Did she not understand when you told her what had happened? Is she across the border from you, did you forget to use the area code prefix?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My first post.

Hi all. So after two weeks of chatting to my potential first meet on here tonight.

We swap numbers, she gives me her postcode, sat nav points the way and off I go.

Decide to ring the number she gave me when im on the road " the number you have dialed has not been recognised"

First thoughts were...shes taking the piss..what a bitch. Luckily I had only been on the road 5 mins.

So abandoned the misson and decided to head home. No sooner do I get in the door and the number I stored started ringing my phone.

Wtf vodafone? What have you done? My potential meet thinks im a jerk with a lame excuse now.

"

So at the moment between you leaving and getting back to house your 10 mins late. I'm sure that when she phoned if you had of said I'm on my way and traffic is a nightmare so running 10 mins late would of saved you coming on here and doing a communications breakdown thread and you could of been doing what a first meet thread.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Were you not just 10 minutes then?"

I'm wondering that too.. Surely ten minutes late wouldn't be a problem?

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By *onygirl19Woman
over a year ago

co dublin

That can happen if the signal drops for a minute , or maybe her signal dropped . Did she not believe you or something ? You couldn’t have been that Kate in the first place ??

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By *onygirl19Woman
over a year ago

co dublin

That late I mean , sorry autocorrect!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I stopped for food on the way home so it was more like 30mins.

A vital piece of the story it seems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh that makes all the difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stopped for food on the way home so it was more like 30mins.

A vital piece of the story it seems. "

Ok, so what's wrong with 30 mins late then? Why didn't you go back out?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ahh that makes all the difference "

Yeah because a half hour to think that someone was taking the piss out of me was enough time to change my mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought this was a led zeppelin thread not a bluffer one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahh that makes all the difference

Yeah because a half hour to think that someone was taking the piss out of me was enough time to change my mind."

Why would you think she was taking the piss out of you if she rang you back from the number she'd given you?

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By *onygirl19Woman
over a year ago

co dublin


"Thought this was a led zeppelin thread not a bluffer one"

Love , love , love Led Zeppelin !! Saw Page And Plant twice in the mid 90s , have to try to get to see them again . Robert Plant still sexy as fuck ( I definitely would ) and he must be in his 70s . They don’t make them like that anymore !!

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West


"Thought this was a led zeppelin thread not a bluffer one

Love , love , love Led Zeppelin !! Saw Page And Plant twice in the mid 90s , have to try to get to see them again . Robert Plant still sexy as fuck ( I definitely would ) and he must be in his 70s . They don’t make them like that anymore !! "

He's playing in Glasgow tonight cause one of my friends is gone to the gig xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ahh that makes all the difference

Yeah because a half hour to think that someone was taking the piss out of me was enough time to change my mind.

Why would you think she was taking the piss out of you if she rang you back from the number she'd given you?"

Because initially the number didnt work. Set me off.

I was surprised to see the number ring and it helped solve the mystery.

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"I stopped for food on the way home so it was more like 30mins.

A vital piece of the story it seems. "

A grumbling tummy always comes first, even if it was only 5 mins down the road

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahh that makes all the difference

Yeah because a half hour to think that someone was taking the piss out of me was enough time to change my mind.

Why would you think she was taking the piss out of you if she rang you back from the number she'd given you?

Because initially the number didnt work. Set me off.

I was surprised to see the number ring and it helped solve the mystery.

"

I'm sorry, how did it help solve the mystery? I'm not trying to be funny, I just don't understand what you mean.

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By *onygirl19Woman
over a year ago

co dublin

Me thinks there was a little bit of backing out along the way too ...

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"Me thinks there was a little bit of backing out along the way too ..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me thinks there was a little bit of backing out along the way too ..."

A little?

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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago

C'est moi Boudoir


"Me thinks there was a little bit of backing out along the way too ...

A little?"

A whole 5 mins and a belly full of grub to be precise

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I thought this was gonna be about chatting with someone for a few years and gradually they talk less and less, sometimes not at all.

Now you can see the end of the relationship in sight. But you keep trying to talk to them, and they are starting to think you're needy, but really you know that its all slipping away and will be gone soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought this was a led zeppelin thread not a bluffer one

I thought it was about Led Zeppelin as well??

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By *earlaitCouple
over a year ago

dublin

Buy some thermal socks OP -- great for cold feet !!!

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By *onygirl19Woman
over a year ago

co dublin


"Buy some thermal socks OP -- great for cold feet !!!"

Ha ha , and they wonder why they can’t get verified !

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